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bellong:
To Nashville and Bukatyne,

May your salt never become useless and be trampled on. Your lights will continually shine in darkness.

Happy birthday buddies... And month mates.

Thanks a lot

What date are you?

moca:
Thank God i met this one.

Buky,oya take am

Nash, ur too.
(Two awesome personalities here)

Buky, i lv ur ebony color.

Thanks a lot

I receive it

Thanks again

carefreewannabe:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=osKLrBxqkuA

Make a wish.

https://thememoirsofmegan.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/09/one-birthday-candle.jpg

God bless you and may ALL your dreams come true.

Thanks a lot

My wish...


Amen

MizMyColi:
Yipppeeeeeee!!!!

Happy Birthday Hun

I could do with some cupcakes y'know?.......

Thanks a lot

Cup cakes, have faith...

pickabeau1:
I dont know why i thought u were short really..

And because its your birthday... all things are passed away

Have fun

I would really like to know

pickabeau1:
I never thought so... more of a short lady
Anyhow... i will keep the rest to myself

Short ke? Why?

@bolded: Please na... today is my b.day

greatgod2012:
Happy birthday omo olojo ibi........looking "choppable".
Wishing you every beautiful and wonderful things you wish yourself.

And to Nashville, your birthday mate, i wish you happy birthday too.

Long life and prosperity!

Thanks a lot

Seen you kept to your promise

Cake on the way

pickabeau1:
Happy Birthday and many more years

[size=4pt]You look different from my mental image[/size]

Thanks

You thought I was an old wrinkled feminist right?

So what mental image did you have?

greatgod2012:
It's exactly a year that i opened this thread.

@celebrants, as God had added a year to your years, i pray that there shall also be addittions to your great testimonies in Jesus name.

Happy birthday, long life and prosperity!
Hip! Hip!! Hip!!!

H U R R A Y!!!

Amen and to you too

Thank you so so much

damiso:
Happy birthday to you and Nashville many more years of God's glory on your lives


Send our own cake o

That's why I posted that

Thanks so much

Godmystrength:
Happy birthday to both of you. Wishing you long lifes, blissful marriages and wonderful homes

Thank you so much

2. Me (Without my face)

1. Nashville's e-card

Your card has refused to upload . The word version is uploading as an attachment

Happy Birthday to Nashville (my NL elder bros) and I

Like he will say, wishing us both all the billions, long life, blissful marriages and wonderful homes.

God bless you my brother

Did a card for you

Send my cake and presents

abeautifulchick:
Amen.Thanks

God be with you

Know what you want and go for it. If you started this whinning after marriage, I might not take you serious

BABE3:
are your feelings hurt?

get out of here, before I tear your underskirt...

Are you trying to be funny? What has underskirt got to do with it?

Which guy do here you see always trying to put fellow guys down?

Just change, that's all

BABE3:
2 years is all they need. After the honeymoon phase; when attention becomes useless.

Buncha Disney girls.

I don't even fault some guys for not giving the attention. A good number of girls have nothing upstairs apart from brazillian hair and telemundo. Why won't they prefer to spend time with their friends, when their gfs can't even hold intelligent conversations?

Do you get turned on degrading and downplaying women?

I honestly do not seem to get it

MizMyColi:

Your partner is a Thinker, You're a Feeler. In most cases, matches like that?
Not advisable.
But then, all that is needed to make a relationship work is two mature minds.
Feelers et thinkers or not

Abeautifulchick, I feel your pain, especially seeing as I've been there.

I let go, yes. But that's not saying you should too, in the end, it'll be your call to make.

Unlike our thinking female counterparts, feeling females have this need for extra attention. It takes a man of insight and deep understanding to know and accept this.

Virtually all the guys and some females on this thread are making you feel like you're shitty, like you don't have a life of your own........but I think I understand you. You want attention yes, but you don't want him abandoning and loosing sight of himself because he loves you.
More than financial security, you desire emotional security
Any guy who gives you that has won your fierce loyalty for life.

You just wanna feel like you matter to him. That you're also a priority in his life. You want him to let you in, in on his world.......you don't mind adjusting, you don't mind living for him.
But then, more oft than not, it feels like He's shutting you out.
Albeit unknowingly on his part.


My dear, please follow your heart.

It all depends on you, I repeat.









In other news, please remind me while saying my night prayers, to pray, not to marry the kind of guys who have prominently featured on this thread
SCARY!

They may be good for other ladies, not me and vice versa.

Lovely as usual

If money was so important, Dangote would not be on wife no 3 or 4

If money was all the OP needed, she would not be here now.

God will answer your prayers dear

abeautifulchick:
I have raised the issue couple of times but he keeps telling me he will change.

OP:

I was deciding to comment before I read this

It is a lie of the devil for anyone to tell you 'I will change after marriage'. There is no magical agent of change that transforms people after they say 'i do'. If your bobo has some attitude you do not like; discuss it with him. If there is no change, decide if you can live with it without complaint. If no, run as fast as your legs can carry you.

Once in, na to carry your cross. Even if you divorce, what has spoilt is spoilt. If you decide to stay, you will be carrying the pain.

We are here debating what all women/men like as if a worldwide poll was conducted. You and you only know what you want; if that man cannot give it to you, run. No NLer will be with you tomorrow when you are crying o.

Once again, 'I will change after marriage' is a lie of the devil

A word is enough for the wise

May God grant his family and friends the fortitude to bear the loss

The mistress should look for friends, stage an ambush and beat the wife senseles

If she cannot control the husband's willy, she should start wearing sexy pants & bra

Fool.ish woman curing fever instead of typhoid

Sophyrocks:
So God creating animals before adam also means something too? That means animals are higher than humans simply because they were created before humans?

You don kill the guy o!

This is very very good

Maybe just maybe our leaders' brains will reset and they will do what they ought to.

Americans said they do not want our students and are within their rights to do so. Let the students come back to their country.

damiso:
Very annoying post. One can even ignore the 'she looks old' 'is she older than you ' crew(though I don't get that question as well) but that his own post took it another level.you are talking about another man's wife nitori Oloun

We have to endure until NL has a minimum age/ IQ limit requirement

crackhaus:
Well obviously they're not as 'wretched' or 'definitely in poverty' as you might like to believe.

Some are..

I heard a company recruits graduates on contract basis to mix cement and stuff. When they are done, some buy phones and bags.

Some buy on credit and use all their life savngs to pay

What about unemployed youths wearing necklaces worth #80k, #100k or latest bags/shoes?

Some people live for now

The same thing I feel when I see students wearing expensive jewelries and assessories

That they are visionless and cannot set their priorities

IMO, the do not need help.

crackhaus:
Clap for yourself.

No more lines?

To think I was enjoying them

Caracta:
Pray tell, how is it your business?

He has a younger wife to give the OP

damiso:
I signed in to say the same.

I can see why anonymity is best on NL from posts like that.

OP nice family by the way God bless your home.

I have reported to the moderator.

I don't know the correlation between see my family and what players/real men do

Unfortunately, none of them are married so we would not say they are comparing with their own wives. By their fruits, you will know them

Awon ti o lenu bi razor lo n ma gbegbekugbe

crackhaus:
Same reasons why women can't openly condemn leading men on and collecting gifts or presents from them when they know they have no intentions of dating.

They enjoy freebies.









Really though, I could go on and on...

Please do, it does not change the OP though.

@OP:

Very nice thread

That's why I don't take some people serious. Every little thing we do has the multiplier effect.

bigheart2013:
You never marry and you are already planning what you will do with an imaginary wife...haba! What if the woman doesn't want to have joint purse with you, will you force her? Na so fight dey carry start between spiritual wives and spiritual husbands. Please marry first and show us pics on Nairaland to confirm, then ask us this questions. For now I advise you concentrate on your studies and work.

But to help you small, there's nothing wrong if the other partner agrees, but don't force him or her. Simply have a financial plan and budget for your family and let the most frugal person in the house run the budget. Usually women are more financially frugal...u get my verdict.

However joint account works only if a man is making more money, if the woman is making more money, she will never agree to joint account. Ask your dad!

@bolded:

You must taken a poll from all married couples since the world was created.