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Romance › Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 12:54pm On Nov 09, 2013
Sagamite: Emi? (Me?)

Mo le nu. Mo mor pe mo lenu. (I get mouth. I no say I get mouth.) grin

I test women from the word go and within 3 meetings I no which category of my mating interaction she would fall into. cool

Small, small tests and study and read them. I read her the fck out!

I have a knowledge of psychology more than her, so I know what she is going to do while she is thinking it. It helps to be a non-conforming maverick that does what HE wants, not follow some moronic societal expectation. grin

Why you think say I could acquire a PhD in Womantology? grin
Lol!

All na mouth!

Don't worry, you will one that read manology! Remember the manhood lives on (courtesy of Pat. Jonathan)

I understand your point: both parties must bring something to the table
Romance › Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 12:50pm On Nov 09, 2013
Sagamite: Maybe I have eaten but don't know what it is called.

Yes, many men kissed the arsse of women because they have been systematically nurtured to think you are suppose to just respect women. They are called "Real Men". The women might add value to their lives but the value is usually far less than the value these men are hustling to give the women all for a pat on the back and called a "real man". They live for this affirmation because they are trained that is what is expectd of them.

It is very similar to the women that are trained to remain with a man that they do not love and beats the fck out of them all because they think a good girl does not leave her marital home.

It is all some form of mugusology.
Now you are seeing the bigger picture

I hope the value the real man is adding is not only money sha....

Some men need to soft pedal hustling money and start hustling their women grin

I was just pulling your legs on the Abacha food; I was actually referring to Gen. Sanni Abacha
Education › Re: Brain Teasers Required To Increase Your IQ by bukatyne(f): 12:43pm On Nov 09, 2013
jdzarrus99: Question:-What is N?
6, 9, 27, 54, N, 2241
Eleyi le gidigan!

I am getting an extra 2 I can account for.
Romance › Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 12:38pm On Nov 09, 2013
Sagamite: God forbid I ever give myself to such a woman.
Enu lo ni! Lol!

So you just see a woman and walk up to her?

Or you have microscope to read women's minds?
Romance › Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 12:36pm On Nov 09, 2013
Sagamite: I partially agree. Men are respected based on their status, achievement or position.

Not every man in society is respected. Actually majority are not respected.

In a courting interaction, a woman would not respect a man for purely being a man, she would respect him because of his status, achievement or position.

I don't yet understand the Abacha introduction.
And does a man respect a woman because she has a V? She must be adding value too to earn his respect

Have you eaten African salad aka Abacha before?
Romance › Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 12:29pm On Nov 09, 2013
WackyJ1: Love a girl that loves you not one that loves the way you love her..
A woman loves a man that loves her.

You must have feelings (which would later mature to love) before you approach a girl, not so?
Romance › Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 12:26pm On Nov 09, 2013
[quote author=2s£xy]shockedshockedshockedshockedshockedshocked

fALLs into iya sikira's gbegiri soup...[/quote]I pity you; you will have to pay for the whole pot
Romance › Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 12:25pm On Nov 09, 2013
dmcdad: That is the problem... They wanna be worshiped without doing anything to deserve it. That's gross if you ask me... Just because one is a woman doesn't mean they have no part to play, buh the reverse is the case nowadays.
I am sure there are still some ladies who believe in team work and adding value to their men's lives.
Romance › Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 12:20pm On Nov 09, 2013
Sagamite: No, the problem is they think they should be worshiped without doing nothing, just because they are women.

They feel they are L'Oreal.

And the problem there is that I am the MVP, not her. So I should be L'Oreal.

Na me get market.

What Chinese woman?
One viral picture about a woman who saves a suicidal husband by his boxers

What does an average Nigerian man bring to the table apart from money?

I agree some women have entitlement mentality because they are 'women' which I completely frown at as I believe everyone should earn respect.

You will however agree that it's the default setting of the society: a man is respected because he is a man; a leader is respected because of his/her position. Don't be surprised Abacha had those who respected him.
Romance › Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 11:26am On Nov 09, 2013
ileobatojo: Wow. A thread for bitter, low self esteem, illogical, maladjusted, borderline psychotic men sheeple. Nice.
The thread is better now

When it just started, it was wacked!
Education › Re: Brain Teasers Required To Increase Your IQ by bukatyne(f): 11:18am On Nov 09, 2013
[quote author=jdzarrus99][/quote]Thanks

*dancing*
Education › Re: Brain Teasers Required To Increase Your IQ by bukatyne(f): 11:10am On Nov 09, 2013
jdzarrus99: Question 2:- Phillip asks his friend Stanley when is his birthday .
Stanley replies that he was 32 the day before
yesterday and next year he'll be 35. When is
his birthday and how is this possible?
Dec 31st is his birthday

He was 32 on 30th
33 on 31st
34 that year since it is a new year
35 the next year.

The statement was made on the 1st of Jan
Romance › Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 4:58am On Nov 09, 2013
Sagamite: Yeah, that would be the fine girl that worships me. Not the one I have to chase around and watch fumble. grin
When you shower her with love and adoration, she will worship you. It is a mutual thing.

The problem is that you guys wants to jump the gun and demand worship without ready to love and adore.

A loved woman will do anything to make her man happy. She will take initiative and do stuffs he does not except.

What do you think propelled that Chinese woman pull her hubby by his boxers? True/fake control?
Romance › Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 4:53am On Nov 09, 2013
Slowpois0n: these feeling only comes whenever i feel a sense of accomplishment.
You can only say you are accomplished when you are on your death bed and you are satisfied with the life you led.

When you get that promotion, do you rest on your oars? Don't you strive for a better package/title?

Material things never satisfy. The yearns of your heart can only be satisfied by showering a woman with love (not money or material stuffs)

Go find a woman to love
Romance › Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 9:47pm On Nov 08, 2013
Slowpois0n: the moment ur scared of losing someone, you would do shits just to make the person stay. for me, my hapiness doesnt depend on anybody or anything, i dont get myself attached to something or someone, so when i loose them, i dont feel a thing.
Until you yield yourself completely, you can never fully accept love.

There must be someone whom your heart leaps for joy when you see or remember.
Romance › Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 9:43pm On Nov 08, 2013
[quote author=2s£xy]exactly as I said here:

https://www.nairaland.com/1501254/girl-friend-3yrs-left-me/15#19392430

never be scared bro.[/quote]2s€xy,

You were very active on the abuse thread

It's funny you don't physical abuse but support emotional abuse.

Yea control man, when does he decide the control is ok? How will he ensure that he doesn't cross the boundaries for a woman who can stand his BS?

Let us be consistent please
Romance › Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 9:40pm On Nov 08, 2013
Sagamite: What is a good woman?

Why do you think he should be the one that is scared of losing when he is the one that has better options and more power in exercising his options on the long run?

Una just like to dey scare mugus to be real men sha. grin

If you want to give him genuine advice that will help him, you are better off saying he should ensure he is not an underachiever and he makes some coins in life. Otherwise he would lose many women he wants. grin
When you find her, you will know
Romance › Re: How To Maintain And Control A Woman by bukatyne(f): 9:38pm On Nov 08, 2013
WackyJ1: All this one na rubbish talk.
To exercise true control a man must not be afraid to lose the woman.
A man who knows where he is going to in life and what his destiny is will be extremely careful the woman he gets married to.

The same goes for a woman.

However, if you want to play, any woman would do
Family › Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by bukatyne(f): 9:34pm On Nov 08, 2013
Panzastrip: WELL THOSE WOMEN WHO STAYS IN THEIR MARRIAGE DESPITE THE HARDSHIP AND ALL THAT WILL SURELY GET THEIR HEAVY BLESSING FROM GOD. SO IF U MARRY A MAN AND GET DIVORCE LATER THAT IS YOUR OWN CUP OF TEA. AND PLEASE DON'T DRAG OTHER GOOD, SWEET WOMEN OUT THERE WITH YOU PERIOD.

BYE.
You are right

Just as the woman, Titi Awolowo and many others got their heavy blessings.

I beg you, please tell your intending spouse all these. If she still wants to continue, then fine
Education › Re: Brain Teasers Required To Increase Your IQ by bukatyne(f): 9:21pm On Nov 08, 2013
jdzarrus99: Yea,u aint thru yet.1 grandfree + 2extra wrappers
After licking d grandfree ur total wraps will be 3(including d 2 extra wrappers)
With dat 3 extra wrappers you'll get anoda 1 free immediately.Making total of 22 chocolates received + extra 1 Wrap left.
Hope u undastand?
You are right!

P.S.: Do you know the store? wink I think I would like to visit
Education › Re: Brain Teasers Required To Increase Your IQ by bukatyne(f): 5:00pm On Nov 08, 2013
Chiamaka01: ^^^
First, 22 chocolates and then 21 chocolates.
huh
Thanks grin

Thinking of chocolates

I work out these stuff on paper before transferring.

Will edit my post now
Education › Re: Brain Teasers Required To Increase Your IQ by bukatyne(f): 4:54pm On Nov 08, 2013
[quote author=Emy~Leo]chk dz out..[/quote]21 chocolates

N15 will buy 15 Chocolates...

Since 3 wrappers can get 1 chocolate,

15 wrappers = 5 chocolates

5 free chocolates' wrapper = 1 grandfree chocolate + 2 extra wrappers

15 + 5 + 1 = 21 choclates
Family › Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by bukatyne(f): 4:51pm On Nov 08, 2013
troy20: loretta you call fine gentlemen here putting clear perspectives imbecils,unintelligent, dumb,stupid,dimwits and all.you just become example of the argument.how could you,a lady show such disrespect and manners.this is emotional,pscological abuse.your intent to portray men as beasts is maliciously wicked.you are this violent on a social network which means you have the ability to get physical too.you are an abuser.and you can commit murder the way i see you.hope your unlucky boyfriend is aware he is dating a man hater.
And I guess these fine gentle men kept quiet or she just 'insulted' them out of the blues or all the 'fine gentlemen' did not insult her too

Lorretta u,

Don't worry, your thread has accomplished the purpose you wanted it to have.

Don't be surprised the resistance you find her, a lot of people abuse their spouses here on NL and will defend it.

It is well cheesy
Family › Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by bukatyne(f): 1:40pm On Nov 08, 2013
Mujah1deen: you see the mindset? So according to her, women are the only victims in this world, and only them deserve justice, in fact for most of them(feminazi gangs) women can never do something wrong. I guess the women killing their husbands to take over their properties don't exist. Keep living in denial, and you wonder why you lack support? It is a known fact that women are selfish .see how men life don't count in her book or when a man die it is well deserved : self defense and cheats my foot
Mujah1deen: your feminazi gang
Mujah1deen: anyway, sooner or later it will happen
Dude, please get your act right

Thanks in advance
Education › Re: Brain Teasers Required To Increase Your IQ by bukatyne(f): 1:37pm On Nov 08, 2013
cheesy
afobam: thumbs up
Education › Re: Brain Teasers Required To Increase Your IQ by bukatyne(f): 1:36pm On Nov 08, 2013
afobam: I purchaded two differnt candy. Together they cost #1.10, one candy cost one naira more than the other. What is the price of each?
N1 and 10k
Education › Re: Brain Teasers Required To Increase Your IQ by bukatyne(f): 1:35pm On Nov 08, 2013
afobam: Name four days of the week starting with letter t
Tuesday
Thursday
Today
Tomorrow
Family › Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by bukatyne(f): 1:31pm On Nov 08, 2013
Lordlexyy: Your comment has proven you intense hatred for men. You simply use this unfortunate incident to prejudice male folks without given room for rationale. Generalising this is unfortunate. I will advise you to soft peddal and allow sound judgement, reason to prevail instead shutting down every contrary view that may perhaps help us to identify the cause and possibly profer a way out. It's a two way traffic. You speak of the one you know emotionly (unverified) to attract cheap sympathy (not sure) but like it or not, somewhere, somehow, a man is equally being abused and probably killed by a woman. So who is the abuser?
You mean apart from women who kill their husbands in self defense or cheating husbands, men die equally via abuse at the same rate as women?
Family › Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by bukatyne(f): 1:27pm On Nov 08, 2013
Mujah1deen: you guys are the bullies here. Someone can't give his opinion without you jumping on him, attacking his faith, his sexuality and calling him names, so check yourself because actually you are the one sounding lame, no offense
Who are the 'you guys?'
Family › Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by bukatyne(f): 1:25pm On Nov 08, 2013
Mujah1deen: Embrace Islam and we would have a deal grin
huh huh huh huh huh huh undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Family › Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by bukatyne(f): 1:16pm On Nov 08, 2013
Mujah1deen: I am happily married.
Ah ag I don't believe you anyway, you sound so bitter, anyway if you are really married,your husband must be very weak(unable to perform) , because I don't get what kind of man let his wife spend hours on the internet when he's at home, you are probably not agreeable with him and he doesn't want you around him .eh eh maybe you should leave your marriage, like for real, what kind of married woman spend hours on the internet ranting about abuses? Does he beat you ? shocked
You are happily married?

What are you doing online all these hours? Do you see how lame your post sounds? So your wives cannot come online for hours but you can come online?

You sound like a bully
Family › Re: Why Is Divorce Not An Option For Most Nigerian Women? by bukatyne(f): 1:13pm On Nov 08, 2013
ileobatojo: Mostly to troy somebody and some others angry , and then a little bit to you. That your 70% blame number get as e be, though I get your general point! grin
Lol! cheesy

Confession time grin

I believe that the background training a child receives most times determines how he/she turns out. Children tend to build their value system on what they have been taught/ see around them.

However, they have the ultimate responsibility to re-train themselves if need be..

Ok, that 70% will reduce to --------- 40% considering the father's and the man's influences grin

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