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angelfallz:
It's just just unfortunate that people think housewives are lazy. It is usually people that have never really done house chores that think housewives are lazy

microlincoln:
Well, I don't too but that's Nigerian mentality. A woman can bring something to the table too and not just sit home lazy likewise a man mustn't be waiting for his woman to contribute. If she does... Fine, and if she doesn't he must be man enough to take care of the family

microlincoln:
I must say your piece is good but it seemingly advice women to go for money in a relationship or marriage. Of course I hate to see women struggle or suffer in relationship/marriage and I know quite know well that a man should be the sole provider in the home but I'd rather you advice your fellow women to get a man who is hardworking, ready to share and committed.

Hambivert:
Sparogatively, all I could make out of this story was that the woman was a deal breaker.
Baby didn't come because of beach of contract.

Amos 3:3 “How can two work walk together unless they are agreed?”

These sort of persons are bad for business, pressure may make them leave you in fits of regrets!


Trying what How
By kidnapping his used condom
I don't want to believe that!

Anyways, thank God for your testimony!
Moral lesson: learn to work with your partner(s), everything is not a spiritual warfare!

GboyegaD:
Those wannabes are realizing that they do not understand the meaning of the word simp.

bluefilm:
As a man, When your wife can proudly proclaim that you are feminist with such audacity and arrogance, it only shows that you are finished.

RightToReject:
LOL. The slur of "simp" might soon be the order of the day in the thread.

RightToReject:
There's no point disputing the fact that many a time; once a sane man meets that one woman who meets his one point core longing in a woman, he can do almost anything possible even at the periphery of conventionalism to show his love to her and willingness to have her for a keep.

Wannabe strong men, love has never been a sign of weakness.

urchcoded:
I'll try to make this as brief as possible. I stopped believing in God finally last year. I grew up in a very religious Christian family, but I became an unbeliever after analysing religion. I'm the only one living with my mother and few weeks ago she engaged me in a discussion about why I'm allowing the devil use me, I told her the Devil is not using me as I don't believe in him either. I went on to carefully explain to her why I think God probably does not exist and even if he does,there is no way to ascertain that Christianity is the right religion amongst other thousands of religions. Honestly I wasn't trying to get her to stop being a Christian or anything I was just trying to let her understand my stand because she has been worried for a long time. That night around 1am I woke up from sleep to hear her crying, I tip toed to her room and saw her kneeling down praying and crying uncontrollably she was actually praying for me and for God to reveal himself to me. Seeing her cry hurt me a lot and I couldn't sleep the rest of the night. Waking up the next morning I noticed she didn't do her normal morning devotion and prayers. I wasn't happy with the development but I ignored her. She came back in the night and still didn't pray. I had to reluctantly ask her why she was no more praying, she coldly replied me saying "Shea you said prayer doesn't work and there is no God" and she walked away. I've been really really upset because I know she can't actually do without religion. This is what she has known all her life, she's a Sunday school teacher. She needs religion because her life is centered on it. My father died Early this year and I'm due to go for NYSC by next month. pls how do I resolve this situation cos it breaks me to see her so sad and dejected and it might be worse when I leave. Should I pretend to have had an encounter with God or something. I really could use some advice here. If you don't have any just avoid the thread.

frozen70:
Keep such rules to yourself and stop deceiving people

That you are sad doesn't mean every one is sad

tobechi74:
Take this to Islamic section

Dtruthspeaker:
Ah the play was too sweet and the punishment did not reduce the sweetness, until they changed the punishment to No-play, ah that's when I learnt the art of bargaining, homework both school and chores for playtime

crackhaus:
Kuku kill the man eh...
No wonder husbands dey first die on average.

What does he get in return for all this pro bono work sef?

mariahAngel:
...so that he can be haunted with it for the rest of his nairaland days?

Nairaland is full of immature people who don't know where to draw the line. It is wiser to protect your identity.
He does not need to prove anything to anybody. We have the option to either take it or leave it.

NobleAngell:
He should have just said 'two female feminine daughters that are girls.'

Lightangel65:
Abi, the man is the most civilised muslim man i have seen, even though islam opresses women, the guy is even better than some normal men

thebosstrevor1:
A weak husband

Feminism is not Islam.

She wears the hijab because her handlers say she should

Feminism is a Marxist ideology

PAWG:
I bin know say the husband go dey Simpsons FC

bluefilm:
What a pity!

The man must be so emasculated in that their home.

Lightangel65:
Child marriage exists in islam she was probably married at 15-16

crackhaus:
You're always on point, okay not always but mostly...

Honestly, there's nothing out of the ordinary in their family dynamic if we are to go by what are on those screenshots.
Perhaps the fact that she used the term feminist to describe her husband is the reason why people are reacting.

I mean take a look at this particular tweet below – she says he didn't know when his own kids were writing exams. Doesn't that imply he was not a hands-on father, or perhaps he was, but not to a large extent?
This kind of contradicts that whole feminist narrative.

I get her point though, the summary of it all is that her husband supports her aluta hustle and does not hold her down/back, which would be typical of muslims.

What I don't know is if this makes him a feminist, or simply makes him a supportive husband which is what every sensible man with a sensible wife actually is.

However, being the latter (supportive) does not automatically make one the former (feminist), and she may have being conflating the two.

faithfull18:
She is 46 thereabout.

crackhaus:
Lol, nor be only learning fast...