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concept86:
The video only communicated what the government and other nations see Nigerians as. It is not about Falz' s opinion. Did She listen to Childish Gambino' s "this is America". Then she should have understood the concept deployed in Falz parody.

That a monkey decided to shit in church does not mean another monkey should act likewise. The worse of it all is that it generates revenue for Falz. What a sellout!

The song is useless and a disservice to hard working Nigerians. The Youngies here do not know the widespread implications on that music. The world is quick to label Nigerians as criminals. However, if one of our own is stupid enough to say it, it gives the world more justification to express their already held stereotype about Nigerians.

For those who hold contrary opinion, there is the huge probability that you are currently living in Nigeria and has never traveled abroad.

Shame on Falz.

Guess this is turning to a trend. Women wanting to exaggerate things. I wish them well

Funny enough I agree with Gifty, can’t imagine I would, but I think there is something she knows about Davido and Chioma that we are not privy to. I understand that she has been on the side track for a while and the sudden shower of love seems strange. However, I cannot give explanation for someone’s disposition of emotions.

My only advice to Davido is to protect that love, if it is true, and keep the girl out of the spot light. The pressure may become too much for them, especially Chioma. Now, a lot of people are currently tracking the girl’s every move - a sad situation I think.

This guy has a bad dress sense. There is a difference between dressing expensively and dressing properly. Whilst I agree that most of his clothing are expensive, they are too colorful, worn wrongly or for the wrong occasion.

Due to his colourful dressing, I had thought he was gay. However, I can now agree that he lacks dressing etiquette. In other words, he doesn’t know how to dress. He just wears expensive clothings.

He is trying the emotional blackmail game. I’m only wondering how he could tweet from jail

Enuguboy4nsk:
the wife is obviously aware of the man's rship.. everyone working in the hospital knows too
they're three lab technicians here but she's the only one acting like this and everyone knows her for that

Then you don’t have a problem. Focus on working with the other two

She should respond with a nude belly. Only way to keep haters quiet.

Your friend is a disgusting human being and was never a true friend. Move on man. You got one less garbage

Ayauche:
13th month is a bonus, theres is no tax on that. In my place of work, the 13th month is just ur basic salary without the allowances and so no tax is placed on it, we see it like Christmas bonus.
Just like ur leave allowance is not taxable so also is the 13th month, that's per my organization sha and I strongly believe that 13th month shouldn't be taxable.

Your company is actually cheating the government. What is the name of the company?

praxs:
Can I have reference? I could be wrong but I thought bonuses are exempted from tax

Bonuses are taxable income

trustyshoess:
Everyday for the thief, one day for the owner. What goes around comes back around eventually. If he's truly living off of other people's sweat in the pitiful excuse of "hustling", Karma will serve him his harvest for what he has sowed and it will be obvious for all the world to see.
I don't respect fraudsters, it's not a hustle, It's a crime. You're putting other people's lives in jeopardy to enjoy yours. You're no different from an armed robber. If you like believe it, If you like don't. You And anyone that supports you are all a bunch of evil thieves and your day of reckoning is not far from you.
You guys have successfully ruined the reputations of well meaning hard working Nigerians. We're all now put in the same bracket of 419. Whatever we say or do is intensely scrutinized just because of our nationality and who can honestly blame them?
I know someone who sent money innocently from his account in Nigeria to his account in the UK. His account got blocked so he had to travel down to prove where his money came from before they released it to him.

I completely agree with you. You don’t have to make others go through pain so you can experience joy. You don’t have to make people lose money so you can have some in your account. That’s devilish narcissistic behavior. How about being more productivity by creating services that other people can enjoy and you smile to the Bank and just like the picture you posted, Advance Fee Fraud is a choice and only a criminal engages in it regardless of their economic situation.

Beremx:
Fashola's administration in Lagos remains the best. He deserves an accolade

It was an administration of propaganda. Ambode works and talk less

I thought he was gay initially because of his feminine dress style and sense. Now I know better than its as a result of poor exposure.

On the other hand, he said some sensitive things that are true.

What many Nigerians need to understand how our law enforcement officers work. Our law enforcement officers carry out mainly reactive investigations, whereby a petitioner(s) makes a petition or make a charge against someone. This prompts law enforcement officers to carry out investigation and proceed to either charge the case to court, consider remediation against aggrieved parties or discharge the case based on the circumstances. This kind of investigation is also carried out in many countries.

On the other hand, our law enforcement officers do not carry out speculative or proactive investigation, where they speculate that a crime/criminal may have committed or the criminal is committing a crime even though charges are yet to be brought forward. The reason for this is not clear. One reason maybe due to lack of manpower and/or resources, another reason maybe due to insufficient technological tools or the knowledge to use technology to fight crime.

The inability of law enforcement officers to carry out speculative/proactive investigation has seen some many crime thrive in Nigeria, such as Advance Fee Fraud a.k.a 419, Yahoo-Yahoo etc. and allowing perceived criminals to walk freely without fear.

In many western countries, where there is an indication that someone is a criminal, preliminary investigation is carried out to ascertain the veracity, extent and effect of such person. I think Nigerian law enforcement officers need to implement this investigative style which will go a long way to curb crime rather than carry investigations when the crime has already been carried out.

All fathers are men; not all men are fathers. If you are not going to be in your children’s life, please don’t have kids. It is just heartless.

On the other hand, I’m aghast by the proliferation of immature comments made my young people on this forum. I think Seun needs to increase the adult consent age for membership to 25 years and a provision of identity proof before becoming a member.

lastempero:
BBC wants to demystify RccG format.

They are happy inviting them in. By the BBC is done with them they would be embarrassed

Madisonsqua:
Not all white women are the same. Infact some wanted love more than the material things.... But nevertheless I won't encourage anyone married to them to allow them to control his finances as that Is the usual practice with them and once u don't declare all, they start investigating u on Nairaland....

After working ur ass off in the last week , white women want u to bring everything to the table, come home and explain to them how u spent every cents and try to calculate what ur account balance would be....To any white woman reading this, it doesn't work like with men.

This is where u have to be smart as a black man who don't want to return home with nothing.

They don’t want love. They want a man they can control, use and dump when they are tired. That’s why many western men are going after Asian women now. Well a lucky man can come home with Slippers. The unlucky ones end up in jail.

EmpresFIDEL:
so you value your wife this much? you should have thought about your wife before saying the man in question has no wife just because she's feeling insecure. am glad I was able to spite you.. you are like a proud perfectionist coupled with been a sadist. who ask you time? just tell me u are getting tired.. Mr elder you need rest.

Of course I value my wife. She is very important to me. She is my family and my love. You were very stupid to bring my wife into this conversation. She is not the one on nairaland carrying out investigation.

I know white women. I know how they behave and that’s because I’m currently living in a western world. She is not a wife. Ask yourself, would you, who is not even married not try to know your boyfriend a little? And when you do get married, would you not try to find out about your husband and his family?

A white woman with a motive will never do that. They are the quickest to play the victim card just to get a pound of flesh. They are the first to kick you out of the house you are paying the mortgage for. They are the first to take your children away from you and get you locked up in jail. You don’t know these because you have never had any interaction with them. Do you think that white woman is stupid? You think she doesn’t know what she is doing here? I know why she is here and I damn know that the husband is hiding stuff from her because he doesn’t want to go home with only Palm Slippers.

That woman has been using that man for financial and emotional support. Now the time for payback, she is now an investigative journalist. Doesn’t she know where Heathrow airport is? Or where Nigerian embassy is in London to get a visa? When they say experience is the best teacher, there is a reason for it.

I don’t need an apology from you and I don’t need any respect from you. I just want you to know that on this forum, there are members who are actually older and more experienced than you and not everyone is your mate or at your level. I have noticed it so much here. I want you to change for your own good and betterment.

sisisioge:
Bet daddy Nonso, without meaning to sound too forward pa, biko ease up on the rough word "stupid". It's actually singularly blocking the ears you are trying to correct. I'm sure she's sorry for bringing madam into this but biko ease up on the bad word. By virtue of the fact that this is a faceless forum, respect is halfway out the window most of the time...we all almost relate on the same level. You've got to understand that.

I'm not trying to be disrespectful o. Shalom.

Glad to read from someone like you. I never insulted her. Just stated the fact and I understand because she is yet to be experienced. When she gets married and of course she will, she will definitely understand.

EmpresFIDEL:
you been an elder or been older doesn't mean you have the right to disrespect me, oh! u are acting like a saint here, you want to correct me when you keep on calling me stupid. Oga even my lecturer will not call me stupid, fool or idiot just because he wants to correct me. respect is not by force.. I can't give it to you because you don't earn it. you have a chronic bad mouth. only God knows how many people you have hurt with your mouth. I still want to advice as the stupid child you know, stop insulting people anyhow .. it will only reduce your personality.

Laughs ..... so you wan use style to act like a proper Nigerian abi! I see you. I don’t need your respect. I thought I mentioned it already. I have a lot of people doing that already both in Nigeria and where I’m presently at.

I guess he is receiving pressure from owners of these businesses to put out a rejoinder.

EmpresFIDEL:
with your dirty character, you don't know how to talk without insulting somebody. you irritates me..

We ain’t buddy or friends. You are a like stupid child to me that I intend to correct. There is a popular African proverb. “A youth must prepare himself to dine with the elders”. I hope you are changing your stupid ways and I’m also glad that I irritate you. It’s 5:14pm here. Hence, I have more free time at my disposal with unlimited data and ultra high speed of 200mpbs so you better be careful with your next statement.

I have to be honest with you. You are the reason why I’m still on this thread. I have expressed my opinion to the original poster, but you, for bringing my dear wife into this, your lack of respect and consistent stupid comments - hmmmm.

steve13:

You can imagine her.

EmpresFIDEL:
jesus.. don't you have a job? you have been replying my message since yesterday night.. lazy Nigeria adult I guess.. please don't tag me again because I don't chat with people who ain't straight forward. Oga go and focus on your family.. my time are schedule for important things and not baseless argument.

I’m on vacation fool! And it’s 1:32pm where I am.

steve13:
My man you see the white women , in fact they 're worst than the men that openly colonized us, the women will cage you and still always look for means to discredit you,

If she had visted Nigeria and go hanging out and maybe see the quality of our Automobile that we paid cash for , Or the quality of the houses we stylishly designed and live in Or the Beauty of our black women, she would be loyal and more friendly .

It breaks my heart how they see our brothers as nonentity

White women are more racist than white men. I know that. Just like you said, if she had visited she won’t be bothering herself, but she chose not to visit because she doesn’t care. A caring wife would want to know more about the husband, not to investigate him, but to understand him more.

If some people here understand what men go through in the hands of these women, they will not utter the words they did. I will not blame them because they don’t know.

steve13:
One Port Harcourt girl up here called me an Idiot, maybe she want to see the receipt of some of the Emirates ticket I have used in 2018,

My Point is , the woman doesn't want to pay the £2.5k ($4000) they re good at making your life miserable, I have first hand info on a lot of British women ,our brothers go tru alot in their hands, they like younger person as to enable them cheat him well well till he is 60.


That Brother is coming back at 60 to Lagos with NOTHING .

She won't come with him oooo

Laughs - the way some people talk on this forum sometimes. Imagine the other who has never been married giving advice to someone old enough to be her mother and more experienced than her in marital affairs. Also, I believe she and many others has never been to the western world to understand that white women are very deceptive. She and others are not aware how these women manipulate the system to their own advantage. However, she was bold enough to talk to me and brought my wife into it. I can bet my wife, even if she is adult, can be an elder sister to her.

Just like you said. That brother is coming back home with nothing but his clothes. 60 is far. He may be back next month.

EmpresFIDEL:
[size=8pt][/size] I have been respecting you but you dont deserve my respect... can't you see you can't comprehend simple sentence? did I say the man is a fraudster? I said most Nigeria guys are fraudster especially when it comes to white ladies.. am giving you reason why the lady is doubting her husband. me and you know that Nigeria man will go any length just to get a permanent visa. you are a confirm trouble maker, you are not a straight forward person. u were the one who used your wither hand to type that "the man does not have a wife" just because she's suspecting her husband who is secretive. between me and you, who is trying to brake their home. if you are to be called to give this couple advice I know you will not only break their home but u will shatter the home. age is not a guarantee for sense..you might be older than me but yet saying nonsense. I have experience things from married couple that even you is yet to experience, so don't judge by my age because you can be older and yet poorly intellectual. married couples do have issues, if you can't settle them, then stop adding fuel to fire.. God will bring understanding to them. stop quoting me if you don't have anything reasonable to say.

There you go again with your generalization. I did not insult you but referred to a fact. You made a stupid comment and still insisted to stand by it when you were called out. You even continued to make further stupid comments and brought my wife into it. To further elaborate how stupid you are, you have concluded that most Nigerian men are Fraudsters when it comes with white ladies. Do you know what “Most” the adjective is, which is a superlative of “Many”. It means the greatest number of what you are qualifying. Now, do you have a clue of how many Nigerian men are married to white women in the entire world? I bet you don’t and I also do not know. Now can you see that you have made another stupid comment again! Because you have qualified about 99% of Nigerian men with white women as Fraudsters by using the adjective “Most”.

Again with such qualification, that would have included me, if I was married to a white woman, but you have not clue with goes on in people’s marriages. You are even bold to claim that you didn’t call him a fraudster and that’s because you really do not understand the adjective “Most”. Can you see how I am deciphering your stupidity and ignorance. Please note that I am not insulting you, but stating the obvious.

Furthermore, you are basing your experiences on martial issues on the premise of other couples. Can you imagine yourself and the way you speak. Also, to claim you are intelligent but do not merely understand adjectives reveals deep concerns about your logical and cognitive reasoning.

Finally, I have shared a bit of my experience and if you care, you can go through my previous posts on nairaland up to the date I joined. Sequel to this, it will clearly assist you to know that you are not my mate age wise. You are also not my mate economically and class wise. I am not claiming to be super rich - no, far from it, but I can clearly tell that I have far more experience than you and that’s because I’m older. I don’t need your respect, it means nothing to me. I have admonished the original poster based on my experience living in the western world and my interactions with western women.

In conclusion, it is customary to our traditions that younger folks heed to the advice of the elders. What I have written up there is for your benefit. You may choose to change. It is up to you.

Be guided!

trapQ:
Why are so many Nigerians so useless and stupid? Some are here bragging about £2.5k. Seriously? How many Nigerians can just throw such money around? Nigeria, a country in which about 40% of the population survive on less than a dollar a day.

Just see how the fools bullied the woman into deactivating her account. Choke on your stupidity.

You have made a valid point. £2,500 can conveniently buy you an economy class flight ticket. However, some people may prefer to flight first class or business class. That is their preference.

£2,500 is material. Even in the UK, you can buy a used car with that amount of money. That amount is also material in Nigeria, just like you said. Not everyone can afford it. On the other hand, it may not be material to affluent people in Nigeria as well as those in Western world.

Recall - this is a faceless forum. Most people here are very rich and 90% of them are still in school

steve13:
You must be a very broke assss licking guy, needless to say much, I had an experience with a British lady , back 2012, I pay the rent and foot her bill yet she wants to control me , told her I'm here for few months,and and will never require her help ,

I live in Lagos and I like Lagos alot, alot of us can not live abroad , We visit ,
And hey £2.5k can't buy my travel ticket and I travel every other month ,

She enjoyed this guy 8 years now it's looking like the guy will be free from her, she started investigative journalism

Very typical of a white woman. I hope she wasn’t mad at you for not walking her dog.

baby4u2:
My tongue cannot be bridled here. This is not a unique situation. They may both work hard does not mean one cannot be used. Infact Africans are hard workers. What is wrong with her investigating now that things have come up? When is the right time to investigate in a marriage please? If things appear it should be investigated at whatever point sir, its her marriage and therefore let her ask.

Why was the business being hidden? I don't get this part. You say pet project. Please don't hide pet projects from your wife.

No one can answer all her questions, but fishy is fishy and this is fishy. There has to be a specifically unique situation that a man in Nigeria will not bear the fathers name. His own reason needs further investigation.

Like I mentioned, she is in this marriage alone, therefore she should go ahead and ask all his friends, family members, CIA, FBI, British Intelligence and the likes all the questions she needs answered.

Thank you.

I am less concerned about her investigation and more concern about the timing and the methods of her investigation.

First, this is the wrong place to find out or obtain information about a spouse. This is an online forum filled with strangers and kids. Coming here to obtain information about someone you have been living with for 8 years is ridiculous.

Second, the timing of her investigation. She did not conduct her investigation at the beginning of the marriage or prior before marriage, but waited till a month to fill for his papers. Is this not a reflection of a terrible insecure person! Also, it’s clearly ridiculous that this woman did not bother to know the husband. Her fears would have been alleviated if she had taken out time to learn more about her husband’s people - technically, her own people. Because in African culture and customs, when a woman marries, she is now part of the husband’s people. Had she traveled to Nigeria to know more about her husband, all the numerous burials would be properly accounted for because she would get to put a face to the names of the people she had been hearing about.

I said she is ridiculous not because I want to tongue lash her, but clearly from all indications. She wasn’t interested in knowing her husband’s people, custom and culture. She didn’t conduct proper due diligence prior to marriage. She had to wait to become a Cop, one month before filing for his papers. Finally, she decided to conduct her investigation utilizing an online forum filled with strangers, many of which are immatured. How about her boarding a flight to Nigeria to find out for herself!

I drew my conclusions on her mainly because I know white women. She doesn’t want to file. She is less interested in opinions or advice, but want justification for her future action. She wants to play the victim card, but she is the villain here!

steve13:
Lol this woman quoted me and said some funny things , have you been to my city ? I'm sure you haven't, come to VI and Ikoyi on Friday night , £2500 pounds, 1.3 million , visit Lagos , Abuja ,

You these British women really think we live in caves ...the Automobile we pay cash CASH to drive here will remain a dream to you all, the houses we rent and Pay 2 years in Advance will make you scream !!!! £2.5k is service charge for 2 years where some of us live , don't come here trying to make believe you helping our bro, you are older and he been marrying you, if you pay £2,500 for him , that's nothing. I lived in your country for a moment(2012) , I went home fast


He has been with you for 8 years , wow.

Secondly does he have a son?
Would you let your son bear his name?
Would let your son spend time in his country ?
You got 7 kids and want to have him as a kid too?
You want him to tell you everything as the boss abi?

If he can see this message and send me a message , I will send someone in London to Lend him that £2,500 you are investigating him for

My brother that’s the white woman for you. I pity African men who are with them. When you are in parties with these brothers, if you hear their lamentations, you go fear.

The woman does not want to file - I know. She has quickly deactivated her account because she is not getting the justification she wants rather we are hitting her hard with the truth, which is - she being a ridiculous wife.