BinamRex:
OP, you are dumb. Thank God this post didn't make frontpage.

I have seen children from broken homes who are responsible. I have seen single mothers raise incredibly wonderful kids. I have seen criminals who were raised by both parents. What is your point exactly?

You are very judgemental! Jeez! People should be judged by the contents of their character, not this rubbish you just posted.

Are you a product of a single mom or currently a single mom? I don't deal with outliers. I deal with the majority. The statistics are there for all to see and review. While there maybe a few single moms who change the course of their situation, they make bad parenting decisions and are usually not good spouse. You don't have to argue with me on this.

My advice is for young men considering marriage to avoid pitfalls. Most young men do not understand how to pick their partner. As the world continues to condemn traditional values and pick up liberal idiosyncrasies, you find young men pairing up with the wrong women for the wrong reasons.

There are three things that define an individual - Their family, Their food content (which could defined their body structure), and the environment. Family and Environment are extremely vital in how an individual reason and adapt. For example, an individual from a poor family in a poor environment would need a miracle to break the chains of poverty because everything around that individual is poverty.

patwilly:

Op say more about the in law background check. Should it be just ascertaining their financial background alone or are there other things to find out?

My apologies for not responding to this on time. I have been busy.

It is extremely important to conduct due diligence on your prospective in-law. As I write this, I'm currently advising a man who failed to implementing this and is now going through a divorce. This man is from a well-to-do family, but married into a poor family. This is a story for another day.

I will strongly warn young men to not marry below their class. Infact, men from poor background should strive to marry into affluent family. Men from rich background should stick to their class.

In-laws from poor background actually seek marriage as an escape route from poverty. They will drain you financially, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually.

You can conduct this diligence via finding out where they stay (location). Nature of business or employment of the parents and siblings. Position of your fiance in the family. Who is the main financial sponsor of the family. Educational qualification of the parents, siblings and even extended family. The easiest way or cheapest way of doing this is by asking your fiance/girl-friend and then confirm the information.

Don't marry into a poor family. That's financial suicide.

NairalandProf:

Why support Chidinma on this case?
She's drug addict!
She's f**ks for money.
She killed the SUPER TV BOSS.
Only a fool will support her.

I saw a video of her smoking cannabis and was feeling cool with herself being intoxicated. She is a cold bloodied murderer and deserve the death penalty.

authority2006:
Lol. You murdered a billionaire out of greedy, now you're crying that you don't want to die! Just imagine the number of people who likely to be out of job in the coming months and years just because of what you did!
Many dependants will be cursing you right now.

She has no clue the repercussions of her wicked action. The man was responsible not just for his family alone but the families of other people.

Ayo2004:
Which kin crocodile tears be this
Normal women attitude,do something bad,once it doesn't go your way,you start pleading for mercy to gain sympathy because u get Toto
This thief and murderer should be given the same sentence as that guy that killed a lady without any gender bias
Periodttt!

She should be happy to be sentenced to death,it is far better than spending your entire life in kirikiri

It is called victimhood tendencies and the lack of accepting accountability for their actions. It is errie to read her blaming everything than herself, including her victim. What a vicious woman and murderer.

I am beyond shocked with comments blaming Usifo for his own death because he was philandering. Is that a good enough reason why he should be murdered and his life tampered with?

She committed the crime. She has to pay the price.

Chidinmma, you cannot claim to be a victim here and blame everything else, including Usifo, than yourself. I have watched a video of you consuming cannabis and feeling cool with yourself. You posted this video to the entire world.

You killed an innocent man and not just an average man. A family man, a man at the Zenith of his career. A man who others and including his company depends on. Chidinmma, you have no clue the number of people that would be affected by your wicked act. You are not naive, you are a cold blooded wicked murderer.

chronique:


Even if you want to cheat, do it within your circle. I can't become a billionaire tomorrow and be looking at girls way below my status. If I want to do anything, it would be within my status or just a little bit beneath. Not me going after a 300 level unilag undergraduate. Na dirty be that abeg.

That means you want to sleep with other people's wives. You will end up like him.

esthel:
Well from this I see a busy career woman who probably isn't home all the time. Still doesn't justify cheating, a man that will cheat will cheat even if the wife is available 24/7

He didn't cheat. He exercised his options as a man who is doing well financially. Our tradition allow men to have as many women as possible. Enough of this nonsense. It is a pity a young and silly girl decided to cut his life short instead of leveraging the network he has to transform her life.

However, I still think there is more to this issues. The police report indicated other suspects involved who are at large. A possible honeycomb or a crime of exploitation gone wrong.

Carlyboi:
He might have made more from internet scam and he just got nabbed for the $100 own he recently pulled,with that been said i don’t understand the rationale behind Efcc scapegoat in and persecuting small fries like this dude in a bid to look efficient and alive to their duties.

The useless thieving politicians that have grounded this country don’t get to carry useless white marker boards like this guy neither does their trial ends swiftly the take an average of 5-10 years to prosecute,while those crooks stall the hearings with their criminal lawyers(SANs)cos of lack of conclusive evidence on the part of the incompetent bunch at EFcc then go on to eventually lose the case or the case gets thrown out by the court.

Also there are boys deep into this yahoo menace who have amassed wealth and made a fortune from their nefarious activities the Loading,credit card,BEC scam boys you hardly see them getting such harsh sentences or public shamed as the scammers they’re cos they pay their way out and settle with big money.Efcc are great at shining with soft and easy targets.

That you have to juxtapose corrupt politicians, where you cannot provide evidence for their corruption and a convicted criminal that has been convicted by a reasonable court beyond reasonable doubt is extremely sad and stupid in all magnitude.

If you have corrupt evidence against politicians kindly send them to the prosecuting units of every law enforcement office in the country. However, the rationale to justify crimes due to politicians corruption or ineptitude is foolish and idiotic.

How are you going to ruin your future for just $100.00. Now you have a criminal record. You can't travel out of the country, can't get a meaningful job.

DeevaB:
Long wait for FSW draws.

I decided to earn certifications. Passed my PMP exam and about to write my Certified Business Analyst Exam (CBAP).

I’d like to know if these certifications are relevant in Canada & would help land a good job.

I’d appreciate recommendations too. Thank you

Very relevant

eldoradoxx:
This is a cheap political blackmail. Banks file lawsuits against their debtors through their lawyers. I have never seen a bank that uses placards to recover debts from its debtors

This is not the first time the Bank has done this. The credit control system of the Bank is extremely weak.

Only a broke man will write this. Men are designed to be providers and I know you have never seen, experience, or be in the presence of an affluent man. Little wonder you attribute negative things.

Probably your inability to change your life situations and get the women of your dreams pushed you to write like a child with no tooth.

sonmvayina:


Do you also believe it was also God that called Muhammad? If he can do all things.


If no, why?

I believe

Workch:
If he does exist then why can't no one ever provide evidence for his existence.

Everyone seem to be lying and cooking up stuff of his existence.

That you exist, is sufficient proof that GOD exist.

TheRareGem1:
Exactly what we need, we need leaders like Osinbajo, sentiment aside, there are challenges in the land, we can't afford looters as leaders anymore, we need leaders that can unify the country not those who will recruits thugs to be terrorising the people and causing unrest in the land

He is currently a Nigeria leader. For the love of God, he is the vice president of the country. If he can't do anything in his capacity, he can't do anything at all. He was democratically elected and the president can't remove him expect he resigns.

If the story is true, gross irresponsibility on all actors.

OP though your write up was not very well organized but you did your best to explain. There is no belief system. All religion was man-made, human interpretation of the FATHER. They are all misinterpretation.

While I do not want to lay blame on anyone due to the fact that it is quite difficult to explain GOD/SOURCE/CREATOR using human tongue and the limitations of the physical plane also makes it difficult to explain.

What you did was ponder heavily and you got answers. Answers you already knew. Well done.

An artist painting of what he/she felt was Jesus. That's not Jesus or a semblance of Jesus. However, I know Christians are fixated on Jesus a lot. While that isnt a bad thing, there is more than just that. Even Jesus doesn't want to be worshipped.

For those who are truly interested in knowing how Jesus looks like. Go to Google and type the "Prince of Peace" painting by Akiane.

Pee2Jay9:
Hello all, pls is it advisable for a newcomer to request for 2 credit cards from 2 different banks but at the same time? Any negative consequences?

Nothing wrong with having 2 credit cards. Faster way to build your credit. However, it requires financial prudence. Don't exceed 60% of the total credit sum. Always pay the outstanding balance and you are good to go.

Oh I never knew there is a movie association that can impose penalties in Nigeria. If this is enforceable, it is a welcome development

o2:
Hello,

I am planning to travel to London this Summer for something very important. I am a PR with a Nigerian Passport. I would like to know if I need to apply for a VISA from Canada here.

Yes

Canada - what a lonely and cold place. A place where the word friend is truly cherished because it's quite hard to find a friend.

A place where people act so busy and those you know are keeping competition tabs on you. A place where the winter is so harsh, it messes with your mind.

Canada is a beautiful place but not a friendly place.

Childofthelord:
I know a friend who plans to move to the UK after her graduation. She hates the winter and doesn't see herself living in Canada for a long time. Like you I also advised, she gets a PR before moving, but in her words "what is the point".

What's the use of the PR. It will be renounced plus you have to pay taxes.

Canada is lonely.

Cannot refute this claim. The DSS is very quick to track and arrest individuals who are critical of the government, but appear to be non-existent when it comes to those who perpetrate and sponsor widespread killings, kidnappings and terrorism.

I don't think it's a wise move from the wife. She already has two kids and the husband is a good provider (footballer).

There are several ways of resolving this issue rather than separating or divorcing your husband. She is going to learn that the relationship streets is an unforgiven one. She should also prepare herself to be a side chick material or marry a lesser man than her ex-husband.

Sell to Accessbank. They have more experience with acquisition and business combination. All their acquisitions have been successful.

Preciousgirl:



That will lead to divorce

She has already broke her home with her infidelity and the product of her infidelity.

Kobojunkie:
ROFLMAO

Not an opinion. Those who know, knows.

We have a huge misconception of Jesus, or Yeshua, the Christ. I know Christians will quickly rush to the Bible for referencing. However, the Bible is riddled with errors. Errors due to misinterpretation and translation.

Jesus does not want to be worshipped or revered. Jesus is not God or Source. Jesus is not the only way to God. He is not the only begotten Son of God, we all are. Jesus was once like us, lost of our spirit ways and we all can attain Christ like state. Jesus is our brother, our friend and not God. He has lived millions of lives on earth.

This debate or fight about the superiority of religion is ridiculous especially when we clearly forgotten the knowledge of our true self.

Lucifer is not Satan. It is quite sad how this error came to be. Lucifer is an Angel of God.