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steve13:
How can you say this ? I don't trust all these white women , they feel so insecure ans most times they are the one to be scared of, they wake up one day and throw you out, The guy opened that website and maybe a business in Nigeria Just in case.....He is kind,for me I would have Nigerian wife and kids see, (just in case this white woman decides not to do again �)

Face your husband madam and be good, you ain't doing him a favour marrying him or paying 2.5k pounds , that's not alot of money here , we use it for car repair

That is why the man may be hiding things from her before you know it, she is kicking him out of the house. You can never trust a white woman - never. I know them. She is not here seeking advice. She is seeking justification for what she intends to do to the husband. Mark my word!

EmpresFIDEL:
and you have the guts to say the man don't have a wife.. what are you even feeling like? almighty perfectionist? I pity your wife, obviously your wife don't have a say in whatever decision you take. perfect Mr right.

You are very stupid. I will say it again. You are very stupid. I am not insulting you, but based my assumption on reading your comment. It is stupid people like you that make such comment. Why do I say you are stupid. Don’t worry I will let you know. You do not have experience in a particular field, yet you offer advice and still stand on such advice. That is what a stupid person do. You have never lived with a man legally nor experience what it takes to be with a person who is different from your gender, and I don’t mean the illegal co-habiting you maybe doing with your boyfriend, if you even have one.

You did not hear from the woman’s husband, yet you claim he is a fraudster. Are you not stupid! And I can assume you have never traveled abroad and your knowledge about white women is based on what you see on movies and TV, that is why you open your rotten young mouth to spew rubbish.

To answer your ridiculous statement - my wife is my partner. Infact, she is the CEO of my house and I’m the Chairman, I only review her action if things go wrong. I operate that way because I trust her judgement. This is the way my home operates. Other homes may operate differently and that is because people are different. You will not know this yet because you are not married and not even thinking about it at the moment. However, you will surely do when you are matured to engage in marital affairs and when that time comes, I hope you will be happy when a complete stranger who does not know you or even your husband is offering advice to destroy your home. Stupid girl!

steve13:
How can you say this ? I don't trust all these white women , they feel so insecure ans most times they are the one to be scared of, they wake up one day and throw you out, The guy opened that website and maybe a business in Nigeria Just in case.....He is kind,for me I would have Nigerian wife and kids see, (just in case this white woman decides not to do again �)

Face your husband madam and be good, you ain't doing him a favour marrying him or paying 2.5k pounds , that's not alot of money here , we use it for car repair

You must have lived abroad. Please let them know how a white woman operate. I have said it and would say it again. She is a ridiculous woman looking for an excuse. For 8 years she has been hiding her intention from her husband. Enjoying his company, allowing him build things with her and when the time to file for his PR is due, she turns into a private investigator.

Continue!

eyinjuege:
But you think its alright for him to open a company without her knowledge? and he's never even mentioned it to her in passing till she found out by chance.
Is he being transparent?
That would set off alarm bells in any right thinking person's mind. I don't blame her, as nobody likes to be used. She's only human afterall.

This is not a matter of what is right or wrong. The OP does not want our advice. She doesn’t want to file for the husband’s permanent residence which is due next month. She is here looking for a justification not to make the application. This is a marriage and we need to be very careful with what we say. Already I have seen stupid and childish comments here especially from people who has never been marriage and are not thinking about it in the next 5 years.

I am married and I don’t tell my wife everything. It’s not about doing things secretly. Sometimes because you know your wife and her reaction, you probably want to keep it quiet till you have achieved what you want to do or you don’t want to bother your wife because it maybe irrelevant. Some wives may see such investment as a waste of family resources. Some may even have a different opinion. Others may support you. The kids here will never know this until they are married. Their idea of a marriage is based on movies and romantic novels.

elipheleh:
Woman. Listen up..
You are a terrible person. Very terrible.
I pity for the young man who has been wasting his 8 yrs with you thinking he's got an good wife, not knowing he's got a bitter sad monitoring distrustful terrible person. How dare you come online and talk so ill about your husband and even lead us all to a well crafted occlusion that he's a fraud?
If you don't love him, kindly free him so he can marry another wife. Life is too short for all this shits

Well said. She is a terrible person. She doesn’t want to file for the husband. She needs justification because she has none at the moment. This is a man who has been with her for 8 years. She is simply looking for a way to
Kick him out of the house.

A wicked and terrible woman you are! I hope you read this because I wrote it with every disgust in my heart.

EmpresFIDEL:
and you cannot fathom out what brings about this investigation? the husband in question is shady, he keeps secret.. don't you know keeping secrets from your spouse will bring about her not trusting you? why can't the man trust his wife with his secret? after all they are one because they are married. I don't blame the lady because the husband has been keeping secrets from her, so she has every right to doubt him. Oga I must not be married to know what is wrong or right.

You are not married. As a result not qualified to offer advice because you are not experienced. You are quick to jump into conclusion just from hearing only one party’s view. You have labeled the husband a shady character and this is a man you do not even know. Someone who is married would not do that because you are literally trying to destroy that home just by giving your TOXIC, inexperienced and ignorant advice.

You clearly know that name change in Nigeria is a frequent occurrence. The OP has said the husband told her that the website is not functional yet. Have you considered whether the husband is less interested in the website or would prefer the website to be functional and start to earn revenue before he disclose to his wife? You are not in their marriage. You do not know how their home operates. You just opened your useless mouth to advise someone who is even older than you and more experienced than you in marital affairs.

ipobarecriminals:
@Morwendy.U have a nice/ caring husband. Dnt allow dat petty thing to give u HBP.A man/lady can change their name,dat doesn't mean they are criminal/ have hiding skeleton in their cupboard. ..Maybe he change his name to kip away from nuisance family disturbing him from one thing to anoda..Dnt allow " online village people " to turn ur happy home upside down with their lunatic post.Be swt

No she should continue to investigate him here on nairaland, where kids roam around. This is the right place for her to get marital advice. She is plain ridiculous.

EmpresFIDEL:
people like don't allow women have say in their communities.. you take woman opinion for granted and you look down on them as inferiors. just look how u handle the issue. Mr right

C’mon shut up! Are you married? How would you feel if your husband starts investigating you after 8 years of marriage. The same person you sleep with and have built a life with. You must be ridiculous. If I personally know the husband, I would inform him that he does not have a wife.

flyingdutchman:
If you did not trust your husband, you had no business marrying him in the first place. Your husband is SUPPOSED to be your HUSBAND, and not "another of them Nigerians". You came to report him but, you also showed the disdain with which you view your husband. I hope your husband truly Roll ooooonnn...sweet maaama!! Like Teebag

I am irritated by her. Let her say the truth, she does not want to file for him. She is here looking for justification and not answers. She has a hidden agenda. I just feel sad for the husband who has no clue that the wife is investigating him after 8 years of marriage.

Morwendy:
I don't think he's a gold digger, we both work hard for what we have and that has never been an issue. I just wonder how he has his grandfathers name (paternal not maternal) and a business that I didnt know about. He has no property that I'm aware of until his fathers passing recently but he doesnt have documents for his fathers properties yet. No documents until he got the ID card just before we married.

Madam you have been living with this man for over 8 years. What is your problem? Change of last name is a normal occurrence in Nigeria. Do you think your husband would be happy with what you are doing currently? Is it because you intend to file for his permanent residence that is why you are feeling insecure? Please let that man go. You don’t deserve him.

LivingFree:
You're in your 50s! Which means his 47? Do you guys have children? If the answer is no... You are being scammed

The writing is on the wall but you should just let him get his passport and see if he sticks around. 8 years in he probably loves you but he just loves himself more..

What tribe is he?

You are a terrible human being. Have you considered that this is a marriage before you jump into conclusion.

@OP - this is the wrong place to seek advice. There are so many kids here.

ThinkWISELY:
Look at this child! , will you shut up your motherfu.cking mouth! ,what do you know about the society? , what do you even think you know about your self, you think it's by the expired education you been taught in your s.hithole? , Motherfu.ckers like you never deserves this attention but lemme spit this shi.t so you get the popularity a looser like you is looking for


You are very pained and bitter, backward and docile, since an stalk illiterate like you cant comprehend with a simple post,idiots like you are that are suppose to be in cage is here talking about poverty, you being just centered on that simply depicts how mentally, morally and financially poor your generation is,see this backyard slum trying to use me to get popular, thank your stars this is a faceless forum, am here laughing at your extreme stupidity, you are there boiling in bitterness, what do you know about riches, what do you know about wealth, what have you tasted, where have you been to, you think it's the trekking to Libya (which is your generation's greatest achievement) we are talking about here?? , thank your stars again that this is a faceless forum.


Son of a motherf.ucker bit.ch,you are just so worthless and universe is crying over your existence, a single dose of evacuation pill from the bit.ch that brought you to your sithole world would have saved all these mess, do you see why people run away from you.
Toxic shit loaf I got your time!


Unanständige Wörter gegebrauchen

This is how you know a career thief. They never know how to express themselves. Hey Mr Fraudster, you don’t need to thank a faceless forum. If my education is expired, then I wonder what we would ascribed to yours. Kindly review the grammatical errors and lack of writing expression on your comments. They will never take their education seriously. They will never take learning seriously. Always looking to cheat the system. “Never do wells”. Professional criminals! A waste to the society and their families. A reflection of bad upbringing and growing up in a bad environment. Society misfits, deranged and defective human beings like yourself should end up in Prison.

I hope the German law enforcement officers get a hold of you and lock you up. Always the ones giving Nigerians a bad name everywhere they take their diseased self to. If I’m a child, then your parents have never thought of conceiving you. They have both wasted a sperm and an egg to have a criminal like yourself. The world would have had less a criminal if only your father had heed to the advice of using a condom.

What a shame!!!

akeentech:
Thank you Sir

You are welcome. Go and change. There is still hope for redemption.

akeentech:
dey there dey call me fool and my money dey enter

You are even a bigger fool if all you think and want is cash. See what poverty has done to you! The fear of not having things or missing out has turned you into a monster and a criminal. You have traded your conscience for gold. Are you not still poor! Do you think having cash in your account erase your poverty stricken mindset? No, it doesn’t. You are still poor, in the heart and in the head. That’s why you keep scamming and stealing. Definitely, you either end up in jail or dead! Nonentity poor youth.

Fbicacus:
Fool. If EFCC stop yahoo boys, the rate of crime will be high. like armed robbery, kidnapping and more. what about those bunch of political ve killed this country.

My God! Who are your parents? Are they alive?

zinaunreal:
Whatever... Eat shiiit

Career thief. They will never learn how to spell. They will never take their education seriously. They are just useless, and a waste to their family and society. Pitiable lost soul. Go and see a psychiatrist to help you. I mean it!

ThinkWISELY:
Mental slavery at it's peak , sprewing trash up and down a.ss licker, i don't blame you, I blame your 40k phone and 3k suscribtion,take anything serious on this forum, at your own peril

A poverty stricken fellow wants to equate himself to me. A deranged career thief with a poverty mindset trying to feel important. A poor nonentity youth. Someone who is hooked up the poverty chain and the only thing they think of is to scam. Sometimes I wonder why society misfits like yourself and people with incomprehensible mentality ever exist. You belong in prison, thief. Yahoo yahoo thief.

bularvz:
Nonsense, you are protecting politicians stealing our money everyday while chasing after shadows. Yeye dey smell

Call the politicians out. Shame them! Embarrass them! That is what a sane society do. No, not Nigerians. Not people with your type of thinking. You glorify these good
for nothing politicians. You idolize them, you even kill for them. We will shame and embrass you so people like you do not transcend in becoming politicians to continue your long stride of scamming and stealing just to fill your insatiable lust for material things and your fear of being poor.

ThinkWISELY:
Wake up slave , read books they won't listen, wake up to see that the real thieves are whites they won't listen , I have no iota of pity for the fuckards Europeans and there loyal slaves like you.


By the way what's a docile slow poke like you doing in my mentions? , take your slave ass away from here, little piece of a b.astard

It is you who is the slave. You are a slave to poverty. A slave to materialism. I wonder how your upbringing was because it clearly shows that it was poor. If all you think about is money, then you are poor and deranged. Your mindset have been shaped and developed by your lack of not having things - truly you are a poor being/soul and you need to see a psychiatrist to deliver you from materialism and poor thinking.

zinaunreal:
Tell them abeg. One raid and police are feeling like superman. The game just begun

See a shameless professional criminal. Who are your parents? I am ashamed of and for you. Ridiculous lazy human being. So poor, all you have and think of is cash. These are the people giving genuine hardworking members of the public a bad name, locally and internationally. These are the type that will never want to study, but look for ways to cheat the system. They want to cheat hardworking individuals of their monies.

You are a disgrace to humanity! You are a disgrace to Africa! You are a disgrace to your village!

It is shocking the excuses pilfered to justify the activities of criminals. Many would claim that it is the inability of government to provide jobs that pushes them to engage in Advance Fee Fraud. Others would try to use Colonialism or Neo-colonialism to justify their actions. These excuses are baffling and has opened my eyes on the level of moral decay in our society.

I remember very well how the Military hunt down Advance Fee Fraudsters/Yahoo Boys in the 80s and shot them to death. I recall vividly how Society rejected these sets of deranged, “Never Do Well” human beings that lived within us in the 90s. Unfortunately, it appears that these criminal twisted fellows are pressurizing society to accept them by juxtaposing irrelevant excuses in order to perpetuate their crimes.

These days I see young men throw away their education or avoid education entirely to engage in scamming individuals, either locally or internationally. They make reference to Career thieves and Fraudsters and accept them as role models. Society misfits are now idolized and cheered. The good values and traditional principle of success are thrown away. What a shame!!!

Is the President not right about his lazy Nigerian youth statement that receive public outcry. Is the president not justified that Nigerian youths no longer want to put in time and hard work to achieve success. They no longer want to work, but want to live like kings. My only concern is how did we get to this point where we kept quiet and allowed criminally insane people take over our society and are now influencing our youths to be like them. Definitely, there is need for intervention to curb this menace and put these criminals where they belong - Prison!

biacan:
Abeg leave them make them hustle money give me chop

A crime loving T.W.A.T. Imagine a lady making this statement. This is how the future of Nigeria looks like. Is this the kind of principle you would bring your children in? A hungry improverished mind. The only thing you can think of is materialism and food for your belle. You are a disgrace to traditional African women. Infact a disgrace to womanhood.

Oritzy:
Follow what this one is saying online at your own peril

Realitity and social media is a very different ball game entirely

These same police men are the once giving yahoo boys escorts and VIP plate numbers


The Only Nigerian police I can stand by his words and believe whatever he says is Abba Kyari the rest na 419

There is international pressure on Nigeria to curb the activities of Advance Fee Fraudsters. This is just the beginning of it. My only concern is that some innocent people may be harassed. Notwithstanding, the day of reckoning for Advanced Fee Fraudsters is drawing near.

ThinkWISELY:
Say no to crime,
Crime does not pay.


But sorry, yahoo has come to stay, except we just running away from the truth, logically this is karma in play and no force whatsoever can stop it. If they like let CIA, FBI, INTERPOL, EFCC, NAFDAC, JAMB, , come together, they can't stop it, they can't even contain it, it's fu##king karma here.There's even a huge indirect inflow sustaing the binary and forex world.


The white stole trillions of dollars, in materials and human capital from Africa in the name of colonisation,so why the fuse?.


PS:Mind you am not a yahoo boy.

Mind you - You are a Yahoo Boy. A lover of Advanced Fee Fraudsters. A criminal. A nonentity. A deranged fellow. A society misfit. That’s what you are. Stop lying.

Savages in power.

harmbhrosz:
people like you are exactly why we're where we are as a country today with this very toxic mentality.

If the judgement of this world was left to karma, I'm sure it wouldn't be a better place for you and I.

Your quote on Emmanuel Kant vividly reveals what you stands for which has a counter saying that There's no excuse for crime

Every crime should and must be condemned. See you even quoting bible, we're not talking about sins here, we're talking about crime..... which was why I said you're only supporting crime cause it favours you just as you're mis-quoting bible to suit yourself...

Now adultery is a sin (religiously) and not a crime (lawfully) because it involves two consensual adults that has to agree to it, but when you forcefully or deceitfully take what's not yours then you are a CRIMINAL and will be condemned and dealt with according.

Brother please stop supporting crime!!!

WORD

Ameeboh:
I don't think what Noble did is right. Man must survive in this country. So if they didn't do you anything, let them be.

Stop acting like a patriotic citizen.

Try snitching on government officials who have stolen millions already.

These are the comments of a future Nigerian mother! If this lady can make these comments, what is the future of Nigeria? Is this the moral values she intend to bring up her children in? Is this the advice she wishes to give to her future or present kids?

I weep for what my country is turning into. Please why is the EFCC and SFU so slow to round these human beings up before they infect us all with their dirty minds.

slegerman:
My brother, I have been scammed. Not even in thousands, so I understand all these. The question still remains " show me someone who hasn't stolen or wouldn't do so if the opportunity presents itself.

"Opportunity makes a thief."- Vee - The Mafia Manager.

Again, I will never support any form of crime and at the same wouldn't be QUICK to condemn anyone.

Your last sentence irritates me. You do not support crime, but want to justify crime. Who are you What kind of person are you Are you a normal human being with proper functional brains This statement of yours makes me cringed.

People have been in worse circumstances, but make good out of their circumstances to become successful. A criminal is a criminal regardless of circumstances. If a criminal experience challenges rather than address their challenges within the confines of the law, the act otherwise.

My question to you is - why are you trying to justify crime? If you don’t support it, speak against it. Else you are a sympathizer and that makes you have affinity for crime too and likewise a potential criminal.

thunderbabs:
Plz, will you respect ursef n shut da hell up. Y do u nag like dz na, haha.. If u see me in person nkor? plzzzzz

It is you dt will end tragically You cannot force me into accepting ur views. You can rant all you want. If you wish, go back in time and watch those movies again, like i care

And leave Jesus out of it... He doesnt talk anyhow like you, chai

I do not wish to see you. How do I explain myself to the world being in the presence of criminals and mentally deranged individuals who should either be in prison on mental hospitals. I can see you are a bit ashamed of your behavior and want society to turn a blind eye. No! We will speak for what is right and uphold proper moral values. We will shame and embrass you and your criminal minded colleagues till you change from your stupid behavior. We will no longer keep quiet and allow criminals like you run the streets of Nigeria. You can keep suffering from cognitive dissonance, but we must save our youth from your type.

FYI, you have no clue what is about to hit you and your friends. I will say no more rather than advise you to go and get a decent job. #Crime do not pay! #Stop being lazy! #Stop being a deranged human being!

livinbygrace:
That condition that made a 2.1 graduate from 1995 till date turned to OKADA rider will surely locate you,then you will know better.

If you are ashamed of Okada riders, I am not. They do honest work and provide a decent living for their family. It is people like you we should be ashamed of - those who do not want to work, yet want to live like kings. Are you not stupid? Is that not a clear definition of a deranged human being who is a misfit in the society?

Now let me give you a glimpse of myself without any form of arrogance but to inspire young Nigerians on this forum - I have 4 degrees. My first, I graduated with a 2:1 and because I knew the chances of me getting a job in my related field is slim, I buckled down to study so I could be one of the best in my class. Your type were busy partying and enjoying themselves in school. I landed my first job with an audit firm, where I was paid N20,000 per month, two months after NYSC. I left there and landed another job with a financial institution after 4 months. I stayed with the audit firm despite the poor salary because I needed the experience. Even within the financial institution, I still had to prove that I was good because I believe in hard work.

Also, because I now work with a financial institution, I had to get another degree so I can relate well with the financial nuances at work. I made a first class because I challenged myself. I told myself, if my first degree was a 2:1 with the ridiculous situation one has to face in a Nigerian educational environment, anything short of a first class is an insult. I graduated with a first class. I still wasn’t satisfied. I needed more professional qualifications so I can attract the right type of clients and even employers based on the knowledge, experience and skills I possess.

I say these to let you know that hard work and perseverance pays and that regardless of your situation, you can still make a success out of yourself. If you truly choose to. So all the excuses I hear from young Nigerians are untenable but further justifies why the President labeled young Nigerians as lazy beings.

In all these, I am still not satisfied. Competition is getting stiff and I must stay relevant. Hence, I must continue to work hard as long as my body can carry me. Now, is your comment above justifiable? Continue to be lazy and think like a criminal, you misfit.

livinbygrace:
Keep quiet and stop typing nonsense.Crime has been in existence before yahoo and it will still continue.Most of your politicians today were involved in crimes.In as much as i dont support scam ,no hope for this useless country except you have connection.Everything about this country is Yahoo.Even the NOBLE IGWE that is talking trash,is an ambassador of PAYPORTE that involves in money laundering.
Do you know what it takes for someone to graduate with 2;1 ,geology in UI ,year 1995 set and turn to Okada rider?

Another derange criminal fellow and advance fee fraud loving individual. Who is quick to blame everyone else, from the government to their family, but not themselves for their lack of success and inability to persevere and making something out of themselves. I marvel at your audacity to correlate politicians to yourself. This is why Society labeled your type incomprehensible mindset. I am shocked you will generalize Nigeria to the phrase you mentioned above.

Your crime loving type will be quick to scream that there is no job in Nigeria. However, are you aware that people get jobs everyday in Nigeria? Even if your crime loving brain do not allow you to think that, at least you can see job vacancies adverts on nairaland on a daily basis and the testimonies of members getting jobs.

Sane people like me will not keep quiet for insanity. I know that is what you want so you can continue with your crimes.

On the other hand, for the individual who graduated with a second class upper, but chooses to become an Okada driver, that is clearly his/her choice. However, in truth, an Okada man is much better than your type because he makes an honest living to support his family and also support the society positively by commuting people from one destination to another.

Imagine yourself, a criminal, trying to belittle an Okada rider? This is what Nigeria has turned itself into. Criminals and misfits can now talk - I shake my head. You are here to defend Advance Fee Fraudsters, but still don’t support crime. Is this not an irony and a good reason for you to go re-examine your brain and mind?

Let cut the crap, You are a criminal and a disgrace!!!! I am ashamed to share the same country with you.

thunderbabs:
Which kind person be dz nitori Olorun. Talkative, haha

Someone who is not made of the same ilk as you. Someone who admonishes wrongdoings. Someone who is irritated by what you stand for and do. Someone who does not appreciate lazy folks and those whose mindsets are wired to think ONLY and perpetrate crime.

Finally, someone who is concerned about the future of Nigerian Youths who now glorify and want to emulate criminals.

In the 80s, we enjoyed watching your type squirm, cry and beg for mercy as the military shoot you to death. In the 90s, the Nigerian community labeled your type as deranged humans with incomprehensible mentality. The Nigerian society rejected you and your type. There were movies to remind us about your tragic end. Now, I am surprised that you and your crime loving friends have the audacity to express yourself and also forcing society to accept you.

Jesus!!!