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When will the menace of these guys kidnapping girls for child marriage come to light? This is wife capture and it shouldn't be a mystery.

It isn't the first time I've read it in the news. Last time it was some girl, Ese, taken by a guy called Adamu or some other generic name, who claimed to have been in love with her. He brainwashed the newly teen-aged girl, absconded with her to his home in the village, and began living with her as her husband. She looked like she had been through the gates of hell when she was found wearing paraphernalia she was not known to wear.

It's a sick practice vetoed by religion.

We4all:
If she was nice then, why didn’t you marry her? She is good for sex but bad to be a wife right?

Do you know the frustrations that comes with being just a baby mama to an uncouth and irresponsible man?

And on top of that, you are generous enough to give her 5K as monthly upkeep. I am so proud of you!

Lol. This post right here is wickedness.

The kinds of things we read here. He honestly opened this thread to badmouth a woman nobody here knows. And in his opening sentences, he's made it about money because you can buy any woman and every woman is thrilled to be a baby mama. At the mention of money, his viewers will begin to bay for her blood. It worked. He's starring as the blameless saint in his script. Now, it would be an exciting work of fiction if the figures were not being thrown around as a matter of pride. But it isn't.

I almost expected to see moobs with the topic. Nairaland males.

pocohantas:
We dey really see nonsense for this forum. Honestly I wasn’t surprised with his looks - just exactly what I expected.

Smiling evilly.

Just wow. I fear to ask how.

pocohantas:
kayperry? Yes

Lol.

What won't one see on this forum! Just wow.

pocohantas:
Trying to make it easier for him to keep up. E no need to check my profile, I go dey mention am.

Is that your dear <3 friend, him, on mentioned profile?

All the people who worship this man are idiots.

But he has a good point.

chrisxxx:
Delta is the home of yahoo. Parents encourage their children including buying phones and computers for them to join yahoo. That picture might be taken to convince someone that he is in Italy or Europe.

This is a funny comment. Unfortunately, it could be true.

godliman:
I am not bias, if he has donated his to her I would have commended him too. That is true love, not money, money and money.

Lol

TONYE001:
Here's a thread to celebrate a Nigerian lady that donated her kidney to her husband. Sadly, you turned the other way to attack Nigerian ladies, instead of celebrating them.

How about asking how many NIGERIAN MEN would do this?

Finally, someone is bold enough to think differently to the sheep.

The forum is toxic. Everything is twisted round to something against or about women.

It is the selling point of seun. Interest in the site is dwindling. It's just another 4-chan. Maybe the usual scum will eventually overrun the place—and they can't even afford anything in the adverts. They can only spread toxic ideologies.

There's only one perspective here, and it is the one shouted the loudest by guys who are in the lowest economic strata of society. Only poor men hate women so much.

godliman:
This is what I call true love. Not the gold digger type asking if she can marry a man earning a 100 thousand naira. Financial Women every where, very shameful!

It's only true love when a woman sacrifices for men, on this forum. It is always shameful when a woman wants money. But Yahoo boys can kill any number of women for money and the women will be called fools here. When will men sacrifice their kidneys and call it love too?

This romance you forum boys want women to have with poverty, to appeal to your states and tastes, is plain unrealistic.

baretalk:
Damn, she needs the money to go enjoy her life.

Do you actually know who his wife is?

stephenponti:
I know this guy, a hausa man nearly beat him up one day in lekki phase 1. The worst case is that he is so ugly with dark patches all over his body.

If he weren't ugly, would you let him get beaten?

Magnoliaa:
Yeah... I just realised I haven't seen his topics graced the FP in a while...

I remember the bants I was having with him and some other dudes and our resident males, with the exception of one he-goat coming to claim I'm after a Southie's c*ck.

My mouth has heard things sha, and my ears seen stuff for this site.

I felt he was banned when I didn't see his posts after a month. Hope he enjoyed purgatory.

@bold Where's that meme when you need it? The one where her mouth gets impossibly wide and wider as she laughs?

As you say, Leeemao.

Magnoliaa:
Nairaland's ethnicists' tormentor.

Lol. He's really back.

baretalk:
Nonsense, stop promoting this vice.

Which vice? Is it a crime for men to become feminine?

TMKsouth:
It's a sacred royal act that can't be shown in public okay

Guess who's back?

ednut1:
you are assuming everyone there is in finance

They collect bribes everywhere, so they are all earning more than their salaries. They share the proceeds of bigger thefts to all staff to make them happy, otherwise they wouldn't get so much collusion and there would be no corruption. They don't need to be in finance to get the proceeds of money theft.

ednut1:
Most government workers earn less than this in nigeria. Are they not coping ni

They steal money daily, so their salaries don't really matter.

Just see how triggered they all are. It's easy to understand why.

A question is asked, they take it as a personal attack on their unfulfilled lives and spill so much trash. No where did any of them give a reasonable response to the OP, save a few. They asked women, but look at who is answering so defensively.

Welcome to the true cause of toxicity and hatred on this forum. 20 pages of it. Simple question, so much angry spewings against women. Aren't you men any more? You have so many rules and post shit about women all day. But just one simple thread and you are all out in arms.

Lol.

Lollittaa:
Those of you lambasting him,
Would you rather prefer they stay in an abusive marriage and end up like Osinachi Nwachukwu or that they dissolve the marriage and if they are lucky to find love again, to get married?
I notice how men are the ones grumbling in this thread. BRATISLAVA you see am ba?

"Till death does them part", "the two shall become one", it always has a new meaning. They know what they want in it.

ifytrik:
God has a way of taking Nigerians to the top but village people also have a way of bringing them down to the bottom
I knew there wasn't a way AJ was gonna beat usyk in this match, AJ is no longer the AJ we used to know, he is now a shadow of himself, he is not fast at all and also very weak, he should just retire and save himself future embarrassment.

From his after match rant, he deserves the loss.

Where is Samuel Peter?

genaro2000:
Sorry I can’t have any logical discussion with you, your emotional outbursts won’t let you through the facts on ground. So there’s no point

Usual pathetic response from yet another misogynist. The bold parts of your post were so illogical they needed to be called out.

So you aren't a girl, but you've concluded what they want or don't want in life, what they can and cannot do. Because tech couldn't possibly be for them. You and the army of misogynists have determined that. That way you can claim they don't want it. The same way Whites determined black men are good for nothing except slave work. Otherwise that would be preferential treatment to have them (negroes) leave the cotton fields to become human, because blacks can't think and have the IQ of apes.

Go back 3, 000 years in time. It's where your ideologies on women belong.

This forum is full of the unwashed.

You all learned to code, but poverty and it's stereotypes about women are still deeply ingrained in you. Good news is, the people who invented technology will continue to give women opportunities and if you don't like it, you will come to air your uneducated views.

donbenie:
Only him alone with 8 women lying about him?
Na only him Waka come?

A lot of rapists and sex pests are rooting for him. There's that many women saying the same thing, but he must be innocent because he's a little lamb.

They supported Vbaba Ijesha more than this. But where is their hero?

Lollittaa:
Preserving your daughter yet every year new stories pop up accusing you of destroying other people's daughters.

That's the beauty of being a human saint. Sinning yet living above judgement by virtue of title. His heaven is so cushy.

Magnoliaa:
Good work, guys. Keep it up. I've been a silent follower of all your updates and posts as a man in the spirit.

Lol

genaro2000:
Well maybe there was discrimination in the 1990s in tech, I don’t know but that was 30 years ago, and you and I know that even 5 years in tech is a very long time as things move very fast.
Women generally due to nature won’t be interested in tech because that’s not how they are wired,at least there are other fields where they are dominant. Let’s not kid ourselves, PROGRAMMING IS HARD, one needs a lot of resilience to break through, how many women can be that persistent, a very few of them,even when I was in secondary school in late 1990s/early 2000s or so when we had to choose between intro-tech and home economics, only 2 girls out of almost 70girls chose intro-tech, so what are we talking about.
So I think it’s based on interest not discrimination, because despite what other said about women getting preferential treatment, we still have less than 24 % of women in tech.

This is 2022. Grow out of stereotypes of 30 years ago.

(Who told you girls don't want tech? Are you a girl? ARE YOU? You aren't, but you want to speak for them. Because you corralled them into the kitchen at home and home economics in school, it really means they don't want to be in tech? Corral them into sciences and see if there's anything different between learning for either gender. Preferential treatment indeed.)

Dailymice:
You're at very low risk cause hiv doesn't stay in the saliva. The saliva contains virus inhibition especially for STIs

Are hepatitis, COVID-19, herpes, ebola etc not viruses any longer? No wonder so many people get HIV. Misinformation.

Youngwiz71:
So this lady is just 54 yrs, what happened to her, she doesn't look good at all

Eating disorders. Maybe cancer. Maybe drug dependency.

She needs saving.

Fourpockets:
what are you even saying

Edit

I just checked your posts, nevermind

Predictable response. Next!

This thread is too uneducated. Too much testosterone. Even reading to understand is getting hard for the bros. Assumptions come much more easily than educated thoughts.

The good news is that women will continue to be in tech and continue to take up roles you feel they don't deserve. Same way you want your minority black Nigerian dick-twitching to give you roles where whites are more in population in tech in foreign countries and ought to have them instead of you. If not, cries of racism and discrimination. It isn't preferential treatment then.

kennytay:
Why are people this heartless...

Because they want money.