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That's why it's good to be good and impactful.

Who would know that prostitutes would beg a Governor to lift curfew for Okada riders.

After the curfew is lifted, the Okada riders would be grateful to the prostitutes and have more collaboration.

Congratulations to Charlie Boy and Lady D.

Biko invite us for the party

Great Men and woman who have touched their generation..

obiekunie2:
there was a topic i saw this morning on NL on how a lady who works at some kind of registry said that 99.9% of women dont use their husbands as next of kin but 90% of men use their wife as next of kin!

then something hit me! i use my wife as next of kin in my banking and financial activities which involves quite some large amount - who does she use in hers?

i decided to ask her!

oboy! the answer shock me!

her reasons even shock me more!




GO FIND OUT WHO YOUR WIFE IS USING FOR NEXT OF KIN - BRO! THE ANSWER WILL SHOCK YOU!

AND I WILL BET YOU THAT IT WILL NEVER EVER BE YOU!

Oga nor vex.

Sometimes, people do things as robots or 'that's how it has been' without thinking of their unique circumstances.

The reasons for the OP:

1. When men really love, they love deeper than women;

2. The belief that husbands die before wives;

3. The belief that the NOK is the benefiary hence the properties should not fall into the hands of the husband's family;

4. As a form of protection for the kids;

5. The wife's individual reason;

6. For wives who use siblings or parents, not updating the NOK officially;

7. Men are natural provides which ties into point 3. So they make their wives NOK as another means of provision and protection.

TooMuchStuff:
serious O!
Love na scam. Real men wey sabi no dey dull.

No woman truly loves the stranger forced on her by the societal norm as husband other than for procreation.

Women can only love/trust their DNA carrier.
As husband you have 0% of your wife DNA.
The children have 50% while her siblings have 100%

Think about it....!

@bold:

Are you suggesting that women would love their siblings more than their kids?

Oga, go and re-do your analysis.

Curious345:
Baby was delivered by a surrogate mother.
Sinach only provided her EGGS for the process

AND?

Octopusssy:
I thought I was the only one who noticed this. Like seriously, how can you keep bringing kids into this world when you can't even take care of yourself? The world is a tough place for able bodied people, how much less a disabled person? Do we now blame ignorance and poverty for this kind of irresponsibility?

Yes, we are all sympathetic to Ayuba and his excruciatingly hopeless circumstances, but let us also lay some of the blame on his table.

This picture invokes images of doom and gloom.

It is pathetic.

I would not be surprised if he has another kid next year.

Very funny and educative video.

A lot of people were not taught these things and jumping from partner to partner before marriage does not help matters.

You are now thinking: 'would Amaka have done that? Would Tunji react that way etc.'?

@mariahAngel: this is where love as a commitment and not a feeling coming to play.

Another episode when the wife promised she would let him mess with her hair during sex and bla bal....


Skip to the end:

The 'and guess what I said'?

Yes!

Got me.

P. S. one has to watch that episode to get my drift.

How irresponsible can Ayuba be to birth four children in stark poverty?

1, 2, 3 and 4?

In this squalor?

4 kids

The Foundation also has to teach Ayuba and others like him to take responsibility for their actions and decisions.

Biodun556:

Is hypocrisy a 'woman' flaw or a 'human' flaw?

Don't men find it OK to cheat on their wives while blowing a gasket when their BILs do same?

Don't they justify treating other women shabbily while treating their sisters like eggs?

Don't husbands limit their wives while sponsoring their daughters to the greatest heights?

If you want to create a thread, give it a right topic or think through the OP.

If you said something about paternity fraud or broke shaming men while being broke themselves, you might have a thread.

FFK is still on Jezebel and Jayz matter?

@Topic and post:

Toor!

CSTRR:
These are the guys that decide who becomes Nigeria's president.

Just imagine their collective IQ.

If you are voting the same candidate as them, you need to check yourself.

This is funny

I imagine Russia compiling a list of people who have not congratulated their newly elected president.

You want to control people's actions and reactions to you.

Like their message or lack of change ls anything if he finally emerges as the president.

Temmylee01:
This how you know set awon oloriburuku, set awon igbolabi, set awon bastard in human form werey lohun awazuoba crucial death waiting for u.

Omolanwa, Igbolabi

Godkan:
One uncouth fellow by the name femi kayode just insulted a newly elected vice president of USA. And no body is saying anything. Nairaland adm. Should pls do the needful by banning this man in this forum. He is a threat to peace. That his vain God allowed someone else to win an election against his political father trump, should make every Christian in Nigeria, to start abandoning this obvious failed system of belief.

Nairaland Admin should ban FFK on NL?

Hahahahahahahaha!

seunmsg:
Can you tell us what is ungodly about her?



FFF has always been a chauvinistic bigot so I’m not surprised. This is the same guy that accused witches of causing plane crash when he was the minister of aviation . A man that cannot keep a woman after about six attempts at marriage would definitely think every woman is Jezebel.

@bold:

Hahahahahahaha!

Amotolongbo:
Femi Fani-Kayode could know Jezebel, if he saw her. But he could not recognize the good wife to marry after a hatrick of marriage!

It is so understandable he needs attention and has been actively looking for it to mastorbate

Hahahahahahaha!

Shebi he would have used his Jezebel spotting skills to marry a good wife!

Jayz and Jezebel!

Oshey!

Zzor:
Women that got married very early, how did you conquer your fears? my friend don't know how it will turn out for her if she accept this proposal staring at her, this is supposed to be once a lifetime opportunity to get such proposal(theres explanation to this but nairalanders will insult her if i share them). She's scared of the uncertainties, she's scared of living her own life, aside this fears she would have loved to be married early. She's confused, should she take the risk? the man involved is a very gentleman and will surely treat and pamper her well but she's scared of taking that bold step.

Is this a case of proposal out of the blues or she courted the guy and he proposed?

She's 20: is she done with school? Has something doing? Knows the man's history?

Like Byvan would say, the age you marry is not the issue: it is marrying the right person.

People marry at 18 and stay a lifetime: paople marry at 30 and divorce a week after.

Smart girl

Psych412:
babe, I don't understand


all this list for his wife to have sex with him.

Hahahahahahaha!

Let me go on reading.

nwaezeemmanuel:
I wonder why some couples feel they can't learn things in marriage.

Any man or woman in marriage can learn to please their partner better. Even if you have virgin lips, you can learn to kiss well with your spouse.

Problem is people don't believe they need to learn or improve a lot of times. Sex is too mutual to be stubborn spirited.

@bold:

Very well said.

People also do not realize that EVERYTHING needs maintenance and continuous improvement.

You have your bath daily, improve on your hygiene routine with age, money and class; you improve on your job, grow your career etc.

Same thing applies to a facets of life else there is no growth.

mariahAngel:
I wanted to mention you when I created the thread, then I decided to let it flow natural....

I hope it flowed as expected

nwaezeemmanuel:
Relax, try to be empathetic. Some aren't dangerous, they just need discipline and God's strength.

I remember when i could not control my urges, i was at the time far from dangerous. I went about my activities, was not a sexual predator but i had issues controlling them.

Now, i have gained mastery.

@bold:

I literally burst out laughing.

This thread is surely a comic relief!

MrTAnonymous:
This is why you need to check your sexual compatibility with your partner during courtship right before marriage so that you won't have to complain about you having a high libido while your partner has a low libido or about your partner depriving you of sex.



Incase you don't know na me talk

Bros, forget sexual compatibility in this case.

You both need to be open minded to keep re-discovering yourselves.

Zzor:
no man is truly sex starved,they are all out there philandering

Hahahaha!

I laugh in Japanese.

fykes:
how some Nigerians make out Trump as a christian is reflective of the state of our Christianity in this part of the world. with all his character flaws, lies and unnecessary brigandage? the "i am in your face, deal with it" showmanship and larger than live, almost childish disposition to everything, i cant find anything Christ- like about the man.
and if you are a christian who cannot love Muslims, you really lack the very basics of the tenets of christianity.

My brother, e tire me.

I have not gotten the correlation between Trump and 'Christianity'

Mike Pence would have been a better product to market as a Christian.

Reader530:
Good day nairalanders.
I visited my fiancée's family yesterday. I received a warmly welcome....I was offered pounded yam and different soft drinks but I refused to eat....they said it's an old method to reject offer in in-laws house. I managed to eat just 10% of pounded yam....they asked me there is an extra room but I told them I agreed to sleep in a friend's house.... Note: We are from core north....This morning I went back, after the service....I was served rice....I ate almost 90 percent with my fiancee because of hunger....The way I ate, does that portray a sign of disrespect? Thanks in anticipation for your responses.....I am weak

We don't know your culture na and how you intend/are obligated to follow it.

I remember watching a move and stirring the cup of coffee meant acceptance of the proposal while someone told him something else.

UjuJoan2:
I think I agree that you choose to fall in love, it doesn't just happen. It's the feelings and passions and we can't really help. But that's not love, is it?

I don't think it is really.

For women, it's usually difficult for us to control our feelings because we are very emotional. In the end it leads us to love.

But for men, they are more in control of their feelings because theit emotions don't usually run too deep. So they are more clear headed and selective about who they fall in love with.

That's my opinion anyway . . .

@bold:

Men are very capable of loving and emoting deeper than women. You would catch a glimpse when you watch a football match. Especially knockout stages. The joy, passion, pain, sorrow, anger etc. are all emotions.

I think because women are naturally care givers, we think we are more 'emotional'. A lady can dislike a toaster and still prepare a buffet when he is coming or arrange his room. Just how a man can be thinking of only sex with a woman or not even like her at all and still provide or give gifts.

These are just biological traits that mean nothing.

I think when a man begins to give care, invest in your progress and emotions in a non-sexual way, puts pleasing you (within reason) above his ego and see you beyond a care-giver etc.

or a woman begins to believe in you, loyal, provide, see you beyond a provider then we can start to talk about love.

mariahAngel:
Likes does not mean anything. One can only like what they relate with and not just by eye service.
As long as you're true to yourself, whether others agree with you or not does not matter.

@bold:

You know this?

Interesting.

@OP:

Love is a feeling (passion, sexual attraction, good feelings etc) and a choice which would loop back to the feelings.