₦airaland Forum

placeofallure:
Giving in a relationship should be mutual. I don't believe there should be anything too big to give in a relationship. There's a background work that needs to be done first. If you look hard and well enough to get yourself a good girl, nobody will school you what to give or not to give her. You will be pleased with her such that you can do anything for her because you would have seen that she can travel the world on foot for you too. You deal with yourselves with an open mind, no inhibitions. Such partners are scarce but I insist, they still exist. Redirect that energy into looking for them.

There's nothing I can't do for my partner, absolutely nothing cause he's selfless with me too.

toykathy:
An Igbo man mistakenly sent 2 million
naira to a wrong phone number via Mobile Money Transfer. He thought of what to do so as to stop the person from withdrawing the money and he came up with this: He sent a message to the person’s phone saying. “Hello Dark and Worthy Initiate, I hope u are
ok. I believe u have received the money I sent to u? It’s for your initiation into the Eternal Mystical Order Of Glorious Satanism in the Ogboni Fraternity scheduled to take place tomorrow’s midnight 12am. That money is only for your transport. I’ll send you more for your shopping. There are riches awaiting you in this Kingdom. Two weeks after the
initiation, a family member very close to your heart will die in a mysterious circumstance and another 2 weeks later the next person close to your heart again will die too, these deaths will unlock your ticket to wealth, ability to fly at night to any part of the world, change into all kinds of animal to deliver
your various assignments. Remember to come with a syringe and needle for drawing your blood every 20 minutes. Please remember that you must not come a minute late nor a minute earlier because the Viceroy of Satan will be there himself to officiate the ceremony. Thanks in advance. But in case you are not ready to join, please send back the money otherwise you will die in the next 24hrs”
. …….5 minutes late he got an sms saying, pls send another 2 million naira my friend is also interested… The man fainted.

Don't laugh alone pls.

descarado:
When in dormitory, we caught one of our wicked gate man inside the dormitory one rainy night around 7. Only him knew how he sneaked in cos door was locked and hiding somewhere around junior wardrobe. The girl that saw him screamed on top of her voice and we all rushed down and cornered him. He started crying begging us to have mercy. For where. We All the things, eg, if you are late and beg him to allow you sneak into the classroom with strong reason, he will demand for bribe. If you refuse he will report you and our disciplinarian, gosh, was a nightmare, so we wanted our pound of flesh.

Las Las, the bad girls stripped him naked and took him to the principal's house under the rain Principal and most teachers houses are in the school premises. And the police was called to whisk him away. We didn't know what happened but we never saw him again.

atango:
Females have always perceived males as a threat and we can't really blame them cos many have suffered in the hands of predatory men. The girls involved in this sad incident definitely felt threatened and thought they will become rape victims if they did not fight back. When a person feels threatened and trapped with no way to flee, they fight back ferociously. I believe this is what happened. The time of the incident (4am) and the size of the perceived threat (5 boys) was definitely seen by each of the girls as a very big threat. Looking at their numbers compared to the invading boys, one may be tempted to say they poorly assessed the threat and so responded with unreasonable force. But in fearful or life threatening situations, emotions take control and humans tend to react irrationally.

truthsayer009:
In comparison with Adams Oshomole or Obasanjo, he isn't that bad looking oh.

I agree that he wouldn't give anyone access to his money because he knows the women came for money. Honestly if you know your woman has your best interest at heart, hiding money from her would never occur but this pay as you go marriage lol.

The level thing can also be tricky too, someone can be your level physically this year and next 5 years they have glowed up. Most of my high school or 19 year old female friends many years ago who were looked basic glowed up, while the ones who use to be the star girl became overweight and lost touch.

truthsayer009:
This is very accurate and the most eye opening thing about this is that, no matter how much money you have. Your physical looks can never be overshadowed by money if you are a 1 going for a 10.

For example, former Edo State governor Comrade Adams A. Oshiomhole's wife Lara Fortes doesn't seem to fancy him at all. Upon all the money he has showered on her, she can't look past his ugliness which makes me conclude that marriage isn't even the end goal. Just because you can convince a man or woman to marry you doesn't mean that your work has finished. You will also have to convince them daily when they wake up beside you and you look like a monster.

I can't compare Ned Nwoko's situation because the man is actually good looking in my opinion, so he his okay with marrying top beautiful women.

descarado:
That's not how to defend oneself.

That school should be closed down and the people who did that severely punished. Don't shed blood. It's not in your power to do so.
If it's one person, it might be labelled self defence but this, no no.

adubam:
I just want to share this painful and bitter scenario to job seekers out there.

So we posted a job advert and over four hundred applied. Three were selected for interview and only one appeared.

Salary is about 150k for a start.

So this applicant came and did well in both oral and written interview but she was not given the job because of this:

She was given a paper to apply for the job. Excellent write up though but she messed up the whole paper with cancellation and instead of asking for a fresh paper to start over again; she even went ahead and handed over it like that to my boss.

My boss concluded that she was an untidy and scatty fellow.

And that was all.

Please take note of this and try not to make this mistake.

God grant you your desired jobs.

sisisioge:
Sorry Bukatyne, there was no pun intended at all....the reference was just to further explain how she is just another human like you and I well deserving of her privates. See your reactions without videos or pictures.....imagine how she feels. Again, apologies.

Let's just drop the matter and wish her the best. Cheers maami.

pocohantas:




I will add that to my notes. Love after strategy. ;

Not only proper assessment, but a honest one. I was having this conversation with my friend yesterday. I know someone battling with same issue and keeps wondering why breakfast has become the other of the day.

descarado:
These days it's gossip, wine and women

Somebody showed me tiwa tape. I don't know what to say.

ityP:
Like I said, dude is disappointed and angry. If you love someone truly and you planned on building a family with that someone, nurturing such relationship for 4 years, only to be ready to tie the knot and you're rejected simply because of your educational status, you'd also be angry and your "love" may also not shine through the whole situation. Like I said, it's natural. I would feel same too

toren:
On which lies? You know nothing. I know why I took that decision and that's how it'll remain until the time is right. There's time for everything.

pepperdemzombie:
The problem with her and Tonto is that they are unintelligent persons but don't seek for advice, take advice from wrong people or don't take advice but run to Social Media to make mistakes.
She has issues with Davido, instead of going low, fixing herself and settling things, she decided to be relevant by turning out almost nude and roaming about twerking, for what precisely? Toolz and co women who are supposed to advise her, asked her to continue to pepper them and Davido on Instagram. How many people did Toolz go almost nude and twerking to pepper when her marriage crashed? She went low and fixed things.
She claims she is selling bag, but see the brand she's carrying. She needs good people to advise her, not all these ones she's twerking about with, they are only there for exposure and fun. To worsen the matter now, Tonto mentioned her name to join Kpokpogri's fvkees.

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Everything na Audio, VP motivational speaker likes many talk and grammar.Tell them to return the economy of Nigeria and Naira to Dollar to the way they met them in 2015,that is what we need now.

BornToSucced:
Lol........I actually don't speak Yoruba. I am from Niger Delta.

BornToSucced:
I can't find a cheaper apartment where I currently live. I think my current apartment is even cheaper compared to other compound in the area.

I use the 3 rooms.........

BornToSucced:
Thank you. I am happy you know the bolded.

Your last point is why I am strategizing to reduce my rent expense.

For those that ask why I didn't get an apartment closer to my workplace, I just couldn't afford it at this time. I am a start up >:(

Klass99:
Lol, I don't know why folks are even shaking head for him. Traffic has become a "normal" way and part of life in this city. It's a given!

Like him, I don't live close to my office but mehn I love where I live to pieces. My colleagues keep suggesting I move closer to our office for traffic reasons. I tell them power and water is 24/7 where I live amongst other nice things, I won't give it up for this job.

Moreover, when you see really nice/decent accommodations with the facilities I currently enjoy, the price is cut throat and for expatriates, baby girl cannot deal o!

I often decline hangout invites because I like going home to my crib after work. Ask me wetin I dey rush house go do? Nothing o, other than to turn on my TV and AC to relax after a warm shower.

Born2Succeed, if you like your new crib and you are feeling it in your soul (like I do mine) move and forget the traffic.

BornToSucced:
Okay. I now have one neighbour

cooooooks:
According. By Mclizbae 's logic, people should divorce immediately they are "above" their spouse during the marriage. Mtchew.

ityP:
Dude is angry and rightly so. He's also disappointed. Most men would feel this way

crackhaus:

sisisioge:
You missed the point, she made a video with her lover privately but someone got hold of it and pushed her to share it with the whole world. She was hence violated. Whether she did a video shouldn't even be our concern as whatever she did privately shouldnt reach us if the world is proper and decent. So is the issue that she had sex or she had the sex recorded? Well I think you would react this way if you saw a picture of your pastor in a doggie style with his wife or a picture of you on your knees giving your husband head out there...narrative will be the same for us- private moment exposure. We should be flogging the violators not the victim.

As per Wizkid and Don Jazzy, you and I wont be privy to the things they do behind close doors because they and their partners have not made any mistakes that got to the wrong hands. All she did was to have sex and did some kinky stuff while at it...those are her private leanings.

Gandollar:
As a celebrity, she has a futher duty...

That's exactly my point!

descarado:
Janemena case don close. Its tiwa today, tomorrow it will be tonto and Kpokpogarri.

Gossip is addictive like wine and women.

BornToSucced:
Hello, I need your advice on this situation.

I currently stay in a 3 bedroom apartment in Ogudu, and work in Ikoyi axis. My current rent is 1m and the landlord is about to increase it to 1.2m from next year.

However, I just deposited 30% payment for a 3 bedroom flat Sangotedo and the owner said I can move in while I spread the balance.

My concern is, I want to relocate to the new apartment in Sangotedo but the traffic going to work borders me. Is it better to rent it out? How is security and light in Sangotedo axis?

I am really confused on what to do as my current rent is coming to an end.

Please I need your suggestions.

Tajbol4splend:
This doesn't necessarily have to be a lie, some guys might be bothered in their minds that the lady they tryna date is financially more buoyant than them