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sunnshyn: When some women don't get guys asking them out, they go the "I don't need a man" way
This was the same thing Nike Oshinowo said till she ended up with an old man!
Its your life at the end of the day sha! Goodluck with your quest!




NEXT!!!

Cupidkc: 38/300 huh!
I don't believe this...where is our moral?

She’s Insanely Jealous

There’s a reason most women don’t care for polygamy. Be very careful how you talk about other women around your wife. Don’t ever compare your wife to another woman.

Don’t compare her to some female movie star.
Don’t compare her to your mother.
Never, ever compare her to your ex-wife (or other wife!)
She’s wants to know and believe that she is the center of your universe. So make her feel that way.

Even the Prophet’s (pbuh) wives got jealous. Aisha (RA) even got jealous of Khadijah (RA) who was dead.

Expect, and respect, the same type of jealousy from your wife.

samuel salifu: God in a maraige makes it work

obowunmi: 1. They willingly chose to be with each other
2. She made the decision to be with him (despite her mom hooking her up with an older man.) She didn't look at money or her comfort.
3. He showed concern for her by coming to pick her up everyday from school - the relationship was NOT one sided. He would have been strange if he didn't make himself useful to her. Many men these days will not do this, also women will assume that the man wants her for sexxx- these days, we are less trusting of each other.
4. She's not the boss per say but because he likes her, it sounds like he was willing to let her do her thing.
5. I'm surprised she didn't "fast and pray" as most Nigerians would and still ended up with a great guy.
6. Don't hold a grudge - very important.
7. Follow your heart.

Great story.

Leadn: Can some1 talk to our females?? especially so called celebs and reality show wh.ores, fake pastors and all who have broken and are planning to break the sacrament of marriage?!

Lovely couple! A true role model!

J12: She was seventeen! Can you imagine? A guy marrying a girl marrying at seventeen during these times will be called a sick pedophile

Johndoe100: These are the kind of people who should be role models and who should give marital advice. Not people who have been divorced numerous times and have to think a bit when you ask them who is the father or mother of their children.

dick hardener: Thank u my God for having mercy upon me delivering me from vipers. Thank God for my queen, getting home I'll appreciate u even much more seeing more that u are an inestimable jewel. [/bold]Women out there are all vipers and high blood pressure givers. Thank u my dear lord.[/bold]

trolling: there's a place for a woman who doesnt wanna submit to a God fearing man but in the first place a god fearing man wont even marry her in the first place.
HE said himself that a man shall rule over a woman, now if u cant deal with that you'll deal with it in the afterlife

dick hardener: o.k u all win I'm really tired. God dey try o. Accomodating coconut heads like us. WOW

maclatunji: It is better to marry the one that loves you more than the one you love more. The former is going to endure a lot of things for your sake, the latter might not.

You have spoken intelligently but lack wisdom.

OP, the Prince Charming you are looking for might end up treating you like garbage, don't be fooled.

Dipwater: In my own world I don't see any girl as a cheap girl. I fu/cked my ex the same day we met and the relationship lasted for 3 years (longest so far). If u sleep with a girl and u consider her cheap ,that makes u what?

Se/x is meant to be enjoyed by both party. Its not a one way thing. Even girls raised in responsible homes might have se/x with u on ur first date. It depends on the mood ,environment ,how romantic,attractive ,polished u are and some other factors like she might need a companion at that moment or she's se/x starved .etc

toba: what??

lastpage: Not True!

A man can wake up at 5am, wash both cars (his and his wifey), dress up for work, sit over five Management decision-making meetings, remember to fund his wife's account so she can do "shopping" while he is at work, remember her car is due for servicing and arrange for the mechanic to pick it up, forget to eat his Lunch yet remember to order for Chips & Chicken to take home to his wife, branch at a "Joint" and spend thirty minutes with "his Homies" on his way home (even play-away at times! ) come home to do Homework with his kids, change the burnt bulb in the kitchen, remember to Hoover the Living room before bed and set his mind to do the Lawn on Saturday. Upon all these, he knows Madam's needs is next before he finally catches some sleep!

..And you say "men cant Multi-Task"?

Wicked! No wonder men die first before their spouses! Nothing satisfies women!

Lastpage!

lastpage: Not True!

A man can wake up at 5am, wash both cars (his and his wifey), dress up for work, sit over five Management decision-making meetings, remember to fund his wife's account so she can do "shopping" while he is at work, remember her car is due for servicing and arrange for the mechanic to pick it up, forget to eat his Lunch yet remember to order for Chips & Chicken to take home to his wife, branch at a "Joint" and spend thirty minutes with "his Homies" on his way home (even play-away at times! ) come home to do Homework with his kids, change the burnt bulb in the kitchen, remember to Hoover the Living room before bed and set his mind to do the Lawn on Saturday. Upon all these, he knows Madam's needs is next before he finally catches some sleep!

..And you say "men cant Multi-Task"?

Wicked! No wonder men die first before their spouses! Nothing satisfies women! i enjoyed your post till the last papgraph

Lastpage!

Teejayphillip: Am not sayin she shuld worship dem or bow b4 dem... Wat i mean is dat,she can as well sit @ d bac seat,pending the time my friend leaves us...

My friend is nt staying foreva now,jus 4 ow mani hours....

carefreewannabe: once women get empowered, they have to suffer like the fellow guys here. talking from experience ...

sometimes you're proud of taking care of your family , you feel joy seeing them happy and you can't stand it when they are unhappy, but sometimes there is this feeling that you should live your life, too, and that it is impossible to start one's own family when having to take care of elders and siblings. what is even worse is the fact that as a a woman you need to be more careful not to miss the point when it's too late. the point occurs more quickly.

Teejayphillip: No big deal,if am alone wif my wife in d car..

Bur wen my friend coms visitin,i expect her 2 HONOUR n Gif REGARDS 2 my friend for the main time... Sins d guy is nt stayin forever....

dick hardener: . Herein lies the foundation of our new found epidemy. I am not equal to you and you are not equal to me but complementary as husband and wife. This is precisely why God specifically used the word head for the man and helper for the woman. Your efforts to argue my darlyn is Borne out of rebellion. And again as an expert on women I must not fail to tell you this mind blowing jackpot.Besides the Bible, the most rebellious woman on earth can and will submit to a man she is insanely in love with. Now I'm talking about a kind of love that beclouds, inexplainable, deep crazy love. You'll see the woman automatically gives in to submission. My theory here is colour blind, race blind, success blind and does not respect whether you are Celine Dion or Oprah. Thank u.

dick hardener: the bone of contention isn't about treating a woman right, that one is not negotiable. That is a standard set by God agreed on by all right thinking men. The issue here is women outrightly debunking their God laid down standard. It's clear as white and black. To debunk a law is one issue and to err on that same law is another. Spot the difference sweetheart