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teniyi: But you believed when Jesus said "in my father's house there MANY MANSION"?

teniyi: Don't mix things up please, Olumba Olumba, Ogboni, Guru Maharaji etc are all brand of Christianity, so how will Islam looks like them than Christianity?

teniyi: Don't mix things up please, Olumba Olumba, Ogboni, Guru Maharaji etc are all brand of Christianity, so how will Islam looks like them than Christianity?

LesbianBoy: Younglady, this is so not true! If you say lots of Rich couples are not happy, lemme ask you So extremely poor couples are happy abi?

Pinkyshron: I'll definately be a successful woman in future that's a decision I made right from wen I was a child.I'll neva b a burden to any man and no man will be a burden to me.Ma husband must be the breadwinner of the family...even though I have all the money in the world ma husband should be the one taking care of the family...what I'll do is to assist besides if a woman is the breadwinner of the family the man becomes lazy because he knows his wife will provide...so me being successful is not a problem that one is sure but when there will be a problem
is if my husband is lazy...I'll just use ma mouth to kill him
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donsax: Let her convert to that islam ten times if she like......not even slightly jealous ......heaven is not even enough to contain us true christian.....I don't wanna. Share a Room with no one in heaven....we need few people there mtcheeew.

maclatunji: You tell that to yourself very often to make that lie look good.

"Mary's born child Jesus Christ was born on Christmas day
And men will live forever more because of Christmas day."

Do you know how many millions of children that are taught to sing that song every year? You don't "choose" a date to lie about a person's birth.

It is warped logic like yours that you seek to present as your defence for Christanity that is driving people away from the religion.

You can't build truth on deceit!

finicky: With christmas coming now, many people are celebrating it but even many christian do not celebrate christmas .

WHY ? Because they know this is not when the Jesus was born. Christian scholar themselves know that Jesus was not born in winter. Jesus was born in spring.

Quran say in surah Maryam :

when Isa was to be born, Maryam left the town and she sought refuge under a palm tree and Allah command her, " O maryam shake the tree and the fresh date will fall upon you"

So Maryam according to the Quran gave birth to Isa when there were fresh dates on palm tree and that doesn't happen in December, that happen in April/May/June so that is the time Isa was born.

alienvirus: I am a muslim. Alhamdulilah. This topic will give some people hypertension and heart attack.

ezeagu: Jesus is not God in your religion. Muslims and Christians share the same omnipotent God.

Pinkyshron: Letz b realistic nobdy luvs sufferin....'M also 4rm a humble backqround n av bin denied a lot of tinz and humilated just because 'm not so rich...luv dosnt put food on d table moni dos...wen 2 pple marry solely because of luv n diaz no moni..they become frustrated..xpecialy d men dae turn 2 alcohol n al...d marriaqe won't just b a hapi 1...then u both bring kids in2 d wrld 2 let dem suffa n it hurts wen ur kids ask u 4 somtin n u can't qiv it 2 dem....getting married 2 a poor man wif d hope dah he'l become rich somday is gambling nt dat it dosnt hapen..but dats a gamble most pple r nt willn 2 take.... if u r lucky ur wish myt kum tru..if u r nt u'l spend d rest of ur life suffering n beqqing pple 4 moni when in need...I dont want dat kind of lyf I want my kids 2 have a comfortable n qood life..I myself also wants a comfortable lyf...itz nt lyk 'm qonna marry a man dat so wealthy that his wealth is evn suspicous but som1 who can make me n ma kids happy n I'll definately know d source of his
income.

LastApostle: No need of writing epistles to buttress your standpoint. I can make poverty disappear from your lineage permanently.

laykhorn: I'm confused here. Tell me what you mean by both ways here

collinoz: [i][/i]dats a veri nice answer luvmijeje,I hate pipo treatin females lik dey r nt humanz

aijazNija: Women need attention as well as money

nkem Kalu: ATTENTION WITHOUT MONEY IS VERY VERY IRRITATING.......AND IT DOESN'T WORK. THE FORMULAR IS.....MONEY PLUS ATTENTION....EQUAL TO LOVE

nkem Kalu: ATTENTION WITHOUT MONEY IS VERY VERY IRRITATING.......AND IT DOESN'T WORK. THE FORMULAR IS.....MONEY PLUS ATTENTION....EQUAL TO LOVE

apocalypse: The point is you don't even love any of the three girls and I doubt you even know what love is. What special thing do you feel for any of them ? Nothing convinces me you love one of them.

bolof2000: Hello guys..so i have this issue that has been disturbing me and i am close to losing focus at work.I have three serious relationship.I didn't intend to have all these relationships but the first girl started acting up,i started trying out other women.
First Lady: She is 23,we have been dating for 3 years,i have met her family.She is beautiful.But she has allot of immaturity stuffs.We have also had trust issue before and this still keep affecting us.She is the one i still really have full feelings for.But she has alot of attitude issues and her mum keep saying i should give her time that she will change.
Second Lady: Due to the nonchalant attitude of the first girl, i started dating even though the first relationship is still on,the second girl is very fine,tall and very homely.She is also from my Village which makes everyone in my house to like her.she is still a Virgin and she is 24 years old. I dont have intention to sleep with her until i am sure i want to ring her.
Third Lady: she is 26 years old,the most generous lady i have ever met. we started dating without even me noticing. she started committing,I had just moved into a new apartment,and i was stack broke, she took it upon herself to do all my Kitchen Furnishing,she is talking serious, she wants marriage obviously.I like her personality.
Now, my problem is,the first girl is the person my heart really wants,she is d person that i worry about most night. We haven't spoken in four days.She has accused me of not trusting her and that she is just worried things will get rough.
Despite these two other girls,i still cant stop missing or thinking about the first girl.
Should i just let the first girl go and deal with the two other girls? I am tempted to call the first girl but i do not even know how to start the conversation again.

bolof2000: Hello guys..so i have this issue that has been disturbing me and i am close to losing focus at work.I have three serious relationship.I didn't intend to have all these relationships but the first girl started acting up,i started trying out other women.
First Lady: She is 23,we have been dating for 3 years,i have met her family.She is beautiful.But she has allot of immaturity stuffs.We have also had trust issue before and this still keep affecting us.She is the one i still really have full feelings for.But she has alot of attitude issues and her mum keep saying i should give her time that she will change.
Second Lady: Due to the nonchalant attitude of the first girl, i started dating even though the first relationship is still on,the second girl is very fine,tall and very homely.She is also from my Village which makes everyone in my house to like her.she is still a Virgin and she is 24 years old. I dont have intention to sleep with her until i am sure i want to ring her.
Third Lady: she is 26 years old,the most generous lady i have ever met. we started dating without even me noticing. she started committing,I had just moved into a new apartment,and i was stack broke, she took it upon herself to do all my Kitchen Furnishing,she is talking serious, she wants marriage obviously.I like her personality.
Now, my problem is,the first girl is the person my heart really wants,she is d person that i worry about most night. We haven't spoken in four days.She has accused me of not trusting her and that she is just worried things will get rough.
Despite these two other girls,i still cant stop missing or thinking about the first girl.
Should i just let the first girl go and deal with the two other girls? I am tempted to call the first girl but i do not even know how to start the conversation again.

laykhorn: if you really love ur husband, then ur ego shouldnt be a barrier. I hope you dnt learn the hard way... The topic you quoted me in romance section (the bathroom, NL guys thingy) - i couldnt reply cos Albino don hit me wit ban from romance

Enoquin: There is no excuse for a grown person to keep malice. Malice is childish and shouldn't be condoned. Even temperaments shouldn't be used as an excuse...how do you tell your housemaid to bring your food, when your wife is there or why won't you pick your wife's call or answer her greetings?

As someone mentioned, most marriages aren't based on love because I refuse to believe that any grown and mature person that truly loves would behave like a teenager...Na wa oh...do it this way, sit this way, smile that way for someone you are spending the rest of your life with?

I talk really fast and people that talk fast have hot temperaments because we hate repeating ourselves...infact, the whole family from my paternal side talks fast and amongst them we talk the slowest...
I used to get angry when my boyfriend would make me repeat myself, I would tell him 'look, that's just the way I am...accept it'...but it didn't help and even though he didn't force me...I realised a shared joke was better than laughing alone...so, if he didn't/doesnt hear...I would take a deep breath and say it slowly with great effort and I did it till it became effortless, now I repeat myself with a smile even if I have to do it twice or thrice...it's compromise.

Sanusilyde: The first practical solution to every marital problem is COMMUNICATION,that ego in men will make him expect you to talk to him first,as a responsible wife you want to gain/safe your husband and your marriage,so always find a way to talk to him.

dick hardener: can u guys stop this who's to blame shit. When I got initiated into sex by my pops secretary, I wasn't held at gun point, I did it willingly even though apprehensive. Their damn legs weren't torn open mehn.

Abagworo: That's the thing about all these church-goers. Hypocrisy of the highest order. The sooner we go back to our traditional religion, the better for us Africans.

eastman11: Supported, it is in the churches that you will find the most perverted women and men, women and men of easy virtue.

However congrats to Tolu, wishing her well.

Techwriter: Congratulations!!! Soo good to know but some of those gals sitting with her should attend classes on how a CHRISTIAN lady should sit and com port herself. The late pastor I know wouldn't have subscribed to those skimpy outfits.

Faheedat: Bimbo,
You get it wrong,At 70 Single mother,What are you trying to demonstrate
Where is Mr or Miss right in this generation?
Please settle down and be a responsible Mother
Don't shy away from your responsibility ooooooooooo
Everything nor be money oooooooo
The world itself is challenging talkless of an ideal matrimony house
Take the bull by the horn and move forward
A married person is a responsible person
omoluabi
God bless Nigeria