Romance › Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by bukatyne(f): 10:12am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Jasmine17: Exactly my point. You are totally correct bro If you understood his point, you would not have painted the thread like only single Nigerian women are at fault.  |
Romance › Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by bukatyne(f): 10:11am On Oct 27, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: My Experience With Nigerian Ladies In The West by bukatyne(f): 10:07am On Oct 27, 2021 |
AfroKnight: Very classist. Any small “advantage” is used to belittle you.  The OP is not wrong however isolating the problem. If Nigerians are naturally classist, it is only natural that: 1. Women would be classist to men who woo them; 2. Men would be classist to women who marry them; 3. Parents classist to their kids, friends, neighbors, colleagues etc. 4. Leaders classist to followers etc. The man whining that a woman treated him shabbily because he is poor is treating someone else like poo. The woman whining that her husband bullies her is flogging her help for existing. |
Politics › Re: Why Has FG Not Arrested Sheikh Gumi? - Senator Musa Queries DSS by bukatyne(f): 9:21am On Oct 27, 2021 |
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Education › Re: Rivers State University SUG Official Gives Boyfriend Award For Being Supportive by bukatyne(f): 9:19am On Oct 27, 2021 |
mrkings84: The frame use for that award is top-notch. That's all I saw!  |
Education › Re: Rivers State University SUG Official Gives Boyfriend Award For Being Supportive by bukatyne(f): 9:18am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Zchi1052: Give them chance them go de find chances. Women The first case was a guy giving first lady award for wifely spouse. You might be right sha; maybe he was gay or they are both cross dressers and role playing.  |
Education › Re: Rivers State University SUG Official Gives Boyfriend Award For Being Supportive by bukatyne(f): 9:15am On Oct 27, 2021 |
zedegit: Be calming down.
It doesn't call for that. He probably paid for it somehow. That's how it's done.
Although the only negativity to it is encouraging immorality in schools. They should be modest. Even if she wants to give him an award, the title could be changed, let it be he supports and is helpful to the sug government @bold: I think this captures my reservation about the execution of the awards (also lumping the babe that got award for wifely support). I have no problems with the motive. |
Education › Re: Rivers State University SUG Official Gives Boyfriend Award For Being Supportive by bukatyne(f): 9:00am On Oct 27, 2021 |
Fahdiga: This is an abuse of power and she must be impeached How did she abuse her power? She is using her office to appreciate him because of his contribution towards the success of her tenure. If you have ever played school politics and intended to serve well, you would know that you need a lot of support to do well in your post and stay focused at academics. |
TV/Movies › Re: Korean Movies Chatroom by bukatyne(f): 9:16pm On Oct 26, 2021*. Modified: 8:56am On Oct 27, 2021 |
I have resumed The King's Affection and so far, the King's cousin does it for me. The Royal Tutor suddenly lacks the emotional intelligence he displayed as a kid. It is admirable that the King's cousin knew the king was a girl  since they were kids and he has been able to show her affection while guarding the secret. The situation should make the Royal Tutor doubt his sexuality sha.... How can he be so attracted to the King who should be male?  |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Japan’s Princess Mako Marries Kei Komuro, 'Commoner' Husband. Ditches Royalty by bukatyne(f): 9:03pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
sharone21: This can also be replicated in Nigeria BUT, the Naija man must first drop his oversabi/redpiller sense to make the woman risk all.
Truly, it takes 2 fools to marry. Hahahahahaha @ 'it takes two fools to marry'  |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Johnson’s Grown-Up Stepchildren And Husband's Ex-Wife (Photos) by bukatyne(f): 8:18pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Munzy14:
wahala for who them never husbandnapped.  Bobo followed the modern advice to love yourself and be happy yet una dey complain. Abeg leave Prince, he is a man ahead of his time.  I trust mama Purity would be too sensible to complain if he decides to climb the fifth floor with a new bride. |
Family › Re: The 12 Laws Of Karma by bukatyne(op): 8:13pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
mariahAngel: 1. Great piece that needs to be read over and over again, then slowly digested one at a time.
2. Although, concerning The law of responsibility, I don't completely agree with Alex Tran in the part where she said It’s a great reminder that what happens to you is because of you. which isn't totally true.
3. About the ones that I connect with, I'll keep those to myself.  1. Thanks 2. Some things are truly outside our control 3.  helinues: Me Sha know say Professor Karma no get arms or legs but it's damn real.
Just like boomerang  eazzzy1: Law 13 - Okafor’s law 
The law of here and now resonates with me. A while back I stumbled on Eckhart Tolle’s book ‘the power of now’, I also read his other books ‘stillness speaks’ and ‘a new earth’.
One way to be in the here and now is to pay attention to the mind chattering. Listening to the voice in the head.
Focusing too much on the past brings regret, focusing too much on the future brings anxiety. The present is a gift, the reason it’s called the present. @bold: very true Matheusmartin: . Karma is what the poor and the oppressed use to console themselves. You think so? dreofGod: OP, thanks for the post. But let me just play devil's advocate here in regards to law 5(law of responsibility). Let me use this illustration that many Nigerians can relate with: Let's assume a gallant and brave Nigerian soldier is taken to the battle-field to face the terrorists and he does all a good soldier should but consequently gets battered and deformed. So the question is; is he responsible for his past action(for joining the NA,for obeying his commander,.....)? OP, over to you or you ask Alex Tran Very choice has consequences now or in the future. Also every choice has an opportunity cost. When a man decides to become a soldier, then he must embrace the hazards and perks of the job. Part of the hazards is death or injury at the battlefield. However, there are some people's actions would affect us in ways we have no control. For instance, a trailer loses its brakes and hits the vehicle in front of him; the Medical Director procures fake drugs which kills a patient etc. etc. At this instance, it is outside your circle of control. TheSourcerer: he should take responsibility and own it , he went for battle , either to injure or be injured, shoot or be shot at , kill or be killed , take captives or be captured , its the rules of the book , if this all -good solider gets captured and begin to regret all his previous sucesses , it dosnt seem he was an all round solider to begin with. This answers Dre's question. |
Family › Re: The 12 Laws Of Karma by bukatyne(op): 8:07pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
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Celebrities › Re: Mercy Johnson’s Grown-Up Stepchildren And Husband's Ex-Wife (Photos) by bukatyne(f): 8:05pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
crackhaus: You sef don reason am...  Jokers, all of them  Let's watch and see. descarado: That is eeh  We mimmick Hollywood.
See Angelina Jolie and Brad pit. Match made in heaven. Where are they now? So many of them. Make them kwontinue  It almost seems divorce is a rite of passage for them. descarado: Yep. At home healing. Wish you speedy recovery. |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Johnson’s Grown-Up Stepchildren And Husband's Ex-Wife (Photos) by bukatyne(f): 8:02pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Munzy14: Maybe we can say the husbands were kidnapped.. Adultnapped you mean? |
TV/Movies › Re: Korean Movies Chatroom by bukatyne(f): 7:59pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Ovems: Lol. Some people keep saying that the drama is toxic because of the way the male lead treated the female lead in the beginning. @Bold: Hope not Westerners sha? P.S.: I haven't watched the drama but the West and the concept of romantic relationships are like oil & water. |
TV/Movies › Re: Korean Movies Chatroom by bukatyne(f): 7:58pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
kangminhyuksho: Aigoo now that lost has ended, I just realized I have no currently airing drama on my list. Hmmm do I watch one of these dramas I haven't seen yet or should I just rest for a while? Anyway the next drama on my list starts airing in November so I guess I have at least a week to rest. E ku se  |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Johnson’s Grown-Up Stepchildren And Husband's Ex-Wife (Photos) by bukatyne(f): 7:49pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
Very unserious generation  On one hand, you tell people to do whatever makes them happy and marriage is not 'do or die'. Someone takes that advise literally and you start to whine. |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Johnson’s Grown-Up Stepchildren And Husband's Ex-Wife (Photos) by bukatyne(f): 7:47pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
TheManhattan: No man can be stolen. He leaves because he wants to period. I was wondering if the man na handbag. |
Education › Re: Ibadan Poly Student Gets Award For Being Girlfriend To Departmental President by bukatyne(f): 1:34pm On Oct 26, 2021 |
While I might have problems with the execution, I have no problems with the motive behind it.
If the girl was a support to her boyfriend during his tenure as president to the extent she was recognized, kudos to her.
There is a reason you appreciate/celebrate the spouses of people in top positions.
My CEO celebrates the spouses of very senior management upon resignation or retirement. |
Career › Re: I Was Condemned For Returning ₦100,000 Forgotten By Passenger – Tricyclist by bukatyne(f): 10:21am On Oct 26, 2021 |
goodconsience77: My friend I did the same thing 2005 by returning the money was mistakenly giving to me by my customer. The Money was #130.000 even the woman didn't appreciate what I did 4 her. In 2014 I lost #248.000 nobody return anything back to me so it seems that doing good today doesn't attract reward from any supernatural being. Appreciate as in 'give you out of it' or 'tell you thank you?' |
Career › Re: I Was Condemned For Returning ₦100,000 Forgotten By Passenger – Tricyclist by bukatyne(f): 10:16am On Oct 26, 2021 |
SarkinYarki: Most NIGERIANs are dishonest to the core yet they expect good governance  This  |
Celebrities › Re: Energy Bank: My Brother Kelvin Left His Marriage Since 2018 Before Meeting Maria by bukatyne(f): 9:21am On Oct 26, 2021 |
suffering: His ex-wife is greedy as Bleep then. She’s a Nigerian woman so I’m not surprised. So the man shouldn’t have a life of his and date other women while taking care of their kids? C’mon. This is why dating a Nigerian woman is the biggest waste of time. If the children are taken care of financially the man should do whatever crosses his mind. Did you type this with a straight face? If a man wants to only be a financial sperm donor, why can't he just be a baby daddy? Why does he want to enjoy the benefits of marriage without the responsibilities? |
Health › Re: Please Help My Palm Is Strong, It Makes Me Feel Shy When Shaking Hands by bukatyne(f): 9:17pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Idamond: Happy New week Nairalanders!!
don't mind my grammar
... please what cream or chemical should I use to soften my hands? Apply cream to your hands while wet and massage it. Also apply whipped shea butter aka ori properly mixed daily. It would soften your hands irrespective of the kind of work you do. Goodluck. |
Family › Re: Not Everyone You See Is Happily Married... by bukatyne(f): 9:13pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Truvelisback: I am not in anyway discouraging anyone from getting married. What i am driving at is that marriages of our time is now more complicating than marriages of the past. Peeps would tell you that marriages of the past were worse off. Truvelisback: If u no mali self, na anoda wahala. People go still talk. Although, living alone is neither good also. Bros, drink chilled water, netflix or liveflix, chill, sleep and wake up tomorrow. Your head is thinking too much right now. |
Family › Re: Not Everyone You See Is Happily Married... by bukatyne(f): 9:10pm On Oct 25, 2021*. Modified: 9:34pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
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Family › Re: Not Everyone You See Is Happily Married... by bukatyne(f): 9:08pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Munzy14: On what scale or say yardstick are you focusing this your argument?
Instead of bringing Ideas on how couples can bring their A games to ensure smooth running of the marital union, you guys keep adding salt to injury by poisoning people's mindset in regards to marriage institution.
With the way you guys talk negative about marriage these days, It may go into extinction before the next century o.. 
One thing is for sure, you must be open and free minded to enjoy a relationship/marriage.
If you hide things or play cunning, hehehe peace will be far away...na so so lamentations. @bold: I wish  The rate divorced people re-marry should tell you that it would be around for a looooong time. It might just become a caricature of the real thing. |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by bukatyne(f): 9:00pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
tarboshi: Getting marriage instructions from movies?
You are funny Can you get marriage instructions from books? |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by bukatyne(f): 8:51pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: Love, the brain-chemical induced feeling, fades over time but love, the desire, we can hold on to for as long as we want to.  @bold: What I was referring to. |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by bukatyne(f): 8:50pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
truthsayer009: Okay but you are not being realistic sorry, let's just agree to disagree.
I have to be in a very high level of selective ignorance for me to admit that I love my family the same way I love my friends. I mean I can die for my family, but i can never die for any of my friends talk less of nonsense neighbors. The last line of my post says: The passage I quoted applies to my family, neighbors, friends etc. within the scope of my relationship/role with them. |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by bukatyne(f): 8:46pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
LordReed: Yeah you escape because you meet a condition. I have edited my post. |
Family › Re: Marriage Is Not About Unconditional Love by bukatyne(f): 8:45pm On Oct 25, 2021 |
Iyaebe: It fades my dear,people in an abusive marriage will tell better  |