₦airaland Forum

COOL10:
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Pretty simple. A woman's SMV(Sexual Market Value) reaches its peak at around 28-30. From this point onwards,her physical features begin to wane and she more or less becomes a shadow of her former self,thereby increasing her reliance on artificial endowments (makeup,surgery,etc) just to make her feel as beautiful and confident as she used to. Meanwhile, a man's SMV hits at around 38-40. Apart from the likelihood of having more money at that age,thereby providing more security, this is one of the major reasons why so many girls in their early twenties say they prefer older men. Of course there're exceptions to every rule but this particular situation has occured so many times and keeps on occurring that it's now more or less a norm. Nature designed it this way,hence the popular saying 'Men age like fine wine but women like milk'.

If we're to compare the number of extra marital suitors both parties in question currently have,I'm extremely certain the man has more in number than the woman does. In other words,assuming both of them weren't currently married to their respective spouses, the man would have more options to pick from than the woman would.

Lovelyn451:
there ought to be an organised Christian body to check and question these unjust acts by these new age men calling themselves pastors, we should have a court like the sharia court, we need law, grace has been disgraced....may God help the church

daprinceval14:
Let’s stop crucifying d man of God... if he actually did it and she didn’t come out since, she shud av relax for God to deal wit him... we need to hear frm d man of God
Everyone has a past... who knw if he has cleared with God and has b forgive.
Pls we shud nt judge and mind wat we say concerning men of God.
Only God is qualified to judge him

macello4:
dis woman is a demon, don't tink she knows dat dis is man of GOD. Allow GOD to deal with him, u are too small to talk about man of GOD in bad way.

datopaper:
What will the woman gain. The deed has been done.

We all are thieves.

Nobody holy pass

rusher14:
The Nigerian youth is full of cynicism and anger.

daddytime:
Their spouses might not find this or any sort of reunion funny at all though...

internationalman:
When I was growing up my tradition does not permit a person be it a friend or not hugging a married woman..

Married women were sacred then, hence the lower rate of cheating compared to now

ibkayee:
Haha I’m just not longer as empathetic as I would normally be

internationalman:
You know most of your words when interacting with a married woman are censored.. Why do you think it's so?

There are somethings that are not just right in the African settings.. We practice too much of the white man's culture

ibkayee:
Pre-Nairaland, empathetic side of me: Marriage is supposed to be for better or worse, I wonder what methods they've taken to help him, poor guy

Present me: If the tables were turned he probably would've left too, used it as an excuse to cheat, rained abuse on her, brought in another 'fertile' girl from his village courtesy of his mum etc

chimjoshjuan:
Omotola Jalade who took to Instagram to congratulate her second daughter, Meraiah, revealed that she graduated with two degrees. 

The screen diva who revealed that she couldn't make the trip to Los Angeles with her husband, revealed that they were represented by her last child, Michael. Omotola Jalade who revealed that her second daughter graduated with two degrees, wrote; 


https://unclesuru.com/2019/06/26/omotola-jalade-reveals-her-second-daughter-meraiah-graduated-with-two-degrees/

Ijawwomaninoyo:
The boy is a sadist already, he will need love to live a normal life.
This is one of the reasons some women endure domestic violence in their husbands' houses, they don't want to leave the children behind and maybe they don't have resources to take care of them alone.

omoadeleye:
Please let the father train the stole in a way he will that the son will later be useful for himself in the future, the boy stole meat and he really disseves a brutal punishment for that, so by the time he is growing up this kind of punishment will be hunting him any time he thought of any stealing... He is still at a pre conventional stage in ethics, where obedience and punishment should be inculcated to him.

tajudeenlekan:
Am a little bit concerned about Raping, Cos small child nowadays can seduce a man... After All the saga will all called it a Rape

Olorunnim:
Who would examine if there are bruises.

Ademoore07:
Lol.

My thought now is that how will the lawyer asked the accused to defend himself if guilty or not?

Fountainofyouth:
What is wrong with anal sex

LewsTherin:
OP said "it puts a woman at risk". He never said it is a cause.

In life, there are things one does to REDUCE THE RISK of falling into difficult situations. Just like has been said here, having a security gate at your house reduces the risk of being robbed. Not having a security gate is not a cause of being robbed but you can be sure that if you left your car where there was no security gate and you were robbed, you would be told that it was your fault.

While indecent dressing should not be looked at as a cause (not even THE cause), there is no denying that just like avoiding dangerous neighborhoods, just like avoiding drug use and drug users, and just like avoiding known rapists, decent dressing is another way of reducing the risks of being raped, molested and or harassed.

IT IS NOT A CAUSE OR THE CAUSE OF RAPE. It is an action taken that helps to reduce the risks of being raped.

DaBogu:
Uncle Shola
Thrice, life threw a curved ball at me. I was knocked into the pit and it took the raw resurrection power of God get me back on my feet. None of you "my husband must earn 400K a month" aunties shading me would have survived such tests. You would have divorced and ran away.

I read about a billionaire who lost everything multiple times but he fought back very fiercely to get back up there. Can u stand the tests of life and come out on the other end as an overcomer or you are just a coaster? Do u have any battle scars to show or you are just a sissy? Your success means absolutely nothing to me if you cannot show me your battle scars that you sustained on the way there. I want to learn from those battle scars you sustained. I want to know what you told God in the days of your tears and pain. Your buggatti means nothing to me.

Dear Young man, if you plan to go very far in life, don't bring a woman who cannot fight, into your life. If you are a fighter, you need another fighter beside you not a sissy woman who is afraid of the noise of battle.

QueenSekxy:
He said things hasn't been moving well with him ever since he met her.