₦airaland Forum

LuvSwollenPussy:
Hmm. I keep asking myself too. Only Bill can answer that o..only him knows himself.
Hilary showed her virtue-worth especially in a place like the USA where such is uncommon and she got herself honor..kudos to her.

1stCitizen:
James 5:16...Confess your sins to one another.

Gaidenk:
The Poster is actually forcing people to accept her point of view. Now that's a guilty persons action,Madam you didn't have to come to nairaland for us to help soot the decision you have made to deceive your hubby,in as much as there are more of women like you in this world,please try not to poison the character of those who have decided that openness and honesty is a virtue they will uphold. you give women a bad name.

babyosisi:
I guess controversy is my middle name
Every wise woman knows the things I wrote there are 100% truth
Something prompted this thread
I have watched a marriage where the man had cheated many times then separated a few times.THey came back together and he moved to the guest room and totally neglected her then in that weak moment after months of torture,she had sex with an older family friend who basically took advantage of her vulnerability ,one day when the marriage seemed to be on the up,filled with guilt and without wisdom she knelt down ,cried and confessed and he divorced her.
True story
Up till this moment every story is about her cheating no one ever mentions his

If she had come to me with her guilt,God knows I would have advised her to shut her mouth .
SHe also regrets confessing
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So ladies,if you are a good woman who wandered, confess to your God and keep your mouth shut [/size]

Imagine the stains

1. The marriage is over
2. The whole world knows what you did including little kids

[size=18pt]Keep your mouths shut I say[/size]

LuvSwollenPussy:
True write up but I disagree with this point. Faithfulness and conscience are not same. Your repentance isn't complete without confession to d cheated fellow..even God doesn't term that a complete repentance. If repentance was just enough, bill and hillary clinton won't be together today. Bill cheated with a worker in d white house(monica lewisky) but confessed to his wife..of course she was hurt but forgave him afterwards. Later when the trial of his impeachment came up in court, his wife stood by him as opposed to what ppl expected. Many ppl dnt knw their spouse as much as outsiders know them until they get disrespected publicly for their spouse's action

I remember my mum used to warn me at tender age that if I do anything wrong I should confess and prepare my mind for the consequence b4 d offended fellow finds out by him/herself. You'll gain more honor dat way..and dat I should bear in mind dat not all offenders are simple and forgiving as she is.

andromida:
Guess your love is functional.

babygirlfl:
To be honest, the best and ideal thing is for a couple to be completely honest and open to each other. It's by far the best type of marriage which should be what couple should have as a standard. However just like many standards that should be maintained in marriage, our people are very very far from it.

Nigerian women should not kid themselves by thinking that the couple is being asked to be honest to each other. In most cases, they are asking only you the WOMAN to be honest.

If Nigerians want the women to be honest, we have to make a conducive environment for it. We have to be less judgemental and more open ourselves.

delishpot:
Seduction? If a woman.married or single is expected to respect herself and ignore seduction from males around her work place, why then are some men acting like its impossible to ignore seduction too?
As for harrassment, ehn, I can understand that one. .But I do not believe a student can sexually harass her lecturer. Wetin he get to lose if he doesnt sleep with her? If she is his boss that I can understand but in both cases, the men involved are the "bosses" so what can they claim they will lose if they do not give in to the seduction or harrassment?
My answer is NONE

nickibarb:
what do you know. Gov Amaechi that just celebrated his 50th birthday and has held one political post or the other since he was 34 years old, will you tell him to go and get a real job? someone that can buy you and your family 10 times over. 8 more years of politicizing, and he would have spent his whole working career as a politician. so if you don't have any reasonable contribution, just stfu.

for the rest of you who made very helpful contributions, positive and negative, thank you very much. hubby and i had a heart to heart conversation, we learnt from our mistakes, figured out what we could have done differently and our marriage is back to rosy-land again. i've learnt to keep the MIL far away from our affairs. we've neither spoken to nor seen each other since then. whenever our paths cross, i'm sure time will have healed all wounds. remain blessed y'all

lezz:
FACT !

iykedare:
Lol. This is absolutely correct.
Frequent powerful orgasms has a way of making women submissive and very loving........Iykedare

5minsmadness:
Then it's not u then.
My mistake.

5minsmadness:
Good morning.
The book on sex mom gave u as a teenager was hardcover.

bellong:
Can I send you a pm? I want to ask a question.

5minsmadness:
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True.
Didn't see that.
Hard Cover sex book

coogaluta:
Who did you think I was?
@question, ask phema

bellong:
Yes, the priest is watching out for his clans...

@Cococandy,

I believe most parents teach chastity not necessarily telling the girls to keep themselves pure for their men but for religious reasons.

Being chaste doesn't stop anybody from reaching the peak of pleasure, things are learnt. There are enough good materials available to aid it.
And I agree with parents who teach chastity because the benefits outweigh the cons. I only do not agree with the methods adopted. There are other ways to teach your children and be open about sex while not compromising sanctity.

Like someone said a lot of wives need to free themselves to their husband to enjoy it. Some are too frigid and it is a big hindrance.

5minsmadness:
Sis.
Sister.

Don't call.
How's Dave?

5minsmadness:
You know I've been suspecting for a while...
Reading thru your experiences and posts kept striking a familiar chord.
This your last post did the trick.

Bukatyne.
I know who you are.
Hi Sis.

coogaluta:
He is short and bald-headed with a big tummy





In your dreams

Ibime:
Stupidity of the African man.

Busy hailing the family members of his oppressors when the sight of them should make him angry

Lindaikeji, Nairaland keep promoting thís stüpidity on their front page. If it's not Fayoses son flaunting our stolen commonwealth in our face, it will be Bode George's son or Atikus daughter. Nairaland will label it "beautiful picture of X and Y" and the foolish sheep that we call our fellow citizens will like the picture and claim they are beautiful.

Why not educate the people as to how Isabela Dos Santos became Africas richest woman by stealing Angolas commonwealth and granting herself import waivers whilst pegging everyone else's at 40% so they can't do business. Instead lalasticlala will label her beautiful and send her to front page. And the worship of our oppressors continues.

edwife:
Look what i found online,Stephanie Okereke new reality show,i am not really keen on these stuff but this takes the cake.

The first episode is so lovely,you can feel the excitement of the lady(Ifeoma),i really liked this.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_TBtdihVeoE

Such ladies always marry quiet guys,and she is so beautiful!The power of make up and money is everything.

okotv:
Unwarranted spamming. Regret it though.

dBard:
Your post shows an understanding of marriage borne from experience and common sense.
Thank God for your corrections, cos this is the kind of posts that leads to issues in marriage, when one party is still trying to maintain their identity when the 2actually is 'To Become One'.
recipe f disaster.


Kudos t u ma.

okotv:
Am good o. You ?

Your thread and the attacks sha.

I was banned but came back on Friday

okotv:
that wedding gown though .....



happy married life. Bliss all the way

kelechiMarie:
thanks a lot dear