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Family › Re: Man Tries To Eject Wife From Her Own House For Rejecting To Live With Co-Wife by bukatyne(f): 1:01pm On Jan 18, 2021
Jasmine360:
Northern women are in bondage because of religion.
Was the man practicing the tenets of Islam in polygamy?

Didn't you see that the court jailed the man for a while?
Family › Re: Man Tries To Eject Wife From Her Own House For Rejecting To Live With Co-Wife by bukatyne(f): 12:59pm On Jan 18, 2021
Wittyduchess:
So a Nigerian woman is housing a Nigerian man ,wow! I am shocked.


We were made to understand that Nigerian men are the bread winners and heads of the house and can never be spoon fed by a woman. Seems this one's "manliness" died with his ancestors . lipsrsealed. Abuja fine boys come and carry your mentor grin grin
@Bold:

cheesy grin

This man has graduated from mentor to mentol.

Bobo ta lenu!
Family › Re: Man Tries To Eject Wife From Her Own House For Rejecting To Live With Co-Wife by bukatyne(f): 12:58pm On Jan 18, 2021
generationz:
It's in situations like this we need feminists not on whether we should say Amen or Apeople
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

What is feminism supposed to do in this case?
Romance › Re: Pregnant Nigerian Lady Marries Old Man After Man Who Got Her Pregnant Absconded by bukatyne(f): 10:23am On Jan 18, 2021
This is my problem with woke people.

Instead of you to understand the reason behind a custom, weight the merits/demerits, fine-tune if required or shelf:

You will just jump like omni-knoweth and yarn dust.


Not everyone wants to give birth to a bastard and would take a cultural life line to have their kids raised under the social protection and advantages of a family.

The solutions to the practice are simple:

1. Abstain (never fails)
2. If you can't abstain, use protection
3 if you can't do 1 and guarantee two, sleep with a responsible man.

Babe in the picture is old enough to make her choices.
Family › Re: Transactional Vs. Validational Sex by bukatyne(op): 8:07am On Jan 18, 2021
Good morning Hassanmaye,

Happy thread resurrection grin
Family › Re: Nigerian Married Women Are The Higher Cheater In The World. by bukatyne(f): 8:28pm On Jan 17, 2021
golddust6000:
Do you agree?

'Tik Tok user claims Nigerian married women are the highest cheaters in the world at 62%.'

A Tiktok video has gone viral after a user listed eight countries and named Nigerian married women as the highest cheaters in the world.

In the video, the man mentions eight different countries with the highest rate of women cheating on their husbands.

According to the man, the number of women cheating in the United States is14%, 16% for France, 19% for Singapore, 33% for Russia, 39% for Malaysia, 42 for UK, 59 % for Thailand and Nigeria at 62% is the highest.
This video cracked me up when I saw it somewhere else.

This would let everyone rest:

By stats (Fake or real), Nigerian men and women are the most promiscuous in the world.

Neither the men nor the women have the moral right to call the other gender olosho nor dogs.

Una fit una selves.
Family › Re: I Don't Envy Married Men! by bukatyne(f): 8:21pm On Jan 17, 2021
deltateam:
Seriously many men are suffering in silence and won't speak out least they be considered weak.

How does a man cope with a woman who's always travelling for work reasons and sometimes as the husband you don't always know where your wife is.

How do you cope when you marry a woman whose first word to you when coming back is: Where did you go?

How do you cope with a woman who believes her money is hers alone and yours belongs to both of you.

Abi how do you cope with a woman whose mouth runs like tap.

Is a woman who you have to beg for sex?

Some women too, also suffer neglect, deceit, battery etc

NB: This does not discourage marriage in anyway though.
Any husband having these issues should sort it out with his wife.
Family › Re: Woman Has N3.6m In Her Account But Her Son Dies Because Of Hospital Bill (Video) by bukatyne(f): 3:39pm On Jan 17, 2021
This must be fiction.

Nobody can be this insane cry
Family › Re: What Are We Doing Wrong? by bukatyne(f): 1:08pm On Jan 17, 2021
Oluromantic:
Yes. They're included. Everyone claims to be eye-opened. No value for culture and moral ethics again.

BTW, which one happened in igando
Question is: what did NOT happen at Igando? cheesy

Just do search on NL and see all sort of cases comes up.
Family › Re: What Are We Doing Wrong? by bukatyne(f): 12:59pm On Jan 17, 2021
Oluromantic:
It's about all the factors of civilization you can think about

I used to think divorce happens among the educated but even illiterates too divorce.
With all those Igando, Mapo and Ibadan cases? shocked shocked shocked shocked
Christianity Etc › Re: Should A Born Again Christian Look Sexy in Public? by bukatyne(f): 12:25pm On Jan 17, 2021
Sircarma99:
I don't think there is a BORN AGAIN CHRISTIAN the right word is either Born Again or A Christian.
When we have progressed to genuinely born again cheesy grin
Christianity Etc › Re: Should A Born Again Christian Look Sexy in Public? by bukatyne(f): 12:24pm On Jan 17, 2021
I would say depends on the context as sexy is a very abused word today.

I would say any cloth that exposes your private parts, the contours of your body, or in a seductive manner.

For instance, I find turtlenecks or modern atiku natives on my husband sexy and sexually appealing.

I would say he looks sexy, however he is not indecent.
Christianity Etc › Re: Should A Born Again Christian Look Sexy in Public? by bukatyne(f): 12:16pm On Jan 17, 2021
Adakintroy:
There is a kind of wisdom Paul talk about.


That is if my actions will lead others to sin. I rather refrain.

Being sexy is not about you. It's about what it likely to stair up in others.

But many christains lack the the spirit of God. Hence we talking about it like it's a rational pursuit.

Ask God. Take more of me and give me more of you.
This is one of the issues of modern Christianity.

We think only of ourselves.
Family › Re: My Wife Gave Me The Shock Of My Life. Help! by bukatyne(f): 11:58pm On Jan 16, 2021
obawinner:
Remind me of a medical student who lost his life because he refused to drop his Samsung 6.

If he had drop his phone, he would have lived to buy another phone.
How do people love material stuff over their lives? undecided
Celebrities › Re: Onyeka Onwenu: Why I Rejected Fela’s Marriage Proposal by bukatyne(f): 7:57pm On Jan 16, 2021
Hezmatosky:
Old cargo lipsrsealed Tell us of sunny ade sad
I hope you are the oldest in your family. undecided
Family › Re: Wife Can't Tell Who Impregnated Her Between Her Husband & Her Father-In-Law by bukatyne(f): 5:02pm On Jan 16, 2021
ashacot:
undecidedWonder they say will never end. A lady has taken to courage to tell a marriage counselor about how confused she is about about the father of her unborn child. According to her, she has been sleeping with her husband father hence she can't truly tell if her child belongs to her husband or his father.

Watch video

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CU1MdhMxTu4
Well, she kept it in the family.
Family › Re: why do northern Nigeria practice child marriage? by bukatyne(f): 5:00pm On Jan 16, 2021
Mindlog:
Schooling makes females mentally immature? shocked

Wow, wow, wow! shocked shocked

Please do list signs of mental immaturity that schooling encourages in females.
The current social/educational makes children mature later.

The new saying now is '30 is the new 18'.

People matured faster in older generations. No formal education for years, rituals for adulthood at early/late teens and low life expectancy.
Family › Re: Hauwa, Adam Nuru Wife Is Not Planning To Divorce Him, Stands With Her Husband by bukatyne(f): 9:42am On Jan 16, 2021
I also wondered why the wife opted to leave now.

When the incidence happened would have made sense to me.

Not your years after.

@peeps shouting money:

The wife is probably late fifties or sixties. She might not see the need to divorce him.

According to rumours, she is also from a very wealthy family.
Romance › Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by bukatyne(f): 10:20pm On Jan 15, 2021
BRASH:
How will you know if he is a good converationalist when you keep giving monosyllable responses to his questions and can't say anything if he doesn't ask you a question, making the whole thing look like an interview?
This kind of attitude to conversation puts me off.
It means the girl has nothing upstairs to contribute other, hair, nail, chicken, icecream, sharwama and clubbing
Are these questions to me or the OP?

The OP asked a question, I gave my opinion.

You can take it up with him.

And if you pick a girl that has nothing upstairs to contribute than hair, nail, chicken, icecream, sharwama and clubbing, it is on you. undecided
Romance › Re: Ladies, What Makes A Guy Boring? by bukatyne(f): 10:09pm On Jan 15, 2021
When he is not a good conversationalist, open-minded, imaginative and willing to learn.
Politics › Re: Deaconess Emerald Udeakaji Resigns As Governor Umahi’s Aide ‘To Save Marriage’ by bukatyne(f): 10:02pm On Jan 15, 2021
Funniest resignation I had seen/read.

Goodluck to her.
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh's Advice To Ladies About Sex by bukatyne(f): 6:48pm On Jan 15, 2021
demmymoney:
Wats sense in her post
Read it again.
Celebrities › Re: Tonto Dikeh's Advice To Ladies About Sex by bukatyne(f): 6:37pm On Jan 15, 2021
obembet:
I will prefer advice from Nike adeyemi, Funke adejumo or Faith Oyedepo than this one that can not stay with her husband.
What she said makes sense na.

Divorce the art from the artist.
Sports › Re: Wayne Rooney Announces Retirement by bukatyne(f): 6:35pm On Jan 15, 2021
In my next life, I must be a footballer:

Retire at 36 or max 40 and join chop life gang permanently. grin

Throw in writing, lecturing and consulting. kiss
Family › Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by bukatyne(f): 6:09pm On Jan 15, 2021
JESHAL:
That's why statistics and facts shows
Progressive women are more likely to divorce than conservative women

Leave our conservative women in Nigeria alone,we don't you to destroy families and seperate wives from their husband and children via westernized femcentric biased family court legal system found in USA and Europe
undecided
Family › Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by bukatyne(f): 6:06pm On Jan 15, 2021
DEMZEE:
How can u submit to ur husband and still see him as ur equalhuh

Can u submit to ur boss at work and see him as ur equal??
Do you remember the quote above?


You said submission makes me 'unequal' to my husband. That is where the discussion deviated.

DEMZEE:
Submission isn't inferior or superior

Submission is a quality that a woman must possess to have a successful marriage if u like dont submit. Wen u divorce and end up miserable with dogs as children wetin b my own
If submission is no longer inferior or superior, then we can end the discussion.l and I have done the Lord's work tonight.

I would not dignify your second paragraph with a response.

P.S.: go and learn how to be a Christian husband who is a servant-leader and filled with love.

You need it.

Start from 1 For 13: 1 - 8
Family › Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by bukatyne(f): 6:01pm On Jan 15, 2021
JESHAL:
You can't use emotive reasoning to bait me,oh ye Feminist, we don't hate women,but we don't respect Feminist,and they have given us reason not to respect them
Emotive reasoning?

Go through our discussion and tell me who is using 'emotive reasoning'.

It is easy to sieve out real Christian husbands from charlatans.
Family › Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by bukatyne(f): 5:59pm On Jan 15, 2021
DEMZEE:
It's very different because u are submitting to ur MAKER and not a mere man

U can't compare the two

Please b intelligent abeg
Let me agree with your week parlor talk:

Submitting to my maker does not make me inferior; submitting to a man (made by a maker) makes me inferiorhuh?

Besides, when did 'submit one to another' mean submission to my maker?

Abi am I a co-maker?
Family › Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by bukatyne(f): 5:57pm On Jan 15, 2021
DEMZEE:
Do u submit equally at ur place of work to ur boss and does he submit equally to u

Now who has the beer parlor analysishuh
Dude did you not quote Ephesians 5:21 take talks of people submitting one to another?

How then does submission make you inferior or 'unequal'?

FYI: for me to submit to my boss means we have an intimate working relationship.
Family › Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by bukatyne(f): 5:53pm On Jan 15, 2021
JESHAL:
That's why you people divorce over there and promote single mothers , and you want to come here and instil Feminism to bastardize our women's mindset so they can be miserable like women overseas
Not surprised.

Small pointing out your error and the discussion has gone over your head.

Go back to those Nigerian girls you can tell Jesus hated women and they would have a fit because they don't know who Jesus was.
Family › Re: "You Can't Be A Feminist And A Christian" - Reno Omokri by bukatyne(f): 5:50pm On Jan 15, 2021
DEMZEE:
18
ESV:And do not get drunk with wine, for that is debauchery, but be filled with the Spirit,
19
ESV:addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart,
20
ESV:giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ,
21
ESV:submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ.

Verse 21 is talking about people in a gathering not marriage

Which kind of twisted narrative are u churning uhnhuh
Verse 21 is talking about people in a gathering or church:

Ok.

So the submission expected from church gathering is different from submission expected from wives?

If no, then church members would be all 'unequal' to one another because they are expected to submit to themselves.

You see your beer parlor analysis?

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