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backnbeta:
Your choice as well! But life is a school... I've been married for over 11 years now and I can tell you that you have peace of mind when you're able to respect people's choices, especially of spouse. Peter once said he only wanted his siblings to accept the fact that he's married to Lola, what's so hard about that? Just say hi to her and face your brother, chikena

festacman:
Every year Lola sends Peter and Paul a birthday message on "whether they like it or not" basis. Every year Paul replies her with the same hostility, accusing her of being manipulative. Every year, they repeat this sh*t.

It is obvious that what is happening in Okoye family is complicated. Paul's wife and Lola Omotayo are friends so much that Peter's daughter Aliona models for Paul's wife fashion brand. Yet Peter and Paul are not talking terms.

However, they are comfortable in their homes and even making more money. What do I know?

Jesslove:
I blame those that attend the parties
If they did not see anyone except their wives and kids
They will have a rethink
Mumu twins

naijadrivablog:
Are they real nigarrrrrs?


Let me ask slawormiir and NwaAmaikpe

sweetmelanin:
This is the MISTAKE that Peter made. Peter lost two brothers for his wife Lola. Well I hope he's truly happy

Paul definitely had more fun on their birthday and it seems more celebrities are on his side.

I wonder if these two will ever reconcile.

Smellymouth:
One thing life has taught me is to learn how to practice DETACHMENT. I can love you wholeheartedly as a friend, sibling or lover but soon as you wanna go, I let you go..

You must plan your life in such a way that even if your partner leaves, your life still goes according to the plan..

kkins25:
psychology fascinates me, so much so that i wish you would start a diary here and update us frequently of this "condition" of yours.
unfortunately, even though naija is full of people with some form of psychological trauma or the other, the country's lack of development and ignorance has made the psychiatric profession one that is least demanded(upon the large amount of mad people every where)..

Thank goodness because men who had dominating females (especially mothers) in their house often tend to develop some form of "sexual-serial killing" fetish as i have come to find out after watching Netflix's Mindhunters.

There are no psychologist in the house, so i would advice you not to take my amebo analysis and other comments on the forum seriously before they mis-diagnose you of "inferiority complex".

i was watching candace orwel just yesterday eloquently make T.I look like olodo. She mentions that blacks underestimate the tremendous negative effects of having single mothers.
like callie has stateted already, "where is your father for....sake" ?


Personally, i don't think there is anything wrong with you. it is not normal because your environment has molded you into what you currently are. moreso, unfortunatley you happened to be at the bottom of the pecking order in the family. Worst part is- according to you- you have been bullied into submission.
Men are usually dominant, but you are a submissive. i think the beating from your elder sisters has psychologically affected you to the extent of forming a behavioral fetish for dominant female. not necessarily dominant but you are willing to put your self under the power of the feminine gender.

nothing do you, the only thing be say it may be difficult for you to find a woman in this country that is dominant. good luck with your search sha... all the best. make more male friends. watch out for gayish tendencies too. which is normal by the way considering the enviroment at which you grew up in..

coolsegun2002:
Instead of finding ways to heal old pain....the new norm is to find other psychologically damaged people like them and start asking for rights from goverment and validation from fellow humans....


When they don’t get it....they’ll say its hatred and ‘phobia...

Callie:
My brother, its not deliverance you need.
Its obvious you never had a strong male figure while growing up. Physically, you are a male, but you really don't know how to be a man.
The foundation of the family is the man and not the woman, please don't go into the family front with this type of mindset, cause your children will grow to have twisted mindsets too. Your daughters will think it's okay to dominate a man and your sons will think a woman ought to lead him.

A man learn better from other men. Get a male mentor. Surround yourself with good and focused male friends. People who know what they want from life and how to get it.
You don't need deliverance, cause I don't think you are possessed, your only problem is twisted mindset, which through great association can be untwisted.

But guy!, Where is your father for goodness sake?

udoakwa:
Violent lady ye find, violent lady you shall see, shout a very big thunderous Amen...

Joker09:
Yeeah, Outlander's writer must be really creative. She really did an incredible job with the plot, casts, storyline, pictures and dialogues. it's one of the best shows I have seen, I was really glued to it at some point, eventhough I haven't been watching for a while. I have to watch the last few episodes to know where and how it's ended.

Black Randall really broke Jamie, he went too far, that shouldn't be done to any man, gladly he got served too, he met his demise but that experience would keep taunting Jamie(at least for a while). Jamie never had it easy and he has always lived a life of pain and suffering, the pre-war and post-war had their effects on him, he was always ready for anything, he's a warrior. Claire coming into his life was really worth it tho

Alright, I'll try Gran Hotel and Velvet, I think I saw Gran Hotel's trailer once, I'll give them a shot. Some shows truly worth watching.

crackhaus:
These things ought to be discussed and decided together as a couple, except you're married to or plan to marry your enemy.

apasino01:
Confront Wetin ?

Me sef know say as a kid my ear wasn’t really working.

I no hear Word!

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Joker09:
1. Interesting

2. Jamie Fraser in Outlander was really great btw. That's why Claire had no option but to fall in love with him over and over .

3. I like how he calls her 'sassenach'. The chemistry between them is astonishing,

4.you rarely get that anymore in modern day shows and cinema.

Joker09:
Lol. I understand. Just like I also don't look for sexiness in female characters too. I only admire their works. Charlize Theron(she's my best actress right now, I really like all her works), Millie Bobby Brown who played Eleven in stranger things, Dafne Keen for her role in Logan and Sandra Bullock comes to mind.
Those are fine characters you mentioned btw. They all did great jobs in playing their roles.

mariahAngel:
Smh!
Especially @bolded



I don't think Americans are even patient enough to fall in love in their real life.
I hate how they build love stories in their series.



I will.

Joker09:
Who are the celebrity males you find sexy?

Chiquitq:
Please don't feel pressured to go along with this dude. It's a big red flag. Even my former husband that was a 419, insisted that we did all types of marriage so that when I find out, it would be hard to escape. He kept saying that a court wedding could only be dissolved in the high court and I was wondering why he was thinking of a difficult to dissolve scenario. My church was licensed to give court certficate but he said we must still go to court again.

Queenserah26:
One cold bottle of wine for you for this

greypencils:
Will Monfried is the sexiest man I have ever seen. No Homo

LyfeJennings:
I once saw a guy at Ikeja City Mall
Hmmmmmmm
This guy be like god
Thia guy is fine asf
As in the guy shake me
I dey fear to shake am back

Righteousness89:
Noted! It's has no impact on the life of any Human..

The Greatest Being Ever to come on Earth since the Creation of the World is JESUS CHRIST!

This is what the Everyone on Earth needs urgently!

Cerebellum:
Nah Ororo Remain

Ronaldo next year

donbachi:
Naso i carry come and if check dictionary for meaning of "nice".na my picture u go see there.

fredwill1357:
Nice people often complain about being taken advantage by others, the question is why are you being nice?, being a former nice person, I can tell you that being nice is of the last things you want to be in this world, coupled with the fact that most good deeds comes with punishment, one way or the other, so let's reason together, why are you being nice?

RightToReject:
Mama de mama is an embodiment of wisdom.

mariahAngel:
No, I haven't.
How interesting are they? I'll check them out.



You're the give-it -all-to-me-at-once type!
Me, I patiently take it slow and let the characters and romance grow on me.
I'm usually nostalgic whenever any of my favourite series is coming to an end.

Ademidd:
I meant "I may be" but not sure because of the brouhaha on ground