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Very Pathetic and sad

mu2sa2: Police killed mohammed yusuf extra-judicially; police detain people extra-judicially and demand money for bail. Govt does nothing about the lawlessness of d police. Now groups are springing up to extra-judicially challenge the police. All these groups are out to avenge what they considered unlawful killing or detention of their loved ones by police (& jtf). Rather than hurling insults on nairaland which go to no issue, we should be talking of how to reform and civilize nigeria police force and other security forces.

after typing, try to proofread what you have typed before posting. thanks

SeunLadipo: 4 ignorant NLders.Dis arabic name means 'Muslim Helpers Group in the Land of the Black Race'

i'm sure u meant 'boko haram helpers group in the land of the black race'. by d way, wat's 'land of the black people'? don't the senders of the 'help' know our collective name? wat happened to d word 'Africans'? and pls, don't call nlanders ignorant!

Why is the groom and groom's man looking very handsome in their fitted suit while the bride and chief bride's maid look otherwise? Are the men not also working towards making heaven? Why must the women look haggard? There are very beautiful and decent wedding gowns in the market.

I don't know if the OP is right or wrong, however I am surprised that most of us are unspiritually minded. We don,t seem to be conscious of the spiritual world. What is the logic behind the American Lottery program?

[quote author=Paris-Love]Oh only for tracking like the west have been using, to keep tabs on cattle, sheep, goats, and even inanimate property. Why should we be appalled when Muslims do the same?

They should upgrade and i know they'll and install a microchip between the woman's legs which will alert the owner of the woman when there's an unauthorized entry. Probably add a mini bomb as well. [/quote]lol@ mini bomb!

ashson: All of you what is your concern about them? If you think you cannot practice the religion leave us alone! All of you girls can roam around half naked and have your freedom as you thought. That why most of you are being sexually abused and molested, spoiling your lives out of wedlock and getting closer to satan. You may soon be welcomed to hell after living a wasteful lives out here in the world...

Mr., i don't know how many christians u see walking around unclad and it will be best if u don't say things you have no fact about. Islam promotes adultery so don't go there.

BetaThings: I have no problem with tracking anyone leaving the country. There must be a serious reason for anyone to consider tracking a woman leaving her country, especially as this measure has not always been there. If a woman wants to elope, no one can stop her. So tracking is, in my view, not designed for that


Chickening out? Hahaha. Indulgence!
Making a fool of oneself? That would be child's play compared to what would have happened to some people, based on postings on NL, were the site not anonymous

Don'T be an hypocrite! you have no problems with tracking anyone who leaves d country... is SA govt tracking 'anybody' or 'women'? is it not stated that women re tracked so they ll not leave d country witout their husband's knowledge? even children who can get missing re not tracked how much more a woman in full possession of her senses! SA has always treated their women as third class citizens. it is left for all other muslims in the world (if islam doesn't support the oppression of women) to stand up and fight for women in SA.

NLT: it makes d words personal. i feel like God is physically talking to me...! nothing beats d experience!

freecocoa: Someone is a blawdy liar in this case and its obviously the woman.

and how did u arrive at ur conclusion?

duni04: Its "born again" girls like you that "accidentally" run into your ex-bf and bleep him and then run back to your "caring" mugu boyfriend or finance that still thinks you're a virgin. This thread is for people like that boyfriend or finance that you're about to hurt, it'll teach him how to control you and whim you in line

your username says it all... you are a dumb person. Reread my post and if you don't understand, ask for clarifications!

sulakishop: If you need true love, it can only be found In Aba (Closer to Edo than Nairaland)!!!

LOL! abeg no pour sand for d guy's garri!

solomon111: I am sure my mum did not enjoy all this from my dad,but she was okay.
Soft women everywhere.
Mscheww!

hardened men everywhere! do u want ur marriage to be like your father's? are you capable of showing a woman love?

Ify Angela: don't worry d op is not imposing she's just making suggestions. Good ones.

what if d OP was imposing? are all these things too difficult for a wife that is carrying their baby?

patholaw: catholics don't pray 2 mary or saints...dey only ask dem 2 intercede. Wen jesus worked his 1st miracle hw did it happen? Wen dey said dey had no wine he told dem his hour haz not yet come...dey had 2 beg mary to intercede 4 dem 2 her son...and jesus did as work d miracle 4 dem...
If u don't understand d chatholic faith ask some 1 to enlighten u den running ur mouth anyhow...

and how can mary n d other saints interceed for you? wat then is d work of d Holy Spirit? do you know d meaning of a saint biblically? a person who is born again! so how can dey intercede for you? it's u who needs to read ur Bible properly. there is only one mediator btw God n man (JESUS). peter, paul n co never asked moses or jacob or abraham to intercede for them so y are u asking mary n peter to intercede for u? Jesus has given us a pattern of prayer in matt 6. it's not complex.

chukwudi44: It is either you follow the church's teaching or you cease to be catholic.Besides no where in the bible is images outlawed rather what is outlawed is idols and not images

and what is the difference btw an idol and image? an idol is anything u reverence more than God. Wat about prayin wit beads and repeatin prayers? do you know Jesus condemned it in d Bible? Matt 6:7

as a poster said, Oshiomole has his thinking cap on. How can a right thinking Gov ban bikes b4 creating alternatives? was he under pressure to ban them? did he stimulate the effect of the ban on d bike men n the citizens? what would d bike men do to earn a living? take care of their families? how would d pple transport themselves b4 the 'alternative' come? the bike fee has increased and yet our Gov insist they have the interest of the masses @ heart. i give kudos to Oshiomole. Let us stop trying to build rome in a day! all these cities our governors are tryin to imitate did not develop overnight. they established structures in place b4 implementin laws. they also have different a mindset and way of life. if they want to imitate, they should pick those that concern them directly like integrity and accountability and stop making life difficult for d masses.

abdulkayus: wooooow, never knew some xtains names have dis pagan origin, hmmmmm. The roman empires have a great hand in dis, dey are d one dat incorporated many pagan belief in xtianity and disguise it as true xtain belief. Some ppl jus bear name anyhw witout knowin d meanin jus cos it sound cool e.g venus, diana.

not all names in d Bible are 'christian' names. diana was d greek god of ephesus so any body bearing diana is on her own. a lot of names had bad meanings or bad characters. there is a difference btw baptismial names and foreign names.the former is like islamic names.

Ramcie: Issues like this you would see ladies denying it saying: God forbid, swearing and cursing when truly they receive from mild to severe beatings in their relationship. If you find out, it's the ladies that make the most mouth in topics like this that receive the most beating. For me, I have never been with a guy that abused me and I pray I would never.

and how do u want us to believe u when you re doin the same thing? it's not good to run others down b'cos u want to pass ur points across.

i wonder how a bride ll pay 200k for her make up. how much is d gown? ring? hair? does the amount of money wasted in the name of class guarantee the success of d marriage? we should learn more to work for the success of our marriages and not weddings.

blacksta: Nonsense

Is the make up artist going to finish all the products you mentioned on one customer.

abeg, i no fit laugh!

nyere84: All this for marriage to work?? Pls, were are the lesbians in the house?

and what is rocket science in all of this? these are things we do in all types of relationships: parent - child, friend - friend, lovers and colleagues.

slimyem: I think its an unnecessary indulgence...
Kids are naturally beautiful and i do not see the need for all of that...
Apart from little earrings for a girl child and moderate wrist watches for males,i don't/won't advocate for it!

u re right on point! little children have natural beauty! imagine puttin weaves on a 8 -12 yr old! just packing their hair neatly would do. i would understand if they bought expensive clothes/shoes/wristwatches/earrings for them. too much accessories on kids make them look old and worn out. they seem to lose their look of innocence.

no dullin: Life in itself gives us options in which we make choices..
A parent cannot just help but ve a favorite cos all kids can't act in same way..
We ve a favorite shoe.. Shirt.. Teacher.. Coleague.. Friend.. We are even either closer 2 our mum or dad..

@0p: its just normal 2 ve a favorite:::
Poor me; I'm not d favorite ~~

sorry

HQ: Boy or Player, most eventually turn out to be Real Men.

they don't

vislabraye: Women secretly crave for players who can be faithful to them. If a man is a juman, women won't respect him. Its the fact.

they are deluded. how can a player be faithful?

vislabraye: Very interesting. Men will always be categorized like articles.
But what you should know is that a real man is not a perfect man. We're learning everyday. It this sort of articles that make women want to wait forever.
A real man is a man who is ready to learn and grow. QED.

d OP was not referring to a perfect man. a real man is learning and growing, i agree BUT he must show potentials and characteristics. how do you know a brilliant pupil?

seedord247: If you havent be a player before no woman will value you as a man and there's no way you can be a real man without playing the game..

90% of real men that are married today played the game in their youthfull age, thats why they know how to handle their home without third party interferance...

ur points are wrong: d value a
NORMAL woman places on a man has nothing to do wit his been an ex player. if he changes from a player to a real man, fine! and not all men were players before they became real men. it takes God's grace from being a player to real man. players hardly change.

kaecy5: until we accept the truth, man was never created to be MONOGAMOUS

we have allowed women to twist the law and now men all over the world even in Africa are now victims of the law.

Polygamy is not a sin. Go into the world and multiply that's the first command given

i know some children would be in a hurry to respond to my post and call me names, but if you are not in the shoes you wont know where it hurts.

women like competition, competition brings out the best in women.

i don't care d idea u have but please don't bring the Bible into dis. if u don't know what He says, DON'T QUOTE!

pro01: If say na man do am now, these useless NL girls go dey shout say e dey "immature". I remember the thread about some dude that granted an interview and revealed that he divorced his wife because she was unfaithful. Predictably, these yeye girls accused the poor guy of being "immature" for telling the whole world that his wife was unfaithful. Apparently, women are allowed to be "immature", but men are not.

once again, what is your problem wit women?

4bobo: wow. this man must be sex machine. this is unusual sha. in Nigeria, at 25, our men have started using man power, and before 40, the mama of the house will be spending 20 mins to wake the John tomas up, with no response.
well anything can happen in India.may be he gets many hidden secrets that no man has ever discovered or take serious apart from his milk, almond and those stuffs he said.

jumping from one woman to another diminishes a man sexually, physically and spiritually.

[quote author=Stella_Bella]Why do Nigerian women worry about INCONSEQUENTIAL ISSUES?
For one, you have a husband, that should ELIMINATE 99.9999% of your worries.
Call her mummy, Aunty, uncle, whatever, who the HECK CARES!!![/quote]and how can you decide wat is of consequence to her? is been married is d end of a woman's achievements? some women have higher dreams and goals in life.