Romance › Re: The Anatomy Of A Weak Man: 15 Habits That Are Red Flags by cheleku(m): 9:30am On May 20 |
If you were a guy, I'd say you've been filling your small brain with Andrew Tate's bs. OverCalculating: This isn’t about insulting men; it’s about holding up a mirror and self reflection. The traits below describe a pattern of behavior that I have closely observed in Nigerian men, that quietly erodes self-respect, ambition, and control over their lives. The sad thing is that many of them don't even know about it.
As a man, If you see yourself in several of these points, it’s not a verdict. It’s a starting point. All you need to do is just to recognize the habits, then start finding how to break them and rebuild discipline, purpose, and self-respect.
As a lady, if you observe these habits in your fiancee, you don't need to worsen the case for him by feeling it is normal. It is either you choose to help him rebuild himself with discipline and self respect or just walk away if you think you can't tolerate it.
There is a serious problem with your guy if:
1. He has a victim mentality.
2. He complains instead of fixing his own problems.
3. He's easily influenced and always looking for validation from others.
4. He can't control his sexual urges and food cravings.
5. He has weak eye contact, sloppy handshake, and is afraid to stand for what he believes in.
6. He's a nice guy who's always available.
7. He believes his parents are responsible for his miserable life.
8. He smokes weed. He's a weak man.
9. He distracts himself with pleasure and has no purpose in life.
10. He can't control his emotions and gets easily offended.
11. He is desperate and puts women on a pedestal.
12. Likes gossiping about others.
13. He's fat and in terrible shape but doing nothing about it.
14. There is lack of self-discipline to take action.
15. He gives constant excuses and whine about his problems. |
Career › Re: "Dignity In Labour;" Doing Odd Jobs To Survive Harsh Economic Realities by cheleku(m): 4:03pm On Jun 11, 2025 |
[sub][/sub] This same guy is being investigated by the UK government for defrauding intending immigrants from Nigeria. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Couple Caught On Camera Sharing A Romantic Moment During A Prayer Program(photos by cheleku(m): 11:01am On Jan 23, 2025 |
Good to have you back! NwaAmaikpe:

While the church is a place to let go of your burdens, emotions, worries and fears, it is not a place to rid your inhibitions and indulge in such brazen public displays of affection.
As a product of adultery whose primary specialty is mainstream adultery, I can authoritatively confirm that what I see in the faces of those two are not the look of a couple but that of adulterers.
I don't blame them, I blame our Lord who is so merciful to allow such fuckery in his house. Gone are the days we found holiness in the church; today, it's nothing but an abundance of fuckery and ikwokirikwo.
From the altar boy smooching choir mistress, to usher giving protocol officer handjob, down to treasurer looting the offering basket to the nagging married mistress of the priest who is tired of washing his semen-stained cassock.
The church must wake up.
But come to think of it, I may be wrong about those couple, but everyone knows that no one performs a better PDA than adulterers in a comfort zone of safety. |
Education › Re: KOSA @80 My First Day In GSS Kuru by cheleku(m): 7:46am On Dec 09, 2024 |
This fills me with nostalgia. Kuru was a traumatic experience for me, but also a place that helped me build the resilience that serves me till this day. GazaMark: MY TAKE GSS KURU AT 80(MY FIRST DAY IN KURU).
After writing the common entrance in 1996, I was optimistic that my name would come out for the interview of Airforce boy’s college, but to my dismay the person who went to check the list came back and informed us that my name was not on the board. It was later on in life that I found out that he checked the list for Air force girls and not boys. That’s why I don’t understand the concept of destiny and chance. Was it my destiny not to go to Air force boys college? or it happened by mere coincidence that the man checked a different list. When I ponder on the ideology of destiny and chance, I easily lean towards the submission that there is no such thing as destiny. I prefer the ideology that, we are the Captains of our ships and the masters of our souls, for example, if I didn't choose to write this piece on kuru at 80yrs,I just wouldn't.
To cut the long story short, my uncle, Chief Elisha(Chago) Dachor brought an admission letter for G.S.S. Kuru. He got a lot of us enrolled into Kuru. Guys like Enoch G Luka, Nelson Dada, Bwaje Iyakwari . Though, they all ran away before we graduated because of serious beating.
On the fateful day I was supposed to resume school, I went to buy an iron bucket and upon my arrival I learned that Douglas Dada and Nelson Dada had already left because I was supposed to hitch a free ride. So my dad had to get a car from their office to take me.I was so excited about the fact that this would be the first time I would be leaving home to go and stay at a place unsupervised by my parents.
It was a smooth ride to Kuru as I enjoyed the scenery from Dadin Kowa to Kuru. Upon reaching the gate of the school, I saw an inscription on the gate that made my heart to sink and skip a bit. That inscription was “Discipline and Hardwork”; I brushed the thoughts that were forming in my head aside, that may be, they were just mere words. Later on, those words would come into life to always send a chill up my spine anytime I see words like discipline and hard work joined together in a sentence. As we drove into the school, I felt a special kind of chill entering my bones, I was to later find out that it was because Kuru was closer to the highest mountain in Nigeria. Geographers can agree with me that the higher you climb, the cooler it becomes.
As we drove past the hostels which were 6 in number, the first three hostels comprised of 20 rooms each while the last three were upstairs partitioned into cabins. All the hostels were named after the famous first class chiefs in the then Plateau state before Nasarawa state was carved out. EK was Emir of Keffi house(Pink house) , L.G was Long Goemai house(Red house), OR was Orie Rindre house(blue house), was Gbong Gwom house(Green house), GN was Ngolon Ngas (Yellow house), AD was Andoma of Doma house(white house).
We drove towards the principal’s office and to be honest the architecture of those offices were simply superb, the first time I would see buildings made of stones and not blocks. The flowers are the only kind that grow in Jos, a well pedicured lawn and very beautiful landscape. When we entered the principal’s office, there he was sitted behind his desk. A little well-built bulky man with an expressionless face. His face looked like it was carved from a stone with a full moustache on it. There was something in his eyes that reminded me of the inscription I saw on the gate of the school, ” DISCIPLINE AND HARDWORK”. On his desk was a name tag with the names Solomon D. Danfa, I was to later find out that his nick name was “Koda Baban ka wai ne.” He was named that because he didn’t give a hoots ass who your father was, even though the children of the high and mighty were there, Sons of Generals, Politicians and most of the big names, but his beating was equal and directly proportional to your buttocks,ko da baban ka wai ne. Seated close to him was a frailly looking old white man wearing transparent glasses with a flute hanging around his neck. His name was Papa Lewis, the composer of the famous Kuru anthem “we are the boys of Kuru”.
After the necessary registration, I was assigned a hostel house. We drove to the hostel for documentation but before I got assigned to a room, there was a little commotion. I was to later find out that it was caused by one of the most interesting characters in the entire school. Rumour had it that apart from JSS one, he had repeated all the classes from JSS2-SS2. That automatically meant he had spent 10years in Kuru. Make no mistake, what he lacked in intellectual capacity he made up for with his entrepreneurial skills. What he did was, once a big man’s son was sent to house, he had a way of making sure that boy was taken to his room. So I am sure because of the car which my dad collected from his office, which took me to school that fateful day, this senior miscalculated that I was the son of a big man. That was how I ended up in room 13 filled with the children of the high and mighty. In that room were the children of Senator Nasir Ibrahim Mantu, Amb Yahaya Kwande, Major Gambo Yilme, Adagazo, Shuli Kulli, the Kromtits, the Eigege’s, the Kuforoji’s and so on. I happened to be the only one who no one had heard my father’s name ��.I was to see first hand why Nigeria is Nigeria. You have to have a big name, or know someone, that knows someone that knows somebody. Me I didn’t know anyone, I learned the art of survival and politicking, because there was no way you will be in senior Baba J’s room without being any of those. This adaptation will help me later on in the future.
I dragged my iron box and iron bucket into the room. I was asked to open the box for inspection. Just 2 pairs of white shirts over white trousers, 2 pairs of blue shirts over blue trousers, stockings, inner wears, 2 measures of garri, half measure of sugar and N50 as my pocket money. The astonished look on his face made me to laugh, as if to ask, is this it? The other boys used to bring cornflakes, corn beef, sardines, assorted biscuits,Dano milk and all those other things ajebos take and here was I with just 2 measures of garri and sugar. There was no way he could return me to the house master for reallocation, so he was kind of stuck with me.
We went for debriefing in front of the house captain’s room room 8; believe me everything in that school was arranged as if you were in a military environment. The house captain was a soft spoken guy who addressed us like an elder brother; he was an official of the FCS and was a good singer and drama actor too Atomistic Atomen . After his address the tradition began. Some rough looking seniors came out from their rooms with belts and freshly plucked long sticks, for the famous tradition called CUTTING TAIL. The briefly taught us the songs before cutting our tails. The song was: I am a fresher. I have a long tail. I am a working materiaaaal I must obey the school regulation Pardon me all senioooorrrrrrrrs.
Men, this was the first time I was to chop the first real beating of my life. We were asked to line up and face the back of the person standing next to you, squat down and hold the waist of the guys next to you. It was called “chain frog jump”, unlike the frog jump we did in the primary school, this frog jump was the real thing,matured frog jump for I couldn’t walk properly for days. Each of us must have received at least a 100 strokes of the cane each, just to welcome us. In my mind I asked, if this was a welcome, I wonder what would happen to you if you committed a crime. I heard all manners of cries that day, some were calling for their mothers, there was not a single mother in sight, just beating. After the cutting tail,I went to the room, I was told the cutting tail we had outside was general cutting tail, I had another cutting tail to welcome me to the room.
I cried so hard that night, that I suspect there was not a single tear left inside of me. I longed for the embrace of my mother, to tell me all will be alright. My mother was many kilometres away from me. It was just me with these strange fellows, who kept yelling at me to stop crying as I was disturbing their sleep.
For the first time I questioned the love of my parents. How would you say I am your son and you send me to this kind of environment? I made a resolve that night, that I had to toughen up, be cunning, be smart, never caught off guard, be unpredictable, be religious because if I had to survive the rest of my stay here I had to be all those things, not knowing this would be the same thing that would mould us and shapen our lives for the future.
The rest is history as they say, not until I had left kuru for many years did i finally grasp what Papa Lewis meant in his last stanza of Kuru's anthem
LAST STANZA And when we have gone from Kuru for time will not stay we are here but a day Tis then we’ll be glad that Kuru Has helped us upon our way For when; in distance places far Troubles press Temptations lure We’ll always have this guiding star For then we’ll remember Kuru For we’re the sons of Kuru We’ll strive and we’ll stay as Well as we may Tis then we’ll remember Kuru Has helped us upon our way.
Gaza Mark Auta( G code) The rose that grew on concrete Set 2002 |
Family › Re: My Wife's Sudden Change After Childbirth is driving me nuts! by cheleku(m): 8:10pm On Sep 05, 2023 |
There are all manner of crazy folks on NL. So paying for your wife's CS is doing her a favour? You should have let her and your unborn son die nah..werey. You're even talking about it as if you paid for a vacation for her. No be small small yahoo bois they buy iPhone for their gfs. Tame her? Are you married to a wild gorilla! Go and sit down joor! Red pill ni, Agbado pill ko.. |
Family › Re: Why Did You Finally Decide Character Over Beauty When Picking Your Wife by cheleku(m): 3:53pm On Jul 19, 2023 |
It couldn't be said any better. pansophist: Character is everlasting, beauty is fleeting. That's why you must choose character above looks.
And even if you get your beauty standards, her beauty will become the new normal, just as your novel gadgets become ordinary. If her character is not right, she will quickly transform into the ugliest woman in the world.
Most importantly, the true meaning of marriage is tieing yourself with someone competent, so that you can both become stronger, and formidable together. Beauty cant look after you when you are sick for example, but a woman with a good character.
If marriage is a ship, then the couples are the sailors. In the midst of the storm, a beautiful sailor is useless, but you need a competent (think character) one that can sail with you and prevent the ship from sinking.
If you want to go far in life, you need an ally that will traverse this journey of life with you, and character is the engine of it. |
Travel › Re: UK Set To Ban Nigerian Students, Others From Bringing Their Families Over by cheleku(m): 8:02pm On May 21, 2023 |
Tell me how that's tribalistic? Read the content that led to my response. Aturu awusa is a slang used to refer to a foolish person in Igbo, irrespective of their tribe. As far as I care, the person I responded to could be from Mars. Get outa here, you slowpoke. RecentHistory: Look at this hypocrite
Calling others tribalists when you are a rejected nonentity. You really should be ashamed of your hypocrisy, you smelly akpu pig. |
Travel › Re: UK Set To Ban Nigerian Students, Others From Bringing Their Families Over by cheleku(m): 5:07pm On May 21, 2023 |
Throwback: Any country that is admitting Nigerians and their likes under any guise, and not putting up the necessary restrictions to prevent abuse and fraud, must not know the unscrupulous nature of Nigerians.
You know how many fake marriages have occurred over the last 1yr in Nigeria, just so that the fake spouse can piggyback on the student visa of the other half?
What about the fake family relationship with Nigerians in Canada, just to up the scores for federal skilled workers programme?
Many parents in Nigeria have just paid for their children to have unmerited results in the currently ongoing WAEC exams.
Many job seekers are claiming an age that is 5 or 8 years younger just to work in certain job sectors.
Many children are bearing fictitious surnames just to benefit from the work family benefits available to some aunty or uncle of their struggling parents
Nigerians are a natural nuisance to any policy that can be exploited or corrupted.
That is the way we killed our country.
We will morally kill any country that allows us the breathing space.
We also do not mind closing the door against those coming behind us as we perpetrate our fraud.
Selfishness is our watchword, that is why ordinary traffic rules we can never follow. We are like an untrained herd of stubborn goats who escaped the grip of civilization.
We who are still sane, cannot even advise our friends and family to do things the right way without looking like the foolish enemy of progress.
Shame on us Nigerians. Look at this hypocrite bashing Nigerians for their lack of morals and how they corrupt other countries and fake their biodata. Yet, he supports a man that has a questionable age decalaration history and was part of a drug cartel abroad to be the president. The problem with Nigeria is not a moral one, it's rather rooted in parochial tribalism. |
Politics › Re: NNPCL Signs $741m Deal To Rehabilitate Kaduna Refinery by cheleku(m): 5:48am On Feb 03, 2023 |
Daewoo has a horrible past and reputation. I don't understand why we have to do things the crappiest way. |
Politics › Re: Bianca Ojukwu Marks Wedding Anniversary With Story Of Cake Maker Despising Her by cheleku(m): 11:11pm On Nov 25, 2022 |
Moral of the story, don't be a social climbing crab! But madam, I'd find it hard to be convinced that your marriage to a man twice your age was not an experiment in social climbing! ebukajay184: Bianca Ojukwu Marks Wedding Anniversary With Story Of Cake Maker Despising Her (Photo)
Bianca Ojukwu, wife of late Biafra leader, Chukwuemeka Odumegwu-Ojukwu has marked her wedding anniversary as she revealed that a cake maker in Enugu refused to make her wedding cake because the cake maker thought Bianca was poor and of low class, IGBERETV reports.
Sharing a photo which captured her wedding cake, Bianca wrote on Facebook;
https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=pfbid02EdWouZvcYVgJyRbXVSZoS5jwuqJ3BA9H35QkTBc3xTLcjyNy48CtABYJYZ2FCnH7l&id=100008721701950 |
Travel › Re: Is Oshodi The Most Popular Place In Lagos? by cheleku(m): 5:25pm On Nov 02, 2022 |
There's a big difference between notoriety and popularity. Ttalk: Every Local government in Lagos is popular than most state capital in Nigeria.
For example, Ajegule is popular than Awka |
Romance › Re: The Girl Helping Me After My Surgery Is Irritating Me Please Help!!! by cheleku(m): 5:20am On Sep 24, 2022 |
A classic example of a begger who wants to choose. Your ingratitude is legendary! Darren95: I had femur fracture on my left leg and it’s been difficult to move around the house and get things done because I can’t put weight on the operated leg until the fracture heals.
There is this lady friend I knew last year. Back then I tried persuading this lady friend to let me have a shot from her honey pot but she refused. Honestly back then I was only interested in her honey pot nothing more because I’m not ready for a committed relationship at this stage of my life. Nearly 2 months after I had the surgery, i called this lady friend (we have not been talking for close to a year) and told her I had accident. She immediately book a car and came to my house to see me. I was surprised and appreciated her quick response. I told her how it happened and that my two friends (guys) have been the ones helping. I told her I would be glad if she comes around to care for me while I heal as I can’t get food from the kitchen myself because I can’t step on my both legs due to the surgery. I live alone in my two bedroom apartment.
Omo starting from that day she started caring and didn’t leave until 5 days later. She said she was going to her home town and she needed to see her 2yrs old daughter (she got pregnant while in a relationship with her ex).
The issue on ground now is that, ever since she returned she has not gone to her own house where she rented. She has been in my house doing virtually everything and my both friends have left (they are business men). I was tempted to approach her for sex and she gave me smoothly without complain unlike before. I was like, look at you when I was healthy you didn’t let me have your honey pot, but now you gave it to me without stress! Hmmm we laughed over it.
But the rate at which this lady friend is taking care of me is scaring, she does everything to the point that I can’t remember the last time I opened a bottle water myself. She does it for me, the only thing I do is bath myself! Few days ago my guy who was with me came with his female friend to pay me a visit and omo this my lady friend was looking at this girl with all force and frown on her face. I mean the looking was like; ‘’who is this girl, does she have parol with me’’ you know that kind of look.
It pissed me off and since then I have been feeling irritated. I mean we are not dating, has she taken this too far inside her heart!
I’m thinking of moving her out but I don’t have a perfect option In getting someone I can trust like her to take care of me especially because I’ve not started walking. Will this turn out to be a problem tomorrow? I only had sex with her ones and refuse to ever do it again because of this. I always tell her I will appreciate you with something very nice when I heal completely, that I appreciate her support and that if she has anything to do, she can go and do it and come back but NO she never left my house and i asked myself what was she doing before I called her??!! To even ask her say Watin you Dey before I call you, tire me because e go look like say I dey tell her to go!!! |
Celebrities › Re: Celine Dion In 1993 vs 2022 (Pictures) by cheleku(m): 4:18pm On Aug 19, 2022 |
Righteousness2: Vanity upon vanity Says the Preacher! All is Vanity.
Don't disturb or kill yourself over Vanities. Treat Vanities with very Light Hands. If you follow after vanity , you will become vain.
What matters now and in Eternity is Genuie Salvation of our soul. What matters now and in Eternity is a Genuie relationship with JESUS Christ. Are you psychotic or something? Why do you take pleasure in the misfortunes of others? 'Vanity upon vanity' is that the bullshit you use as a cover for your lack of empathy or your hollow sense humanity? Vanity upon Vanity, yet you enjoy the technological goodies of the world, including the internet and the smartphones. If all were Vanity, you should go live in a monastery. You didn't look to see why she's looking thin and aged, what's she's gone through, rather you come with you insensitive 'Vanity' msg. |
Celebrities › Re: Police Order Portable To Report Himself Over Jungle Justice (Video) by cheleku(m): 4:19am On Jun 21, 2022*. Modified: 8:16am On Jun 21, 2022 |
This is what you get when you elevate common criminals to celebrity status. In a country where the craze for entertainment supercedes reasoning, you get all manner of yo-yos masquerading as artists. |
Politics › Re: EFCC Officials Arrive At APC Convention Venue by cheleku(m): 5:12pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Shouldn't they be plain clothes, covert-style operatives? What kind of stupidity is this biko! |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Pictures: The Disturbing Fascination Americans Have With Guns by cheleku(m): 2:51am On Jun 02, 2022 |
Yes nukes are deterrents. However, no country would be foolish to attack the US mainland using conventional weapons. It's going to be lost cause. In the case of an all out war, the only chance of success will be to use nuclear warheads. Even America understands this and wouldn't want to mess around with other nuclear powers. The bottom line is arming civilians in the hope that they'd help defend America against an invasion is nonsensical. obedience4: nuke are mostly use as a deterant tool, the way u just say nuke dem as if na knockout you wan throw, ask yourself why russia never use nuke on ukraine. D day china uses nuke dat china choose to not to exist. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Pictures: The Disturbing Fascination Americans Have With Guns by cheleku(m): 7:50pm On Jun 01, 2022 |
Tmberwolf1: GBAM! That's why no one can invade America. Their citizens are armed to the teeth, and are ready to defend themselves... But unfortunately they are mad You guys are funny. And you think if say China wants to fight America, they will invade her? They'll just nuke cities...that would vaporize both humans and guns. |
Events › Re: Why I Won't Attend My Cousin Brother's Wedding Ceremony Today by cheleku(m): 6:58am On May 22, 2022 |
I wish your cousin sees this post. That way he'd be able to identify one of his enemies. You're an extremely envious and bitter old man. Born2winnx: The wedding is holding today and have made up my mind not to attend because the dude invited me through WhatsApp. It annoys me how children of this days has no regards or character for their elders. they are changing everything all in the name modernization.
How can someone, I know the exact date he was born be inviting me through WhatsApp, no respect at all, sending the scanned card copy there.. what happened to the hardware copy he printed? I had to tell him, he laughed it off saying bros nor vex the 500 copies he printed was not enough to share self. I didn't want to press the issue farther my mind is already made up. He won't see me there today.
When I did mine, I knew how far distance I trekked to invite his elder brothers face to face, bought several drinks.
I just hope he invited his in-laws through WhatsApp too |
Politics › Re: The Mausoleum Where Alao-Akala Was Buried (Pictures) by cheleku(m): 10:34am On Feb 20, 2022 |
The body will not decay into some mushy fluid if he's properly embalmed. We have pharaohs that are thousands of years yet are still well preserved. quote author=Rugaria post=110372179]They should stop this new culture of burying the bodies of dead politicians in graves full of tiles and marbles. It makes no sense. The body will decay and will not make any contact with the ground. The watery abunna will be there and can't escape to anywhere until one day, there will be an opening and the stench will be "awesome".... Seen this before. Make the grave beurifull but make sure the casket is laid in the ground so as to enhance easy decay, because the body must decay at a point..[/quote] |
Romance › Re: Please Help! My Brother Is Sleeping With His Daughter by cheleku(m): 5:58pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
You're sick Nonybb: But to be very sincere with you. Some of these things were oftentimes caused by two individuals: the mother of that child and the daughter itself. For example, I went to one family like that a one certain time and I discovered one girl like that aged maybe around 15-17 years undressing in front of his dad. This girl I'm telling you about has developed every part of womanhood. Some wives look at suchand wave it aside. You see, men are not built that way. A little sight can provoke a man and he doesn't reason entirely when it comes to penile erection. The degree of temptation are different. Some fall easily, some withheld it and cry Jesus but it do comes.
Men are disorganized by sight and sensual seduction; women might be emotions and physical touch. Let us understand that. Secondly, how the wife caused it was how complacent she was. Whenever you see that your daughter is being naked in front of your husband, put her aside and talk to her. She could have prevented this incestuous act |
Romance › Re: Ladies Dating Quiet Men, Share Your Experiences by cheleku(m): 10:12pm On Aug 03, 2021 |
You really are a psychoanalyst! [Qquote author=LadyRosa post=104280942]Lol... As I stubborn reach na so so quiet men dey date me. So I've had great experience from past relationships and currently another quiet one dey my side. What I noticed with them They are highly intelligent, don't talk much, don't mingle much, social function almost zero. Them sabi cook oooo! Few clothes, expensive or not, they are well arranged,ironed.No scatter scatter. So once I'm looking for something they help me look for it because I go scatter their wardrobe and leave it like that! No time!  They are calculated and secretive. Don't gossip at all. Going into their house and coming out seems like sneeking around, so people don't know if they are in or out. Don't like loud music.Those who go to club rarely dance, them go dey laugh who dey dance  . When they decide to party, the subsequent days makes them really dull and want to 'rest'. Even during outings after few laughs and a drink with plenty water, next na to pick their car keys or flag down a taxi , time to go  Don't wear loud bright dresses. Dull dresses are their Craze. Observe rather than talk. When they talk everyone is silent. No toasting, they were too shy to say their mind. They will look and make few remarks, then look again. Relationship usually start from me taking the lead by keeping them talking with questions. "Do you like me?" that's enough to make them blush with relief and acceptance.  Spend thrifts. Show offs is foolishness to them.Not really into social media, few pics, most times like to be anonymous. Also, they can be nasty in secret.  Gadget lovers. Will spend money on the latest Playstation.Dont mind playing against computer for hours. Simplicity. Eating out is not their need, so if they must, mostly snacks rather than cooked food. Neat freeks!  Forgives easily but with serious warning. Don't like the silent treatment during quarrel. They will appear calm at first but, Na lie  . Just pretend you no longer find them attractive or appealing and all hell breaks loose. Not too romantic but very supportive and reasonable. Calm in the face of overwhelming trouble. Why others are panicky, they keep clear head, and think of solving issues diplomatically. The ones who cheats do it well. You may never notice because they will never pick the other woman's frantic calls, if them too disturb they block them temporarily till further _drilling notice.Them no just like wahala from nags. Have soft spot for women and can easily be manipulated to give out cash to them even without sleeping with them. Even an ex will continue to reap them off  Even if they are no longer interested. Don't get angry easily, but when they get you'd be sorry. Really really sorry and disappointed in yourself. They will lay all your 4ck ups and corner your defense on every angle  But them still dey talk o, but na inside house. Abuse them and meet a brick wall, no reaction. As my mouth sharp reach, I don't use bad words on them like I do on the street,They hardly use insults to drive home their point once an argument be like say e won bring insult, they ignore and find their way out. There are people that their level of maturity controls what you say.[/quote] |
Education › Re: 17-Year-Old Student Stabs Teacher To Death In Plateau State (Photo) by cheleku(m): 10:17am On Aug 01, 2021 |
benjackugo: A 17-year old student of Government Technical College Bukuru, Plateau State has murdered his own teacher, Job Dashe.
IgbereTV gathered that Dashe was a Physics tutor. He was stabbed to death during the week, leaving behind a pregnant wife whom he married last year November.
The deceased was a graduate of the University of Jos.
Mourning his demise, Genshak Golak wrote on Facebook;
https://www.facebook.com/100001835128759/posts/5923034694434309/?app=fbl Job was my secondary school mate. Incredibly sad event. |
Politics › Re: The World About Us 1983 Vs 2020 by cheleku(m): 5:28pm On Jul 12, 2021 |
I cried watching this well put together documentary. The sad thing is that we have deteriorated even further, more ethnically fragmented and poorer. I think going our separate ways may be the only solution. Nigeria isn't working, wasn't even set up to ever work. I have wonderful friends from the different ethnicities having spent my life moving about the country, yet I feel to make any meaningful progress we may have fo fragment the nation into more homogeneous sections. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Large Iranian Navy Ship Sinks After Catching Fire by cheleku(m): 5:39pm On Jun 03, 2021 |
You're sick and in need of help! Righteousness2: BABA GOD has so many weapons he uses to fight and Cripple stubborn people and Nations.
BABA used lice, darkness, grasshopper, frog, hail , Death of First born of Humans and Cattle etc to Shutdown Pharoah and Egypt of old.
BABA used 1 angel to kill 185,000 Soldiers of Assyria when Sennacherib and Rabshakeh, the President and captains in Syria were bragging and Barking at Israel.
BABA turned Nebuchadnezzar to an animal and sent him to the bush to eat grass when he became proud.
BABA sent Korah, Dathan and Abiram and all connected directly to them alive to Hell when they Challenged His Elect Servant, Moses.
BABA struck Herod dead and sent worms to eat him up when he made himself to be Compared to GOD
When His own people Isreal became stubborn, BABA sent snakes to bite them. At other times he sends people to Deal with them.
This Iran Ship was Wahala is Clearly BABA GOD'S Handwork. Iran leadership has been barking too much especially on BABA GOD'S First Born, Israel.
Iran leadership should remove their hands From Israel. If not it would consume them.
It's not the first or tenth time Iran is having Mysterious things like this. The more they are stubborn, BABA throws one thing into them.
Let's Fear GOD.
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Education › Re: University Of Abuja Students Beat Lecturer After Exams (Video) by cheleku(m): 4:04am On Feb 24, 2021 |
Ikillbrokehoes: Beat sense into him, it's only in the shíthole called Nigeria that lecturers behaves like mini gods, when I schooled abroad the lecturers there were very friendly and accommodating, they always make you feel like you are related to them, you can tell them your problems and they will look for ways to solve it, that's a saner clime unlike the shíthole that a lecturer will tell you to your face that he will fail you and nothing will happen... And as a sensible guy that's schooled abroad, you think beating him is the way to handle it? Barbarians. You can take the hippy out of the swamp, but not the swamp out of the hippy. |
Science/Technology › Re: Giant Alligator Strolling Across Florida Golf (Photos, Video) by cheleku(m): 5:57am On Nov 15, 2020 |
Foolish guy using the name of God in vain. Righteousness89: We Live in very Amazing times.. Of recent strange Creatures have been showing up themselves in different nations of the World!
Everything in these times are just out of the Ordinary!
JESUS is Coming Folks! The time is toooooo Close! It's gonna be Suddenly! It's gonna be Unawares! If u Value your soul! Give your life to JESUS! Pls I beg u all Give your life to JESUS !! |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Donald Trump's Supporters Pray & Speak In Tongues At Clark County by cheleku(m): 5:16am On Nov 07, 2020 |
But you will supporta man that's openly racist and grabs women by the pussy. Ode Righteousness89: This is Wonderful! This is Glorious! In the Face of Stiff opposition and Choking Challenges , We Stand our Ground in our Faith and Belief in GOD ALMIGHTY!
Anytime ! Anywhere! Anyday! I will stick out my Self Spirtually and Physically for President Trump to be Re-elected! There is no way I will Support Lgbt, Beastility etc in the Name of Human right! There is no way I will Support Murdering of kids in the Name of Abortion right! There is no way I will Ever Support one who does not Publicly support Isreal!
Whether or not it goes to what we Desire , it does not Change or alter our Trust in GOD Almighty!
GOD remains GOD! We remain totally and absolutely Given to GOD and HIS Course!
With all Love! These are my Brothers and Sisters!! |
Politics › Re: US: Why We Oppose Okonjo-iweala’s Election As WTO DG by cheleku(m): 9:36pm On Oct 29, 2020 |
You're daft...must you always bring conspiracy nonsense to serious discourse? Righteousness89: I knew it will come to this!! It's beyond Experience Matters!
It's a Battle btw Globalist and Nationalist!
The Globalist are the ones pushing Madam okonji. The likes of Bill gates, the guys pushing for a Nwo and one world government! The Trump administration is the Bone in the neck of the Globalist! Definitely The Trump administration will not Support who they support! That is why they wanna wait until after the Election!
In all these! What is the RAPTURE is at Hand! We Must Ensure we are Ready for it. It's gonna be Suddenly!
GOD is in Control!! We keep watching to see what he allows..
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Celebrities › Re: Anto Lecky: Even In US, My Parents Raised Us Like Children Living In Nigeria by cheleku(m): 1:53pm On Jan 13, 2019 |
rentAcock: Dundee be mute It's that all you could mutter as a riposte? A mere one liner. Of course you're too daft to even contemplate what I wrote. Akwuya! |
Celebrities › Re: Anto Lecky: Even In US, My Parents Raised Us Like Children Living In Nigeria by cheleku(m): 12:48pm On Jan 13, 2019 |
rentAcock: Stupid girl, you got the opportunity of a life time to migrate to the U.S and all you could do is study Exercise and Sports Science? Like what kind of stupid course is that? If not because I looked it up afterwards, I would've thought you made it up. You think you can go to the white man's land and study a stupid course like that and expect the white man to give you, a black woman, the lucrative jobs first before their white citizens? Silly girl, how many times have you seen a black person roll up on the pitch to attend to an injured football player? Now you can't get any job in America, you have carried your asewo yansh to run back to Nigeria hoping people will buy what you are selling. You've probably never left the shores of this country, you may never even leave. And you're here bashing someone that studied a course of her liking in one of America's best public universities. How should it be your business what she studied or if she doesn't have a job. You're very jealous and wicked person. I fear for your friends, you'll be green with envy every time they achieve something meaningful. |
Celebrities › Re: Anto Lecky: Even In US, My Parents Raised Us Like Children Living In Nigeria by cheleku(m): 12:43pm On Jan 13, 2019 |
Pentools: Even in Nigeria my parents raised us like the Americans. What's the physical proof
Just look at her knuckles, very disgusting thing..
This slowpoke wan use style tell us she was born in the U.S and obviously an American citizen. Well my own parents later relocated and obtained dual citizenship from the U.S and that makes me an automatic citizen of America. It ain't news to me tho so anto abi na totoh go park for gutter. You're a disgusting specimen of a human being..Imagine the level of hate for someone you've probably never met.. You accuse her of showing off her American citizenship when you just did the very same thing in your post. Hypocrite. |
Autos › Re: Registered Benz E230 For Sale by cheleku(m): 7:28pm On Nov 14, 2018 |
Haba my brother.. You didn't even say 120k! |