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Abali1: On that day I take my Marital Vows, is the day I am getting over it. Cos, I will stick to my vows since I made it in the Presence of God and Man.

And the vow contains a magical power?

I laugh in Spanish!

Don't worry, if she ok with you flirting before marriage, it will not such an issue afterwards.

Chillisauce: What are you modifying? What reputation is at stake here .
Leave the posts jor!

A least your wife will read it and see where you are lying. I smell trouble

Burka, don't modify sh1t

Chilli,

Coolu collu temper!

Maybe he forced her?

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Ujujoan: I'm surprised you are comparing the actions of a teenager to those of a full grown man in his 30s

Let me tell you what happened to you, you grew up . . . you got matured and downloaded some sense into you. If at 30+ a man is still eager to sow wild oats then I'm afraid there's no hope for him. A f00l at 40 is a fool forever.

Being irresponsible is not something to be proud of, in contrary, it's something to be ashamed of. It's not some rite of passage into adulthood, it's an irresponsible lifestyle most people live as a result of immaturity . . . An adult who still wants to live like a teenager is abnormal . . .

And yes, I expected you to have different standards for your wife than you have for yourself. It's a man's world, we are used to it already!

A classic example of a loving husband

pickabeau1: hmmm... ok..


You dont know its not a joint decision neither will we know if it was joint

I can only speak for myself

Every man or woman for hisself

Was it a joint decision?

Anyway sha, as you like it

pickabeau1: I feel you and where you have always missed it is where you assume this choice is foisted on the woman with no input from her

I have friends whose wives left their career to focus on the family and it is a joint decision

In the case here, even the daughter is not privy to all the discussions between her parents
Her intent was to appreciate her mum's sacrifice.. dazall

Making fun of her going abroad imo is over the top..

You wey dey talk sef ... by the time pikin come, you may decide to leave work for a while
Dioes it make u a failure

Na wa

Reading her posts will tell you that it was not a 'joint decision'

@ for the bolded, please re-read my posts

I said that going abroad twice and an elaborate 50yr birthday does not make up for a woman whose dream is to be a Managing Dircetor of a bank

Please don't read meanings to my post that are not there

bukatyne: Pickabeau1,

The truth is that most of us do not treat others how we want to be treated.

The lady said 'her father did not allow her mother celebrate birthdays'

This is different from 'we do not celebrate birthdays' or whatever

So I dreamt of being a banker and it was thwarted, going abroad twice and a big 50th birthday is enough to make up for it?

For once, put yourself in the shoes of these women.

Men and women have the same mind, what hurts you men hurts women too

Abali1: The same with the Character of the Ladies, who think they are too good for some men. It goes both ways.
You can't treat a guy as if he is stupid, and you will want his friends and brothers to treat the next female as if she is an Angel. Some people must pay for the sins commited by their kind, whether guys or ladies.
It's a Vicious Cycle. God for us all.

If I treated a man poorly and his friends and brothers take it out on their girlfriends, that means they are not matured and ready for relationships/marriage

Defender of the brethren,

I know you are viewing this thread

Something needs to be done about the quality of men been churned out daily

It is well

pickabeau1: i dont understand the focus on the birthdays part but some people dont believe in celebrating it..

The woman may have made a sacrifice for her family as many did..

Now to show his appreciation to his wife, he is making it up..

I dont see why you have to snicker at the gesture from the man

na wa

Pickabeau1,

The truth is that most of us do not treat others how we want to be treated.

The lady said 'her father did not allow her mother celebrate birthdays'

This is different from 'we do not celebrate birthdays' or whatever

So I dreamt of being a banker and it was thwarted, going abroad twice and a big 50th birthday is enough to make up for it?

For once, put yourself in the shoes of these women.

Men and women have the same mind, what hurts you men hurts women too

taiocol: wrong.

Dude, no make me vex

bukatyne: 9^2 + 9^0+ 9 + 9

9^2 = 9x9 = 81
9^0 = 1 (Law of indices)

= 81 + 1 + 9 + 9
= 100

Lol@ thread!

Welcome to Nigeria where

Compromise in marriage means 'the wife should forgo all her dreams, identity for the marriage without the hubby doing same'

Let peace reign means 'if hubby says 'jump', wife asks 'how high'

Children are for the men with women being their conduit

etc.

Nigerians need their dictionary as well a Bible.

It is well

willibounce: @ least young ladies wud learn never to marry an 'educated illiterate'. Some men are educated, yet very backward.

High academic attainment is not a guarantee of sound mind.

I pray they do

taiocol: Use four 9s in a math
equation that equals 100.

9^2 + 9^0+ 9 + 9

armyofone: The man is being mischievous as usual with typical naija guy in nigeria. That woman should show him more craze if only for sleeping with her cousin. Your rambling johnny alone should make you non candidate for governor house.

But the Gov has done nothing wrong na...

If anything, the wife is a cunning greedy woman.

She knew the poor man could not zip up; why did it become an issue after marriage? Or she thought marriage has magical powers to transform?

She married him for his money and be content with whatever happens as long as the money is there.

If she's tired, she knows the door.

I can only empathize with women whose husbands changed suddenly after marriage.

I don't even advocate divorce for Clara because she should have been prepared before saying I do.

Some parents are a disgrace sha

taiocol: partially correct. 11 cartons.
7 large boxes (7 × 8 ) = 56
boxes
4 small boxes (4 ×10) = 40
boxes
11 total cartons consisting of
96 boxes

Partially correct ke?

What is the difference between my solution and yours?

taiocol: Ryan can place 8 large boxes
or 10 small boxes into a carton
for transporting them. In one
shipment, he sent a total of 96
boxes. If there are more large
boxes than small boxes, how
many cartons did he ship?

11 Cartons

I subtracted 40 from 96 because only a multiple of 10 small boxes can fit into a carton and 56 is the only number wholly divisible by 8

56 large boxes = 7 cartons (8 boxes per carton)
40 small boxes = 4 cartons (10 boxes per carton)

Total cartons = 7 + 4 = 11

ikenna58: If he wanted to sell the car, he could have gone to OLX.com or a car dealer and not a hotel. No mind me jare. Salvy already got the answer!

Or dealdey! or Ikenna and Sons

ikenna58: Goodjob sweet

foxgiovani: she is not aware oh and she dare not know. She definitely won't be comfortable with it not bc she don't dosn't trust me but just bc she dosn't want to take chances.

That's the spirit sir!

Nashville: Do you tell your wife about these lifts and is she in support of it? Do you contact these ladies after you drop them just to make sure they got to their final destinations and continue to enjoy their company? Do you become casual friends with them after or it all ends once they get out of your car?

You are a good man and you have a good heart and your intentions are very pure. You just seem to discriminate a bit - seems like you only give rides to ladies; particularly those that look single. My advice is to continue doing your good work. In due cause you will be richly rewarded! Amen!

Yanga day sleep, trouble go wake am!

Nashville: Do you tell your wife about these lifts and is she in support of it? Do you contact these ladies after you drop them just to make sure they got to their final destinations and continue to enjoy their company? Do you become casual friends with them after or it all ends once they get out of your car?

You are a good man and you have a good heart and your intentions are very pure. You just seem to discriminate a bit - seems like you only give rides to ladies; particularly those that look single. My advice is to continue doing your good work. In due cause you will be richly rewarded! Amen!

You!

WackyJ1: The bolded is just sad. Are you saying that cheating and lying are minor things that should not be regarded as issues because they come with the package or are you saying that they should not be regarded as issues to be worked on or tolerated i.e once a guy sees them He should bail?

The bolded

Gold45: @ irenediva, true.............................
but all the same she made a very big sacrifice and I hope her hubby understands that no amount of vacations can replace the joy that a fulfilled dream gives. Some men may have this funny notion that he has paid her for making her quit hear dream with those vacations. Unless travelling out has been her dream.

Can I give you a hug?

How can travelling out twice make up for one's dreams if that was not one's dreams?

Royal Roy: he he he

You better enter the fun room for better rapport.

Big boy and Big girl.
Abeg don't derail this thread jare

Give us transport na

andromida: You call deleting call logs, openly dating other women, hiding the fact that he is engaged from other women, receiving calls from other women who think they have a chance, changing their names on his phone "slightest hints of flirtation"? He should flirt on his own time tell the girls he meets that he is not interested in anything serious he is just having fun. Many ladies will still date him but at least they know wassup but he is lying to himself he is not ready to marry.

All i know is it feels awful to be with a man who wants to date other women unless the woman in question has her own agenda for marrying such a man, maybe desperation, he has money, thinks she can't do better, poor self image,doesn't really care,thinks she can handle it among other issues but if she ever believes she can have a better man who is totally into her she will ex that man immediately. Who likes suffering?

My dear,

Welcome to Naija!

lorretta u: So pickabeau is a man
The name sounds feminie

Former Biolabee

I did not say anything

pickabeau1: Interesting. ...

Lol!

pickabeau1: Hahahah not so ma....
Its a range...
It could be there up till agungi....

Big boy ke.... na toro kobo I dey dooo ohh

I met one NLer inside the bus on day

The first I actually spoke with

ikenna58: If you had only one match and entered a COLD and DARK
room, where there was an oil heater, an oil lamp and a
candle, and a fire stand; which would you light first?

The match

pickabeau1: On that axis...not that far more like femi okunnu..agumgi..why ajah...that b stop known for fighters

Meaning

I saw one guy that reminded me of you in my church on Friday

Femi Okunnu? You are a big boy!

pickabeau1: Ok..

No.. not that far

Not that far to where?

Mujah1deen?

ikenna58: Another 2 before I submit my lips...

1. What can you catch but not throw?

2. Look closely, What is at the end of a rainbow?

1. Cold
2. Letter w