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Nexussy:
Mr quoter u quote D summary 1 but left d event Genesis 2:15-25

Princsk1:
MURIC, asks Buhari to stop 2019 Big Brother Naija show



Source: http://muslimrightsmuric..com/2019/07/ban-bb-naija-now-muric.html?m=1

codeworks:
He mentioned top 4 teams and one of the team will win AFCON without including Nigeria

XhosaNostra:
No, thank YOU. I'm actually surprised at how you all are are being modest with a touch of humility about it. That never happens lol.

Duggedised12:
you and I were not there ,a book said so, and let's not also forget that Jesus was a mysognist . The Jewish religion in which Jesus was born into saw women as slaves , its not wonder if the person who wrote the bible is a man with such background.

GrabHisBalls:
Pastor Chris is one of the best when it comes to translating the scripture to a layman's understanding.

I was personally hoping for the day Daddy Freeze will quote him, but I guess Freeze has already chosen his battles.

This girl thinks it's music he was referring to. Yes, woman was not in God's original plan. Man was, and from the bible, God thought of giving man a companion when he(God) realized man would be lonely without a companion so he made woman out of man. That is, going by the bible.

No matter how much you have as a woman, or the magnitude of influence you have, once married, your husband is your master.

Does she need to be told that again? She has serious issues 'cause the word 'Master' threatens her.

ajayiopy:
THE FIRST DAY I LISTENED TO THIS MESSAGE ,I FORWARDED IT TO 10 WOMEN AND 9 OF THE FIGHT BACK INCLUDING MY WIFE AND I LAUGHED. BUT WE NEED TO UNDERSTAND THAT MOST WOMEN ARE NOT AWARE OF THE POWER GOD HAS GIVEN WOMEN THAT IS WHY THEY ARE COMPETING WITH MEN.
IF YOU UNDERSTAND YOUR GOD GIVEN POTENTIALS AS WOMEN,YOU WILL NOT BE WASTING YOUR TIME ON FEMINISM

XhosaNostra:
It hurts, but hey, you played with passion & you deserved the win.

codeworks:
I don't think our coach believe we will reach this stage

amolak:
Egyptians are even more patriotic than most Nigerians on nairaland

stupidity:
After months or years of courting, proposed in public for the gram, lavished money on marriage celebration. Then both parties wakes on up one day, each armed with lawyers and head to court for a divorce.


What brought them together in the first place and what evil force is the cause of the sudden hatred? I can’t seem to understand professing heaven and earth to someone and then wake up one day saying “I nor do again”




EDITED please o, ignore my moniker and contribute to the thread. I’m not stupid when it comes to matters like this.

TissuePaper:
lol, see bro there is no law that compels anyone to get married, don't give in to peer pressure, those your friends will never tell you the rigours that they have been experiencing in their marriage.

Don't you just love how free you are now , free to tour the world, living without marital commitments, slaying any pussy you like... You only live once bro, don't waste your most active years in the shackles of a woman.

MizMyColi:
Cheeeiiiii!!!
You're even more brutal than I am!

Y'know what?
I owe you a holy kiss ---> in 2019...When PDP wins the presidency

LilMissFavvy:
''even on the day before the marriage, her father sat her down and told her this is her last opportunity to chose a husband''. Stupid father/stupid husband/stupid culture. He forced himself on a 21 year old student for marriage. It is only bad parents that pressurize young students into marriage. You were busy checking your wife's phone. Open your own phone and show her what you have been hiding as well . When a girl is not mentally ready for marriage, it's a risk forcing her into marriage.

jrusky:
God bless that judge. If I'm the judge I will do likewise.

Thanks to the judge. Let her go and tell that man waiting for her behind the curtain its not now.

Nonsense!!!

danjumakolo:
God showers his blessings on the household of the judge for keeping a marriage.

HopeAlive14:
It beats my imagination why two people who started off loving themselves for years suddenly become enemies after marriage.

Let them go and work on their marriage; they will succeed.

desiregold:
An average Nigeria man is a misogynist. He will hate a woman, slut shame a woman, deny a woman from having means of livelihood, talk down at a woman, hit a woman, bodyshame a woman, make a woman feel inferior, marriage shame a woman. Just to boost his ego and hide his insecurity.

It has nothing to do with NL, it is how Nigerian society is.

Do I take it serious..? No. Why? Because, I know at the end, they still can't do without us and we can't do without them too. Even, in all their shaming, they will still marry us and we will still raise their kids for them.

I stand up for myself when in the mood or when I have the strength, when I am not, I overlook them and walk away.

Lastly, I feel is our duty(women) to start raising our sons differently, so that our daughters don't grow up to experience what we did.

bigmic111:
thanks for stopping by. I needed a female touch to this, saying her mind.

how are you?

bigmic111:
hello bukatyne

ImaIma1:
They are just giving the rapists reasons and justifications for their actions.

But they shy away from answering directly when you ask about babies, toddlers that are raped.

A rapist doesn't need a reason to rape. He rapes because that is what he does.

bigmic111:
where you live do you have a street gate?
do have a fence around your house and possibly another gate at your house?
do you have a door at the entrance of your house with a functional lock?
do u have a drawer you keep your valuables with a functional lock?
do you own a generator and is it properly secured?
do you own a car with anti theft security and lock?



if you don't have any of the above things mentioned, at least you own a smart phone, do u keep it lying around carelessly without guard?


your guess is as good as mine.
all those precautions listed above is to deter theft and it works most times, except for a few. people have desires whether moral or not and it's your responsibility to do all u can to keep their harmful desires in check as regards your affairs that's why you secure your properties.
how much more your body and health? if you truly believe that wearing indecent clothing at all times and events doesn't make you vulnerable to rape then my SISTER, you are another potential rape victim in the making !

Safitu:
Have you realised that the female population on this site is decreasing drastically? Men gather here after their depressed and miserable day to release tension. As a woman all you can do is laugh, because in reality we know how they are, and it’s nothing like the persona they put online.

Partnerbiz3:
At times I wonder if Nairaland guys actually have mothers, nieces, aunties and above all, sisters.

I read comments here against women and I cringe.

The slut shaming, body shaming, broke shaming, marriage shaming etc is way too undue.

Virtually all comments on relationships are about how women should be abused, fuccked, treated with contempt, disdain and then abandoned like cadaver.

I love my sister so much and I imagine how I would feel I heard my brother in-law beat or abused her in any way. Hence my resolve to be nice to people nay women.

What is more, I am neither pussywhipped nor henpecked. In fact, I tilt towards misogyny.

But then I would rather go my own way (like the MGTOW ) than be unnecessarily harsh. I have refused doing favours to young women many times, just because I perceive a modicum of entitlement mentality in their deportment or demeanour. I go my own way and not hurt them too.

It strikes me that the negative, and derogatory remarks used against women here is a defence mechanism; a subtle response to the sudden assertion of rights by women. Assertions occasioned by western influence and increasing female independence flowing from financial independence.


Please while giving men advice on how to maltreat women. Think about your own women too like your sisters. They could be victims of your advice too.