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tobechi20:
This is a true life story but. I would make it look imaginat

Your partner is kind, respectful, goal oriented and emotionally stable. Each time he finds it difficult to talk about his family like they were dead. He was quick to change the topic . You could sence he is not comfortable talking about them.

Finally, he agrees to take you home. You are nervous whether they will like you amor not. His own anxiety was thrice yours. Looking forward for slightest reason to cancel the journey. He sees you were insisting on going . Finally ,you arrive the place and noticed five persons packed in a little cubicle. You perceived an awful smell from the small apartment. His younger brother greeted you holding a wrap of wrapped weed in his hand. That should have been a signal but you overlooked it

Then you noticed their tone in speaking. The father yelling at the mum "Go bring an extra cup". He gets angry over little or nothing and has no regard for his wife in public. You ask how your partner was as a child , each person used the opportunity to list their littoe achievement. They were competing for attention
To say that I was shocked was an understatement. Your partner could see the shock in your eyes and tried to remedy the situation only to get a thunderous
"Can't you do something right for once'?
This time,it was his mum yelling at him for using fork to eat the eba
He gentle dropped the cutlery and used his hands in an attempt not to worsen an already terrible day

After what looks like hours, you finally take your leave earlier than imagined.
You are glad you finally left. You are curious how your partner manages to turn out different from his family members. How he grew up in a difficult, destructive family to a productive compassionate young man. You love your partner nevertheless buy you know you cannot take his family as your family. You would never like to spend an hour near them again. They would drain your energy. You are willing to proceed with the marriage plans If he promises never to get them involved in your marital life physically or otherwise.

tobechi74:
Let he who is without sin be the first to cast a son

StubbornGENIUS:
A wife should support her husband financially.Men who keep housewives are often the insecure and jealous ones cos am not sure a woman will prefer staying at home to being an asset to the family,unless she's lazy.

Wittyglam:
This issue has been bothering me, I want your honest opinion.
As a lady will you stop working of your husband ask you to? As a man would you love a full-time housewife?

majamajic:
Sad ?

How ?

I have seen this story with different different cars and caption like more than 10 times
Keeping my pity till I see the rightful owner of the car

Darlingme:
Exactly. Women are at the receiving end of it. Is like once a woman is married, all her drives dies or slow down.

DarkJeddi:
She would still react,jealous is an intrinsic female trait..

Liposure:
i still the remember the video like yesterday. I felt the girl was cheap for jumping into another rship easily

mariahAngel:
He's probably still hurt and vents at the slightest opportunity

....but sofo ni bobo Davido yen sha

sapphiere:
He did not fight David. He was trying to make his point. Read through the lines there's no insult in Paul's post.

My prayer is for them to reunite.

Alexaonfleek:
Happy men's day to all men out there in the world.

I'm sorry it's coming late and I checked through the family thread if anyone had already put up a post on it but since I didn't see any I decided to create one.
Once again,happy men's day

Edopesin,won't you come and celebrate your gender

chatinent:
Common sense took you to court and needs its alimony.

R0kstarr8:
The kind slap I'll give her eh
Even the marriage will scatter what rubbish
Wife wey I pay price on..
Even usually kiss the phone I bought b4 unboxing
At cheaper price DM for your logo and flyer design

Smellymouth:
I am a Muslim btw, I rather stick my heart in a blender than pray for healing of a broken heart. Lol.. what I do is, heal and move on, I have things to do, I can't continue living in your past..

Smellymouth:
Lol. Some people never recover from a broken heart. Affliction shall never rise a second time.

crackhaus:
Nor be small thing...

Where have you been this woman?

Smellymouth:
Lol. In the voice of don Williams, " Some broken hearts never mend. "

ModelX:
I think I'm gonna have an orgasm You just described my kind of woman. Fata Morgana ❤ oh Lola how I love you.

mrT:
Dont like to take side, but from this this outburst one could deduce that the rude boy is really rude.

wirinet:
You sef see how childish Paul sounds. Him dey vex say Lola no call am for 4 years and so come dey vex say she dey wish am happy birthday every year. Abeg ask am, him no get hand or him no get phone?

He dey sound like pikin when dey vex say someone dey look am, you go ask the pikin watin him fit see say the other person dey look am?

PataAlhaja:
Awọn arinurode. Igbakeji Eṣu laalu ogiri oko.

DapperGuy:
As simple as that. Peter has made his choice.

Did he try to call her and she didn't pick up? Paul's head is not correct.

NoToPile:
No wonder peter and Paul are always fighting.

In fact this fight might not end soon. See the way he is addressing his twin brothers wife and you expect him to love you. Lailai kolework.

You disrespect my wife/ husband all bets are off.

If he can say this on SM only God knows what they have said to peters face. Even saying she's almost 50.


Lola should cut them off

She should not wish any of them any birthday or anything, what rubbish.

She wish you birthday wahala, she no wish wahala. Which kain silly family is this.

Even if they didnt want their brother to marry her, e never reach to forgive. He don marry her he don marry her be that haba which kain family is this very bitter people.

How many men will allow you talk to their wives like this.

Honestly Lola is a very strong lady.

backnbeta:
Not 'living' with her literally...But my point is; we all manage to maintain cordial relationships with inlaw's we don't like! There's always that in-law you don't like, but do you stop talking to your brother or sister because of him/her? But then; it's your choice! God forbid I stop talking to my brother or sister because of their spouse as far as they didn't choose my husband for me