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Truckpusher:
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This comment is very rude and disguting

RoyalRoy, please delete this post

Thanks

Nice picture

God bless your family

divasXpose:
i wont say shes a wife, rather, i would say she is a stupid wife for making that decision. Ask her if her own bible practices forgiveness.

I guess the husband's bible has cheating

It is funny how people expect all women to be moral irrespective of how the men are.

Get it today: there are good men and evil men; there are good women and evil women..

@OP:

If story is true, I really don't know any other solution than they should give lives to Christ

sholay2011:
She actually looks very good in a dress that's covered up.

I smell a juicy endorsement here. Who wouldn't fill vehicle tanks just for one yeye week in exchange for millions of naira

Ride on Tiwa.

The devil is wicked

See how hot she looks.

Why she will think that she looks better in those slutty wears is above me.

LewsTherin:
Since no offence intended, no offence taken.

My Lady and I agreed to always be open with each other from our dating days. After we got married, we had some very rough financial times. I lost my job, and our hustle wasn't yielding much so we learnt to be clear with how much we had, how much we needed for daily living and how much we could spend on luxuries and date night.

Thank God, things have turned around. We run a joint account for savings and big spendings. My personal account does the rest. At first, she kept the ATM card while I kept the cheque book. But ALL expenses were mutually agreed on. My Lady is beautiful and looking good aint cheap! . When she realised that she was in danger of spending more, she gave the card back to me. So basically I can control spending. But I don't. I may hold the cash but she decides what we need. I love her looking beautiful so most of our purchases are for her. She does pressure me into buying stuff but I don't care anyways. I spend big though on electronic gadgets so in order to keep our finances balanced, I keep my purchases few and far between cos each single purchase of mine can add up to the last 10 purchases of hers!!!

Here's how we basically keep the peace. We go shopping together. Always. If for any reason the other isn't around, said other must be informed as quickly as possible. If one makes a personal expense, same must purchase something of silmilar worth for the other.

But I must make this clear. It is only possible because we discuss and deliberate on everything everytime. So personal expenses are never strange or unexpected. We always already have an idea of what the other wants and needs so when such expense is made even at no notice, none if us is surprised.

Has the going been always smooth between us? Strangely, yes. Cos sorry is never difficult. Please is always close. I love you is everyday. We pray together and know that God is the reason why we are.

It's a choice. We chose from the beginning to live like this. And it's been so worth it.

Perfect

Thank God for such wonderful blessings.

His works will be permanet in her life and family

Aprime:
One shouldn't be bias when it comes to adhering support or caution.

If she's at fault, he should caution her.
If she is right and not at fault, she should support her.

In front of the neighbors?

@OP: The husband is doing the right thing. However, I will add that the husband apologises to the neighbors when they report his wife to him (I don't know what will warrant such anyways). If after hearing from his wife, he feels she is wrong, he correctts her; if she is right applease her (all done in the privacy of their bedroom)

The husband doesnot need to keep malice with them but try to resolve their differences.

The

samflexxy:
through taking in all the punches and slaps I really appreciate women who date hyper active and rude guy just for marriage they are trying

LOL

The Nigerian god will continue to bless their 'hustle'

@zybod,

Nice thread to make people aware of some signs before it is too late

@Thread: until Seun complains about the kind of threads a person posts, no poster HAS THE RIGHT to do so or bully someone to stop creating certain types of threads

I see shitty threads everyday and I waka pass. I read some crazy comments and unfollow the thread

The OP never forced anyone to read her thread. If you do not like it, waka pass or create a counter thread.

cococandy:
Yes of course they contribute to it.

The amount of shyt thrown at you is directly proportional to the amount of shyt you've shown you can swallow.

Most Nigerian women have an immense threshold for maltreatment. Can't blame the dudes who disrespect them when they've shown they don't mind being disrespected.

It' will stop when they've had enough.
Until then...

They are built for it

And how do they get to prove their 'submissiveness'?

Trojan00:
that's where u re wrong. Dnt u think sleeping around can be curtailed then extra marital affairs will reduce. But that's the problem with a few of u lot who ve tunnel vision. How can u justify and encourage fornication and then condem adultery. What's bad is bad

And you got this from the post you quoted?

BABE3:
definitely a yes. Sëx is the greatest gift God gave to man. It should not be joked with.

Ok, thanks

coogar:
i can't even let things degenerate to that in the first place. i would place her on military drills that would drain the adipose cells in her tummy.

hypothetically speaking, i would bring in another woman without remorse. my sėx life is more important to me than sentimental bullshyte!

OK, noted

coogar:
i agree - but she would tell his wife to start working out & see sėx as a marital warfare.

What if the wife is not there?

Don't waste your skills; a thread is on about a 33yr old woman who is married to a twice divorced 50yr old man.The wife is seriously starved as hubby is zero in bed.

Please advice the wifey

Let me ask direct questions. I will appreciate yes or no

@babe3, if your hubby after 5yrs starts getting fat and his blokos is shrinking (according to dr. coogar), will you cheat on him after trying to wwork on his eating habits and exercise

@coogar, if your wife after 5yrs starts getting fat and her tummy is bulging, will you cheat on her after trying to work on her eating habits and exercise

Yes or No

coogar:
joyce meyer herself emphasised on the importance of marital sex.....

www.nairaland.com/attachments/1778026_image_jpeg9f360c5ab7736510df54c882e9dbf188

as you can see yourself, she said exactly what i have said here concerning marital sex. a prophet isn't respected in his backyard. if my name is coogar meyer, you would respect me a bit more.

Again, I am 100% sure that if a man meets J.M. that his wife has added 20kg and wears babe's underskirts, she will never tell the man to cheat or that he can cheat.

carefreewannabe:
Please, don't stress yourself.
A size 14 is perfectly ok. As long as you don't reach an unhealthy range, you can be very s*exy. There are plenty of man out there who love curvy women. You have been like this for years, you say, so you don't have to worry that your weight is getting out of control.

I was very skinny as a teenager and on permanent diet because some people, who have insecurity issues themselves, made me believe that I have to be thin to be worthy of lo*ve.

I am still slim but not that skinny anymore. I try to eat healthy and I do sports but I have also come to realize that many round, "average" women have very happy marriages.

Those women who are obsessed with their bodies and looks are stressed and have very unpleasant personalities.
It is like they are very unsatisfied with themselves and their lives and at the end their marriages.

The spark in a marriage will vanish anyway. I am not saying anyone should let themselves go and become obese but I am sure that many men prefer a nice, lovely, warm-hearted woman with curves to an unpleasant personality that looks like a skeleton and is obsessed with weight.

Life can be tough. If a few kilos here and there are a reason for someone to cheat, what will the person do in sickness?

They will relocate their mistress to the bedroom

coogar:
joyce meyer herself emphasised on the importance of marital sex.....

www.nairaland.com/attachments/1778026_image_jpeg9f360c5ab7736510df54c882e9dbf188

as you can see yourself, she said exactly what i have said here concerning marital sex. a prophet isn't respected in his backyard. if my name is coogar meyer, you would respect me a bit more.

Do you know the work her husband did before she became who she is today?

Imagine her husband has started cheating We might not have Joyce M. today

BABE3:
if it's not food that make people fat, what does? Air?

I've been around fat people for a long time and I hear all these excuses often.

Genes... stress... big bones...bla bla bla. But when they finally decide to get serious and make conscious effort to reach a healthy weight (by watching what they eat and exercising), they get results.
Ask jennifer hudson.

I hear you

BABE3:
microwave food? Trash. Crap. Should not be eaten be eaten by anybody.

let's assume healthy foods are scarce in Nigeria (lies), how about portion control? Have you seen a typical Nigerian adult eating?

if you know you only have access to unhealthy foods with crazy high fat and carb content, the sensible thing to do is go easy on the portion.

What other excuse ?

You don't get that food is not what makes some people fat?

Even if they fast for 1 week and they eat healthy after, it might do little or nothing in terms of weight loss/maintainance?

shooze:
If someone wants to cheat he will cheat regardless og how fit ,sexy , kind or good in and out of bed. How many men in Nigeria remain the way they are after marriage. They add weight and become bald is that still a licence to cheat. As for coogar saying his colleagues jog. Try jogging on third mainland bridge to work or even surulere to VI then please give me feedback.

I am always amused when some people in the diaspora just stay stuff that they have not really experienced . I leave home 5.30am daily and get home by 9pm on the average and despite having a driver I know how fagged out I am after I must have sat in traffic for 2hours or more and this is me commuting from ikoyi to ajah. I have colleagues who spend 3-4 hours on 3rd mainland bridge daily and get home 10-11pm. The irony is adding weight is not just about eating bokoto as people often say. Not getting enough sleep, stress (for some people) long hours of sitting in a place actually aids weight gain

My sister,

Most of them are just talking theory

@bold, 100% correct

A lot of people I know are fatter during work than when they are on leave

coogar:
he must have tried to work on it - but it didn't yield any result. she was a bigger star than him so his hands were really tied.

why would a woman even marry at all if she doesn't enjoy sex? huh? you cannot plant cassava & expect pawpaw to sprout of the ground.

You are not serious at last paragraph right?

Joyce Meyer should thank God for her hubby daily

Bolade005:
Oh so you think all men are animals, they see a problem and they just move on, is that what you think?

What makes you think Eric didnt try his best possible to work on her and make sure she enjoys sex?

Where did I say men are animals?

Misogynist2014:
I think I won't go to hell if I have a second wife

I no know

coogar:
keeping fit solves all problems. it's better to be safe than sorry.



she's fine, she's fit but she doesn't enjoy sex. eric benet was well in his right to cheat on her.

so a wife does not enjoy sex and the next thing is for him to cheat?

He could not work on her to enjoy it?

Marriage has become play thing these days.

It is well

chaircover:

dont mind coogar
I am sure he wears those poloneck sweaters under his buba and wears joging bottoms under his sokoto, saying its very cold

LOL!

BABE3:
joke? Can't you see how detailed we are? These are the real struggles of a typical Nigerian marraige.

Bukatyne, you wear underskirt too?

Do you know the use of underskirts?

Anytime you wear iro & buba, you must wear underskirts or a long loose goen underneath.

I wear iro & buba

BABE3:
That's what I heard too. Double wrapper, scarf and turtle neck....with white satin underskirt or 'tights'

You both are here to joke
Looking good or becoming a size 8 means we should walk around without underskirt or tights?

BABE3:
What's the correlation please? We have aethiests and "unbelievablers" with wonderful marriages.

Instead of paying attention to yourself, you're busy fasting and praying (not you), and tieing wrapper around the house. When exactly won't that spirit of God waka pass that marraige ?

And like they say, you're only as faithful as your options. A slacking spouse is playing with "faya".

Kindly ask them if they are faithful because wifey or hubby is hot

If hubby does not like the wrapper, there are several things he can do. If he decides to cheat and dies, he is going to hell. Wrapper tying wifey can repent and God will welcome her with open arms. Everyone of us is responsible for our actions and reactions

@last sentence, that is where the Spirit of God or discipline comes in.

cococandy:
God doesn't feel bad about creating women.if you do feel so bad about it,you can start by killing the women in your life and get married to a man.

Assshole!

LOL!

@edusoul,

Why don't you start by asking God how He feels creating your mother?

BABE3:
I added it to my posted before you quoted me. Layers and layers of yeye undergarments; how sexy!

Coogar do you know some believe wearing a thong is a sin?.

I think you & coogar are just trying to keep this thread lively

I have an uncle who thinks wearing shorts around the house is wrong. So you know that make up, earrings etc. are off. My aunt's short skirts are below her knees and she does not wear sleeveless tops so your dress sexy at home, look good etc advises are lost on her. She till looks neat though.

Deeper life Church has millions of members. Please ask around to know their lifestyle.

crackhaus:


We were not arguing 'polygamy', all I did was ask a question about that scripture.

Neither were we discussing law; it was just an expression

What scripture again?