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991: so women should stop getting married because millions(according to you) are miserable in marriage? i don't know what you might have experienced/been taught,etc about marriage, the FACT remains that marriage is on top of career. hate it if you will but its the truth.

binger: Ahh the woman got it wrong...your husband is your other half for Christ's sake,why should you do something behind his back and tell him few months later.i would feel like a fool if i were the one nevertheless,i hate guys who beat up there women.He should have forgiven her

991: my dear, a job will earn you whatever until you are sacked ok? but marriage makes you have and build your own family with your husband, and the joy/happiness/benefit/reward/etc is for a life time. ok? career and family are uncomparable!! jeeezzzz!!!

maclatunji: She will look for a new one. OP, is not telling us the whole story. I suspect that she knows/feels that her Fiance is not capable of meeting most of her financial wants (not needs). Hence, the reluctance to drop the job. Let us remember that Dakore Egbuson left acting and the limelight when she married a billionaire's son. Years before Genevive, Omotola et al dreamed of becoming superstars, a certain Ego Boyo would have been ahead of them but she married and sacrificed the acting career because her husband was "endowed' enough to make it happen.

My opinion.

taryour: my dear we av diffrent pespectives and mentality to how we wana leave our lives, u av urs and i av mine. Am living mine as it siuts me and i av never ad a reason to regret it,so if u dont like my way dosnt change anything about me or u so leave it at that....

Shakdut: Oh! Na tru o. How many miracle self performd by jesu,where here in nigeria,na everyday,dey ar perform miracle even jesus nt fit get power reach dem

lastpage: In 2012?
1.) Jesus Christ is Jesus Christ....SON of God. Period.
2.) God is God, Jehovah is His name, He is the Spiritual FATHER of Jesus Christ. (Joseph the Carpenter was his earthly father)
3.) Holy Spirit is Holy Spirit, "the Spiritual Power" with which God accomplishes things.

[size=14pt]That they "work together or are in complete Harmony is TRUE " ....but does not make them "coalesce or erase their individuality"![/size]

Anyone who calls him/herself a Christian and cannot understand this three simple sentences, needs a healing!
Stop preaching bulshyte pleaze!

Lastpage!

taryour: would u also quit ur job and relocate to lagos cause her job is in lagos and u become jobless.


@op,if u truely love dis man and u are sure of his love,then u would quit dat job and get another in abuja. U only searched for job for 7months after service and u are complaining so much, so wot should men not even women dat av searched for job for more than 4yrs and above do? As a woman i realy dont believe in women pursuing career,cos dats were u get all sorts of insults from men(i personally cant stand a man dats not my hubby insult me witout me dishing him d trash he deserves),i prefer a woman in bizness or her using her handiwork or talents to make her money, if u quit dat job n relocate to abuja,while searching for anoda job u could learn diffrent skills and make more mony out of it. My dear sit down n av a rethink. At d end u rule ur world...

taryour: would u also quit ur job and relocate to lagos cause her job is in lagos and u become jobless.


@op,if u truely love dis man and u are sure of his love,then u would quit dat job and get another in abuja. U only searched for job for 7months after service and u are complaining so much, so wot should men not even women dat av searched for job for more than 4yrs and above do? As a woman i realy dont believe in women pursuing career,cos dats were u get all sorts of insults from men(i personally cant stand a man dats not my hubby insult me witout me dishing him d trash he deserves),i prefer a woman in bizness or her using her handiwork or talents to make her money, if u quit dat job n relocate to abuja,while searching for anoda job u could learn diffrent skills and make more mony out of it. My dear sit down n av a rethink. At d end u rule ur world...

Logic Mind: Thanks for poiting out those passages. They are an eye opener for those that wish to know.

Luke 10:1-24, speaks about jesus sending out 72 appointed people. It does not tell us if there were women amongst these 72. We can assume that there were women but it would only be an assumption as the scripture did not deem it important to mention.
But there were women followers of jesus and his 12 disciples (or apostles. matthew called them both) according to Luke 8: 1-3

Luke 8:1-3

8 After this, Jesus traveled about from one town and village to another, proclaiming the good news of the kingdom of God. The Twelve were with him, 2 and also some women who had been cured of evil spirits and diseases: Mary (called Magdalene) from whom seven demons had come out; 3 Joanna the wife of Chuza, the manager of Herod’s household; Susanna; and many others. These women were helping to support them out of their own means.

But which women? Normal women? Scripture says no.
They were women who had been cured of evil spirits and diseases. That is exactly my point. That is how the bible sees women. The bible is answering your questions about the stand of women in it.

"These women were helping to support them out of their own means". This phrase really says it all. This phrase shows that the bible finds it necessary to justify the inclusion of these women. What were the means of these women? Is it their role to support the men? Maybe according to god.

lepasharon: churches that celebrate:
new year
easter
christmas
mothers day
fathers day
haloween

churches that:
tell you jesus is god
tell you its ok to eat pork
preach the trinity

Ptolomeus: Mhhhh
Mary Magdalene?
Wife / lover?
Disciple?
Lover / disciple?

ezicat: The debates were interesting - they've now denigrated into voicing of opinions - but they were revealing while they lasted. At Logicmind...wow...if I was offended by the bible before...yikes!

Regarding the treatment of women in the Bible - I'll have to say sexist. Bottom line - I mean the verses were pretty clear from where I'm standing. There are of course the modern day interpretations that some have now tried to pedal "no - the Bible wasn't sexist at all if you read it like this...with the inspiration of God"...I guess that inspiration didn't exist until the women's liberation movement of the last century when SECULAR law mandated that women were equal? Before this time society including Christians didn't treat women as such. Same with slavery. Not yet with war, but when we get there via secular development, I'm sure mainstream conservative Christians will find a way to re-interpret the Bible accordingly.

Face it - secular law comes up with something new and improved, and Christians try to re-inteprete the Bible to suit the new culture. Take the new green culture and environmental push. Now some Christians are re-interpreting a section of Genesis? involving Eden where God put man there to "take care of it." And as for free will - come now - like the stuttering Moses or the whale-living Jonah? Looks like God is perfectly capable of convincing people to do his will, so no I don't buy the "His hands are tied" excuse.

Bottom line - the Bible is a big book. You can get really fancy with interpretations.

ezicat: The debates were interesting - they've now denigrated into voicing of opinions - but they were revealing while they lasted. At Logicmind...wow...if I was offended by the bible before...yikes!

Regarding the treatment of women in the Bible - I'll have to say sexist. Bottom line - I mean the verses were pretty clear from where I'm standing. There are of course the modern day interpretations that some have now tried to pedal "no - the Bible wasn't sexist at all if you read it like this...with the inspiration of God"...I guess that inspiration didn't exist until the women's liberation movement of the last century when SECULAR law mandated that women were equal? Before this time society including Christians didn't treat women as such. Same with slavery. Not yet with war, but when we get there via secular development, I'm sure mainstream conservative Christians will find a way to re-interpret the Bible accordingly.

Face it - secular law comes up with something new and improved, and Christians try to re-inteprete the Bible to suit the new culture. Take the new green culture and environmental push. Now some Christians are re-interpreting a section of Genesis? involving Eden where God put man there to "take care of it." And as for free will - come now - like the stuttering Moses or the whale-living Jonah? Looks like God is perfectly capable of convincing people to do his will, so no I don't buy the "His hands are tied" excuse.

Bottom line - the Bible is a big book. You can get really fancy with interpretations.

Logic Mind: in the bible, a women have no say about who fvcks her. it is either god, or her father, that decides for her.

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Logic Mind: one man's meat is another man's bone
what you find delicious may be a poisonous insult to another. ask muslims what they think os tasty finger licking bacon bites and pork ribs.
i am a bible preaching atheist. it means i seek out the truth from the bible and tell those that have ears (or eyes in nl)
jesus in heaven had no mother - true . thus bastard
jesus on earth had no biological father - true. thus bastard
bastard in heaven, bastard on earth

go to another man's wife and artificially inseminate her by force = rap.ist
holy ghost did that to poor joseph's wife

can you see evil happening and do nothing even though you are powerful enough to act? yes? then you are useless.

you see, i speak the truth. only those wallowing in falsehood can see my honesty as insult.

Logic Mind: one man's meat is another man's bone
what you find delicious may be a poisonous insult to another. ask muslims what they think os tasty finger licking bacon bites and pork ribs.
i am a bible preaching atheist. it means i seek out the truth from the bible and tell those that have ears (or eyes in nl)
jesus in heaven had no mother - true . thus bastard
jesus on earth had no biological father - true. thus bastard
bastard in heaven, bastard on earth

go to another man's wife and artificially inseminate her by force = rap.ist
holy ghost did that to poor joseph's wife

can you see evil happening and do nothing even though you are powerful enough to act? yes? then you are useless.

you see, i speak the truth. only those wallowing in falsehood can see my honesty as insult.

Logic Mind: Me neither.
So why do you bring house help into the argument?
Running around in circles and afraid to defend your faith.

[/b]If my faith is an insult to you, then yours is an insult[/b] to me.

Logic Mind: the famous "it was the culture at that time" escape route.

Logic Mind: So you are saying that some parts of the bible are not the word of god?
that's a new one.

Logic Mind: hypocrite!
did the bible say "house help"?
the bible said and meant slaves.

let me put it this way: if i met a house help, "helping" against her will, I will not only advise her to rebel, I will help her to be rid of her bondage and bring the her master to justice.

That is why i am better than your useless god and his bastard son of a rap.ist holy ghost.

Logic Mind: This is the introduction of chapter 2

Genesis 2:4

4 This is the account of the heavens and the earth when they were created, when the Lord God made the earth and the heavens.