₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
I miss this snack abeg! I still remember the taste too, from way back in the 80s. Dem suppose dey sell these things for market by now.

Good lord.

Eating these things isn't that far off eating cockroaches and other brown, well defined creepers.

airsaylongcome:
Bratislava, no any red cap anything o. You are either ready or you aren't ready when it comes to FAANG. The questions are very brutal

You're another red cap chief here. If you don't go for it, what do we minions have to hope on? You guys are immune to brutality. You laugh in the face of brutality.

Another red-capped chief has showed up.

You guys won't kill the forum with your humility.

If only they could do this to men too. Everyone in the world would be carrying someone else around.

I pity her though. Look at how he's grabbing her hair. He will probably get home and rape her in a rage . Forced marriages are probably hell.

Ishilove:
This truly smacks of racism

How is it racism? Police officers who shared jokes were arrested. Weren't those officers already contributing greatly to their world? But because these ones are black, it is racism? It's even about the death of another black boy.

If people express evil thoughts and they one day carry them out, but we want to excuse it as racism, what will our consciences say in the future? That we were not being racist?

Tell us more about your course of study and what the siwes is.

Become a lecturer when you've left your teens, and find out how it happens.

BTW, Pain is gone, so are the six paths.

qtguru:
Lol I am not prepared for their Algo no cap.

But you're one of our red cap chiefs here. So humble.

ImaIma1:
They have avoided this thread. If it was a thread with topic "Man discovers his children are not his own", they will have been all over the thread .

18 pages with every post screaming, "guy, go and do DNA. This is why we need DNA free in hospitals".

AmazonTopaz:
@bold, I am laughing so hard

God1000:
We need more of this, let's promote peaceful coexistence among Christians and Muslims.

We are one people, one nation under one God

And what is the name of that God?

yunus22:
Good day ladies and gentlemen

I was employed as a security guard at a leather factory through a private security company 4months ago but this company never pays me as they said the factory owner did not pay them . But recently I learnt that the factory owner had been paying them.

I went to the office on Friday to confront them about the issue n also told them I will resign. They asked me to wait till today Monday so they'll forward my issue to their head office to get sorted out.

So I went to the office today, they told me I'll only get one month salary today till when they finally sorted it out then they'll pay me the remaining 3months at the same time.

I said, okay no problem. but the thing that pains me so much is that these heartless entities deducted 6k out of 10k salary n left me took home only 4k. They deducted Five thousand naira for uniform which were never given to us n one thousand naira for audio application form fee respectively.

I returned home dejected, despair n feeling defeated with so many things running on my head. It's really paining me right now feeling like to go n burn their office n kill them all or arrange to kidnap them.

Another thing that I discovered is that the factory owner pay my company 20k but they'll pay me 10k. but one thing that always motivated me is that the factory owner usually buys me food n drinks, sometimes even tips me 500 naira. So I feel like I was just saving my salary I'll cash out later whenever they paid me but it end up in tears, anger n gnashing of teeth.

Ladies and gentlemen I want your candid advice on how to go about this issue please. Should I go ahead and sue them to pay me my remaining salary or ask the factory owner to avoid the company n pays me directly since he
likes me?

The wickedness in this story is way too much.

Do Nigerians successfully sue people? Visit a human rights organization to help you out.

Isn't homosexual sex supposed to be punishable?

Ryan03:
thank you so much mama, I really want to say a big thank you to everyone who showed concern, I was just being worried, didn't even know I was already pregnant while typing that post. I did blood test about 5 days before my period and it came out negative, waited for period but nothing came, did home test 7days after period and it was positive. I am really grateful, guess I was just worried for nothing, thanks again for making me relax

Hahaha. Very glad to hear the news. Some of these things, the more you worry, the less likely it will be. So just relax when it comes to your biological processes.

Everything will be okay.

Congratulations mama!

Rape apology tendencies. Extreme ego. Unemphatic. And some other traits that you can only find out when your go beyond seeing each other every weekend.

Magnoliaa:
The tears are coming...

Who pays any mind to 9ja men amd their opinions on women anymore, LMAO?

Really, they only serve for the occasional exchange. Their opinions are so contradictory one really pities young ladies who will have to pass through these miseducated boys.

AmazonTopaz:
It is no longer news that people have been speculating the reasons why the marriage of Funke Akindele and JJC Skillz hit the rocks but I have been seeing different takes from Nigerian men who are sounding the alarm that men should not marry women who are financially stronger or more influential than the men and their vague reason is that women cannot handle success and they were not meant for it because they cannot submit to their husbands etc.

This is a lie from the pit of hell many of these men are intimidated by successful women because they cannot control women with more money. Their worth and entire existence particularly in this part of the world are tied to money. So without money, they are nothing any small thing the woman does is an insult to them even if it is the biggest meat in the pot she took and didn't leave for them.

The thing is many of these men were badly raised and I mean BADLY. They have bad manners, uncouth and disrespectful the cloak that makes many women settle for these men is nothing but money so when they see a woman who has more money they feel that they can no longer control her or force her to accept their terrible behaviour.
They need a doormat for a wife who will suck up their nonsense because they have money to silence her. The moment a woman has money they realise that she will be too stubborn to tame and will never settle for their silly and terrible behaviour. Pathetic isn't it?

The problem is not the women, women can handle success many women today were trained to respect men, but the men of today were not yes some women talk condescendingly to their husbands and that is wrong but then men do it all the time and how many women have complained and cried that women should not marry successful men.

Men need to realise that the times are changing a submissive woman is an illusion, particularly one who has money with her senses intact.
You as men should up your game and stop attaching your worth to money be something else be kind, respectful, caring, loving, talented, visionary, skillful, have good manners, neat, a team player etc these are wonderful qualities that can impress a woman without you using money to do it. Your worth should not be tied to money stop blaming women, men are the problem if your self-esteem was good you will not be competing with your wives and praying for their downfall that they should not be more successful than you.

If what you bring to the table is more than your money you will not cry wolf when your woman has more than you. You should be proud, and confident and be her rock and biggest cheerleader because her success is your success too.
Men do better and hopefully, we raise our boys to be confident in themselves instead of seeing their wives as their competitors whom they should never be happy to see succeed.

You men have a terrible problem. FIX IT everything should not be about money.

To be fair, the biggest contribution men bring into any relationship is their organ. Without which their money is insignificant. And that is why they are outraged that women bring theirs along too. Because that is not submissive, to compete organ to organ with them.

So they've added money to the mix, because they tend to have more opportunities to work. That way, they have something women won't have enough of. They fight against women getting that privilege by using the submission line. So that she can never be like them.

Using that submission line, it's a new organ measuring fiesta that they can have more money. If she's submissive, she's going to be like a TV screen that he will control with masochism to never compete with him and cater to his every need while he does nothing. It's what Nigerian men want. If she wants to keep him, she must be submissive (one of the most abused manosphere words). He's never the one to be vested or interested in keeping anything in the relationship. He believes he's some sort of prize, yet wonders why things always go belly up. Money is the prize, but they don't get it.

They believe that they don't need to do anything except have money. One of the most misguided assumptions. A survey of relationships and the reasons they failed will show that men are behind their own agonies in unions most of the time. All they have is money. No character, no love, no compassion, no unity, no selflessness, nothing. Just money (and how to own, control, dominate and subjugate). Money is a disguise for all their failures, refusals and incapability to be better human beings. They hide behind money and cry wolf. They will then heap blames on her, while they are incapable of relationships with anyone but themselves. They would like her to be everything they aren't ever going to be in their relationship.

"I provided everything for her". Yeah, just money. And what is money? Strip them of money and they are nothing.

The funny ones are the types that don't have money, yet suffer from the usual god complex syndrome of being born with a dangly bit between their thighs.

Well, that's rather long . . .

They will come tell you how insecure, weak men exist. Yet dedicate paragraphs to the assumptive castigating of women, all day and night. Because women are the cause of every problem in their lives. Women are the reason they can't keep relationships. Women are the reason they are unfaithful. Women are the reason they can't provide for their families. Women are behind it. Women are scheming.

Women! Oppressors of the saintly men! Men, genteel sheeps to the slaughter! Harmless roses!

Once you see the first conciliatory lines, know that the rest of the write up will be the usual blame throwing garbage. I (don't/won't/will never support/tolerate/side with/stand for) (however/but/when/due to/not as if/excuse)... Paragraphs dedicated to what they supposedly don't support. Oldest technique.

What do you expect when broke, gay and misogynist mods and their paid cronies run the place?

But that aside...

SultanOfPuna:
Should be Teaching these Kids Programming, web design and Computer graphics..
WTF is this
This is 2022 not 1955

We have over 23 million tailors in Nigeria,
Dem suppose flog that teacher walahi
So she is proud that she taught kids how to sew cloth
While Kids in China are already creating Apps, and softwares. Nonesense 
Lets not celebrate mediocrity

Once everyone is programming naked, what next?

Magnoliaa:
I don't know, dear, and I frankly don't care.

Asked because he's very, very familiar.

AntiChristian:
It's evil and devilish. But I don't think the Bible ever mentioned it anywhere with hell.

Could this be the point at which you bury your hatchet with the OP and stop ambushing them?

Righteousness2:
I Love the fact that you are against abortion and it really shows in your actions.

I Love the fact that you are not happy that an innocent child was murdered.

At the same time, you need to understand that Fornication is evil. It is Sin and you are guilty of that. So you need to Repent from that and desist from such evils.

I advice you to go marry so you can legally and Scripturally copulate with your wife and have your kids.

You are simply telling him about the wages of sin.

That depends on certain factors. Others have done it and are happy, why not him? Perhaps he's overbearing and full of revenge, and that's why she went for the abortion.

In his write ups, all one can see is an abnormal desperation to have that child, and the seed of wickedness—which is stubbornness to have revenge on the girl.

You go about having sex without a condom, without agreeing before sex to have a baby, then you get angry about an abortion like you're entitled to a child that doesn't grow in your own stomach.

The whole thing is childish. There was another such fiction on the forum.

Das1mama:
Thank you so much sir

Obviously the man expects you to steal from him in order to augment the wages.

Do not disappoint.

That's how you'll get the money you need to make your next move.

Magnoliaa:
You either don't mention name or you do, at least MOST of the time, but that one, no. There is absolutely no lady on NL he's shading that I've seen him mentioned their moniker correctly.

You mean evolutionlove? Who is the real moniker behind that moniker?

Entitled children.

What makes you think she must have a child if she doesn't want to? If you didn't want it, you would also feel like you could force her to abort it. And if she decided to keep it against your will, you would equally abandon her and move on.

Selfish, entitled boy who drives two cars at once.
Go and arrest her. After all, you own her womb, her pregnancy and her future menopause.

Her sister probably hates you with good reason. But you will not tell us exactly why.

Focusmind:
Misogynists everywhere!!!

Most men that stereotypes women are usually frustrated, broke and unable to get their kind of girls.

Nairaland has elevated the bashing of female folks to another level. Some ladies that could not bear the bashing have quietly left the platform. There is too much bullying of our ladies here. Mods, please take note.

Thought everyone knows the place is run by political gays and misogynists.

Do you think they would push anything contrary to their nature to the first page? The misogyny is the forums selling point. The people behind it know why.

Channah1:
This plates are the ones at my disposal for now that's why I'm using them. My good plates are not with me because I've not been stable since moving apartments and you don't expect me to be moving my prescious plates about.

Now that I'm settled, I'll go and bring my kitchen utensils.

You don't need the long explanation.

Assuming those are your only plates, look into the rest of his comment and see that there's nothing wrong in that.

He's trolling someone that has moved on and forgotten—if they ever knew—he exists. It's that bad. Maybe she jilted him.

pocohantas:
I always find it very interesting how you laugh, trivialize, quote and indulge comments from guys insulting other women in this section. But when they come for you, I see a very feisty part of a supposedly calm woman.

Always a delight to watch…

Happy Sunday to you.

What does the first sentence really mean?

Kingpele:
I hate this soup with passion especially when I was younger but now as my wife and kids like the soup very well , I had to manage ,I know go throw feast with my own Money and won't participate in the merry

Lol. We've all come to this point. Finally.

Parizz:
she presented the opportunity and he took it. Man must not live by himself alone. You must have a boring sex life. When did you have sex?

If it doesn't revolve around sex your brain cannot process it. When last did you leave the brothel in your mind?

Kobojunkie:
Why make an issue out of a molehill?

Simply text her back thanking her for her kind offer, informing her that the help is not needed since you have your chores all covered. The end!

How could he miss such a golden opportunity to preach his true gospel through others?

oloyedewaris:
Why gender, instead of them to channel their brain and technology to something good

Na LGBTQ dey their head

They've already done that. It's now time to develop their sexual appetite, as their most pressing need.

They aren't Africans who need development still.

Ayinke93:
I’ve read a lot of crap on Nairaland, but you see this post here; it wins the hall of fame for the most ridiculous post on the internet. Thoughts and prayers to your wife. Quite unfortunate.

Lol. What won't one see on this forum? The more educated they appear, the more shocking their thinking.

It looks like bait to create wars.