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Angelacruz:
No

WILLuKPquiet:
Will u keep quiet!

The same irresponsibility that is worrying the guy is what is worrying you.
Why do the whites go with a box of chocolate, bottle of wine or even a bunch of flowers.

You went to greet your in-laws empty handed and yet you were offered Coke and you drank it.
If I were him I would not drink that Coke. So, it would be a goalless draw.

Guys like you be calling the woman and her daughter poor. And what if they are poor? Is it a crime to be poor?
Didn't the guy see them as poor before dating the lady?
Must the poor woman use her last 100naira to entertain an irresponsible guy and he still shamelessly drank it and stood up to say goodbye ma.

Guy don't jump on my mention next time.

bjprodint:
valentines day is a day couples have excuse 2 give birth to november babies.Wow!,november babies are valentines gifts men give 2 their lovers. anyway i see valentines day as a normal day,it is not even a public holiday. i have never given or received a valentine gift in my life.

Kriss216:
A country with Buhari as a president shouldn't be celebrating anything.

Acidosis:
The right thing to do was to reject her food/drink. The young man is greedy and a glutton!

Omo, how can you visit your mother in law for the first time without a gift, and sit down to eat her food and drink?

Let's be honest pls, the young man is greedy and shameless.

Olunmercy56:
Yes especially to our loved ones, even if it's token

Kriss216:
I thought we agreed to postpone this year's Valentine

The5DME:
No! Go get a job.

Mariangeles:
It was lack of understanding. But would you go to your in-laws empty handed?

It's awkward just thinking about it...

KosiGee:
It’s best to marry a white woman. If you visit your potential mother in law with gifts when it’s not her birthday, Christmas or wedding anniversary, you’ll look so awkward.

Our culture is drowning in corruption and bribery.

Shokoloko:
This is not true. This exact same thing happened to me. The guy's mum right there told me that it was wrong to come and see her without a gift (no matter how small). I had to go out, ask the guy for a little cash and go give his mum.

LosC:
The 45th President of the United States of America, Donald Trump through his official twitter account, announced that he'll not attend the Inauguration ceremony of President-elect Joe Biden.



https://twitter.com/realDonaldTrump/status/1347569870578266115?s=19[/quote]And?

JovialJune:
Which one is master again, character dey this place sha

TransAtlanticEX why is this one calling you master? Wetin happen abeg?

STINOS:
It can only be God.



EDD:19th January.
DOB: 7th January.


To God be the glory great thing He has done.

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]Jokes aside, virgin men are awesome. It's just... soo cool knowing a guy hasn't been around with everything under a skirt.

That feeling or thought of exclusivity alone is almost enough to induce an orgasm.

PS: This does not apply to incels, plix.[/color]

Biglittlelois:
I cringed when I saw the bolded, is it that your fiance can't eat in your parent's house? Cos I don't understand what you mean by her drink, una nor dey entertain visitors? Smh!!!

RisenPhoenix1:
It's an extension of female materialism. They know that one day, the husband will be old and unproductive, so they groom their sons to be their future providers when that happens.

A woman will never support her mother financially in old age. She may certainly bring gifts once in a while, and visit to gist about their respective 'useless' husbands, but that is where the amity stops. No daughter will consider putting her parents on a monthly allowance until their demise; like a responsible son would. For women, bizness is bizness; mother or no mother.

DEMZEE:
Why will the woman b contributing equally to the marriage especially financially

I m a traditional man and I love my woman to b traditional

Mariangeles:
Ngwanu...

ethicallyright:
I've known these for quite a while. I can't even marry a lady in my age bracket. There's time for everything and for me , time to marry is at least 14 years from now if things do not go as planned. If things go as planned maybe two or three years earlier not more.
I pity my friends who think otherwise.

I want an age gap of at least a decade between me and my wife. I know you dropped out of school and I must commend your decision as a very timely one.
I got admitted into a Prestigious Law Faculty in a competitive Federal University at 16. Just a semester left for me before Law school. I couldn't take the dropout path even though I found it necessary in my third year. That was me living my father's dream (He's a senior and respected lawyer and would love to attend my call to bar ceremony for bragging rights).
I've started a massive Internet project before but failed woefully after investing a lot. I learnt from my mistakes and started working hard and saving for a comeback.
I made a little above 1 million naira last year despite the pandemic. It was my highest earning year through my online trade. It was neither forex nor cryptocurrency- I don't follow the multitude.

I realized the confidence that comes with a million naira in your account. There was a girl , my mate , I loved. She was definitely my first love. When I saw I was making more money last year than I ever did , I ordered her gifts just to make her happy and spent on her birthday.

I went back home after her birthday and imagined how stupid I was even contemplating about marrying her in future despite my business/investment plans. That's how it ended. I never spoke to her again. I rejected her calls and told her through SMS to figure out her life.

DEMZEE:
1. That's why a man needs to marry a lady whose financial contributions to the family is insignificant to the man's financial contributions.

The woman's primary role in marriage is to b d home carer and a home keeper shekina anything else is secondary

Kaimaonyeana:
So annoying, very selfish lots.

Silentgroper:
Are u kidding? 5%! if those 3 only makes up 5% of d domestics, then d domestics shouldnt be classified as a work.
just weeding nd grooming flowers is a hell of stressful chores which should mke up 70% of d domestics. Talk-less of health dangers i could encounter while doing dem.
imagine if poison ivy are amongst d weeds, she would be there saying sorry while my body itches alongside ulcers, blister nd bruises.
You girls are just lazy.