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FrancisTony:
Women are their worst enemy is a "chauvinistic/sexist phrase", as MEN are equally their own enemy.

Human rebellion, frailties, imperfection etc is mostly emphasized on, when it's towards female gender.

I agree that women are their worst enemy but I can still give you many instances of men being their own worst enemy.
Nobody would deny that he/she hasn't seen any man envious of his friend's success - politicians comes to my mind.

For example - If Omotola is having a little misunderstanding with Genevieve, the phrase pops up; but when the role is reversed e.g Davido versus Wizkid, tone would change that they are kids instead of men are their worst enemy.
Even on Nairaland, as a female, don't go on threads about successful female celebrities hating, as you'll be bashed with that phrase but MEN are free to hate on male celebrities. Hypocrisy!

pickabeau1:
the problem on this thread started when Francestony called men hypocrites for being the reason women call each other their own enemies
some female posters jumped on this and started the male bashing
why can't some females be objective

kaboninc:
Bukatyne,

Like this post up there ^^^

You IGNORE!

One needs to catch some good sleep tonight!

Osisibaby, I mentioned you. Sorry.

cococandy:
glad to be of service ma'am

cococandy:
This kind madam.

So you don't have my account number again that I've sent you before

Anyway I can't talk too much. If you sack me, how will I survive ?

kaboninc:
You mean chaircover now tearoses

Hmmmmm.

But I don't or haven't seen her dissecting folks like this. Am MIA then.

This family section get issues.

cococandy:
So I'm bukatyne's housegirl?

Madam you've not paid me for the week o.
And I've finished washing junior's clothes and serving master's lunch.

Better pay up

TV01:
....a not so great one to start

Oya Bugly Bukky - show ya face!

TV

kaboninc:
The party...I wonder what's there to enjoy.

Sometimes, you allow issues to hibernate. Or are you they kind that says 'never'?

kaboninc:
Yes you do care honey!

You must not respond to every posts/comments/mentions.

We guys can be something else. Unless you enjoy the insults flying helter-skelter.

kaboninc:
If I do, the response will be filled with insults. Hence am asking you.

charles316:
Answer my question na.
What do you gain by being controversial?
How has feminism and lesbianism shaped your life?
Should I go on?

TV01:
She almost certainly rides betaboy him so hard she has a saddle; Look at the kind of rubbish she posts;

kaboninc:
Why do these guys just don't like you?

charles316:
Answer the damn question .

Like TV said, I can imagine the hell you give to your husband at home.

@ victoriab, why dont you continue to stalk that guy you admire? Iykedere or whatever.

TV01:
The thread is here for all to read. Even if you edit your posts the timeline won't change. You are a consummate dullard. Anyway sha the internet is a leveller .


Which is why you started with the sly invective against my wife? Someone you can't stand against in any way shape or form. Called to back up your utterances, you run . Weasel. Ugly looking, ugly character


Engaging you is stultifying. You can't even marshal valid points, original thought, or language of your own. Just rabid chatter. I'll know it's time to leave when you produce decent content . Makes one appreciate the few that post with any cogency .


Show me where I said that and I'll deactivate. Another pop huh . Show your picture now. Why are you afraid - you can even redact the embarrassing bits (although that would probably make it a pointless exercise !).

Dullard that you are, you'll always present opportunity to be rinsed. Prepare for your water torture


TV

charles316:
Who are the "we"? The association of bitter women?

No you can't help me. But you can help your husband by getting a job and assisting him since his minimum wage can't be enough for your young family.

How do you feel just wasting away on Nairaland as if you are paid to show up.

As a feminist,how do you empower yourself or your fellow woman? By spending hours here bashing men?

charles316:
@ bukatyne

Madam, why are you controversial? You are the only one that I've seen fight the most gentle of nairalanders (tv01,tearoses, Aisha etc).

Can you stop with all these topics that bring your fellow feminists out to bark endlessly?

babyosisi:
I am a trying
Today I even came with a miniature size sprite


I had to feed my sweet tooth with something too besides salad

Stillfire:
This topic again? Thought it had been dealt with. My stance doesn't change either. From experience, I've been in girl groups to know that the ones who at the drop of the heart scream their lungs out to say women are their worst enemies are the biggest troublemakers in those groups.

VictoriaBee:
Kinda true. He asked that dude francis if he's top or bottom and I had to google it.

He spent time knowing a lot about gay.
How wierd of a straight dude except he's bi-curious bisexual.

craziebone:
i have ended my participation in this thread already. The reason being: i cannot continue to engage in a discussion that will lead no where. Although, from time to time, i will still be coming around; it is important we don't give you monopoly of cyber space. Many people are reading and as they read, they get an orientation. Allowing a feminist dominance of cyber space is a threat to societal security; they feed the good, the bad and the ugly. It is the responsibily of other good feminists to call out the bad and the ugly ones. But in a case where these good ones refuse to do the needful and instead protect the others, people like us will stand up and do the job.

craziebone:
My leaving this thread is not a runing away. As a matter of fact, it is a precautionary measure. No matter how strong you are, you are what you see, read, feel, hear and exposed to. Doctors do wear protective gears, don't they?

craziebone:
As for the proof you want me to bring, i will definitely provide it. But pls, don't go chery-picking through the responses. That op may or may not be looking for a man; but for a feminist to come up and say something like "on a softer note, how many men have sent you private mails since you started this thread?" is completely wrong! Would it be ok too...to acuse FrancisTony of looking for women?

https://www.nairaland.com/1969656/women-becoming-assets-rather-than

TV01:
Hypocrite - after you insulted my wife and used the term "viper" too refer to my womenfolk - keep feigning indignation !

TV01:
Awwww.....someone is pained and jealous. Hypocrite. Don't worry, I'm dancing on your last nerve today . I'mma do you like toothache !
Please, qualify that with "proud" . Oya, you that you are making mouth, show us what you gat. Trial by combat, combat by picture . Show us pix of your tall, handsome young Jaffa, one of yourself (Not your usual redacted and blurry pix 0), and you both.!

Post by 20:00 hours - loser deactivates.

TV01:
How crass and uncouth. As ever you expose your dark and damaged self. Guttersnipe. I'll-mannered, shrewish, thick and low-bred. All your pretend piety and bogus empathy for other women. You are sickeningly emblematic of the OP.

TV01:
There's no way that broda isn't suffering at your hands. Either from your base manner or your wretched presence.

...if you post a grovelling apology and confess that you don't equate to a pile of my wifes toenail clippings, I may consider pardoning you

mizzochocinco:
An uncle of mine had 2 children out of wedlock and he did not tell my aunt for 5years. She found out through gossip and she eventually confirmed it. Out of frustration and anger she was with another man and a week ago she came to confess to my sister who is her agemate that she is pregnant for another man and she has no intentions of telling her husband since he never respected her enough tell her about his 2 bush kids. She did her calculation and she is sure her husband is not the father. Do you think its fair to get even with him?

SAMBARRY:
you can't understand Lololololol

DollyParton1:
SirShymexx the self acclaimed Ijebu Duke? You transformed??
I mean that blissful feelings where everthing is relatively ok regarding your relationship.
Happiness is not absolute, but when all you could feel around your partner is trepidation, anxiety and worrying and having to tiptoe around them, then it is not worth it.
I mean anyone who has to go through being pummelled everyday with with words or fist doesn't need a prophet to tell them to get out. Except if they are sick and enjoy the physical and emotional pain.

For better for worse has been misinterpreted over the years. For better for worse is when life happens and things don't go as planned. Not when your partner does things to hurt you continuously.

smartmom:
It is a sign from ABOVE that you should kick the habit sis

veave:
Mrs Ugbelase Onuigbo Ijeoma was my boss in DBI when I was on IT. She was very kind to me. A very good mentor I must confess.
Nigerians do not know the difference between office, home, and hang out areas. Most times we think its business as usual... no one will talk or look down on you except you want it that way.


I had another female boss somewhere I worked after service. She wasn't nice at all but I didn't let her yeyerise me like she did others.


Let me just say Personality differ. Just do your job and do it well...