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therealMcCain:
I know this question sounds ridiculous, I've been working for the past one year, my monthly salary is 150,000 making it 1.8m PA.

the funny thing is I really don't have any savings, am not the fashion type neither do I womanize, so that's not where the bulk of my money goes. Am currently in a relationship but she doesn't demand so that's also not the cause.

I tried putting aside a certain percentage but that didn't work, the thing is at the end of the month I write down all I've spent my cash on, I can't seem to find the one I would've done away with or the one I'll say was a waste.

Am also the youngest, so no responsibility for me..

Any ideas please, no insults

Thanks

Larasisi:
How totally true! These are girls that could have anyone they choose with all the shakara in the world.
Now they have reduced themselves to social media campaign for Flavour's attention. What a shame.

AfroKnight:
She looks so battered. I pray for good wife o. I am already a good husband in the making.

sinceraconcept:
Yeah,thank you for saying that. I'm soooooo African and I'm damn proud of my culture. Do you want to become western? What do you want to do now that you're an African girl? Pray to God to change your nationality? Your race? Babe,you're a typical African girl. I think it's a slap on your face if you think your culture is an f up to your person. Why must you act like the western culture is the perfect culture? Should I call that inferiority complex?  You think it's a shame for you to be called an African? I bet you've so much wished God should re-create you as a white girl. Girl,you need to start loving your culture. An Arabian wouldn't abandon his culture and do everything western because he feels superior to westerners but you feel inferior to westerners so you want to act all western right? Mingling is cool and acceptable. But calling me a typical African makes me feel happy about it and makes me see you as a western wannabe when you look nothing like a westerner. 
Emulate Kim Kardashian and her "stripping after childbirth" ass,i don't give a damn. Emulate Beyonce and her ungrateful,impatient ass,i don't give a damn. Their culture supports all that sh.its,ours don't here. No man would tolerate all that sh!t from you here. And you'll probably complain to your celeb role models and ask them for advises. Stop being myopic in thinking lil mama. 
That's what I like about DJ Cuppy,she lived almost all her life abroad but she is so African and she loves been called a typical African

ikupakuti:
...and i would want to ask her, if marriage is not by force like she stated...why did she fight off other women for the ‘CROWN OF MRS. YOBO‘ ?

ikupakuti:
...and i would want to ask her, if marriage is not by force like she stated...why did she fight off other women for the ‘CROWN OF MRS. YOBO‘ ?

obowunmi:
I don't care who cheats on who. Cheating is a form of abuse.

EVILFOREST:
What does a man need from a LADY...?
NOT her cash.. ..
All we need as MEN is simple " LOYALTY or better still RESPECT".

Most WOMEN lost our love for them, the very day they started seeing their own mothers as slaves to their own father, thinking that what their mothers did then was EVIL.
That's why most "empowered and exposed" Ladies are losing out. Thinking they now know it ALL.
Now with the ADVENT of so many SOAP OPERAS and NOVELS , ladies now see every man as cheat, unromantic and not well cultured. They see AFRICA tradition as EVIL.

They now enter into Marriages with the HOPE that the hubby is already a CHEAT.
MEANWHILE, these same ladies dress indecently even in churches now.
IF u say ALL MEN are CHEAT, i will tell u that, u are d BIGGEST CHEAT because u have TASTED ALL MEN to that they are all cheats.

FOR every man that wants to CHEAT, there is always a WOMAN ready for that.
Ladies should learn to respect men, that was the "ab initio" plan of GOD
Respect and cherish ur man and see if he will not take u to HEAVEN.

obowunmi:
Even after marriage, he cheats though.

martyns303:
All this feminist, meanwhile she is comfortably sitting in her husband's house.

The ones who preach the most, go through the worst, Joseph Yobo could be hitting her all night!!!

obowunmi:
Adaeze's husband cheats on her, why hasn't she left though?

Practice what you preach lady

Acidosis:
How do you pronounce @ bukatyne ?

itsy:
thanks to everyone that commented on this. Everything is settled now. I talked with hubby to find out what his fears are and I got to know that hubby is scared of a boss manipulating or 'seducing' his babe,lol. I assured him that whenever an issue like that arises, I will let him know and will remain faithful no matter the temptation and if it gets too much, I would resign. Yeah!am going after my dream with hubby's full support, thanks once again. nairaland is indeed,a family

Acidosis:
I agree with your assumptions, except the last statement.

The home should not be a place to exercise power. A good woman should respect her husband regardless of how much he earns.

People need to shine their eyes, and talk about these stuffs before they 'settle down' as husbands and wives.

raumdeuter:
Great so are you telling him that there are certain instances where its okay to touch a girl? I kind of understand most of your submission. I just want to see what many people would say

Before age 10, girls and boys do mostly the same play and there are many instances they bully themselves. So how does a male child defend himself without beating a girl(bully)

Armyofone ngbo?

Acidosis:
Finally!! Nice one sis, you perfectly understand my viewpoints.

Bolade005:
Carry go ke?, I'm enjoying the family section.

Bolade005:
No, you will not do the bolded.

raumdeuter:
Hauwa,

If you see a 7year old girl beating up your 7yr old boy, How would you react?

Or if your 7yr old boy came home crying that he was beaten by a 7yr old girl?

Acidosis:
1. You treat your little son as a god, you make him feel entitled to everything, you call him King, Soldier, 'My god,' 'My Lord', 'My Royal Majesty'. Then you come on Nairaland to attack mature men, and ask them why they do not wash their wife's inner wears. Please, have you ever seen a King sit down to wash the Queen's lingeries?

2. Whenever you see your son beat up his colleagues in school or in the neighborhood, a mystical smile immediately shows up on your face, like yeah! That's my soldier boy. Why then do you bash matured men who beat up disobedient and arrogant women?

3. While you were growing up, how does it feel when your brothers sleep around with girls? Do you feel fulfilled (big bro the player ). Have you ever cautioned your brothers about the dangers of illicit se.x? Why do you feel happy, and even join in the conversation when they narrate their adventures with other women?

4. Would you honestly allow your little son assist you in the Kitchen, while your daughters sit with Hubby to watch FA cup finals?

5. How would you describe gender equality? equal rights and opportunities, right? Why do you sometimes feel your little son is superior and powerful than his female counterparts in school?

6. At what age should gender equality be enforced? From birth? Only in marriage?