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kelechiMarie:
@bellong
i wanna try out this new diet too but there are a few questions.
I'm buying my spinach at the local market do you know it's local name (not sure if it's green or shoko)
if i'm using green tea must i add sugar?(i cant imagine green tea and sugar aargh)
for the steak and salami can i also use other meat parts like kidney?
Lastly, who knows where i can get spring onions and lemons to buy in lagos?
Thanks

Timbuktou:

Ojoro

cococandy:
See her mouth. So the late wife who was good isn't a Nigerian?
Or she's telling us she's a bad lady herself since she's Nigerian.
So she believes the foreign woman does not like property? Ignorance at its peak

Xtupid senseless talk.
Some ladies are pretty annoying.

SAMBARRY:










Shebi one was complaining about how he had been swindled with fake butts and brez



mouka foam stuffed bra and vita foam padded a55








What they see is what they will get

Lumpyy:
Chai......see the number of pages wasted on you said this i mean that,haba,i no longer enjoy family section bcause of this fights.must everything be about you?state ur opinion on the matter and quit giving us headache,i had to scroll past several pages!!!!!

pickabeau1:
so u agree women do it for them to be noticed by men?

pickabeau1:
ok...

so is d boobs of woman in her 60s now d issue

some of our young women own eh....



Nope
We dont need it
weare comfortable in our skin

with the correct resources, we will get any women we desire

no need to be exhibitionist nor bleach nor use fake hair

oloyede252:
hello ma,one bottle of origin for you

pickabeau1:
correct!
freecocoa,... u see when i asked which circles of nip-ple showers do u roll with


hahahaha

Timbuktou:
Hehehe.

pickabeau1:
are naija ladies free to free their nip-ples presently

Immaangel:
After marriage women are expected to make all the adjustments and changes. Ladies, here are 6 things you should never do for your man
1. Ignore Your Dreams
Just because he wants you to spend time with him or be around him always, should not make you feel guilty into turning down that big promotion or the chance to go for thyuat prestigious conference abroad. He should never ask you to make a choice between your dreams and him. There should always be a common ground to work on. Ask yourself, would you be happy in a relationship where you have to give up your hard-earned dreams? If he loves you, he will understand that your dreams and career are as important as his.
2. Modify your values
All of us have our own set of moral values and principles that we believe in. These values form our identity and individuality to a good extent. Never try to change your morals just because your man wants you to. Even if you two don’t share common values, he should always respect yours, rather than change them. This is not just about moral values; it is also about religion and beliefs. Such things cannot and should not ever be changed just because someone else wants you to do so.
3. Change Your Look
woman should never change her appearance or the way she looks only because her man desires so. Subtle changes are acceptable, like dressing and styling ones. But if he wants you to go for surgeries to change certain aspect of your appearance then never agree to it. He should admire your natural beauty and not work towards changing it. Just because he doesn’t like the way your nose looks or if he finds your ears too pointy, it should not guilt-trip you into going for something as drastic as a surgery.
4. Sacrifice your personal space
Even your family and friends need your time and attention, and this is something even you enjoy, right? So, never sacrifice your personal space and time that you should be spending with them just because he wants you to. Try to divide it and strike a balance. Just because you are in a relationship does not mean that you do not need anyone else apart from him. And, he should understand and respect that.
5. Forget Who You Are
Never try to act what you are not. Do not show that you are less intelligent than him just to boost his ego or only because it will make him happy. Men like independent women, so acting stupid is not going to help at all. Also, you should not change your likes and dislikes for him. These things make you unique. So, do not lose your individuality and identity for a man. At least, not when you are being forced to do so
6. Handing over the reins
Never give him the access to be in control of you. No matter how much you love him, the decisions should always be mutual. He should never make the final decision of what you should and shouldn’t do. Always discuss with him, but make your decision keeping your own lifestyles and choices in mind.
Ladies, keep these things in mind. There are certain aspects of your personality that you should not change for a man, even when you are in love. If you are not true to yourself, you can never be true to your relationship!

pickabeau1:
so u support it... when will we have our naija version

SAMBARRY:
Thanks jare. I will

pickabeau1:
University of Califonia San Diego (UCSD) students undressed in protest of public exposure laws and the sexualization of female nipples on Library Walk during the Free the Nipple event on Wednesday.

UCSD alumna and event organizer Anni Ma explained to the UCSD Guardian that the existing laws propagate injustice.

“When I saw a covered-up nipple that protruded out from a woman’s shirt and people making fun of it, I felt that it was unfair that women [aren’t] able to walk around without a bra and be comfortable,” Ma said. “Then, I started to wonder why I can’t walk around without a shirt when men can do that.”

The event began with Ma announcing at the beginning of the event that she will “free” her br.easts, after which both male and female participants removed their shirts.

Thurgood Marshall College junior Aubrey Oxley said to the Guardian that society has been coercing women to be afraid of exposing their bodies and there is no reason for women to be afraid of what is natural.

“[As] women, we shouldn’t be uncomfortable with our bodies because these are the bodies that we have, these are the bodies that we are born with,” Oxley said. “There’s no reason for us to feel afraid other than just that what society has made us feel. We’ve been socialized to be afraid.”

Eleanor Roosevelt College freshman Annika Reno stated that, although participating in the event made her feel uncomfortable, it was a necessary act.

“It is uncomfortable for everyone, but it is something that needs to be done,” Reno said. “I think that the fact that it isn’t comfortable makes it even more compelling and revolutionary.”

It was not until the 1930s that men in the United States were legally allowed to publicly expose their nipples. Now, women across the nation are campaigning for legalization of the public exposure of female nipples, declaring that it should be considered a right.

According to Oxley, the movement began during the 2014 Topless March in New York City. Oxley discussed how the event instigated a change in people’s perceptions of female body parts.

“Men actually had to cover up their nipples, as well, but that law changed. If you look back into centuries, past women couldn’t even show their ankles because ankles were sexualized,” Oxley said. “We live in a very misogynic society where women’s bodies are hypersexualized, and this movement is the first step [away from that].”

Incoming UCSD Associated Students President Dominick Suvonnasupa told the Guardian that the event promotes gender equality in society.

“I believe that men and women should have equal opportunity and equal rights. It might seem trivial to a lot of people, but why is it that there’s inequality between guys and girls?” Suvonnasupa said. “Why can’t they be topless when they want to?”

The event concluded without any arrests or legal consequences after two hours. Ma said she believed the event was a success.

“When you know you’re right, it’s not scary,” Ma told the Guardian. “I want everyone to be comfortable with their bodies and to be comfortable enough to see other people being comfortable [with] their own bodies.”

http://ucsdguardian.org/2015/05/20/students-protest-nudity-laws-at-free-the-nipple-event/

See official event video below


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ISs7SFSNYk

this was discussed last year and the movement is gaining momentum
will the feminists soon stage something similar in naija... please send me ticket o
i support such movements

cc: bukatyne naijababe ewuro4 Timbuktou cococandy TV01 damiso tearoses anonimi idowuogbo MizMyColi coogar 5minsmadness stillfire

SAMBARRY:
what apin?

irunoko:
Wura

TV01:
Nope, you clearly started it - I entered to offer my heartfelt congratulations on your anniversary, and merely teased you about the thread - the joke you yourself laughed at the last time I made it.

You then said I "lacked common sense", and followed that up by calling me dim-witted". Both of which I ignored 'cos I know how bristly you can be. You then jumped on another post of mine and had a dig at my wife/womenfolk.

Having said all that, I could have been more benign. I appreciate that you are rightly defensive of your spouse and don't appreciate him being ridiculed. I was also a little mean to you. But you you didn't do too badly in dealing with it.

You have been complimentary to my wife - and kids - and a kind word turns away anger. I unreservedly apologise for having a go at your hubby and being mean to you.


Have a good night


TV

thorpido:
Abasi Mbok.Too cost na

thorpido:
Una well done here o.

I'm just passing by.............dey look for fuel.

babyosisi:
^^^^^

Bukatyne the thread is a hit

See

pickabeau1:
once again you ladies miss the point

this thread.. you're the Op was about women castigating women.

Frances brought men in it and it was duly obliged

lolababe331e:
Gbam, he was simply pointing out that both sexes are guilty yet only women get labelled . That's not bashing but rather an objective assessment

bukatyne:
This is my stance in This issue.

Men always backstab and betray themselves yet men don't feel they are each others' worst enemies

They see as humans are Naturally deceptive and treat it as such.

So true about the celebrity ish