₦airaland Forum

KINGSAMURAI:
This is a vital scenero in most homes today, a married man in my neigbourhood with two young kids is complaining that his wife always purchases dinner for the whole family to eat and its getting embarassing to him, he gives the wife money to cook but she will not cook but prefare purchasing meal from a canteen for the man and the children to eat, bringing excuses that she is tired after returning from work in the evening. Now, the husband wants to divorce the woman. "please women in the house is the man overeating or the wife is at fault?

cococandy:
No I haven't. I don't read much these days.
Little time I get to sit on the couch, I occupy it with netflix.

keppyy:
Lols...

My dear, some people have no idea what it takes to work and keep a home...

I had to properly thank my Dad and Mum when I started working because I now understand what it takes...

Marriage should be for enjoyment and not suffer...

These same men will admire hot wives and mothers of other men and wonder why their own look like slaves...

Enjoy your marriage.

laidesmen217:
water don pass garri for this matter oooo

Now I believe that "girls no longer cook like their mothers rather they drink like their fathers

naijababe:


Present ma

innervoice:
With this attitude, you are very unlikely to have a happy home yourself but I wish you the best of luck.

LordReed:
You! Your first post captures it all too well

then it stands to reason that a woman should be promiscous enough to allow as many men as possible insert thier dicks into her

Was that not written by you? The woman is promiscuous while the men are exercising biological imperative. Double standard much?

LordReed:
Why are you feeling scandalised now? When you were busy advocating the right of men to insert their dicks in every hole in sight you felt righteous didn't you? But put the shoe on the other foot and suddenly it's a scandal!

See the hypocrisy of the biological proponents? SMH

RaDaZaBaNa:
is it Effective than the normal prayers ??

okotv:
Top general overseers! are there overseers that aren't top

RaDaZaBaNa:
This Issue has Bothered my mind a Lot. When Some Churches proclaim that Prayers are better answered by Going to the climbing Mountains and going to the Top of the mountain to pray.
When the Bible states in Matthew Chapter 6 vs 6 “But
thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly”

We heard of Cases where people die after marathon prayers on mountains and even some falling sick and Etc. Is Going to the Mountain a Criteria for Quick answers to Prayers.if so is it Biblical ??
How Effective is Mountain prayers ?

slimmykisses:
A virteous woman, if na Naija man wife she go march other people head pass.

chesterlee:
This is very wrong and violates women right...





I condemn this archaic practice

KIRIJI:
what is unfortunate about it? Yoruba tradition dictates that when the Oro procession is ongoing, strangers, women, and non-initiates remain indoors. Is that a tough call?

As cosmopolitan as Ikeja, the capital of Lagos state is, when the late Olu of Ikeja Oba Rauf Matemi Amore died, wasnt the Oro procession observed? When the late Ayangbure of Ikorodu died was the Eleuku Diety not brought out in broad day light? Please give me a break.

AllNaijaBlogger:
Wrong. Capital punishment doesnt work, especially when a person can't be 100% proven guilty or 100% convicted without doubt.

What we beat/castrate an innocent man?

Here are the steps to be taken

-First produce material (Videos, pamphlets and conventions) that inform men and women about their rights and ra.pe. This should be done in many languages for all Nigerians to understand.

-TV stations and health workers around the nation should be educated and also themselves educate the masses about ra.pe and pe.dophilia

-Laws regarding ra.pe and pedop.hilia should be ratified. Also, false rape allegations should carry heavy penalties.



On the grassroot levels
-educate your sisters, children, nieces and nephews on ra.pe and pedophilia
-get nairaland admin to promote anti-rape and safe-sex threads on the front page
-don't be a molester

cococandy:
The law takes care of them.
After serving their jailterm, they get entered into the sex offenders list for a good number of years. Sometimes almost for life.
That way, anywhere they move to, they have to go inform their neighbors by law that they are registered sex offenders. Humiliating huh?
It also affects their job prospects, and those who were convicted of paedophilia aren't allowed anywhere near children.
But if after the required number of years they don't recommit the offense, they will be taken off the register as reformed individuals (hopefully)

Timbuktou:
Free, you're relapsing into old, destructive habits. I have never portrayed hatred for the white man. What I will not stand for is people like you who think the white man shits roses when I think different. You might not know this but you can have a valid argument without lying.

My christianity ended years ago. I quote the bible only when it agrees with me, doesn't make me a christian anymore than quoting from the Qur'an makes me muslim. Cocoa, I had such high hopes for you. Alas, my faith in you seems to be misplaced.

Common sense and a keen sense of observation, baby. I can see the toxicity of following things without proper analysis. And yes, I may be selfish but you haven't proven to be selfless either. You are no better than my selfish arze.

Women acting cranky on the periods is derogatory? Wow, next you'll tell me having less energy due to hunger is derogatory. Free, go and eat, you need nutrients to argue effectively.

Of course not, I don't have younger sisters or nieces, and I definitely will not have a daughter. Only a woman can teach a woman. I have nothing to contribute. Cocoa, aRe you fasting today? You're arguing like you need to eat somethong.

edwife:
Ha!I got a lot to learn.



I brought it up because most men still believe it's the best decision when it comes to training younger kids.

freecocoa:
Doesn't the double standard make you want to puke?

Timbuktou:
Like I said, nobody is advocating for alabodoism. Let's start our debate from there.

Timbuktou:
Never said it was. However, practising feminists abhor the idea of it. Housewives are regarded with disdain. How could anyone want to be a housewife when she could be having a career. Shior, no dreams and ambition.

I guess you guys had the industrious homemaker where you're from. Nobody is demanding that the wife be in purdah. The idea is that her priority be keeping the home.

Yeah, tell that to women who get looks of disdain from their betters.

Timbuktou:
@ Keppyy, you do realise the concept of love is a fantasy, right? It doesn't exist.

@ Tearoses, welcome to the awakening. And, yes, women do scheme.

To the womynz: For those who had/have faith in potential. What happens when the potential doesn't come good?

Timbuktou:
I mean a thing like feminism is a thing now; a proper trend.

No, I didn't read the housewives thread, haven't seen it. However, the modern Nigerian is an oyinbo zombie and will copy whatever trend is in vogue; the current homosex culture is a case in point. Watch it: bestiality is coming to a town near you.

edwife:
It's a thing in the west already,just that many don't talk about it.It is not because they want to but the cost of living here.Staying at home is a good bargain than working considering the cost of childcare.

As for our Nigerians sisters,it is not the case.Did you read the last thread created about housewives?and it was created by a man for that matter.

Timbuktou:
Edwife, the housewife is going to become a thing in the west in the near future. Many western women are wising up to the negativity of feminism and the only reason you don't hear of anti-feminist women is because the MSM won't give them airtime. If both sides were given a fair platform, feminism would die a natural death.

warol0:
One major source of paternity fraud in Naija is babies swap at Maternity clinics. People desperately looking for male child making unholy deals with nurses / traditional midwives to swap newly born babies. The mothers are not necessarily in the know of this, and may be constituting a sizeable percentage of paternity cases.

zeb04:
right there babe.

Adaobi12:
Lets look at it this way, he drops the gf, goes to one of his friends, he consoles him tell him stuffs like, "na shout she go shout, if she do her it will be to move out" he returns home fully prepared for your shouting spree, only to met you all loving and doting, believe ma'am, he will be weak. if he is a man with conscience, he will have no choice but to apologize and change.

Shouting and throwing tantrums might spoil the family's name, think of the neighbours around.

Think of the effect on divorce on your kids.

Most times, men's excesses are curbed by applying a little wisdom, not moving with the trend.

zainyola:
U such a swit@