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TravelRe: Please advise me what to do by bukhety(f): 8:01pm On Oct 11, 2021
I would advise u have a conversation with ur sister first. Be tactful yet firm. Help her see reasons y you must leave. Adv her to make alt arrangement. Then leave. She s not God she cannot kill u. Worse she will get angry. Be courageous
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by bukhety(f): 12:11pm On Oct 08, 2021
Keeunicee:
Pls guru's in the house I want to know if it's advisable for me and my husband to apply for F1,F2 or we do it separately as we were both given admission
together
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by bukhety(f): 8:57am On Oct 06, 2021
Apply

Christianity EtcRe: My 1 Years Old Is A Witch by bukhety(f): 4:53pm On Oct 05, 2021
pocohantas:
Poor child.

Daddy is mad and mummy is nowhere to be found.
I couldn't stop laughing. A perfect description.
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by bukhety(f): 10:54am On Oct 02, 2021
haywhy17:
hmmm... guess you are new in the game...lets talk
Hello, pls can I chat u up, I need some help as regards loan. Thanks
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by bukhety(f): 1:21pm On Sep 26, 2021
Pls is there any one who applied for WIU spring 2022 and got graduate assistantship?
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by bukhety(f): 9:44am On Sep 23, 2021
hongeorge:
WIU Applicants any update?
I have been admitted though I deferred to fall 2022. I applied July ending.
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by bukhety(f): 5:30am On Sep 18, 2021
teetop02:
Pls is anyone here that applied to Western Illinois University’ spring 2022 session and has been given admission? I applied since August and haven’t heard from the school
I got their message day before yesterday. Apparently, they have a lot to work on, so be patient. I'm sure they will get to you. Regards
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by bukhety(f): 3:12pm On Sep 12, 2021
nikola:
I believe it should be Education. Why don't you try your luck with NECO? Great career growth, lotsa time on your hands to be that super entrepreneur and for family too.
Thank you
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by bukhety(f): 11:10am On Sep 10, 2021
Good morning my people from osun state. Abeg which organizations are under Senator Oriolowo. Pls help me. It's urgent!
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by bukhety(f): 1:24am On Sep 08, 2021
Blueelf:
Not to burst your bubbles but those letters of recommendation don't work.

If the person really wants to help, he/she either calls the recruiting agency or takes you there himself/herself.

The probability that a letter of recommendation works is 10%.

However, I wish you all the best. God can favour you. I'm just speaking from a natural standpoint
Thank u. I agree with u. I've had an experience too. So I'm not taking it too serious. But I have to try. Though he said he doesn't know anywhere they are currently recruiting. At least let me just ty, who knows..
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by bukhety(f): 5:01pm On Sep 07, 2021
Pls I need help. Someone wants to help with a letter of recommendation. I need help with organizations that are currently recruiting. Thank u
Jobs/VacanciesRe: NCDMB 2020 Oil and Gas EH & GT Jobs by bukhety(f): 12:32pm On Sep 04, 2021
TammyAnybody:
Good morning....

Management of NCDMB and FCC are currently working hand in hand to continue the recruitment as early as possible..

Candidate who meet the required cut off and asked to upload documents has all been stratified to to different categories base on qualification for interviews. Also ineligible candidates base on age and qualifications has been weeded out.

The Interview will likely be held virtually due to security situation of the country, though FCC are proposing a physical Interview at Abuja.

Date of the interview will be communicated as soon as NCDMB and FCC comes to an agreement.


The Senate Committee on local content has also meet with FCC for the continuation on the recruitment exercise....
Good morning boss. I believe u. Good news on the way!
PropertiesRe: Agents And Landlords Exploit House Seekers In Lagos by bukhety(f): 4:59pm On Aug 26, 2021
SmartPolician:
Na the same Lagos all of us dey.
Those fees are always a percentage of the total rent.
You know you are lying. undecided
Continue.
Lagos different from Lagos. I don't have strength for argument. You never see where agent connect agent, con connect agent. Come Mafoluku con ask question.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: NCDMB 2020 Oil and Gas EH & GT Jobs by bukhety(f): 4:19am On Aug 26, 2021
Newcastle2023:
Fellow Hopefuls the process will be brought to a final happy ending within this 3rd quarter (July, August and September). Get set to receive the long awaited "Congratulations" just in a couple of days to weeks by God's grace. Thanks and all the best!

#WhatGodCannotDoDoesNotExist.
August have finish. Na September remain. May God fulfil our heart desires.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FRSC Recruitment 2021/2022 - How to Apply by bukhety(f): 2:30pm On Aug 23, 2021
Lawsonking:
After the portal closes this week.
When are we expecting the shortlisted
names of candidates?
I
I am co asking
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by bukhety(f): 10:49pm On Aug 12, 2021
[quote author=Approvalll post=104727695][/quote]Congratulations
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by bukhety(f): 10:02am On Aug 11, 2021
Themaths:
Send me a PM/Email
Thank u bro. Will do that now.
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by bukhety(f): 9:51am On Aug 11, 2021
Themaths:
You welcome.
One more question though. Pls how did you manage the issue of recommendation letters. Will those professors have time to send letters to all these schools? I had to explain to one that it's more than a school. They seem too busy.
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by bukhety(f): 2:10am On Aug 11, 2021
Themaths:
Yes. Some, I mailed the grad coordinator, some I got their waiver codes (some were posted here on NL), others I found on LinkedIn, others friends on ground helped me.

There are even more sef, but I couldn't apply to those because either I didn't have or will to send official transcript for admission decision purpose or that they insisted I must submit an English requirement score. I checked alot of forums, did alot of research.
Thank you
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by bukhety(f): 7:19pm On Aug 10, 2021
Themaths:
Do what exactly?
Get the waivers cos officially, there are application fees on those schools' website.
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by bukhety(f): 4:24am On Aug 09, 2021
Themaths:
In light of maximum information sharing...these schools waived application fees for me

Last year, most schools waived application fees for fall 2021 and Spring 2022. I just hope it will be the same fall 2022.

Some of the schools I can remember are

1. Western Illinois University
2. Marquette University
3. Clarkston University
4. University of Arkansas at little rock
5. University of Texas, Rio Grande Valley
6. Rensselaer Polytechnic institute
7. University of Rochester.
8. Michigan Technological University
9. University of Delaware.
10. Northeastern University
11. Steven's Institute of Technology
Pls how did u do this?
Christianity EtcRe: Being An Atheist Is HARD!!! You Need To Be Super Human To Leave Faith! by bukhety(f): 6:56pm On Aug 08, 2021
Pelecius:
No Ma
Ok
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by bukhety(f): 6:32pm On Aug 07, 2021
bayocanny:
Interested in applying to more schools with app waiver?
If yes, check Iowa State University and Texas Tech.
Thank you
Christianity EtcRe: Being An Atheist Is HARD!!! You Need To Be Super Human To Leave Faith! by bukhety(f): 4:04am On Aug 07, 2021
Pelecius:
Thank you o
I don't know what is hard in understanding simple terms such as that.
You jw?
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by bukhety(f): 3:18am On Aug 07, 2021
SlaveofGod:
Please who has he attended to in this thread? Is the slot real? I communicated with him on WhatsApp and later I was told the number isn't on WhatsApp anymore, I hope it is not what I am thinking ���
Did you pay money?
RomanceRe: Who Is A Narcissist And How Are You Sure You Are Not Dating Or About To Date One by bukhety(f): 4:52pm On Aug 06, 2021
abbey621:
But who is truly a narc? Human behavior is complex and what most of us see is only at the superficial level, even the greatest of psychologists cannot pin point the exact cause of narcissism. Can you differentiate between a psychopath and a narc? How about someone that is bipolar and someone that is narcissistic?
A psychopath can kill, a narcissist will likely not kill but enjoys tormenting u emotionally. He is envious and wishes worse for his perceived enemy. A bipolar could be good at sometimes bad at other times. But u see narc, they are ever calculative. Looking for opportunities to strike. Worse if them is the covert narc
TravelRe: General USA Student Visa Enquiries-part 16 by bukhety(f): 11:29am On Aug 06, 2021
UAVdrones:
Some schools don't require application fees. Most schools offer application waivers if you know how to circumvent it.
Pls how can one do that? I've paid a total of 95 dollars and its a pain.
RomanceRe: Who Is A Narcissist And How Are You Sure You Are Not Dating Or About To Date One by bukhety(f): 10:27am On Aug 06, 2021
Hi
Regex:
I never knew such personality existed, I first heard of it on this platform but I didn't believe it. Till I had a first hand experience.
I stumbled on it on quora after I have suffered much. Information can make the difference. Now na my narc dey wish to discard me.
RomanceRe: Who Is A Narcissist And How Are You Sure You Are Not Dating Or About To Date One by bukhety(f):
abbey621:
We are saying the same thing, everyone has narcissistic traits, everyone has the tendencies to grow into true narcissists. I disagree with you saying not everyone is a narcissist, if you have the traits you have the tendencies. Just like we all have the potential to love, to be happy, to be sad, to prosper or become useless but potential does not equate manifestation.

I'll give you a real life example, a guy I know was a very good guy in school, never missed church, did not drink or party. He graduated, got a job, married and was blessed with 3 kids, fast forward 10 years later, man has been unemployed for over 2 years, his wife is constantly lamenting because he turned into a chronic drinker, man no longer goes to church, shouts with the slightest of provocation and monitors his wife like an hawk.

This young man with so much potential and the elast likely to misbehave is now the joke of the town. Was he born a narcissist or did life expose and grew his narcissistic traits?
This true life experience you just painted is a man frustrated and going through a phase. Give him a well paying job and things will likely change. A narc does not need any frustrating situation. He creates one. Wo! I don't know how to describe it. I pray you never meet one. They are crazy!
RomanceRe: Who Is A Narcissist And How Are You Sure You Are Not Dating Or About To Date One by bukhety(f): 8:26am On Aug 06, 2021
Regex:
What is INFJ?

I had a housemate/friend who is a narc. He suffers from victim syndrome. Thinks everyone is after him. The very youngest but wants to control the house. The perfect chameleon, you will never suspect. Dude is very vengeful and that will be his undoing.


I started being indifferent to him, and it killed him. He usually disturbs the whole house with music, one day he came out the back of the house with his phone playing music right under my window, I had my window closed due to the cold, omo, I opened it wide to get some air, I noticed the music didn't last 2 minutes and he went inside.


Then I realized, normally when he plays his music so loud, other people shut their windows, and he continues to play it even louder, that means his aim is to disturb. I guess me opening my windows told him, I am enjoying the music...

Anywho, they're the worst set of people to have anything to do with. If you don't align with them, you are an enemy. If they can't control you, you are enemy. Always the victim yet the 100% perpetrator.
You just described them! They are the same everywhere, walahi!
RomanceRe: Who Is A Narcissist And How Are You Sure You Are Not Dating Or About To Date One by bukhety(f):
abbey621:
Yes we all do to a degree! While the traits that the OP used were in extreme forms, try and picture some of those traits in simpler everyday use. A frustated husband, a depressed wife, a boss on your neck to meet project deadline etc.
It's the extreme degree that it's been discussed. The truth is most who are denying this trait have never met one.. Wo! You will understand why Yoruba say"aye pe gba". This life is up to 200!

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