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joychioma19:
Good afternoon all. I got married last year June to my lover of 3years

christopher123:
With all due respect to ladies out there,

How can a man marry a lady with fake hair, fake eye lashes, fake pupil, fake nails, fake skin colour, fake boobs, fake camel toe(Those that know it) fake Hymen, and so many fake attributes. Well what is my own but wait a minute!! How can you marry a woman with fake accents and mannerism and expect a True Love.

You cannot expect a true love in such a marriage. The tell tale signs were there.

What you see is what you get! Ignorance aint bliss here!!! May God save the single men out there

LOL

vbiye:
Dear Nairalanders, I need advice, i have been dating this guy for a couple of months now, initially i really liked him but now that i have been spending time with him, his attitude puts me off. He is the kind of guy that believes a woman should take care of herself and all her needs, this is not really a problem for me because i work and earn a good salary, but i have come to notice that he is always complaining of being broke, it's annoying because i know he works with a good oil company, he complains endlessly when his Siblings ask him for money, if i tell him its normal that i used to ask my elders ones for money when i was in school he gets angry and says i never take sides with him on any issue, whenever we are together he is either complaining of being broke, or being angry because his colleagues provoked him at work or he is hassling me for sex and he never takes no for an answer. The only time i asked him for money to make my hair he told me other women carry one hairstyle for 3 months that i should start carrying my own like that too and he didn't give me anything. on my last birthday he said the country's economy is so bad and so he could not afford a birthday gift for me. He always complains that i don't call him everyday but he has never recharged my phone,to make matters worse he is always asking me to borrow him money to fuel his car whereas he has never given me as much as 1k for tfare when i visit him. My question is this his attitude normal with guy's.

CaroLyner:
i dont agree with this advice.

Slapsticker:
I appreciate your religious angle. however, can u give us some points outside religion? That's gonna make your point(s) gain wider acceptance.
Whenever the religion card is used, your audience narrows down and gets controversial in that same instance.
Thanks.

joseph1832:
I believe you are. An honest mistake. Beside, I absolutely love your dp.

Please tell me you're a master in the art of cooking. Lol.

Hadez:
Guys are not only guilty about this, sometimes we ladies really feel the urge to be alone and get down with someone we have a crush on. OK enough said

I know some people might take me as a bad girl but I don't care. I am going to state the fact and hey I am here to have fun


1. She comes to your house with a short skirt or a short gown: some guys don't seem to understand the signs though. The thing is we ladies are very conscious of what we were, so coming to your house looking like a hot model is a cue

2. She lays her had on your shoulders or laps: this is a very popular trick we use but some guys are too quick to start kissing and pressing... This is not cool, it makes us uneasy and we change our mind. Why don't put just take it slow and wait for the right moment then you see we actually repaired for this before coming

3. Telling you we want to sleep and you shouldn't disturb: let me tell you a secret guy, no girl I repeat no girl will ever come to your house if she feels she is tired and will not enjoy herself when she comes (trust me)

4. Saying she will be leaving in an hour time: we are actually telling you to make a move but someone guys don't get it. Instead they will be begging us to stay a little longer. Durr if I have somewhere else to go that evening, do you think I will come and spend time in your house?

5. We loose off some buttons on our shirt: we want you to feel aroused and make a move but instead you will dip your hands in your pocket and probably start going out and coming in. Then you will be forming bad guy later

6. We tell you to play a song and we start dancing: if I am dancing in your room, I expect you to join me then along the link you rock me then you know what next to do. But most of you don't even know how to Dance it is frustrating

Lezzlie:
From you? Hmm. Good things never cease. You want to trap me?

donbenedict:
my answers are boldly spelt out in all what the op wrote!

shaybebaby:
Una Dey ask question that requires thought not just trotting out baseless declarations. E so ara yin laro kutukutu yi o!

donbenedict:
see question ooo... if I said womanhood is waste, u would be d first person to attack me from all angles. Why are u even a woman if u don't knw wat makes womanhood golden?

Amakortee:
the summary of what men need is SUBMISSION AND RESPECT. then u see the man behaving like a little kid

Lezzlie:
The modern society has not fully grasp the role of the modern woman!!!

She is expected to be multitasking and still adapt to modern trends without sacrificing any of her conventional duties and roles.


It's quite a tall asking and society is still at odds to define the role of the modern wife in an agreeable term!


Cc Joseph1832

donbenedict:
Madam dats why you are a woman.. stop complaining.. womanhood is golden.

byvan03:
Eshe ma
Lol, for real? Thread wey dey pursue 1year.

byvan03:
Eshe ma
Lol, for real? Thread wey dey pursue 1year.

lonelydora:
Does it mean this lady buys/sews cloth daily? Does she buy ready made? How come her tailor doesn't disappoint her as they normally do to others?

Just thinking.

BornnAgainChild:
S£xx is a beautiful thing.

crackhaus:
I'm a little confused as to what your dislike for Telemundo or TV had to do with how well you could have dealt with the scenario modath described.




Please try this again Buka.
I sincerely want to read a response you put some serious thought into before typing.

byvan03:
Go back to your parents' house, you aren't married yet. Visit you MIL to be from there for occasional cleaning.

emeraldoe:
Booking space