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Bodmum:
may God chase away every orji in your life.

BTW, who or where is the wife? all I'm seeing is one old hag.

In the fantasy of bachelors, especially the young ones, every wife should look like a porrnstar.

1stGenAmerican:
Speculate is what you’re doing. What proof do you have that the girl was sired by the criminal?

His proof is in the words of a bro who later posted that he created the thread to bash women. Straight from the horse's fingers, if he won't edit it. https://www.nairaland.com/7278180/first-child-belongs-friend-should/2#115650791

There is no criminal friend and no "oil" husband. It's just a tale to propagate the misogynist stereotype the male red pill subset love to emphasize. One even admitted to me some years back that he changes the story details to get negative feedback on women. Funny thing, he's on this thread posting everywhere like a concerned yet emotional guy. He has a lot of likes, maybe he's paid by that metric.

This thread is another social experiment. You'll wonder why/if it's only men who unendingly have stories to tell on this forum. It's because it's all lies and warped fiction to program the unwashed.

What a useless thread.

DNA (not even the test) flying here and there under the filthy nails of people that can't afford it, and who are yet to meet their biological fathers. The misogynist op even said his aim was to bash women with his fiction, yet look at the predictably emotional chapter of posts from idiots of the red pill. Such morons. Men who hate women are inevitably dregs of society. That is their only occupation after sex.

What a useless thread.

The latest Solomon Buchi saga won't make it here.

The one where he advices his bros not to date broke ladies, but many ladies table proof of him begging them for money. What a schmuck.

Keep up your red pill energy, you will get what you focus on.

You believe you will starve your woman of money to prove her faithfulness, since all one reads on this useless forum is test after test after complaint after complaint for women. Your friend is doing what you don't want to do. It's not as if you've been a saint where you are.

Meanwhile, grab your popcorn viewers. It's the season of anti-women fiction. Because only men are hard done by in relationships. Whenever they come up with their fiction, they always wanted to marry her, or bring her to live with them overseas. And now they have doubts. They need bro advice. Old storyline

purples25:
Omo, the amount of angry nairaland males on this thread dey shock me o.

The vexing is on another level. All trying to say she's a hoe and not worth it. Didn't know guys could be this evil and demonic.

It's understandable they're angry.

She's over 30, and they've posted all manner of trash about such women. It offends them that women can get such glam lives and live outside their gutter expectations and generalizations.

I'd say it's a positive thread.

The paid fiction is back.

jeromestarks:
Mercy got into singing ministry at 18. She has been under the canopy of God since then.
How many girls have the money and the resources to stay holy?
One guy told me today( here on NL) that he has slept with 18 girls this year and one came to sex him because of shoe worth 6k.
Even you that is talking, didn't you lose your virginity for much less than 6k?

Pls shift!
Out of 1000 nija girls, you can only find one worth marrying. One like mercy chinwo.

Hmmm, money is the key to holiness, according to you. No wonder you bought 10 slots in heaven. The ministry she entered, you a human like her can never enter. Wonder why.

What do you know about my virginity, or are you trying to project the shoddy loss of virginity you and your sisters had on someone else? Were you that poor growing up?

When they say men are idiots you will begin frothing. Just look at your poverty addled reasoning. People like you who generalize are incorrigibly stupid.

Your brostitute and you are the public lavatories here. See how you revel in it. If you had value you could have won her. But you don't. There's a dozen a dime of your kind. Have a lot to say about women yet aren't worth it.

Divay22:
Don't mind those frustrated boys we have parading this forum..
They'll sure avoid this thread.

Poverty has made them hate women. Instead of coming to celebrate, they will pretend it isn't happening.

They keep saying they are the prize, but this evening newspaper is one of the millions they can't afford or approach —she's the real prize Some are calling her a lesbian when there's nothing they can say to the death of their arguments against women her age.

jeromestarks:
Can't believe Mercy is in her 30s. This girl didn't hoe around.
She's a woman indeed.

Didn't naira land boys say that women over 30 are undesirable and will die unmarried because they are choosy feminists? Didn't they also say that such women have destroyed their wombs and are good for nothing masculine women? That they will go for "fresh 20 year olds", that a woman like Mercy is expired and that millions of men have slept with them and aborted away their destinies?

Isn't this an evening promiscuous newspaper anymore? Is she no longer over 30?

Are all the misogynists and women abusers on the forum dead today?

Or will they twist their mouths to the back of their heads to come up with something stale to say?

Nyascobar1414:
1.If she ain't a virgin...
2.If she's a Nigerian girl...

If the answer to these two questions are YES..

Dont trade your commitment for a used girl, dont pay a bride price for a used girl..

Then I wont advice you, I clearly want you to learn the hardway...
That's the only remedy.....



Happy proposal and marriage..

Ok virgin man who can make meaningful connections with women.

blaise26abj:
Misogyny? Like women don’t do that too . I know a woman that got pregnant and had a baby for her boyfriend less than a year her husband died . But death is not the issue here afterall it’s till death do them apart . We are talking about instances where the estranged spouse is still alive .

I’m saying this because it gives credence to the saying that “ if you leave your husband , no matter how terrible he is , another WOMAN will take the place “. This has helped in keeping women in abusive relationships . Eg Femi Fani-Kayode

We all know that men do a lot worse things like having children outside wedlock, but everything a woman does is chalked to fearing women. The other woman isn't the problem, as he claims to be single, so she is free to date him if that's what the show is all about. If she didn't give him a chance, you will still say that nobody is a saint, she's too high-strung, and that he deserves a chance. Yet he's the one who dumped his wife 3 days after baby delivery, insulted her in public and tried to destroy her reputation. He's the one to be feared. However...Saint Justin Obidi is just the victim of another woman to be feared.

If that isn't covert misogyny, tell us what it is.

blaise26abj:
This is why everyone should fear women . The marital bedsheet is not even cold yet , another woman is already angling to jump into it . Even convicted serial killlers get female admirers/girlfriends/wives while men will never move near a convicted female serial killer . Their actions atimes defy logic and common sense .

Dating a separated man or woman who hasn’t divorced is still adultery . The single person can’t be trusted .

What of men who remarry just a month after their wives have died, with the body still warm? Shouldn't we fear all men?

Your misogyny is baseless.

anthonE777:
It seems this man loves chasing clout
He doesn't want to be irrelevant in nigerian blogging space because he had cut ties with korra obidi (which is the cause of him being famous till this moment), so he need another nigerian lady to still be relevant in nigerian media, It's most likely that he views the woman as a renewal of the celeb status in NG media

Funny but true. Despite his claims that she was all over social media, it's clear he was annoyed he was not the one getting the attention.

His subscription is renewed. He's back on the first page here.

MrGistGuy:
yeah ,I know the father is a policeman, but how did he get access to it?

Is the gun just kept on the table in the room, coz I no understand

He would know where it was kept. Ostensibly, his father would keep it where everyone would know so that they could keep themselves safe in a country where almost everyone else has a gun. This shouldn't have been the outcome. Yet it is.

MrGistGuy:
But how did a twelve year old got to hold a gun ??

His father.

holllandis:
Must have been arguing with the son .Nigeria parents think they can live in the west but not behave like westerners .

Read what you wrote aloud.

In which country don't parents argue with their children? They simply have a dangerous, violent liar as a son. And unfortunately, she's paid the price. Westernization has nothing to do with it.

texazzpete:
Yes. The small number of foreign volunteers are a drop in the ocean. Ukrainians are doing the vast majority of the heavy lifting.

Yes, they’re getting a ton of foreign support in terms of equipment. But that’s still not in quantities large enough to balance against the huge arsenal of conventional weapons Russia has amassed.

Luckily, Russian incompetence, corruption and shoddy logistics has allowed brave Ukrainians to distinguish themselves on the battlefield, and much of Russian equipment is inferior to the NATO systems.

Putin thought this war would end in 3 days. They’ve battled his army to a standstill and still fighting after 6 months. What a disaster for him indeed!

"They" being NATO?

There's little to indicate their weaponry, combatants and leadership are really largely Ukrainian. They have the support of the most powerful nations in the world. They have the full favors of NATO whom they want to join. The whole "brave Ukrainians" and "small country" jingle is getting more dubious the longer their war drags on. Everyday they record numerous kills of Russians, yet they claim to be the ones being crushed. Theirs is one of the strangest wars today.

They need peace. But they also need to sue for truth.

texazzpete:
Yes. Because it's still Ukrainians doing the fighting.

And while they've gotten a lot of weapons, they still are at a tremendous disadvantage when it comes to numerical superiority of missiles, artillery, tanks and armored vehicles.

It's due to the courage of the Ukrainians and the shoddy nature of the Russian equipment that they're dealing with the Russians

Really? What happened to all the seals and veterans who joined in their war? The British hostages? With the deluge of support they are basking in, really?

Is it really their war and their weapons?

adecz:
Small country like Ukraine don
dey play draw game with Russian
Superpower for 7 months❗️❗️


Russia fall dem people hand. Dem
be like muscular bodybuilder wey no
sabi fight☺️☺️☺️☺️

With all the weapons and support you still call it Ukraine, and not NATO?

A2Gfather:
Dear Brother,

My candid advice is you should let the girl go because i can tell you, when you finally married her she will tell you she is going for vigil and she will go to another mans house to sleep especially when both of you have issues or possibly if you guys did not have child on time it will not take her anything to settle for another option.

I don't mean to scatter your relationship but i want you to know that scatter relationship is better than scatter marriage.

Possibly if you do this for her it will make her to sit right and not to do same for next person she meet and change her way of life.

The ball is in your court, you can make a choice

What's the big deal? If he can't handle her excesses, he should move on. It's not as if he's a saint.

Ilekokonit:
Marriage is a case of fools rush in where angels fear to thread.

We wey don divorce and still remain single are not fools.

IF you go ahead and marry that girl just because she does not disrespect you and is a good cook withouth factoring in the fact that she is a serial cheat who repeatedly scheats on you and exposes her private part (the birth canal of your future children) to random men then this woman will eventually either kill you or slow down your progress or both.

Do you know how many porn sites your so called fiancees vagina is posted on ?? Or what is stopping these random guys your so called fiancee sends her privates to putting her nudes on porn sites ??

Don't be the laughing stock of your generation in a case where you can clearly see the dangers of marrying this sexually loose cheat.


A war that is foretold will not kill a cripple - but that is only for a wise cripple that listens to advice.

The man writing epistles on a child is not a saint. Ask him if he's one, because a man who has slept with many women is no different from a woman who displays her videos publicly, and should not expect fidelity. Ask him if he has not exposed the inseminating device on his body to other women, and if that is the character of a man who should be the father of her children.

cowboyvs:
Good day Folks, I am not going to bore you with all the details. Ok, I have been a member of this Forum but I really need matured advise cos I am in a dilemma right now. I met this cute babe in 2021. She is from Edo I am Igbo. I was really thinking of getting married to her but I have some serious concerns.

Firstly, sometime last year she came visiting. While she was sleeping on my laps her phone screen lit up so I was tempted to look and I saw message delivered to Mariam. So something whispered to me to check the content of the message. When I checked, I discovered that the message was deleted after it was sent.

So being a Guyman, that discovery spurred my curiosity. What I did was to copy the number and checked on Truecaller, lo and behold a Man’s name appeared. So I checked his name on face book and checked on WhatsApp too and I saw it was a married Man with five kids.

So I waited till morning and confronted her. Initially, she denied it was a man but when I confronted her with my evidence she confessed it was a married man. I enquired further and she told me they have had s*x like 4 times while we were dating ooo. I butted her out of my house and blocked her completely.

But this babe will be using other pple’s phones to call and be sending msgs telling me she is sorry. So at a point I forgave her and we continued, but, I was not ready to start trusting her again. So last week, I was trying to see if she has truly turned a new leaf before making a major move by going to see her parents. I was shocked what I saw in her WhatsApp.

There was this random dude asking her out. From their chats she told the guy that she has a boyfriend so she can’t have anything to do with him. But, she sent him a video of her touching her Vagi*a. Telling him she wets and squirts very well. When the guy demanded they see so he can feel her she told him no that her Vagin* is only for her boyfriend. Also I saw so many guys asking her out but she kept telling them she is in a serious relationship and she can’t date them.

So I am really confused. She is 22 and I am 33. It pains me so much cos this girl is so loving and caring and also a good cook. She treats me well and has never disrespected me. I am really hurting inside cos I feel this is not the kind of woman I wanna marry like how do u expose the most intimate part of ur body to someone else. Is it lack of maturity or she is jst loose and I didn’t know. I have refused picking her calls but she keeps on begging and sending msgs seriously. I am tired.

Please I need matured advise cos I am no longer getting young and I wanna settle down ASAP.

Go date your age mates. You are 33 looking for what with a 22 year old? Not as if you haven't been the man who looks at videos of other people's girlfriend.

Cypress042:
The first day you both had sex was the day she trapped you.

Just man up and tell her you're not comfortable with the way she visits your shop everyday.

Afterall you guys aren't dating, then what's the essence of her visits.

A close mouth is a close destiny, speak your mind now and free yourself from bondage

How did she trap him? You mean she put some glue on his private part in order to make him have physical relations with her repeatedly or what? Or she trapped him because he found her beautiful and decided to pursue a relationship he never wanted with her?

When will you and other men learn to be responsible for your actions? She trapped you indeed. You are all innocent simple milling rams waiting for a she-wolf to lead you into traps. Please.

They aren't dating yet she's visiting him and he's owning her finances, doesn't that tell you he's a liar who only wanted her in his bed? They are in a relationship. But he's playing ostrich.

Magnoliaa:
You mean the trolls fighting and insulting their families? If you're referring to them, they are definitely unimportant peeps.

It's been entertaining. Sort of.

Magnoliaa:
Thank you.

That "evolving" word sha... e dey fear me. When Nkechi Bianze, a feminist, used it, she got married to a kind patriarchal king. When Solomon Buchi went through it, he stopped being a patronizing male feminist and came out of his shell... but, but, since it's coming from you, and you mean it in a good positive way, I'll accept it. You're the second person pointing out how I'm different in some way on here... the first person is inconsequential. I'll watch first and see if any body else says something again...

I am not a lawyer; I'm just a girl trying to find her place in this world...

LMAO @the evolved species you mentioned. Just LMAO.

They aren't the real evolution. The E-word is for positive ascendance. You are doing well, ooin.

Hmmm, who are the two combatants above? Bro code coding?

Louis8796:
My freind,Go and Face your life and live another man's life.

Sorry, Sir. Very sorry.

airsaylongcome:
Have you seen the nonsense you post here?

Good lawd.

Magnoliaa:
My sister of the opposite gender, e shock me as I see surrogacy o.

When it's convenient and beneficial to them, they forget that things like surrogacy, eggs donation and freezing, baby mamaism, etc., are feministic liberal choices being driven by the Western world. But when it is against them, they remember that these things are unAfrican and "pro-women".

Is the whole point of a "frame" not building a healthy, seamless and complementary relationship? If you want them, get them from a loving and long-term relationship of value. Paying for these things defeat the whole purpose of masculinity as they are trying to teach themselves. Why will you be paying to have sex, babies, orgasms, and a romantic connection? You definitely won't be getting the real deal.

If you want these things, marry. If you want these things and don't want "marriage", maintain a partnership. If you don't want either of babies/romance and a partnership, have a FWB- in mutuality of respect and understanding. If it's babies alone you want, well... I don't see the point of having that and then you don't want the person that brought the baby (I mean as a conscious decision you can help, not babies that came from one night stands or (co-parenting after) divorces). It's just me. (I think what you'll invest in the baby is still what you'll invest in a relationship, so better going through the process of finding a good person for a relationship that makes raising a baby easier and shareable.)

The moment you begin to PAY for these things, the fact of the incompliance of one party begins to underlie the relationship- to reveal that money is the main inducement.

If it's mutual, what exactly is the point of the money in the equation? If the money is not for buying sex and connection, then that arrangement becomes a relationship with money as one of the gifts you give and get.

Lol.

Oga Sir, preach! You've dissected the whole thing. Watch them peep and stay away before they get caught up in logical ripostes. I've been enjoying your posts recently. You're evolving. And I mean that in an OMG way I low-key think you're a lawyer.

@bolded : Because they are unfit to own those things, so they buy them and crave them yet never own them. Or maybe they prefer fantasizing affording such luxuries.

Magnoliaa:
Until you actually learn radical feminism is against marriage as we know it AND surrogacy. Look at how he opened mouth waaaa and called surrogacy as if say na beans. Oh. You actually mean the same surrogacy that mainstream feminists are making to look cool is what you want to consider as an alternative to marriage? You want the "fruits of feminism?" Because trust me, if not for these feminists, you will not be seeing any young woman that'll want to ever consider surrogacy as a viable means of survival.

Tell me, have you considered the F and the woman factor? The legal factor? The woke factor (think of #MeToo)?

You want to rent a woman's womb and you think all the antecedents and the whole package that comes with a woman will not be factored in in whatever consequences and implications of surrogacy?

You think like, you have tried to separate women's humanness from their "holes" like some of you do in pornography abd prostitution, so you can actually pay to use a vagina/woman's body for your sexual release, you want to be paying for her womb too, to give you kids to satisfy your emotional cravings?

I don't blame you. In an ideal feminist world, you will not see any part or a caricature of a woman to make use of for your selfish benefits and lack of interpersonal skills.

You won't find a prostitute to pay for sex; you won't find a wife to marry for domestic duties; you won't find a sugar baby to pay for romance and connection; you won't see a surrogate to pay for babies, and if you decided to forgo all these, you still won't get a lifeless sex doll in the form of a woman, but not a woman to fk. Even one sexualized image to masturbate to, you won't see.

I find it very very telling that the lifestyle some of you misogynistic men are opting for as alternatives to women and relationships with them are being seen as pro-women by some feminists nowadays (or should I say liberal feminists). Because some of them understand that anything men support in numbers can never be good for women, but alas, they support all of the above and more as liberating sensible choices for women.

It's not your fault- the fked up world can afford you all of your manly wishes. And watin pain me pass be say, you may not have enough money that would be considered 'okay' for getting a surrogate, but some helpless, demoralized girl through a dubious and exploitative agency can get her for you.

If you will have a lot of money to pay for the supposed worth of a womb, my anger will not be as much.

You this man! Why must you always tell the truth? Our brothers won't like this at all.

Lmao @your last line. It's that audacity.

Chiedu4Trump:
Very impressive feat in these days.

When she gets married she has something to give her husband,

And what will he have to give her, in like terms?

pocohantas:
Lol. Bras, best believe that 99% won’t get it right . It is one thing to have the information, it is another to make good use of it.



You are most welcome babe. I did it for people like you, not haters.

Truly.

I must say you're doing something I could never do for those subterranean denizens. But then they would plague you with their favorite hobby after looking for who is online or not if you didn't. It starts with ten digits and ends with...