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Jokes Etc › Re: Riddles Riddles Riddles!!! by bukatyne(f): 9:10pm On Sep 25, 2012
how do u sit on a bottle without breaking it?

wat is that thing that we pray never to have but when we have it, we don't want to lose it?

prove that anything raised to the power of zero is 1 i.e. x^0 = 1 x is not = 0
Romance › Re: Career Women Are Prone To Divorce: True? by bukatyne(f): 9:01pm On Sep 25, 2012
carefreewannabe: so beautiful, I just had to quote it again. smiley
thanks
Islam › Re: Why Do Muslims Think That The Comforter Jesus Christ Promised Is Muhammad? by bukatyne(op): 8:57pm On Sep 25, 2012
LagosShia: There is no harm if you refer to God as "your father" in the figurative sense.however christian take that term to be literal.before Jesus (as),God had many "sons" in the figurative sense.even in the book of romans,we are told that "all those led by the spirit of God are sons of God".

Sheikh Ahmad Deedat made an interesting observation.according to him the reason among God's beautiful names mentioned in the holy Quran "father" is not among have to do with the christian claim and literal meaning they use for the word when refering to Jesus (as).when you say someone is the "begotten son of God","begotten" means "not made";and God made us all.

So figuratively no problem but literally,we don't accept that.
ok. however, It's literal that God's our Father. we are His adopted children through Jesus Christ. there re several relationship level wit God. we have the Creator - creation, God - people/servant, Friend - friend, Father - child, Father - son, Husband - wife etc He's many things to us.
Family › Re: Rebuilding A Relationship After An Affair by bukatyne(f): 8:46pm On Sep 25, 2012
coogar: abraham
jacob
moses
david
solomon
how monogamous were these great men?
and i hope u studied d Bible well enough to know wat d polygamy of these great men caused. in d beginning, God made then a male and a female! d world has not recovered from abraham's mistake! Bible scholars still argue if solomon made heaven or not and so many examples! David suffered greatly for his sins. the Bible writes everything for us to learn from their mistakes and not follow their path also. i'm sure b'cos samson committed fornication wit delilah, it is allowed?
Family › Re: Rebuilding A Relationship After An Affair by bukatyne(f): 8:41pm On Sep 25, 2012
coogar: abraham
jacob
moses
david
solomon
how monogamous were these great men?
Christianity Etc › Re: Why No Riots Over Jesus's Wife Story? by bukatyne(f): 8:33pm On Sep 25, 2012
staybydtruth: The difference between the two religions is the answer. Islam is a way of life, and it has standard. The Quran and the Sunnah. Whereas in Christianity anything goes.
answer to wat question please?
Romance › Re: Career Women Are Prone To Divorce: True? by bukatyne(f): 7:45pm On Sep 25, 2012
the problem that a lot of men don't know wat submission means or wat makes a woman to be submissive. as a man, if u think it's only u are only to provide for ur family/wife financially, then u ve an expiry date b'cos d moment she can fend for herself, ur usefulness has ended. as a husband, u re to provide emotionally, spiritually, u re to be a pillar, her source of encouragement and inspiration etc. he's to love and cherish her, to care for her etc so tell me ow a career woman can outgrow all these. it's d unconditional love of d husband that produces submission in his wife. the love of a man makes his wife blossom and when she does, she takes care of him! men, go and step up ur game and improve urself and see how beautiful ur marriages and relationships ll become! i'm tired of hearing women are not submissive; are d men playing their part by loving?
Romance › Re: Career Women Are Prone To Divorce: True? by bukatyne(f): 7:34pm On Sep 25, 2012
flanrey: [size=14pt]Career woman or no career woman, the woman i'll marry must not earn more than me.... Most ladies cannot be controlled when they are more wealthy than their spouse[/size]
and when she's promoted to a higher salary range than urs, write a note to her boss to demote her! na wa for some people's mentality!
Romance › Re: Career Women Are Prone To Divorce: True? by bukatyne(f): 7:27pm On Sep 25, 2012
afam4eva: It's true...Career women tend to be less submissive
and wat do u define as submission?
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Pay Me Off And Marry A Richer Man by bukatyne(f): 7:43pm On Sep 24, 2012
@OP: i go wit sexkills on this! for ur ex to have d guts to think of paying u off means she thinks lowly of u and for u to think of collecting d money means u had no genuine love for her. some things have no pricetag and this is one of them! it's her choice to leave u but it's ur choice if she leaves with ur dignity, sense of self worth and integrity. i'm sure u wouldn't want her to see u rolling in ur doe in future and say that she was d one that made u! leave d b!tch and her dirty money! ur love is not for sale! or is it?
Christianity Etc › Re: Why No Riots Over Jesus's Wife Story? by bukatyne(f): 7:44pm On Sep 23, 2012
LagosShia: for a people who attribute literally a son to God,then why is it blasphemy to attribute a wife/son to the "son"?

A Muslim scholar visits the Pope in order to give dawah (preach).

He found him amidst a big christian gathering, the scholar smiled at the pope & said:
"good to see you, how are your wife & children?"

People were surprised & the Pope got angry saying:
"Don't you know that we Pope/priest don't have any wife or children?"

The Muslim scholar replies:
"Then, how dare you say that God has a son!!!"

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likewise christian boast of Jesus being celibate,yet they dont offer an equal respect to God who is not man.oh i see,Jesus was "god".lets see how is that:

Muslim: Can a woman give birth to a tiger?

Christian:No way

Muslim: Can a woman give birth to an elephant?

Christian:No way

Muslim: Then how can a woman give birth to GOD??
for a prophet who married a child! how is it blasphemy to say he is a cradle robber? if u muslims don't understand a concept, ask questions! P.S. i can assure u that the muslim cleric and the pope are NOT talking about the same God.
Islam › Re: In The Name Of Religion Women Herded And Tied Like Camels by bukatyne(f): 9:12pm On Sep 20, 2012
LagosShia: Sorry if I misunderstood your intention.I didn't think you were sincerely after knowledge and in search of what Islam teach on modesty.if you're I'd suggest you check this out and you'd be convinced:

Observing Modesty - A Men's And Women's Hijab

https://www.nairaland.com/851453/observing-modesty-mens-womens-hijab

As for claiming that I was "misquoting" the bible,I beg to differ because I never used my words to tell anyone what the bible says.I quoted those verses verbatim.you can check your bible to see if the verses are there or not. smiley
i didn't c anything there and a simple answer would do. stop being on d defensive! i didn't say that these verses are not there, but i mean that don't pick verses individually; read d whole chapter or the whole book to get the meaning and pray to God to give u d understanding He wants u to ve.
Islam › Re: Why Do Muslims Think That The Comforter Jesus Christ Promised Is Muhammad? by bukatyne(op): 9:02pm On Sep 20, 2012
maclatunji: LOL, Sango worshippers don't say Sango is God. They believe that he is one of several "gods" that people must go through to reach Eledumare (God).

_There's only one God we all seek to worship. However, many have lost their way and end-up worshipping other things,like Christians worshipping Jesus and others worshipping Sango.

Bukatyne, your problem is that you have never allowed yourself to think of God outside the paradigm of Christianity and you're trapped in one-dimensional reasoning.
lol @ been trapped in one-dimensional reasoning! i wonder why u can't answer a yes or no
Islam › Re: Why Do Muslims Think That The Comforter Jesus Christ Promised Is Muhammad? by bukatyne(op): 9:00pm On Sep 20, 2012
LagosShia: Yes I do.and because I do that is why I also believe the "comforter" Jesus (as) promised to "show us all truth" is in the same capacity as the "other comforter" which is Jesus (as) himself to lead us to "the father" and is also the wat,the truth and life.
is Allah your father? does islam have the concept of fatherhood?
Family › Re: Rebuilding A Relationship After An Affair by bukatyne(f): 8:50pm On Sep 20, 2012
coogar: i saw plenty of polygamy in the bible - you would have to show me any woman that practised polyandry in the bible! yeah - you would go with the same ol' new testament vs old testament theory but the fact is its excusable for a man to acquire more than a partner, not so for a woman!
there was also a lot of murders, betrayals and wars so i guess it is good too! i asked a question once about u been a christian and i ve gotten my answer. mr, God created one man and one woman. look at it this way, who was Adam cheatin on Eve with? Lions? Monkeys? etc? God that expects men and women to be faithful knew wat HÉ created in them and knew that He Had them self control. Don't u think it would be unfair for God to punish a man for adultery if He created man in such a way he can't control himself? don't let satan and the world deceive u that we can't do without some things.
Jokes Etc › Re: Riddles Riddles Riddles!!! by bukatyne(f): 10:15pm On Sep 19, 2012
alaric saltzman: In a Marathon race of seven contestants,
EJIRO came in ahead of BORIS.
BOB emerged second,
EJIRO finished after SHOLA,
MARYAM beat SHOLA but finished after BOB.
Where did EJIRO finish?
fifth
Jokes Etc › Re: Riddles Riddles Riddles!!! by bukatyne(f): 10:15pm On Sep 19, 2012
alaric saltzman: In a Marathon race of seven contestants,
EJIRO came in ahead of BORIS.
BOB emerged second,
EJIRO finished after SHOLA,
MARYAM beat SHOLA but finished after BOB.
Where did EJIRO finish?
Jokes Etc › Re: Riddles Riddles Riddles!!! by bukatyne(f): 10:03pm On Sep 19, 2012
dlex21: What always ends a sporting event?

If one child has 12 1/4 sand piles and another has 3 3/4, and you combine them, how many sand piles do you have?

How many months have 28 days?
2. when all the sane piles are combined, u ve 1 sand pile.
Islam › Re: Why Do Muslims Think That The Comforter Jesus Christ Promised Is Muhammad? by bukatyne(op): 9:57pm On Sep 19, 2012
LagosShia: Because we believe in Jesus (as) as our prophet and we believe the God of Jesus and Moses (as) and we worship their God.
u believe that Jesus Christ is your prophet? are u 100% sure? ok then, do u believe that Jesus is the Way, the Truth and the Life? that NO ONE can come to the Father (God) except through Jesus? John 14:6. it's in the same chapter where He promised the Comforter.
Family › Re: Rebuilding A Relationship After An Affair by bukatyne(f): 9:52pm On Sep 19, 2012
coogar: testosterone versus estrogen!
a man does not need to atatch emotion to sleep with any woman - it's not the same with women unless she's a call girl(of which the motivation is money)! for a woman to drop her panties and sleep with anyone, she must have weighed the consequences, advantages of the action and the demerits of it - she didn't make a mistake about it which is quite different from the way men are wired! i don't condone any sort of cheating but it's delusional to compare a man with a woman when cheating is discussed. [/b]a man's infidelity can be excused to a certain extent![/b]
by whom? u? there is absolutely no difference between a woman who cheats and a man who cheats! society might react to it in different ways just how it is 'ok' for a public office holder to embezzle but it is totally 'wrong' for the average nigerian to steal. However, the society is not my standard, the Bible is and from it, God absolutely made no distinction or difference btw them so u can see we re not on d same page. i'm sure u wouldn't mind if ur son-in-law cheats on ur daughter. afteral, it's 'excuseable'!
Islam › Re: In The Name Of Religion Women Herded And Tied Like Camels by bukatyne(f): 1:03pm On Sep 19, 2012
LagosShia: Are you Muslim?
and wat is d relationship btw my post and your question? i asked someone to define wat modesty was and why it affected only women in islam and you went off tangent misquoting Bible verses! ow can you get d islamic definition of modesty in the Bible? like i said, if u ve no reasonable answer from your koran, pack well!
Family › Re: Rebuilding A Relationship After An Affair by bukatyne(f): 12:36pm On Sep 19, 2012
coogar: he comes back home @ night to be with his family! i just don't see how people can equate a man cheating with a woman cheating. a man is different from a woman - i don't condone cheating in both sexes but infidelity in men is excusable - i cannot say the same for women!
he comes back home every night! interesting! so wat is the difference between a woman cheating and a man cheating?
Islam › Re: Why Do Muslims Think That The Comforter Jesus Christ Promised Is Muhammad? by bukatyne(op): 12:34pm On Sep 19, 2012
maclatunji: Congratulations to your family especially your sister. I wish her a blissful married life. Your question is irrelevant (sorry), you should be asking instead: Who is God?
thanks! my question is relevant. okay, let me ask another one: do muslims and sango worshippers worship the same God?
Islam › Re: Why Do Muslims Think That The Comforter Jesus Christ Promised Is Muhammad? by bukatyne(op): 12:31pm On Sep 19, 2012
LagosShia: We undoubtedly have or know the same God who Jesus and Moses (as) in the bible both stated that "the Lord our God is One Lord".however,muslims and christians do not serve/worship the same God because christians have added "appendages" to God Almighty Creator and they worship beside or alongside God those appendages (Jesus and their "holy spirit" ) as well.in the bible too we read in several places that we should take no god beside God.

So definitely the answer is we do not worship the same God.had we being worshipping the same God you'd definitely have seen muslims trooping into churches on sundays to worship with christians.but ofcourse that have never being the case.
thanks for ur reply. if we don't serve the same God, why do u now think that the Comforter a God you don't worship promised is ur prophet?
Family › Re: Rebuilding A Relationship After An Affair by bukatyne(f): 9:20pm On Sep 18, 2012
Kingsleyinfo: my dear obviously you didn't understand my posts weather far or near..... grin grin

go and read my last post again?
or maybe i should quote myself.



did you miss the above
i have bolded it so you won't miss it again

and this is where a lot of people have a problem.
always taking things personal, instead of being objective.

anyway, you are a woman, so its normal for your emotions to get the better of you when you reply to people's posts.


and if i may use your line of logic
is it okay for a man to go tell his parents, about what is going on in his home?
of course i know what your answer will be to that one undecided

so marram, kindly read the full posts before you make emotion laden remarks.......
and which emotion laden remark did i make? it gets under my skin when people tell me i do something b'cos i am a woman. i do things b'cos i'm bukatyne; i am me, an unique individual and not a number in the general collection of women. back to my post: i am not concerned if she tells her family or not; my concern is that you think cheating is forgiveable BUT been slapped is unforgiveable.
Islam › Re: Why Do Muslims Think That The Comforter Jesus Christ Promised Is Muhammad? by bukatyne(op): 9:08pm On Sep 18, 2012
@tiarabubu: thanks and welldone for holding the fort. @ all, sorry i've been away. my sis got wedded on d 8th so i've soo busy.

i've not gotten a reply to my question yet. to all d muslims in the house, do christians and muslims serve the same Godhuh
Islam › Re: Why Do Muslims Think That The Comforter Jesus Christ Promised Is Muhammad? by bukatyne(op): 9:02pm On Sep 18, 2012
Abisafree: if jesus is god nd that he came in human flesh nd that he die 4 the sin of the world WHY christain er praying 4 forgiveness of sins day nd night after the death of jesus
it's by the reason of the blood of Jesus shed on the Cross of Calvary that we are forgiven. we are washed clean (sinless) wit d blood. as to ur question, there is no automatic forgiveness i.e. when we sin, we are dirty so we plead to God to forgive us (wash us clean) by the blood of Jesus. however, as christians, we are called to strive for perfection as our heavenly Father is perfect. this means we try by God's grace to resist sin and when we fall, we ask for forgiveness. it's wrong to sin willfully and then ask for forgiveness. it's like knowingly stepping on a person and apologizin after.
Family › Re: Rebuilding A Relationship After An Affair by bukatyne(f): 8:08pm On Sep 18, 2012
Kingsleyinfo: exactly Bro
Imagine going to tell those brutal brothers of hers and then one of them losses it and lands a slap
on the man's face.
God knows if it is me, the marriage ends that day... what nonsense

If she insists on telling her parents or siblings about what happened, then she should remember, that she can't
control how they will react to the situation, and what ever happens she would have herself to blame.

it is bad enough that the man cheated,
but to involve your family, now or in future would be a bad Idea.
if you believe that you can't deal with what he did, then divorce him undecided

but for christ sakes leave your lovely extended family out of it
This is your challenge, face it, and hopefully you would come out stronger.
if i understand ur posts so far well, she shouldn't leave a hubby for cheatin BUT the husband can leave if his wife's brothers slap her. hmmm! wat a just judgement!
Family › Re: Rebuilding A Relationship After An Affair by bukatyne(f): 7:54pm On Sep 18, 2012
coogar: except that the husband didn't leave his kids when he was doing the deed - why should the woman leave?
yes, he left them emotionally! ever heard of cause and effect?
Family › Re: The Most Suitable Job For A Married Woman? by bukatyne(f): 10:37pm On Sep 17, 2012
destinedtee: @Bukatyne:Thanks for your comment but u dont have to wrongly accuse me as u did in ur first statement ....Stay Blessed...i still appreciate ur comment though....Thanks
Family › Re: The Most Suitable Job For A Married Woman? by bukatyne(f): 10:37pm On Sep 17, 2012
destinedtee: @Bukatyne:Thanks for your comment but u dont have to wrongly accuse me as u did in ur first statement ....Stay Blessed...i still appreciate ur comment though....Thanks
i'm sorry if u feel offended. the truth is that women are the same in desires and dreams. some women also aspire to be makers of history in their generations and they do better when their hubby watch their back for them. it's very unfair to expect a woman to throw all her dreams away b'cos she's married. such women turn out to be bitter mothers, wives, jealous neighbors and friends and terrible mother-in-laws. at the end of the day, the reason for her sacrifice is not realized.
Romance › Re: Refusing A Marriage Proposal Based On Religion? by bukatyne(f): 5:25pm On Sep 17, 2012
Adematic: i'm nt judging bt hw can some1 tel me he/she is a xtain and hv a sexual imorality partner a.k.a boyfrnd or girl frnd
i m only responding to d post. besides, as christians, we fall in one way or the other. however, i expected her to be in a relationship leadin to marriage so if she can't marry a muslim, why did she date him in the first place?

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