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bukatyne:
@OP:

Very nice thread

That's why I don't take some people serious. Every little thing we do has the multiplier effect.

@pickabeau1,

This was my first comments and thoughts.

Was there something in particular you wanted my thoughts on?

pickabeau1:
Too much party tinz lol
He wrote in english

He says that women physically responding to male verbal abuse was not seen as abuse unlike the reverse

Case in point...solange n jay z


meanwhile I will like your thoughts on this thread https://www.nairaland.com/1947677/gender-inequality-why-things-wont/2#27170662

As I am not a mind reader, I will wait for him to explain what he means. I read the post and had 2 interpretations to it.

I guess I have looked at that thread but let me check again

The party was fun

TV01:
Obviously no need to justify the woman first hitting the man as that's not physical abuse is it?


TV

Can you please type in English?

Thanks in advance

Chillisauce:
Happy birthday Nashville et Buka.

More happy years to come.
Two correct people

Thanks a lot

ladygogo:
Happy birthday buka and Nashville!

Please gimme me that cake.

Thanks a lot

You can have some from the picture

chaircover:
Where have I been
abeg rice still dey

Happy Birthday Buka and Nash . . .

Wishing you both many more happy, healthy, fruitful, favoured and blessed years

Hip Hip Hip Hooorayyyyyyy

Thanks a lot

edwife:
Happy Birthday to bukatyne and Nashville.

Long life and prosperity.

All the best!

https://image.blingee.com/images18/content/output/000/000/000/732/691649775_737573.gif

Thanks a lot

Your GIF is very nice

Stillfire:
Happy birthday! I thought you'd be petite though. And Nashville would be light-skinned lol.

Thanks a lot

Lol! @ petite: why?

Happy Birthday to our birthday mate and my age mate who is a member of arsenal's team: Mesut Ozil.

Wishing him all the best

The writeup seem to infer that there is a 'natural' divide across both sexes

I would say that love is all that matters

If a couple know where each other fall into, the other can work around it and both reach a compromise

carefreewannabe:
I am sure he wouldn't leave you for a size zero.
My baby doesn't like size zero at all.

Mirror mirror on the wall who is the prettiest of all?

Lol @ the rhyme

carefreewannabe:
I know
I have already sang a song, made a cupcake and lighted a candle and prayed for your wish and dreams to come true.

And your dress in the picture was beautiful.
You are in good shape.

I hope you got some nice presents.

I saw them and appreciated

I don't want my hubby to leave me for size zero

Yea, from hubby and team.

Got a dressing mirror from hubby

satope1:
Can everyone see where we have a problem?

They would never agree that verbal abuse is bad and would never condemn it but would rather advise the man runs his mouth back. When did two wrongs start making a right. ?

When you are ready to accept the truth and not resort to double standards maybe we can start addressing abuse in relationships.

Tomorrow

rofemiguwa:
As in!!!! It annoys the eff outta me!
Atimes i just dont bother commenting,people really comprehend tinz differently!!!

Op i understand where u are coming from, in every relationship sometin has to give.

U guys have to reach a compromise. Know dose things u cant share attention with in his life and find how to deal with it, for the ones that can be meddled with find a common ground
Eg when my baby handles his ps4 pad jus dont bother, at first it annoyed the heck outta me but now am his cheerleader lol! #teamYM# , i will just hang around if i really want to be there and ask him to spell his opponent name for me. Of course he will make sure he gives the guy like 5-0
Meanwhile during this period i jus play any game or nairaland on my pad. We are spending time togeda doing different tinz everyone is happy.
All u need ask is do u love this person enough to see forever with him? Once ur heart answers that honestly, everyodr tin can be worked out!!
U jus have to find a way.
Also learn to consider him too? Is ur request convienent?
U cannot be asking for metime when he has a deal to seal?,he will definetely go for the deal.
Like ur airpport case, assuming u are in lagos ,u jus arrived and he was in lekki,knowing lagos traffic. Picking a cab home is a beta option for both of u becz before he gets to d airport like 10flights go don land and also comot.

Jus know wat u want and learn to build ur home. Arrange is one heck of a journey, just make sure u are travelling with the right person ,then learn to jump over all speed breakers, navigate all bend together.

I wish u luck.

This is good

carefreewannabe:
It is not easy for some men to survive in the civilized world.
They are strong as long as women are weak.

The time women become strong, their weakness is fully displayed.

LOL!

Today is my day biko

babygirlfl:
Happy birthday to you two. I wish you both long life and prosperity.

Thanks a lot

alutacontinua:
Why Mr. Bukatyne come first me reach you?

my mental image is almost accurate, I get sense-i know

waiting for Nashville's picture


HBD to both of you
long life with plenty plenty money and all-round peace

Thanks a lot dear

Mental image: really?

Nashville said he is too black. ;

Nashville:
Thanks dear, happy birthday to you too. Many more years on earth and prosperity.

No billions

Amen and you too

Nashville:
Thank you everyone for the birthday wishes. God will bless and replenish you all 100 fold.

The day has been fantastic and is just about to get better. I am trying to upload picture but the thing no clear. May be because I am too black!

LOL

I am so unproductive @ work and I must collect today's pay

I don't want any black person in my thread o

The e-card I did for you has refused to upload

Except a woman hits a man first, I see no justification for physical abuse.

All those men talk less is wash; if a woman runs her mouth, run yours or take a walk.

I see a lot of men in shouting conquests and they manage not to hit themselves because they are afraid of broken bones

If a man verbally abuses a woman, is she allowed to hit the man

Congrats to her

My birthday mate God blesd you

God bless your home bros

I like the fact you decide to live by Christian principles and not just be Christian by mouth

LewsTherin:
I tire bo! They don't know that there are lean times when only what you've saved carries you through.

Don't mind me at all. All I wanted to point out is that a joint account is only another step in a couple being closer. Like CC said, discussions on joint spendings brings you guys together especially when a couple follows Phillipians 2.3 (which happens to be the verse my Lady and I chose to base our relationship on) - Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourself (NIV)

LOL!

theLORDreigns:
Happy Birthday dearest Bukatyne!!!!

Happy Birthday Oga Nashville!!!!

May all your heart desires be fulfilled in JESUS' Name!

Buky, you look so tall & elegant! Beautiful figure. Do enjoy your day!

Thanks a lot

The shoes added lil' height though

crackhaus:
They're pretty

Thanks

My husband tells me that all the time *covers face*

The husband can decide to introduce himself as the wife of so and so or if the wife already uses his surname, the name will open doors e.g. Matthew Ekeinde will achieve stuffs his colleagues cannot because of his wife. Same with Dora's husband, NOI's hubby etc.

crackhaus:
You doubt me?
Okay what kind of color of lipstick is that you have on? And your eyes though, your eyes...

Errm Bukatyne, how old are you now?

What happened to my eyes?

26

crackhaus:
Happy birthday to you blacky, I don't know why I assumed you would be lighter and 'shorter'... Wish ya many more years and celebrations to come.

And to Nashville, happy birthday...cheers!



P.S Bukatyne that smudge you used to hide your face is useless to me, I have a software that can render the image behind an edit like that

I know what you look like now...be afraid, be very afraid! Muhehehehehehe.

Thanks a lot

Fair and short

Goodluck with the face stuff

Salad

zeb04:
Happy birthday bukatyne and nash

Thanks a lot

bellong:
A Scorpio....

29th

Happy Birthday in advance

shizzle11:
Good height....congrats to you two, many happy returns

Thanks a lot