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Women test their men for the same reason children test their parents.

They want to be reminded of their boundaries so that they feel safe.

The reasoning is that only a strong person is capable of enforcing boundaries.

Fail the tests and you have an unhappy woman/spoiled kids.

Lane Goodwin @Twitter.

Hypergamy! Hypergamy!! Hypergamy!!!

They want to eat their cake and have it back using the "sex or body counts" double standard. They fail to know that the value of a woman depletes as her notch counts increases.

Hahahahahaha.

This is the conspiracy against simps. Simps and betas will still argue foolishly.

KVN1:
Hello redpillers,

I messed up again.

I traveled to another city for some business transactions.

Prior to that time, there's this girl I've been chatting with and making overt passes at( yeah, I've been raw and straight to the point with her), and whenever I say sth about making out with her, she turns me down weakly with words like"you're high, your head" etc

Once upon a time,I invited her over to my school,she schools in another state..She agreed to come, but I had to cancel, because I was checking my expenses.

Throughout last week,I was in the town where she stays,but I had to finish with most important stuffs first..

On Thursday,I gave her a call and asked her to come to the hotel where I was lodging..she begged me to shift our meeting to Sunday because that's the only time she's free from work. In the course of our meeting plans,she told me she'll be coming with her sister cos she doesn't trust me. I asked her to bring her purse along to clear her sister's bills..she finally coordinate shaa

Mind you,I was lodging in a hotel, and because I accepted the postponement,I had to pay for two extra nights (just to have sex... for my mind naa)

She called me two hours to our scheduled meeting time and told me she wouldn't be able to make it that she made some loss in the shop which she would be trying to pay back by working overtime... I became furious,but I was still calm.. I called her again, this time, trying to cajole her to come... that I already wasted cash for her sake...She stylishly dropped the call and claimed it was network..but this time,she was beginning to feel guilty...so I banked on that... I asked her where she stays and she lied about that...

I again remembered she once told me that so I traced her to her place.


On seeing me,she was so shocked, surprised...but happy that I could find my way to her place...

I wasn't having any of those, so I rebuked her severely, but this time,she was begging.I decided to relax and bit...she gave me a hug, but I didn't hug back..but after some minutes,the third leg took over from the brain... I kissed her in the ear twice, and she was relaxed. I decided to calm down when I noticed someone coming around.

So this time again,I made a move to hold her and bring her closer to me, but this time,she protested. This one come vex me. How she go get mind make me waste money for hotel still come dey do rubbish... I tried to catch her hand almost forcefully ..and we stuggled with it for some time with her claiming that I was hurting her

The biggest f up came when she started begging me to ''show her love" still no want make I even kiss her and I think I became needy...

I teased her with money but eventually gave it to her claiming she'd have gotten more if she had complied with our terms of meeting..

After I gave her the money without even considering what I've been through already, I felt scales fall from my eyes and I come realize say I don jonse..

Redpillers,abeg make una advise me because I dey vex..

I still want this girl to pay in kind but I think I need help on how to go about it..

Till today,she never even call me to know if I reach home in peace

Insults are allowed.

Spin another plate. Reject this kind of scarcity mentality. There are a million girls outside who are much better than her. Don't condescend yourself to such level again. Build and maintain frame!

Don't call or text her again. If possible dump her number: it works, she will call back, but if you are still interested in her, let your terms and conditions be starkly revealed unto her. Otherwise, forget her for good!

No insults. The journey of a man in all of life's ramifications is like a seed in the soil where all is dark, slow and gradual.

You are a king; the prize to be won.

Take care.

God bless.

proclinician:
Buhari is the president of Nigeria, does it mean everyone like or voted him? By virtue of the electoral process, he secured the votes of the majority of the electorates which makes him the winner thereby nullifying the contradicting choices of those that didn't vote him. This is not hard to understand, is it?

This line burst my head.

However, it should not be too difficult for those who have understood the mysteries of the universe, including evolution and quantum physics, to understand women, provided they look and see and think. If men start from the complementarity of the sexes; if they accept that men pursue wealth, fame, honour and power for the love of women (i.e. in order to trade these for access to a womb); if they heed the Igbo saying that beauty is woman's wealth and wealth man's beauty, then they would realise how natural it is for women's aim to be the trading of their womb and beauty for a share of men's wealth, fame, honour, power, and status. By focussing on women's key interest, women's behaviour becomes readily understandable and far from mysterious. In brief, woman's mysteriousness is projected unto her by the muddled male mind. {93}

Excerpt from the Anatomy of female power by Chinweizu.

jonzingcaesar:
Please share the link to download the book boss

I have already mentioned sites for downloading free PDF books. Carefully glean through prior pages and you will find what you seek.

Thanks.

Nomorelove:
I think it'll be in my best interest to cut of all ties with her because I can't face what has happened and I'll be hurting myself by deciding to remain friends with her. What do I do?

Critics are most welcome

Cc lalasticlala

According to the law, this kind of lady is to serve you one sole purpose; pump, and thereafter you dump. Simple! However, that's the law even though I don't fancy promiscuity.

She belongs to the rubrics of alpha widows. You can't tame them until they arrive at their epiphany stage or finally hits the wall. So bro, look for another; that one that diverts greenlights towards you. That's the one that will give you peace----also vet her-----to ensure she does not belong to the same rubric as the former.

The ball is in your court and @bolded; you have the answer to your question.

Thanks.

Kings, what are you waiting for?

This book is a confederate to the Rational male.

Go find time and read it.

pansophist:
I've read the advises given by the ladies on this thread, and even though I understand that it's coming from a good place, it's just a case of treating malaria with typhoid medicine. Of course, the patience will be in a state of a placebo, that is, thinking because he drank some medicine and will be fine, but it takes a doctor to know that the dosage is wrong, and won't do shit.

You see, men and women have a different psychological approach to relationship. Men approach and hunt, while women respond and are the hunted. None of these women is telling you that you should not have ignored your own growth, that you should have been growing your finances, or tell you anything about the principles of the masculine frame, about your weakness and the attitudes you displayed, and that women do not respond positively to it. Also that you should not have made her your goal and so many more. Read all the post on this thread again, it is the men telling you these, not women.

What does that tells you? It simply means that in the matters of women, do not accept advice from women. There are few female relationship coaches on YouTube that really understood the male perspective in relationship dynamics, search for Rebecca Lynn pope for example, and you'll get the real truth and not this placebo effects the women on this thread are dishing out. Women only need to show up and a man will save them from their tragedy, so most never care to understand the male perspective. Remember, a woman is not a man, is not masculine, do not hunt men, so be smart, or you'll be repeating the same mistake over again.

And I'll tell you a secret. Women deep down want their ex or someone they dumped/didn't accepts his proposal not to do better. His tragedy and misfortune is the evidence needed to assure them that they made the right choice in not picking or dumping him. The better he becomes, the irreparable torture that descends on them that they made the wrong choice, especially when their current relationship status is not better compared to him. When you get an uglier girl compared to her, she will be glad secretly, which seal your fate as a looser forever in her mind.

So do yourself a big favour and move on. Be better at your game. The pain and emotional trauma you felt now, should be channelled into becoming a monster of creativity, get better at anything, work on your appearance and just do fcking better. Believe me, the higher you soar, the better you'll be, and will attract more quality women that you will be baffled that you wasted time on her. Women reduce in attractiveness, and the men she is rolling with, are only there to feast on the good time of her youthfulness but descend back into the dark as soon as she is getting old and needs commitment. Time is a man's best friend, not so for women.

I mean, you have skills that generate money right? While she has only her body to generate money? How can you not see that you have an upper hand here? In the matters of love and relationship with women, a man should under no circumstances looses his logic to emotions. Under those lovey-dovey act, there are power structures at play, and your eyes should be sharp on the ball. I've been through your situation years ago, heartbroken to pieces, but then, my dad lectured me hard, and I'm giving you some of the things I've learnt from him. Being a man is not just a word, but a lifestyle.

You are wise! I love you bro.

GLYCOLYSISS:
These thread is cringe worthy , embarrassing and disgusting to say the least
https://www.nairaland.com/6084601/man-rolling-owerri-mud-water

These is just not acceptable.
This is the level to which men can stoop when dealing with women.
I don't even know which is more deadly;feminism or feminized men ?
A man that don't understand these intergender relationship game is certainly going to regret it for the major part of his life and disgrace himself like that man.
A lady within the age range of 27-32 , you're disgracing your family lineage on
No single lady on Earth is worth disgracing yourself for !
Even when women are no longer at the peak of their smv,they still disgust weak men like these.
Funny enough,the very lady he disgraced his ancestor for is somewhere begging another guy for commitment .
Until men learn they're the gatekeepers of commitment,these is bound to continue to happen.
Until men start respecting themselves, especially when dealing with women,expect more distasteful senario as these.
Until men learn about women nature,they will continue to embarrass their family and friends.
And until men begin to value their time,resources and attention,grab your popcorn,relax and expect more naesuating scenario.
I'm disgusted !

Adding that young man to the rubrics of manginas, simps, beta males to an extent is an insult. At least, some simps deserves respect when juxtaposed with him.

A wise friend will quickly disassociate himself from such kind of man. This is the kind of man that can betray or sell out his dear ones for the sake of p¶u$$y.

A simp got burnt. Hope you weren't among those criticizing Ubunja and his miseducations? Because these days, you all are liberal in creating new accounts. Never mind.

No advice from me!

But if you really want to help your life, quickly do the following, it's kinda burdensome but you need it if you are damn serious, wanting a positive change.

1. Read Ubunja's miseducations.

2. Follow these latest thread by Glycolyssis.
https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

3. Illimitablemen.com


What you need is nothing but TRP in addition to Christ Jesus except you are not a Christ believer.

I promise, if you do the above religiously, you will have a testimony now and the next six(6) to twelve(12) months.

Take care.

Scam! Scam! Scam!

If you have gotten to this very page so far, you definitely will see all the counterfeits in this.

Professional ko listening ear ni

A virgin, good manners and intelligent?

Bro, marry her!

Women always proving the postulations present in TRP.

Tra6ix:
Good evening my fellow nairalanders
I'm not new here, I just created a new account to hide my identity for few reasons.
There is this guy in my class (final year) who have been shooting his shots at me since our 300 level first semester but I turned him down. He is tall, slim, fair in complexion with a dimple I love especially when he smiles. I turned him down the first time because I thought he doesn't have any plans for his future, I looked down on him then

The mr "nice guy" was apparently rejected because hypergamy always seek a male that belongs to a higher status---physical, economic, social etc.

Tra6ix:
but when this lockdown started, I realized he has a bright future ahead, he has great plans for the future. Although I started falling for him after rejecting him last year, my friends didn't like him, they made me believe that he is too low for my standard.

Women always seek the sisterhood Uber Alles to verify the potential quality of any male that approaches them. This is what is refered to the herd mentality or group thinking.

Did you read what they told her? He is low standard. That's hypergamy. Because at this point hypergamy wants an alpha male that can titillates her.

Tra6ix:
We stopped chatting, we only viewed each others status on whatsapp that's all.

Mr "nice guy" was eventually ghosted but was still monitored via whatsapp status maybe until he attains the standards that can satisfy her hypergamy.

Tra6ix:
During the lockdown, I lost someone so dear to me and the people I thought would stand by me never did, but when this guy realized that I lost someone, he started comforting me, he called and texted me at least twice daily aside from the chats on whatsapp, he even visited me, he made me get over the death, we became best of friends and I guess he was still feeling something for me, he started shooting his shots again but I pretended it was a normal thing,

Mr "nice guy" came back in a moment of sorrow thinking he can usurp it as an opportunity to achieve his fantasy.......maybe she's is the "one," but he will be disappointed.

Tra6ix:
I was already in a relationship with a guy I am still regretting ever accepting as my boyfriend.

Sorry baby, it was just hypergamy at play. Hypergamy always reject the nice guy but give thousands of "f^cks to the alpha male.

Tra6ix:
When he (the guy, not my boyfriend) was tired of giving me signs that he still loves me, he told me that he love me and that he couldn't continue keeping it to himself, I told him I will think about it but I can't promise him anything, he reduced the chats, he stopped sending me the love poems and he finally stopped calling or sending me texts. I love him, I just wanted him to be a little bit patient with me.

The mr nice guy became smart and moved on because he knew there were many girls outside. He overcame the scarcity mentality mindset to an abundance mindset. He knew he is the prize to be won.

What gave this guy such kind of breakthrough? Maybe one way or the other he discovered TRP or something related to it or just mere luck or common sense.

Tra6ix:
I have made many enquiries about him, he is from a good home, he is even an exco in the school SUG, he makes research and writes alot, I've read some of his research work and some of his stories. I have been monitoring him on whatsapp to see if he is already taken but it seems he is still single. Please how do I tell him how I feel for him, I am dying daily, I need him, I love him seriously. He once posted a happy birthday poem he wrote for one of our coursemate and I felt so jealous. I have tried to chat him up but he is not giving me that vibe and energy he gave me then. Please advice me on how to go about this. Please mods help me push this to front page

Hypergamy is really a b@st@rd. It is now in full display; Alpha f^cks Beta bucks.

The Alpha male that once thrilled you for a short moment which you enjoyed(ALPHA F^CKS) until situations went south is now poignant. And since you are now in final year, you must quickly at least secure a Beta male that will transport your long term needs(BETA BUCKS). And this young man here, has what it takes to better those needs.

Hahahaha. He's no longer a low standard male.

You really did a nice job carrying out a proper surveillance on this young man. Well done.

After expanding on the TRP specimen you gave us, now to my advice:

Enhance your greenlights, and if your hypergamy senses that he is a dominant man, latch onto him. If you are lucky that he has not become cognizant with TRP, and still in his blue pilled beta state, he "might" commit into a serious relationship with you otherwise, you will definitely become another plate for him to spin.......looooool

If he's not a dominant male, your hypergamy will look for such. It is good for a woman to marry such a man for the sake of her children and the society at large. We don't need another breeds of simps, because they are difficult to deal with and because they have a larger influence than alpha males in our world, their stupidity and their way of governance is second to none.

Take care.

Ubunja, Skepticus, Regex, emmadaot, Glycolyssis, martinez39s.

Courtesy: Illimitablemen's blog.

Read and be blessed.

I no longer condescend to participate in rigmarole sorts of arguments, but my response is deem worthy so that you will not think your rebuttals holds any pinch of salt.

Religious arguments especially with atheists is like waiting for a cock's feather to land safely in an infinite well. It is burdensome, time and calories wastage. And so with every arguments.

Though arguments does not win its opponents on the spot, but will yet sow seeds that will later bear fruits free of cliches in the future.

Truth is truth and false is false. Your belief cannot change it but grants you a better foundation to rely on. So, without much aldo, to the crux of the matter.

niceguy89:
Have you seen God? Literally, with your own two eyes. I don’t mean felt the presence of God, nor witness some divine act, that more than likely was just a coincidence.

Right here, are you attempting to limit my experience?

Will you say the wind doesn't exist even though you didn't see it in its naked form but yet felt it?

Can one feel something, that is; the presence of God if it doesn't exist?

Can one encounter something that doesn't exist by coincidence? Even if a divine act is mere coincidence, does it not already prove the existence of God?

Creation(s) and God's consciousness alongside God's presence are substantial evidence for God's existence.

niceguy89:
This doesn’t even make any sense to me.

Wisdom is foolishness to the fool!

niceguy89:
Are you saying, that you have to ‘work’ to make the Bible work for you, doesn’t that tell you something? With science, you can observe, because the evidence is plain to see.

Yes.

If you don't read the Bible and have a sound understanding of every words in its chapters and verses, how do you expect to reap its benefits? If you work by trying to understand its underlying principles by prayer, meditation and reasoning, it will work for you.
But if your heart is rocky, that is; not fertile to receive its words, it won't work for you.

Science deals with the physical and its is the highest height of cynicism to require physical data to justify metaphysical claims. This in itself is unreasonable. However, metaphysical claims still uses logical exploration and pattern recognition to justify its claims.

Does science have physical evidence for man's dreams and consciousness? Can it prove it exactly based on subjective narration?

niceguy89:
Irrelevant, we all know people are born blind, it stands to reason, that someone who is born blind, and also believes in blind faith, ( ) that they would pray for that which they don’t have? How many cases of blindness have been cured by prayer alone?

Since you are blind to the other side; which is faith, you will always fail to see what's happening over there.

If you haven't seen healing of blindness by faith and prayer, I have seen. You want proof? I can't because I didn't record it. Your belief or not cannot eradicate it, same way my belief cannot deny your dreams whether you experience it or not.

niceguy89:
The Bible is anything but innocent, after all, millions have died throughout human history, directly because of the proven nonsense written in its pages.

And yet its two edged sword still remain sharp, clean and without blood stain. My Bible still white and black without blood stains. Or can you name one person it has killed directly?

niceguy89:
You’re deliberately missing the point, how is it a man can commit adultery with this woman, yet only the woman is punished.

The woman was not punished. She was told to go and sin no more.

niceguy89:
What’s that about church pews?

For relaxation so that we can comfortably absorb the preaching of the gospel of Christ Jesus our Lord and God.

niceguy89:
Erm, that sounds like a great moral example to follow, very innocent.

Follow it. Follow moral examples.

niceguy89:
There’s no evidence blessings have ever existed, so this is whimsical conjecture.

There's fruitfulness and multiplication in all the earth. Man has continually expressed dominion over all things on earth.

So, you are a liar!

niceguy89:
Lose? I didn’t realise debating the existence of God was a competition, that’s a pretty childish out look to bring to a conversation.

If you say so.

niceguy89:
What you are experiencing, is pious delusion. You can’t claim to have any objective high ground, when you lack any evidence for your claims. Blind faith does not replace knowledge.

Let me repeat, creation(s), Morality, Consciousness et al are substantial evidence for the existence of God.

niceguy89:
At the end of the day, you can quote the Bible all day long, but it will never hold water, it just doesn’t correlate with what humanity has come to discover through observation and experiment.

As Monalisa portrait to Leonardo da Vinci, so the Bible to God(Christ Jesus).

Refusing an evidence is different from no evidence. If your cohorts exhibits such kind of platitudes as witness in the photo below, why should I sacrifice my time and attention for you? No, Never!

Don't bother quoting me because it will not worth any reply.

PS: I don't waste my phone ink over arguments.

Merci.

Bon voyage.

Maxims don't need to be perfectly true to be correct, they need only be accurate most of the time. Therefore, generalisation is accepted if it is right most times, and should not be rejected if wrong some times.

Illimitablemen.

Pornography and masturbation is noxious to the men that indulges in it way higher than women when juxtaposed. So, for this reason we mostly concern ourselves with men like the way we concern ourselves with women when it comes to sexual promiscuity even though both genders are victims of each vices.

Rationalizing masturbation and pornography or discarding any notion against it because you indulge in the act will not eliminate its consequences. You need to identify how its benefits is far lower than the risks or final result. Think thrice!

We don't need any statistical data or research, because in our neoteric days, a truckload of scientific research and academias has been vitiated by corrupt government officials. Some even do research to support their leftist and absurd ideology-------so therefore, we will stick to observations on a demographical scale without ghosting the field of science.

Many of the things fealties of pornography and masturbation does are not scientifically back up, but yet they demand for it, because they have chosen to subject their fragile procreating tissue to intense hand tension and pressure for a disgusting amount of vague pleasure. I pity your d!!cks you fellows.

No scientific data does not mean it is false. It might be that the proponents of these facts who lack the data are light years above scientific scholars. And as science came to shed more light into observations that were formerly rejected, so it will when it comes to these various observations.

Say no to pornography and masturbation because for a short gain, you are literally consuming yourself long term.


Thanks.

Modified.

pansophist:
https://www.nairaland.com/5747406/how-alphas-shoot-shot/3#87640582


https://www.nairaland.com/5910696/how-eradicate-all-simps-society/1#90440224

Words from a wise pundit.

pansophist:
Since I operate on the idea that women are the chooser, I'll only shoot my shot to the demography of women who have already chosen and found me attractive to begin with. The typical protocol of approaching a girl, such as, trying to "prove oneself", woeing, taking her out, and all those loops jumping is not for me. I'll never do that. So as a rule, I am always self-improving, to maximise the number of women that will find me attractive, and the number of men that will respect me base on my personality. It is from that pool that I'll pick my friends, and also a potential partner. My current relationship is almost five years, I got her through this method, and I have never for once doubted her love towards me.

When I was about 15 years old or so, my mum told me that she has already loved my dad before he approached her, but had to shakara a bit (playing hard to get), to give my dad the false illusion that he worked for her. It is of no surprise that over 35 years and counting, my mum still love my dad deeply, because it was something she desired from the beginning, and she adviced me and my brothers to only go where we are appreciated romantically. So its green light before approach.

You are wise. You've really proven that men are the price to be won. The only slight exception to this is PUA, but only for a short term and your deduction for a long term relationship.

You are blessed.

Epiphany stage loading......loaded.

Repentant hoes belongs to simps.

Virgins for kings.

Martinez39s:
You and your fellow women on this thread know you all are talking nonsense. If you women were men, and you all knew what you knew about yourselves (women), you all wouldn't even stomach the nonsense op is enduring. You all wouldn't even love and spend on women for nothing in return like most men are fooliśhly doing in the name of love. Why? You all know yourselves (female nature), and you all know you women are trash and not worth the effort or compassion as far as relationship, love and commitment are concerned. Many of you wouldn't even marry because unlike most men, you all understand the scam of marriage/relationship and what is really behind the curtain of the "happy couple" pics, videos, and public show of married couples.

The op must know the truth. His wife is not worth it. He has to send her packing. Let him not marry again, and let him look to surrogate mums and nannies IF he wants kids. The person that doesn't understand women is the person that loves, pity, commits to, and pampers women. You and I know, just like your fellow women do, that the wife is cheating on the husband. If the husband is not hitting it right, someone else certainly is; if she is not giving it to the husband, she is certainly giving it to someone else.

_{Ubunja, Skepticus, Regex, CaveAdullam, GLYCOLYSISS, come and read this interesting topic. Beta çucks are suffering.}

The OP portune, needs to scrutinize their precedent sexual experience so that he can be able to determine the cause of his predicament. If his wife was once responsive to his mating call, then, it must be that she is stymied by

1. Him losing frame and dominance that once invaded the p¶u$$y gate easily. In this case, he needs to evaluate himself and get back to his prior position.

2. His wife is using her conjugal right as a weapon of aggression to achieve something from him. And that purpose must be ignored by Mr Portune if it's not part of his purpose and that which will cause the growth and positive development to the family.

3. Worst case scenario, he has been juxtapose with another male in the sexual league, and now found wanting and enlisted in the list of cuckolds.

My advice for Mr Portune is to read the rationale male volume 1-3 by Rollo Tomassi. But before then, use dread games on his wife. He should mirror his wife situation back to her by;

1. Stop bothering her about sex. Neglect her for the main time and channel his sexual energy to other reputable deeds.

2. He should spend extra time outside than his normal arrival time after the close of work.

3. Associate with other women. I'm not an advocate of promiscuity or infidelity in marriage, this is very paradoxical, and must be handled carefully.

4. Travel. And if it is the worst case scenario, dump her!

Thanks.

Kings, improve more on your frame and TRP knowledge by reading, learning and practicing more ostensibly. F^ck these boredom of hecklers.

Argument is like pushing infinite number of boulders up an infinite number of hills. Don't waste your time, data and calories on it. Avoid useless online arguments. It doesn't pay; it is donkeywork.

Ignore these (f) and (m) simping monikers and they will obviously become reticent.

If you want to die, die. AWALT(ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT). None is free from their solipsistic hypergamous manipulative nature.


Last post on this once beautiful thread, maybe until GLYCOLYSISS comes back.

Ubunja, Martinez39s, Skepticus, Regex......Welldone!

Long live TRP!