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Family › Re: What Really Happened To Our Girls/ Future Wives by bukatyne(f): 9:28am On Jan 13, 2021
Liposure:
It's like a symbiotic relationship
cheesy cheesy cheesy grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy grin
Family › Re: What Really Happened To Our Girls/ Future Wives by bukatyne(f): 9:27am On Jan 13, 2021
ebuka10box:
bro Nigeria is not top of the list ,Russians, Americans and co are into scam and all that. scam is very bad no doubt but where the money for scam dey finish on = girls . My ex left me for a G cos he has money and all that ,so these ladies prefer a scammer than a honest being.
By your theory, it is ok to scam because the money is spent on girls.

Then, you should be grateful for prostitutes; or who else would spend your money after scamming?
Family › Re: Hauwa, Adam Nuru's Wife Packs Out Of Husband's House, May Seek Divorce by bukatyne(f): 7:43pm On Jan 12, 2021
JovialJune:
And yet moyo's husband was the only one people acknowledged as the sole victim, while the stupid cheat's wife is among the living and will live with the stigma for a very long time, sad.
Because the focus was on Moyo's marriage.

Now the spotlight is on the MD's marriage, I can with full chest say how irresponsible, unfaithful and useless he is.

And I keep Madam Moyo out of his case.

I don't know why his wife is divorcing him though. The case happened about four years ago.

If she did not leave then, why now?

Is it because he has fallen from grace? undecided
Celebrities › Re: Seun Kuti Counters ‘Stingy Men’ With ‘Cheerful Givers Association” (Photos) by bukatyne(f): 5:54pm On Jan 12, 2021
Queenslander:
This so called cheerful givers association doesn't have a Motto yet? undecided undecided
Because African Women are worth it.
Celebrities › Re: Seun Kuti Counters ‘Stingy Men’ With ‘Cheerful Givers Association” (Photos) by bukatyne(f): 5:51pm On Jan 12, 2021
Cratols:
Let me see what I can doangry angry
All the men in your family can't pin point a benefit they derived from the women in your family?

O ma se o!
Family › Re: Why Aren't Today's Marriages Lasting Like Those Of Our Parents And Forefathers? by bukatyne(f):
patani:
I do not think men having extra marital affair is a new thng...Our fathers were more promiscuous. That I can say for sure...Women only knew it was norm in those days and they never take action by divorcing thier husbands..Todays women will not blink before calling you out


I think the whole issue boils down to unnecessary expectation and fake life...Those things are now more values than real essence of marriage...Women are more empowered good thing for women folks but bad for society building (Thats just the fact)
@Bold:

Not true.

Some men want to continue enjoying the privilege to misbehave because they are the 'head'/provider.

Any society that is 'succeeding' because of the oppression of a gender would not last long.
Romance › Re: Worst Thing That Can Happen To A Man's Ego? by bukatyne(f): 3:34pm On Jan 12, 2021
Nazgul:
Respect they say is reciprocal. When you respect yourself, no one will insult you, no one will bruise your ego.

The truth is many people don't really understand this public proposal and why it's done. Many guys that engage in it aren't really dating the girl. They're just one of her admirers who she gives attention to. So they try to put her into a very tight corner (blackmail) by proposing publicly so that she would have no choice than to marry them.

I never really knew this until one of my silly friends tried it with a girl he met in a wedding he attended. She's very pretty, in less than two weeks of their getting to know each other he invited her to an eatery and proposed. The crazy thing was that this guy didn't even tell we his friends what he had in mind. We were just eating and gisting, suddenly he just brought out ring went on one knee and was even begging her to marry him.

The girl just hissed and walked away. I felt like slapping him.

If you're dating a girl, I mean real dating not stalking, and both of you are matured enough to get married, she will be the one indirectly asking you questions pertaining to settling down, some will even ask you boldly so thay can know where they stand with you. And if you finally propose after months and years of keeping her in the dark, you'll get a loud yes, a hug and a mind blowing sex.
Hmmmmmmmm.

I have always wondered about rejected public proposals.
Romance › Re: "Stingy Women Association Of Nigeria" Launched To Counter The Men's Version by bukatyne(f): 1:57pm On Jan 12, 2021
Jamesz12:
We move
Na lavish boys and girls associations we dey.
Romance › Re: "Stingy Women Association Of Nigeria" Launched To Counter The Men's Version by bukatyne(f): 1:55pm On Jan 12, 2021
Rushna27:
their motto is very downgrading and irritating, it's a clear fact dat women thinks it's only sex dey can offer the opposite sex. wasted effort.....
cheesy grin
Romance › Re: "Stingy Women Association Of Nigeria" Launched To Counter The Men's Version by bukatyne(f): 1:52pm On Jan 12, 2021
DONFASZY:
Read
Coming from Solomon Buchi, interesting.
Romance › Re: "Stingy Women Association Of Nigeria" Launched To Counter The Men's Version by bukatyne(f): 1:44pm On Jan 12, 2021
jmoore:
Stingy men started with no giving of money.

The women started theirs with no sex.

This further proves most women in Nigeria have nothing to offer apart from sex. Which also proves most relationships in Nigeria are nothing but prostitution.

If the only reason you are saying no to sex is because of no payment, then you are a prostitute.
cheesy
Romance › Re: "Stingy Women Association Of Nigeria" Launched To Counter The Men's Version by bukatyne(f): 1:42pm On Jan 12, 2021
robosky02:
Stingy women association plotting how to deal with men
cheesy

Same picture SMAN use as a faithful member.

On a serious note, it tells you a narrative is based on the agenda of the narrator.
Romance › Re: "Stingy Women Association Of Nigeria" Launched To Counter The Men's Version by bukatyne(f): 1:41pm On Jan 12, 2021
Ryan03:
I don apply for referee position o, I must watch the match reach ending
Let me join you on jare cheesy

So according to the associations,

The resource men have is money;
The resource women have is sex.

Toor.
Celebrities › Re: Nollywood Actor, David Mela Is Dead by bukatyne(f): 1:38pm On Jan 12, 2021
The amount of people who have died this January embarassed

God console his family and all he left behind.
Romance › Re: Stingy Men Association Of Nigeria Funniest Pictures So Far by bukatyne(f): 1:37pm On Jan 12, 2021
cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin cheesy grin

If only enrollment for stuffs in Nigeria can be this fast. cheesy
Family › Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 12:13pm On Jan 12, 2021
Liposure:
freedom is an illusion because there are consequences. You have a choice
True.
Family › Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 12:12pm On Jan 12, 2021
Family › Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 11:27am On Jan 12, 2021
mariahAngel:
1. Stressful will be a better word! I mean....

2. You mean people deal with all these sh!ts in marriage? Then dang!
3. Imagine having to give your body even when you don't feel like it because you're "obligated" to...
4. Having to think all day about what the other person might be up to....
5. Answerable to another person...
6. Playing and manipulating each other...

7. Marriage is where people willingly give up their freedom in total.
1. Marriage is what you both make of it

2. People deal with all sorts in life.

3. Well, we go to work when we don't feel like, people who are sick eat what they don't feel like, students study when they don't feel like, parents care for their kids when they don't feel like. For sex though, if you don't feel like for a period of time, check yourself. And as a Christian, one of the major reasons of marriage is to curb adultery. It wouldn't not make sense if sex is not happening. And if you love your spouse, you would desire them and not see it as a chore.

4. Why?

5. Is there anyone not answerable or accountable to anyone in this life?

6. Why?

7. Marriage is a subset of life. Freedom in life is an illusion. I feel like binging on Netflix right now however, I am stuck in a meeting and have another in a few hours. A parent might feel like going a cruise however pay for their Ward's fees. A CEO might feel like sleeping however attend ten meetings back to back.
Family › Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 9:57am On Jan 12, 2021
bizme:
Marriage is truly complicated.
Complicated?

More like intentional.

And people have to know their spouses.

Some men truly do not like sexually adventurous wives; they would seek adventure from lovers.

Some women hold their husbands to ransome because they know he won't cheat.

Some men/women are frigid, some believe sex is for only pro-creation; some have had sex with so many partners pre-marriage that they have seen it finish; some no longer see the need to campaign after election; some do not see the importance of sex in marriage; some do not want to be seen as 'wayward' and maintain a certain image, some think sex is to be enjoyed at youth and marriage is for 'serious' business, some married the most convenient person and have become disgusted by their spouses, some deny their spouses in abuse etc.

Interestingly, the person too busy/ tired/ cold at home might be giving it hot to someone else outside.

The person who feels 'I can't kill myself' would suddenly be more willing when the partner is the sole provider/ has the upper hand in the relationship.

Trust me, everyone knows what they are doing.

Can they get away with it?
Foreign Affairs › Re: Ivanka Trump Plans To Attend Biden's Inauguration Against Her Father's Wishes by bukatyne(f): 9:02am On Jan 12, 2021
Family loyalty versus personal ambition.

On a side note:
Are Americans lacking or in dire need of godly leaders that the mention of Jesus makes them see Trump as a Messiah?

Everytime I see Trump sold or seen as a Christian/godly leader, I wander (in Ghana).
Foreign Affairs › Re: Germany's Merkel: Trump's Twitter Eviction 'problematic' by bukatyne(f): 9:47pm On Jan 11, 2021
JoeEeL:
Even on YouTube. I don't know what I must have said or when and how.

During the #EndSARS protest, I remember making comments about the Nigerian government and how they are aides-and-abettors to terrorism in this useless country.

On some other channels, I remember commenting that Britain were hypocrites that would be doing nonsense censoring and panel setups when they fully know that the lumping of Northern and Southern protectorates -- a crime against humanity -- just for their selfish benefits, purposely handed the Fulani Jihadists the necessary leeway which has led to serious laying of waste to vast swathes of lands and genocide across the Middle Belt, particularly Jos, and its environs.


On some other channels, I educated some of the commenters on what Fulani herdsmen / terrorism truly is. How they were part and parcel of an ethic militia called Janjawid, responsible for the Darfur war, a genocide actually, that claimed the lives of about 400,000 Sudanese. And how many of these monsters form a part of the Nigerian Army.

I never called anyone a fool, I never insulted any commenter to the best of my memory.

One day I woke up and my Youtube account was gone. Gone completely. I got that seriously annoying silly message on my computer : "You cannot access a Google product".

Ever since I have been careful on Youtube with my 2nd account. I can't say my mind again. If Boko Haram or Fulani herdsmen kill people in Oke Ogun or Saki in Oyo, or slice their ears off, I cannot say FEM on Youtube o. They wouldn't even let me know the particular comment it is that made one's account to be flagged.

I'm not a Trump fan; never was. But mehn, the overzealous political correctness by the West as we're witnessing today is becoming sickening!
@bold:

And would be their downfall if not checked.
Family › Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 9:41pm On Jan 11, 2021
angelfallz:
Not for me. helping with house chores would be at my own discretion or a chore i choose to do myself
Goodluck.

I put best case scenario for all parties.

They can be outsourced with you paying if you are alapa ma sise aka alapa stainless or have 50 shoulder pads in your coat.
Family › Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 9:34pm On Jan 11, 2021
angelfallz:
Lol, you people always want men to help with chores.
There are only 24hrs in a day with a lot of things to do.

While a wife is in charge of housekeeping, all hands must be on deck to do the chores.
Family › Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 9:32pm On Jan 11, 2021
crackhaus:
HNY to you too Buka... cool

Trust you've been well
I have, thanks and at your end?
Family › Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Only Son by bukatyne(f): 9:32pm On Jan 11, 2021
CheedyJ:
Werey full this thread sha.. lol
Seriously grin grin grin
Family › Re: I Am Beginning To Hate My Only Son by bukatyne(f): 9:32pm On Jan 11, 2021
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked




This must be very sexually frustrating.
It happened to me too so I relate perfectly to how you feel.
My son will always creep up beside his mother just when I am about marking our attendance register.

This kept on for a while so we deviced a trick...we'd go into the bathroom and do it there while the little fella cried away at the locked door banging on it with all his might.
(His noise helped a lot because his mom was a hell of a screamer.)

Out of fear of being reported for child neglect due to his constant loud cries, we deviced another trick.
We began dropping him inside our giant washing machine's carton.
I'd pack candies, toys and other likely distractions inside the carton and just drop him there.

Dude wasn't still distracted, he'd play for barely 2minutes and start screaming like he was abducted.

We learnt another new trick.

We decided to only copulate at 3am when he'd be fast asleep. The first time we tried it...this dude wet the bed just when the reverse cowgirl was getting into gear.
The second time, I was just about to put the key into the ignition when he began screaming like he just fought with the antichrist in his dream.
The third time, Newton's second law of motion was already in progress when he reached out his hand and dragged my schlong with all his energy.

That was when I knew this was more than just bad-timing...it was definitely spiritual.
So I cut some of his lock and took it to one native doctor who confirmed that he was the reincarnate of his mother's over-protective dead lover who died on his way to pay her brideprice.

That was the day I decided not to be bothered.
I'd shag whether or not the toddler was there...that was my way of claiming territory and telling that jealous spiritman that a new person was in charge of the kpekus.

That must have humiliated him because since then, before I even pull his mother's pant, e don run go parlour.
Hahahahahaha

As in, this was a huge comic relief!

Chai!
Family › Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 9:25pm On Jan 11, 2021
angelfallz:
what do you mean by the husband providing a lot of help?
Domestic help.
Family › Re: Man Accused Of Molesting His 9months Old Son Reacts (photos) by bukatyne(f): 9:11pm On Jan 11, 2021
You told your wife you want to carry out DNA test?

Oga, your village people started working that day.

What's with humans and showing their ammunition/ fore warning their enemies though?

While cute in movies, it is foolishness in real life.
Family › Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 9:04pm On Jan 11, 2021
@OP:

Plenty reasons jare.

A win situation for the husband is polygamy or open adultery;

A win situation for the wife is a husband who adores her and provides a lot of help;

A win situation for both is a wife respecting a husband who adores her and provides a lot of help. smiley
Family › Re: Why Do Women Lose Interest In Sex After Marriage? by bukatyne(f): 9:01pm On Jan 11, 2021
crackhaus:
You most definitely missed me. grin

But trust me, I ain't him.

I would never have conversations with some of the ladies on NL he has had conversations with, that should be enough to clue you in. cheesy
Happy new year crackhaus, you have been scarce.
Family › Re: I Just Noticed Something About Nigerian Men's Preferences by bukatyne(f):
OvaSabi1:
Can you provide more details please.
If you watch African Magic, observe the characteristics of the Queen/ Queen mother & the princess/ young Queen.

While not all men want/need a multiple wives, they want women who can oscillate between a queen and a princess as needed.

You must know when to be 'mother-in-charge' and when to be 'baby gel' to your husband.

Problem starts when a woman is stuck in one phase.

P.S.: it is not a Nigerian man's trait; it is general.
Family › Re: Hurray..Nairaland Baby is 2!! by bukatyne(f): 7:49pm On Jan 11, 2021
Happy birthday baby girl

You are so lovely kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss

God's blessings and protection upon you and family.

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