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jeffizy:
This is a good time for the desperados who want to be like the supposed "superstars" to learn .
They spend real cash , they starve, they go under the knife all in a bid to appear like the stars they see on magazines and TV.
It's all fake!!!
Be proud of your own body ladies.

naijababe:
It's either I am incredibly naive or I am an alien...........many posits on this thread are just so strange to me

5minsmadness:
Yet to see it.
But ok.

wisdomiskey:
stale joke

5minsmadness:
turning a blind eye to something and not speaking out for the sake of peace or to avoid pettiness is deception in itself. If you think all marriages do not experience this in one way or the other then you are the one not accepting reality.

A woman walks to her husband naked and asks him if he thinks she is fat. He knows she has definitely added on some pounds esp after delivery of thier three kids but he nevertheless smiles, kisses her and says "No dear, you're as sexy as the day I met you."

Thats deception and a blatant lie.
But he says it anyway becasue he loves her and doesnt want to hurt her feelings.
She knows this but believes the lie anyway and loves him the more for it.

5minsmadness:
thank you.

@bolded, the op is meant to be a generalization, it does not mean all marriages experience the exact examples stated therein, however ALL marriages thrive with a certain level of compromise and permissiveness.

euromoney:
Well,my suggestion will be for the Lagos government to allocate land in the outskirts,very far from the city,maybe after Ajah/Epe or so(moreover it's only such areas you can still find such massive expanse of land to conveniently accommodate them in Lagos)that way by the time lagosians consider travel cost,travel time and huge inconvenience to the walmart,they'll find their local stores actually cheaper and rather continue 'jeje' with them.

Lamispaco:
A wife asked her husband to drop her off at a friends house, where a wedding reception was taking. place. He responded that he would be too busy throughout the day in the office, and gave
her some money to use as taxi for transport. He left for the office.

The wife took a Taxi to the wedding reception, there she met a fine Girl and
they got talking to each other. Soon they became friends. In the evening when everyone was leaving, the Girl asked the Woman how she was
going home. She replied that her husband was too busy in the office to pick her up so she would use a taxi. The Girl responded; "My boyfriend
brought me here and would be coming to pick me up. I just spoke to him on the phone and he's on his way. Why don't you join me in his car and we would drop you at your house"The woman agreed. A few minutes later, her husband's car arrived.
The Girl jumped into the front passengers seat of the car and asked the Woman to sit at the backseat, which she did confused and perturbed.
Then the Girl introduced her new friend to her boyfriend. When the man turned around to greet the woman, he recognized her as his wife.
Nothing much was said along the way. He dropped the wife at home first as planned and
proceeded to drop the Girl at her house...

The question now is: If you were the wife, what would you do when your husband returns home?.

If you were the husband, what would you say to your wife when you return home.

Adaobi12:
Atimes, violence worsens situations other than making it better.

babyme1:
By their post you can tell who is married and who isnt.

Personally as a married woman, i dont see myself sitting quietly in that car or even dropping so that MY OWN hubby can go drop HIS girl friend. Im already busting a vein thinking about it. Like WTF!

Joe88:
Some will buy a flat and claim to buy a house. Davido comes to mind. Congrats though, if its true.

jarkbauer:
About 6 months ago my wife started refusing sex. In the last 6months we have had sex only 4 times. I asked her why and she told me her libido is dead. She doesn't feel like having sex. I am at loss. Any woman with this kind of problem. To help her, I asked if she has any fantasy we could fulfill just to spice our sex life and she told me she doesn't have any sexual fantasy.she hardly think about sex. That's why ask in another thread if women usually have sexual fantasy. We are married for 2 years and have 2 kids.

euromoney:
Thousands of small business owners have seen their dreams of being successful entrepreneurs destroyed by the opening of Wal-Mart in their area. Small businesses are not afforded the same discounts by wholesale providers as those given to major corporations because the smaller business cannot buy the massive quantities that companies like Wal-Mart can. Therefore, they must charge higher prices for the same product thus losing patronage.

Walmarts quest for low cost and price is making the company to pay least wages to its workers.infact majority of Walmarts staffs are dependent on government welfare because their wages cannot sustain them,what this implies is that the government is indirectly granting subsidies to walmart even though the company is not owned by the government.
It has team of tax consultants that exploit loopholes in the tax system to make the company pay low taxes.

Walmart is predatory. It gobbles mom and pop shops and run competitors out of business by use of economics of scale in its purchases.the company determines prices that suppliers will receive on the products supplied.if a supplier refuses,walmart makes generic brands,this has bankrupted many walmart suppliers or made them earn very little profit from the company.

euromoney:
Thousands of small business owners have seen their dreams of being successful entrepreneurs destroyed by the opening of Wal-Mart in their area. Small businesses are not afforded the same discounts by wholesale providers as those given to major corporations because the smaller business cannot buy the massive quantities that companies like Wal-Mart can. Therefore, they must charge higher prices for the same product thus losing patronage.

Walmarts quest for low cost and price is making the company to pay least wages to its workers.infact majority of Walmarts staffs are dependent on government welfare because their wages cannot sustain them,what this implies is that the government is indirectly granting subsidies to walmart even though the company is not owned by the government.
It has team of tax consultants that exploit loopholes in the tax system to make the company pay low taxes.

Walmart is predatory. It gobbles mom and pop shops and run competitors out of business by use of economics of scale in its purchases.the company determines prices that suppliers will receive on the products supplied.if a supplier refuses,walmart makes generic brands,this has bankrupted many walmart suppliers or made them earn very little profit from the company.

delectablegyal:
Wetin make u think say na women plenty pass for teaching profession?

Teaching is the best profession for a married woman.

moca:
Bukatyne,how did u get the work out CDs?
Or did u download?

enomakos:
you made some valid point my dear

but are you blaming most of the breakup in marriage on the men?

edwife:
If it is due to her fault,she won't be needing sex but if it is his,it is difficult but personally i don't like the idea.

I don't know.it 's just that thought of giving pleasure to oneself,no kiss,touch,caresses....ewww

coogar:
of course, they are not asexual....
at least they get the itch 3-4 days in a month. men of that age still get the itch on a daily basis. that's the difference!



you would be the first to see that video - i solemnly promise!

edwife:
That 's the problem i have with men, they refuse to acknowledge the fact that women are very much sexually active even after menopause.

Yes most women might experience a decline in their sex drive but it is only temporary. The world has evolve and women are fixing the problem.

Medical treatments are now available, oestrogen creams, pessaries, tablets,lubricants and many more.

MEN shine your EYES.

njokusboy:
dats for boys, doesnt mean they are age mates, else id be age mates with my two brothers.. whaat about my older sister, were she a boy, we'd have been in the same age group..... Are we mates too? or are you attempting to imply that only boys that are 5 years older than any girl are age mates with her and not the other way around?

coogar:
she doesn't have to....
if the man of the house has abandoned her completely, she would need her rabbit at some point!

edwife:
I never find the necessity of using a intimacy gadget

I prefer a real deal,no gadget will give me the satisfaction i need .

I see it ridiculous.

njokusboy:
pardon??

coogar:
yetunde bust line......here i come.



older women cook better and they appreciate the man more than these young brainless bimbos who believe everything has to be given to them. i vote for older women.



na mature married you wan make i marry before?




this is more to do with the hypocrisy of women than anything else.
rabbit as a yardstick will not cut it until you find the statistics of married men using hookers to pass time. while men are free to sow their wild oats even in marriage, women are bound.........so they use intimacy gadgets more otherwise her society would judge her.

edwife:
You mean it?

Brother tv why na?

TV01:
About something totally different to what I posited


Again, about something totally different to what I posited.

Truckpusher descibes a man 40+ older than his wife who is actually number wife number 4 - and this is when the man is close to 90. How does that map to or rebut my position? A total strawman

Guys, if you fall for this MOMS - "marry our mature singles" - campaign, you are on your own. They are busy mapping scenarios that have no bearing or similarity to my advice in order to discredit it. Be wise. Think strategically.


TV

TV01:
Proudly Ijebu !

TV01:
The "Regberegbe" are "age grade" associations and typically range from 3 to 5 years. They are constituted for social cohesion and activity - not because they serve as a reference for marriage or any other relationship.

TV01:
There are still associations of people born within a year of each other, and there is still the sense of age hierarchy. I call my brother egbon and he is barely 2 years older than me. Do I drag title or headship with him because we are in the sam regberegbe?


TV

EnlightenedSoul:
Lol, there's no correlation between feminism and polyamory.

But how ironic that people readily endorse polyamory on the sly (cheating) over an honest, and open polyamorous relationship?

bellong:
Well, the issue of age should be individual's preference. I don't think there should be a rule of thumb to that part. Some prefer very young ladies, some age group while others prefer older ladies.

In my early twenties, I initially wanted to follow the footstep of father Abraham but lost the interest before I was ready for marriage. While marrying a younger person is good but I don't think it should be a guideline. Age should be sole discretion of individuals. The younger lady will also become old. The headmaster was once a school boy.