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JovialJune:
What has a long lasting marriage got to do with this? He didn't think of that before he gifted his mum my property, but I should be the nice one because I want to be in a deceitful marriage?

He apologized profusely, begged me because he knows what I can do and undo, and yes, it still hurts knowing what he did, I will not for the life of me condone nonsense because I want to be in the good books of in-laws, I will not displease myself just to please someone else,

If not that he has paid in cash, I will most definitely take it back.

JovialJune:
The plan was to steal it and never wear it, I'll keep it in a safe.

thebosstrevor1:
you are evil

Nigerian army didnt shoot at protesters

You are just a child of satan that love seeing death

thorpido:
Well,it's her way of seeking equality.We need to understand that everyone(wife and the two daughters) have rights in that house by virtue of the fact that they have come together in a marriage.
I actually wish the Op can work out a way to reconcile all except he's going to throw away the marriage.
How can he train the stepdaughter and make her live peaceably with his own daughter?This to me is the more positive path.

Klass99:
If it weren't for the younger children you have with your wife, I will say let that woman and her daughter go. In fact I will still say it, let her and her daughter go.

I felt a lot of irritation and annoyance towards your wife and her daughter, while reading through your post. They don't sound like good people at all

The way some women use their children as a bargaining chip or weapon during marital clashes, dey annoy me join sef. They act like they came by those children on their own and by themselves, without the hubby's input.

Leave them alone with those kids for three months only and you start to see their ineptitude when it comes to adequately clothing, feeding and paying other bills for the upkeep of those kids.

OP, you sef to slap you dey sweet me small. How did you allow family pressure you into re-marrying for the sake of more children? You and your daughter were more than enough and you could have done things at your own pace and time, without family stressing you out.

Now that you are remarried with more kids, are you happier, healthier, more wealthy or even full of joy/peace? Are those same family members helping you pay bills like school fees?

Homeboiy:
It is a lie because one of the warders there just returned home this evening with a swollen eye

As he narrates to us that the inmates attacked them

Tore his cloth and took his money



One of the inmates ran home naked

thorpido:
How did you open up to a welder in the first place?

bjprodint:
i am happy for you for being ftc.what a great achivement!

RightToReject:
Happy Birthday mama de mama, a true conscientious woman. Wishing you many more years ahead with God's unlimited blessings in all forms. Actually, were it not that the new marital law of Nigeria forbids a married woman to receive an automobile as a birthday gift from a man other than her husband, I would've ordered one for you today as a birthday gift - let's blame the law.

AristocraticMe:
In divorce, women want children and men want property

There was a group of data that showed that 78% of men would want children in marriage, but less than 20% would want children in divorce. For many men, after all, property is more important than children. Property will increase, and children will be a burden.

A reader said that after she gave birth to the child, she was alone at home to take care of the child. Her husband often came back late and never looked after the child when he came back. Sometimes the child was crying and he felt noisy. And women's natural motherhood is always more concerned about their children.
Men always say that career and dream are important, but they don't know what women at home have undertaken for him.

They enjoy being fathers, but they don't want to take the responsibility behind them

mariahAngel:
Was there ever a time I said that it wasn't? Then again, anything can happen to either of the couple that can make sex almost impossible.
If that happens, what next? Is there need for them to continue to be together without sex if their relationship depended on sex? Have you ever considered that?

WoundedLamb:
The world has evolved to recognize and combat gender inequality a step at a time. Africa is very far behind in this regards and it can be seen onhere.

mariahAngel:
That is where the narrative comes to play.
They've brainwashed some many young ladies into believing you can't keep a man without giving him sex before marriage.

angelfallz:
that wiki page is too much could you narrow it down?
Also, from the first link i sent you, you would see that, it states clearly that meaning of the name Mary is not entirely known.

angelfallz:
You shouldn't be writing things like that as fact.

https://www.behindthename.com/name/mary

https://www.sheknows.com/baby-names/name/mary/

mariahAngel:
The narrative that it is impossible for a man to stay for awhile without sex.
I mean, even animals take sex seriously only during mating season
I thought, if animals could control themselves, why can't men?

I wasn't referring to married men.

Biglittlelois:
Some people just name their kids without reserching for deep meanings and its significance

The annoying names I see becoming fluent lately is e.g Hephzibah, ask them where they got it from, they'll its from the bible, ask of her significance in the bible, I get no reply, this is a mother to a wicked kind of Israel, that's all, and they don't even know this, I mean, there are better names in the bible na,

Or is it Vashti, the disgraced queen before Queen Esther, ask them why give their daughter that name, reply is because it sounds nice, imagine

isotech080:
I can't imagine how a couple will have about 9 months to think of their baby's name, and all what they would come up with is Friday or Sunday.
jezzz!!!!!
Biko this must stop #EndSars

KidDarkness:
That's what's needed for a blissful marriage

mariahAngel:
What do you expect me to think? With all the narratives I hear and read...

dangotesmummy:
mobinu

Because Na them go dey say "these hoes ain't loyal" ...awon oniradarada

WoundedLamb:
Christianity was African too. Islam wasn't. The issue is not about where it started, it is about where it is now. The world is evolving and Africa has vehemently refused to tag along.

mariahAngel:
I never thought this was ever possible for a man.

dangotesmummy:
Oponu ni e.youre a compound fool

Na so you go get gold come dey find stones for dustbin.

Problem go just sit down on its own but you go use your uncontrollable pen1s go find am

You have a treasure.a loyal woman in a generation where we have thousands of disloyal women and you want to use your senselessness to wreck a good relationship.oniranu


I don't even understand how 1d1ots find good women and the good men will end up with tramps

Shebi you're looking for validation online Abi? You're looking for fellow riff Raffs like you to tell you that you did the right thing, Abi? Them Kuku plenty here,you go see them

Broda ode

KidDarkness:
If kids here can call women above 30 evening newspapers then men above 30 should be evening magazines.
I always pray to God to give me a woman who I would love, love me back and give me peace of mind

WoundedLamb:
Welcome to African

KidDarkness:
The mind of this our generation is clouded with sexual fantasies and urges. All my past relationships ended because of sex. The girls were not willing to wait like I was. Even a friend I wanted to date recently told me we can't date without sex. That's why I decided to stay on my own for the past five years. I'm not in any way scared of sex. Sex is sweet. Even virgins knows that fact. If it isn't, we wouldn't have the urge for it. I decided not to be a sampler. My body is meant for my wife. I would wait. We would have all the sex we want, all the sex styles we want when the time comes .

Jacksparrow7:
Please I need a character builder.
I like the way males interact out there.
Say things like, chairman, honorable, and start to socialize. I need to learn how to socialize. Am afraid of starting a conversation I can't finish.
Please who is interested?