Europeanian: Is a lie, change is constant... people do change..the fact is that the guy loves her and that's why he doesn't want to let her go!!
Dude is enjoying free puna till he gets a replacement Dont ever pray to meet someone that abuse you physically mentally and emotionally they rarely change.
Bbliss24: Good evening guys, It all started in my University days, I met this guy but I was in a relationship when I met him. I didn't like the guy because of his tribe no offence,I just liked his vibe but we dated.
When I met my current boyfriend I told him that I was in a relationship and that I can't double date he was like no problem but mind you i already found him attractive. To cut the long story short i broke up with the other guy to date him. It was all rosy the first two years he worked his service to ph then because my family lives in ph I was in Enugu then but i went home for break,where we hooked up and most times I had to lie to my parents that I was going for night class just to spend the night at his place mind you he was very smart and sound academically so some of those night he did put me through for my exam.
To cut the whole story short he has changed completely what he use to do before he no longer does it,his excuse is that I made him that way . I stay with him in Enugu but temporary till I get my place during this period he gets angry easily and hits me his excuse is that I am arrogant and I dont respect him.Most times I try to opt out from the relationship he comes up with story of after all I have done for you I gave up my family and my life for you and this is how you want to pay me back ,then he starts rendering causes on me.
The truth is he is a good guy and when I met him he never laid his hands on me until I started staying with him. We have dated for 5years and emotions are mixed I find it hard to leave the relationship....
U aint married yet he is already testing his mayweather skills on u, when u get married, thats if he ever gets married to u it sure gonna get worst. Truth is the guy didnt change he has always been like that love blinded you, u ignored his flaws. Aunty jakpa or tell me What size is your casket? Please be kind to let me know. Dont endure no foolz domestic violence
elizabeth24: A Nigerian lady has left many tongues wagging after she made a remark about dating men.
A Nigerian Lady who is Identified as Amaka as made a stir on a Facebook group (Igbo Rant HQ) as she stated that If you date her, She expects Marriage, but if nit, You die .
She wrote; “Once you date me, there is no Break up. It is either we plan wedding or your Funeral. Are you ready?”
Hushbingo: [b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.
When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me. So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.
Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.
To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy. Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]
Anytime i go through my womans phone i see stuffs like crazy stuffs from different guys but truth is i have zero right to para because i havent made her my wife yet. Some bitchy attitude can be understandable sometimes
daclemx: Madam, pray and make your husband promise and even sign undertaken that you will tell him something and he won't feel bad about it. Then go ahead and tell him. Las las, he will find out and that will break your marriage. You should also be ready for the worse. But there's nothing prayers cannot do. You made a mistake. You can even tell him the man forced you, and you were in your most vulnerable state because you hadn't been touched by anyone. Your system will eventually blow your cover.
Jceeee: Hello everybody , I came here to seek for advice because I’m in a big dilemma with my kid sister , I don’t want to bore you with long story I will make the long story short. I got married in May 2000 I was pregnant with my first child , I had my first child in September that same year then another daughter in 2002 May , and in July 2002 my husband left for abroad ( I won’t mention the country ) .
I had to move out of the renting apartment and went back to my parents house with my 2 children while waiting for him to apply for our documents, it took him 2 years to settle and for 2 year he couldn’t send us money because he had no documents and job.
My parents were supportive until when my husband got his documents and started working , he started sending us money every month and was working hard for me and the kids to join him but things were not working well for us , they keep rejecting us but he didn’t get tired of us , but I started getting tired after 5 years of waiting, missing him badly , no intimacy and I was lonely and very depressed.
I start seeking attention outside and I met with a married man that I had a relationship with, I got pregnant in 2008 the man suggested abortion but I didn’t want to abort because I was scared to die because I remember a cousin that had a husband abroad , she got pregnant and went to abort , she died instantly so I didn’t want to end up like her .
I had planned with my sister and mum that I should leave our state to another state ( I won’t mention the name ) to go and have my baby then will come back after the baby is 3 months , I and my kid sister left and rented another house in a different state meanwhile we lied to my dad that I had traveled to this country to join my husband in abroad , things was well.
I had my baby another girl in 2009 and we kept the secret for 3 months from my dad and we had to lie to him , it was my kid sister that has given birth to this baby while we were away and my dad got angry at her and he has said a lot of harsh things to her, it was very painful but my sister supported me and didn’t let the secret come out , even to my husband he just knew the baby was my sister , because I was breastfeeding her , we didn’t want to go home yet so we had to stayed here for a year , when I weaned her and we started preparing to go back home, lying to my dad that things didn’t work out and I couldn’t join my husband anymore, we returned back home in 2010 and we had been keeping this secrets from my dad , husband and other people .
Finally God has been great that I had to joined my husband in 2013 after 11 years of waiting , it was a wonderful time to be with him again , my kid sister got married in 2014 she had a daughter with her husband before marriage born in 2012, so the husband accepted her with my daughter that she pretend to be hers , she went to her husband house , leaving my kids with our parents , she only took the daughter she had with her husband and I used to send them money as usual until in 2015 my 2 daughters I had with my husband joined us abroad and my other daughter stayed behind , I had to convinced my husband that my sister baby should join us too which he was okay and grateful to my sister because she had been the one taking care of our children in my absent so we started applying for documents for the girl, but they kept rejecting it but we didn’t give up, at that same time my sister has also wanted her biological daughter to be included in but I was frank with her that we couldn’t add her daughter because the daughter that I had is known to be hers so if we had another daughter it would be wrong , so this has caused a lot of problems between my sister and I that she called me an ingrate after everything she has been doing to me , but I was never ungrateful to her because I take care of her daughter school fees in a best private school but I just couldn’t take her abroad with us but she is adamant that her daughter should be here too.
Luckily my daughter which to my husband is my niece has joined us this January 2020 , she knows me as her auntie and my sister her mummy , She is doing well my family is complete , I have also had 2 more children with my husband two cute boys but my sister has been threatening and blackmailing that she would tell my husband everything about my daughter , I had begged even our mum has been begging her not to spoil my marriage but she wouldn’t listen.
I’m scared she would tell my husband and my marriage will be over. I don’t sleep well and anytime when my husband get back from work , my heart beat faster thinking that he has found out about the secrets and I’m no longer in peace. he loves my niece ( daughter ) so much that he doesn’t treat her any different from our 4 children but I’m getting so scared , have been taking blood pressure medication because of my sister threatening me.
Please I know a lot of you would insult me because I deserve it but all I need is advice from you .
please if you could offer me some , I just don’t know what else to do
The heart of a woman is a deep ocean of secrets. Fear women
hector: I am 32. I am planning to move overseas- America, Canada, Europe or Australia in that order. But I'm seriously considering settling down before I turn 35 or at most 35. My problem right now is having to decide if getting married before i travel will be a better idea considering how uncertain things might be for a new immigrant.
I can be skeptical towards ladies, very selective and reserved. So I want to hear your suggestions please..
Bro truth is most african women will become a bone in your neck when you take them abroad. They know out there the system works like this Women n children first Animals second Nature third Man last African women most times will abuse the privilege n benefit they get out there. Oga marry a white woman and enjoy peace of mind.
Mtvbaseng: Like I mentioned in my previous thread, my friend started putting me through, he told me the basics of dating scam,.
(1) You need to find the pictures of the white lady you will be using , the lady must have both naked and clothed pictures, the pic must be natural and not edited or filtered like the one u find on Instagram,she must be a frequent poster , she must be mature enough around 24 years upward (which means she is ready to settle down ).she must have no tattoos to show she's responsible..
Omo I was lost . How on Earth will I find such girl? , my friend told me to calm down , he then took me on Twitter and lo and behold there were hundreds of girls who fit perfectly Into the description, I chose the one I like.
(2) We moved on to the next stage which was creating fake profiles with her pictures on Facebook, and other free dating site. When the profile was completed , my friend told me to join different dating group on Facebook and advertise myself as a lady looking for a partner. I did that and within hours my Facebook messages was filled with messages from different men from different countries.. After doing that we moved to the next stage which was according to him the most important stage
(3) Trapping stage My friend explained that even though I was getting messages from potential client,I must take my time to choose the perfect ones ,he explained that I must not be quick to reply messages , and when I reply I should give enough time before I reply again.. according to him if u reply fast ,you will come off as cheap and desperate making you look like scam and also replying fast will enable the client ask stupid questions like asking you to prove you are real ..but when the client sees that you take hours to reply ,he will make use of his time whenever you are online because he knows u might not reply again in a long while , So by doing This you have trapped him... Wow I replied The last stage is the
(4) Make believe stage
Since all my friends have thier own fake profiles on Facebook,we added ourselves as sister,/family on Facebook.. whenever any of us posts a picture,the rest of us will comment .making the profile look real to Clients.
I completed all stages and I was ready.
Before long I found a serious client,who was really into me . Without evwn asking the man told me his profile and the amounts he earn ,and that he wants me for marriage and not dating,saying he's ready to take care of me ..
My friend informed me to quickly transfer him from Facebook to email,the reason according to him was that Facebook might ban you but once you have transferred him to email ,you will still keep in touch , So I did as he as said . That was my first potential client .
So I started nursing the client, chatting everyday , sometimes he calls and a lady who helps my friends pick calls would talk to him ,he was completely unaware that I was scam and he was in Love
Then my friend taught me the other basics which is known as Format.. According to him there are different ways to make a client pay you once you have established a solid relationship..
(1) Weekly allowance
Once you make the client believe you are officially dating him the next thing is to tell him to support you with weekly allowances because u are currently jobless ,my friend made me understand that one of his client pays him $300 dollars every Monday as his upkeep and the client has been paying conatantly for the past one year .. Although those format works best for weekly earners ,if your client is a monthly earner then u tell him to fix you on monthly allowances
(2) Transport Fare Just like our Nigerian girls who are known for being the master of This format, This format is used for stubborn client who believes they must see you before you can get thier money..... You tell them to send you transport fare ,while some will offer to buy the tickets themselves you have to be very convincing if you eant to win.
(3). Emergencies
You can tell you client that you are sick and need money to buy drugs or you need to pay your rent .e.t.c
Fortunately for me my newly found client fell for the transport money format and like a movie he sent me 600 dollars I was happy,back then that was almost 200k ..just like that ..
I also got to find out that not all client send you money ,some clients also help you recieve money and then send it to you in Nigeria they are known as pickers ,
Cashy was into dating and wire, what he does is u give him your client bank details and he would wire the money from the client account to a different account, yakpa was into dating ,apartment and lotto. He post house properties online acting like the owner with intentions to sell the houses ,once he finds a serious buyer ,he will ask the person to first pay 10% of the fee before he can consider showing him the house assuring the client that if he doesn't like the house the money will be refunded...
Immediately I got my 600 dollars David advised me to use part of the money to buy credit card from hackers on a darkweb .. According to him this credit card can be used for both shopping or breaking into dating sites that requires credit card to log in ..
Comment if you would like to hear the remaining Crazy life of the internet fraudster
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So I was given the website to the darkweb ,on the darkweb there is nothing hackers don't sell you can buy credit cards ,Bank log ins, hacking softwares e.t.c , I also found out that the darkweb websites sometimes don't connect because they are trying to avoid being caught by the FBI and the likes ,
The darkweb however is a risk just like every black market , once you're in you would select the item you want to buy , in my case I wanted a credit card , a valid working credit. I chose the one I could afford the cost was 200$ ,I chatted with the seller and he assured me that it is working..
My friend already told me that most of these hackers are scam too , or sometimes the credit card works but it is empty( zero balance)
The seller advised me to act fast on the credit card so as to avoid the real owner from blocking the access ..
Immediately we bought the card , the seller gave us every details . Pin, email , phone number , and everything connected to the card
Cashy quickly helped me to check if it's valid , and lucky for me it was and it also had a balance of 4000$ , I was really lucky .
I watch as cashy quickly help me open a Zoosk account, he also went on a shopping spree with the money , he helped me order for an iPhone 6s Gold , sneakers and some dope wears .
I got to find out that all the expensive designer wears and sneakers to iphones that Gee boys used were mostly ordered using a credit card ,some will even book private first class flights with the credit card .. I was learning
Now Using the email attached to the card i bought , cashy went on Facebook to search for the profile attached to the email , a profile appeared , he tried using the password on the credit card to log in into the account , and lo and behold it works , cashy told me most people only use one password for everything online ,which according to him is bad ,but it makes works easy for Gee boys
With the information on the credit card we were able to access his Facebook and email ..
From his Facebook and email we quickly copied his friends and family personal details ,such as phone numbers and thier emails .
My friends told me that i have to be very wise when making transactions with the credit card , because the owner will be alerted via his phone and email we were able to successfully make quick transactions because we waited for the time we were sure that the owner would be sleeping...
I was also informed that there were softwares I could use to hack the owners phone . giving me privileged to delete notification but that it is expensive and very scarce to buy .
Immediately we got on Zoosk too I quickly chatted clients and transfer them to my email because those dating site are advanced,I was told that once you log out u will need phone verification to log in..the phone on your credit card ..unless of course you don't log out ..
It was a long night ,we didn't sleep ,I was absorbing too much information and learning fast .
Meanwhile when my client who sent me 600$ noticed that I did not come ,he got angry and was being suspicious,I tried to convince him that something happened and I used the money to fix it but he won't buy my excuse ,he started ranting a, asking me to send him his money back or he will report me to the authorities,
I told my friend and he just laughed,he told me to block him on Facebook first so that he won't report my account which would lead to Facebook blocking it, he then told me if I had used juju to tie him down ,he won't doubt anything I tell him ,he also told me that no white man/woman would ever be that stupid to drop his account details for me to access unless he/she is under a spell , he made me understand that some of this oyinbo people have thousands of dollars in thier account,some even have millions..
He told me the story of his own client who was always sending him money ,he claims the highest the client ever sent him was 1000$ and that was someone he has been chatting for a year plus ,he revealed that the day he used jazzed to tie him up .he gave him access to his account balance,only for him to find that the maga has a 400k plus in his account balance..
He laughed then told me that he wiped everything off ..I was shocked to my bone marrow.wow David that's huge money I replied David claims he was transferring 10k from the account every week ..
I felt bad for the client somehow,but my Friend quickly assured me that unlike us oyinbos have insurances and other things they used in surviving theft .I don't know if that was true but I believed him...
Now jazz matters I don't want to involve into jazz ,but one thing about Yahoo boys ,once you are part of them you have to join them totally.i am a strong believer in Christ,and even though what I was doing was wrong I knew that going to the devil to seek for assistance was wronger .. So one day .
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So one day I lay on the bed and was in deep thoughts, air conditioner blowing my head , with Sandra (girl I met in the club) sleeping beside me, Like play Like play Sandra has turned herself to my girlfriend,she now comes often ,I got to find out that she is truly a student.
This is just my 5th month in Lagos and I was already living like this , I have more than a 100 thousand naira in my account, I now own an iPhone 6s gold which happens to be the top iPhone then ,my wardrobe has grown larger with designer wears ,I wake up in the morning and I do nothing than smoke weed,drink play ps4 , Eat Fancy fast food , Go to hotels/ club. Stay up on the laptop all night and the cycle continues the next day
Yes I'm a graduate of the university,but even if I get a job of 200k ,which is almost impossible in this our wicked country,by the time you remove transport fare,,light bill,feeding and rent bills,the remaining money would barely be enough to live the kind of lifestyle I desire , how many years will I save before I buy a car of my choice or build the house I want ..
I decided I will do the Jazz , at least something must kill a man , a voice in my head was telling me to do it, make enough money , invest in business and quit , which I agreed to . David already assured me that it has nothing to do with blood or human being whatsoever , my mind was made up .
I gently cuddle Sandra ,she woke up and she knows what I mearnt,we went on another round of sex , as I was pounding away enjoying the juice of this beautiful young woman , I know that I have gone on a path I might never return..
I told David I was ready to do the jazz ,he was happy ,but he told me that I would have to wait for T-money to come so that we can all go together. Although I have never met this T-money of a guy ,but my friend and his friends always talk about him ,they always refer to him as baba( father ) . According to them T-money is the richest,and the one that brings mouth watering deals for them to run..
They told me T-money specializes in hacking and wire fraud ,I got to find out that he owns 2 Benz and one Toyota muscle , T-money bought two houses ,one on the island which is his private home and one on the mainland which he takes prostitutes or girls to,his guys also live in this house.
T-money started with cashy but blew so big that he became a boss and had so many guys under him learning work,while some just hang around him
David told me the story of how one day when him ,cashy and T-money traveled to kishi ( a village in oyo) To meet one powerful baba for jazz, according to him when they arrived there the baba told them that the jazz he wants to do for them is so powerful that it is the jazz itself that will select who is fit to do it .. After consultation,the jazz chose T-money ,the baba told them that T-money will be with him for 3 days for the fortification .
After three days they went back to meet T-money And he was done , when they got back to the hotel, David said him and cashy asked T-money what happened during the 3 days but that he refused to answer ,. David claimed when they ask again , that he bursted into tears and told them not to ask him what happened. They were confused but that nobody brought the issue up since then .. After 2 months that T-money got back he picked some money that run into millions, he bought his house in lekki from the proceeds ,
I started wondering what could have happened but I quickly rub it off my mind cos it's his life and not my business.
The day T-money arrived at our apartment,I quickly went out to meet this legend I have been hearing about,when I met him ,he greeted me like we have been friends for a long time , I noticed tattoos all over him , hands and chest , he brought codiene , Hennessy and skunk Bible ..
He looked very young and was talking very slow and funny like someone high on drugs I later got to find out that T-money loves codiene so much that he drinks at least 6 bottles every day . Later that night we set out again but this time T-money was in charge,and he took us to lekki all the way from the mainland. I'mmediately we drove into the compound and T-money stepped out , everybody was hailing him ,he was like a celebrity,from the gateman to the cleaner to the staffs of the Lounge..the m.c also aknowledge his presence by showering him praise saying his pocket will never run dry .
we sat down
Any money that will take away my peace of mind olorun oba dan allah biko ejor da kpa da. I love money but my scrotum doesnt have the balls to do yahoo.
Nonexistent: If she is a virgin maybe I will pay whatever they want but if she is an average Nigerian olosho, I will simply give her belle and won't give a flying fucck.
Change this virgin mindset bro it will do you a whole lot of good.
thatigboman: I want to create this post in order to disabuse the minds of nairalanders on the misconceptions about much-talked about igbo bride prices. Contrary to the belief that igbo bride prices run into millions, the bride prices are usually a token. In my hometown in Arondizuogu, Imo State, it is about N200.
The misconception arises from the list given to family of the intending groom. That list is far different from the bride price. Different people in igboland give different lists in igboland for the different groups in the village they come to marry - the daughters of the family (my 2 year old children get their shares in my place), the women, the youths and the elders. And there are options. You either bring the items or bring the money. Example, u can go to a community and they ask you to bring 10 big yams, another can ask for 20 kegs of palm wine, others can ask for coconut. And youths in my place must ask for a roll of cigarettes, benson or rothmas. And the groom has an option, either to buy them and bring according to specifications or just drop money.
Buying the items usually bring problem. U can buy 10 big yams, and they tell u that it is only 2 that are big, you have to pay for the other 8 'small ones'. U can buy Life and Hero drinks, and they say no, one must be Star, so some people will prefer to pay cash and will be taxed heavily. All in all, all the issues will be settled, so no worries.
let other igbos and other nairalanders contribute.
The only problem i have with Igbo people is the fact that when it comes to marriage rites they tend to extort more like so much from the son inlaw especially when he's not igbo. The list you will be given ehn may even start u up a mini mall.
This life nobody owes you nothing, not even God your creator. You just have to slave for another man for sometime save up and start your own business. Even if the business looks hopeless at first just keep pushing until u get things right. If you dont look for a way to make money when you sleeping you will surely work till you die. This type of job terms and condition is enough to constantly kill a mans erection whenever you de za oza room.
MeeztaFabulouz: It is really terrible to feel suicidal all because of marriage. I use use to see different news of how people commit suicide because of relationships and I always felt it was so stupid to think of suicide just because of a fail relationship.
Now I have seen it all clear that depression is really very bad especially when you feel so depressed in a marriage you work so hard and do everything to protect and make your family happy. Its very painful when you know honestly inside your heart that you don't cheat on your wife, provide everything she wants for herself and the kids even when business is quite rough.
She has no conscience and no regard for our union and our home. I am a guy that don't think about looking at wife's phone or suspecting her for anything but then after our first child she changed completely and as of today I don't know were I stand anymore because of my kids. I opened a business for her just so that she won't be like a house wife but she has completely taken the business more important than the family and wake up 4am to start cooking and close 8pm at night. Stressing herself so much but always complaining business is not moving and she is not making any money.
I sponsor everything in the home though am not complaining because that's what a man should do, but she does not have regard for anything or appreciate anything I do. Can you imagine I give her money for feeding weekly even though she is running a food business, she buys few food stuffs in the house which can stay almost two weeks without us eating them because we basically feed from food she cooks in her restaurant. I decided not to bother myself and just give her money to always ensure her business is moving and at least food will not be a problem for us.
One faithful day, I decided to check her phone because I observed a certain strange behavior about her and how she likes to off her phone at night or sometimes when I am around. I saw different chats with some two guys she claimed one was her ex boyfriend that just likes to check on her once in a while, and the other guy was someone I remember like coming to eat in her restaurant but she said they went to school together and he is working with a construction company doing a building project close to her restaurant. She also claimed that when they were in school he was asking her out even till they fished school but she preferred her ex boyfriend to him and when she had issues with her ex that was when I came into her life.
If the story she told me is true or not, I wasn't really bothered anymore because I know its normal for a woman you met at 26 years to have met other guys before you and obviously still has guys that don't respect people's marriage and still do anything to sleep with a married woman. But my paid now is because I feel so respected by many of the things she does and when I think of divorce, I only feel for my kids who will now have to grow up with another man or having to visit their mum and see her with another man.
Recently I have become so depressed that I have been thinking of suicide so that my kids will know their dad is no more rather than knowing that their dad is still alive but can only be with either daddy or mummy and not as a complete family. My depression is getting worse especially when I think about all I have done for her and the kids just to always make them happy but in return, she doest appreciate or even have any regard anymore for what is called "FAMILY"
Over 7 years now and at this point I really feel suicidal. Please I really need help because I make this big mistake.
Sir please use a ship anchor rope to hang yourself you wont feel the pain. Like For Poseidon sake who still commits suicide over a woman?
NiklauseFred: Well we weren't actually dating. That was two years ago, I had a huge crush on this girl and she had a crush on me too cause she considers me 'intelligent' (I heard those from her friends actually), when she found out that i have feelings for her she started misbehaving, Na so i ghost am sharp sharp.
No time to check time and I'm still single till date.
Drinokrane: Big Brother Naija star Nengi has shared the story of how she got to feature on singer Davido’s ‘Jowo’ music video, Igbere TV reports.
The 22-year-old revealed this in a Twitter thread on Monday.
She said the ‘Fem’ crooner reached out to her that he wanted her on a project
Mama cleared more than 17 crate of Guinness during her stay in biggies house( she didnt misbehave unlike the Aunty that took Gordons) trying to get noticed by Guinness to become an ambassador and kept bragin on a daily bout how she took a flight to uk 02 arena just to watch d egg head perform, i am sure that statement is what made her d video vixen.
Obviously those guys are about to film a locally made porn in one face me i face u, using a lame phone camera on one dead mocka foam mattress then upload it for wankers to feel alright.
JohnspeakU: Hello Everyone!! I am here again with another discussion thread that we can all learn from.
Some people make the mistake of going into a relationship without knowing why they were there. The reason why people rain curses on their exes is simply because they felt they only wasted their time and never benefited anything from the relationship. But the truth is, there is always a lesson or two to learn from every relationship either positively or negatively So the question is, what life lessons did you learn from your past relationship?
Let me share mine. Before now I used to believe that men are richer than females not until I dated one calabar girl in Abuja that opened my eyes. This girl works as a nurse in a private clinic and earns about 80k. The surprising thing is that she belongs to about 6 contributions that she puts almost all her salary in��♀️ After using her money to pay contributions, she will start demanding money from me for everything even down to recharge card to call her mom. So as a sharp Edo guy, I rallied among my colleagues and started paying contributions too��
She thought me how to save unknowingly.
Tell us about yours.
I have come to realize that almost all girls are bipolar (on a different level) I got to understand that every girl de craze, you just have to find the one with the right amount of craze u can endure and wife her.
Despirado121: Nollywood actress Nkechi Blessing has shared pictures of herself before and after she began her weight loss journey two weeks ago on Instagram, Igbere TV reports.
The 31-year-old said this was the first time she was sharing such a picture since she began anything weight loss on Monday.
Nkechi had on November 24 discontinued the use of herbal drink after drastic weight loss.
“Posted this picture on my WhatsApp and many kept asking if it’s an Old picture Saying I am too slim,some even asked if I am Sick. Na me go try Wetin pass my power ooo But Had to stop before I disappear this was just yesterday ke and I have only started taking this herbs one week ago ooo,” she said.
After eating too much free food she now wants to drop weight. I really dont see any difference btw the before m after pix
I can remember vividly in 2013 i was in 300lv was about to start counting down to 400. Then ASUU happened at first it was a warning strike we were chilling na' like joke the strike stretched into 7months cobwebs and dust colonised my handout at home. In december 2013 schools with money started paying ASUU i guess and left d strike just for students to write exams.. as school resumed a week later we started exam, ppl even forgot matric number, omor carry over was like bonanza. Bottom line is ASUU doesnt care bout nigerian students na dem pocket.
[quote author= post=96806996]A funny clip has emerged showing the moment a housemate was being questioned for attempting to assault another housemate.
The clip, from Housemates Salone Season 2, the Big Brother of Sierra Leone left many shocked after a housemate told the Big Brother that she was going to 'slap am back' after an incident with another housemate, has caused reactions with many saying Big Brother Naija housemates are not this bold, and some comparing the incident with Erica and Laycon's from the most recent Big Brother Naija.
It will be recalled that Kidwaya and Erica were guests at the Housemates Salone a few days ago where they had a chat with the housemates.
The Housemates are currently doing their best, putting up performances that will enable them score points in order to make it to the top in order for anyone of them to emerge as the winner to bag the covetous prize of Two Hundred and Fifty Million Leones (Le250M).
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tWD43y3vWeQ[/quote]I only feel proud to be a Nigerian whenever i am on vacay in other africa countries. You will think Nigeria is really f**ked not until u visit other african countries. Walahi we are doing well like far better than most africa countries. Just bad leadership
zenbancrofti: Am 24y/o and of recent have been soberly reflecting on my life because seriously there's been lot of letdown and all. I feel I can do more so I need heartfelt advice from the experienced folks here. Thanks
Before u clock 30 learn to accept the fact that nobody owes you nothing. Dont feel ashamed of any hustle u do cos nobody will give u shingbayin of yo broke. And also dont force love or friendship on nobody..
Made4naijaoeo: Earlier today, Luxury designer, Malivelihood and Deola Smart had their wedding that saw many dignitaries. Their huge cake has been the talk of the fans and guests online.
Reports have it that it took 4 months to bake and 12 bakers who worked on it.
Where is that rabbi or pastor that like preaching about christ whenever people are showing off prosperity plus them vanity gang.. Always remember even poverty na vanity Who God blesses, no man can curse
owukpa: Adoo Eugenia Ter has surprised her mum with Toyota Matrix, just to appreciate her for going through hell to raise them. The young girl, who posted the pictures on her social media page, said her mother was almost going naked when her mates were buying hollandaise wrapper, IDOMA VOICE reports.
Most nigerian mothers sure know how to poison their kids mind towards their fathers Rarely will u getu read on naira land that some guy or girl bought a car gift for his/her dad. Mehn do all the hard work Mothers end up taking the glory.. Itz not about 9months pregnancy I swear its all about paying bills( which most fathers do) even if there are still dushbag dads .. popcz deserves to enjoy d fruit of their labor small too.
Romance › Re: Advice On Whether To Continue With My Present Relationship by Bullman(m): 4:27pm On Dec 11, 2020
.. or maybe its the hero i am drinking . Well Who cares .....
