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drake99:
nwanne,enweghi mgbem si na obu drug k'amu gara ibu

nwanne but etu isi a sound di somehow naw.most people n'eche noo ntu matters o

drake99:
wasn't abraham religious when he told the lie of his wife being a sister

sera was his sister as well as his wife

VictoriaBee:
You are religious and want to give birth through babymama?.

Pray tell, what's fornication in your bible(?).

not only does our religious friend want to procreate through fornication; he intends to do drugs.maybe he would probably disguise as a religious leader.i don laugh tire!

nwanna kujunata! haba!! you just want to give her 'belle' then vamoose.na waa for you o.
seriously you sound like a troubled soul.you need Christ.please do not venture into this drug trip you do much desire.haba sunce last year you have not been able to come up with a reasonable means of livelihood despite the abundance of opportunities in Nigeria.guy jiri e nwayoo.ike kete olie aboro way o.okey if you carry these drugs and something happens wetin you go tell God sef? nnaa gbalu ogwu gi nuo.hapu ntu joor

is this for real?

bukatyne:
Well money can really not buy happiness... Not to say rich people can't be happy: a number actually are. Money on its own cannot buy/bring happiness.

Karma ...

I see a lot of 'if you sleep with married men, your husband will cheat on you' thingy as a perfect example of 'karma'...

I don't believe it though; sounds wack what is now the Karma for the cheating husband?

I believe we reap what we sow ... There is also the place of repentance and forgiveness

Jacob deceived Issac and Laban cheated him (Though we never heard of any evil that happened to Laban) and Jacob later became much more greater than Laban.

Leah deceived Jacob(connived with her daddy) and had it all (kids on time and buried at the family burial ground and died at an old age) while Rachael seemed to lose out ( though her son Joseph was the greatest of Jacob's kids)

David killed Uriah (Bathsheba's husband) and the love child died though his second son with her became the wisest king of all time (his end is debatable)

Abraham lied that Sarah was his sister to Abimelech and God threatened to make everyone in Abimelech's home barren instead of punishing Abraham.

Rebekah planned with Jacob to deceive Issac yet we did not read anything bad happening to her

I believe reaping or karma if you will is selective and there is the place of destiny, grace and choice

yea realities like repentance, grace, destinies are serious mitigating forces on repercusions.but you must know that some wrong deeds are capable of destroying or crippling destinies( for those that have extremely good ones) if a young man sleeps with a married woman, it harms him though it may not manifest immediately.if he continues with the act he turns useless( i have seen this)
sleeping with a married man hmnnn...well if you break someones home and marries him or someonelse do you think such a woman will find peace until God forgives her?my husbands step mum kept on fighting other wonen till the man died talk of karma...
regardless of mercy, grace, forgivenesd and destiny; having an uncorrupted destiny makes life sweeter
note:
though things worked for jacoab as surplanter he had no rest/ peace till he became isreal.he was always on flight!
david killed.despite the grace, cries, mourning and sack cloth thing; the chilf still died.remember God refused his to build a house for Him...

i believe karma exists not the way we ordinarily want it but the way the maker of the universe fashions it.
you see, every evil you do is a boemerang.not just the evils but the goods.when you do good to all with a good heart, good come your way.yes bad things do happen to good people but it may have been worse.maybe their good deeds mitigated against the force of evil coming their way and all we see is a mere scratch compared to what would have happened afterall we do not have a third eye.the same applies to bad deeds.
however i think what matters most is the intention.every deed be it good or bad has 2 sides.the intention and the actual act.if you step on my toes with your highheeled shoe unknowingly and apologise, i may not forgive you but God will forgive you but when you do same just to inflict pain on me because i may be smarter( or whatever) then you may never go free.your punishment may delay but the may it delays the more grevious it will be...

SAMBARRY:
ok purple bra and orange pant nko?

come to think of it purple bra and green pant for make sense o.all na colour blocking.see now everyone is wondering if i'm okay because you've made me laugh this hard!!

cococandy:
God forbid this kind of daughter in my life.

I'd give my liver. The only one I have . To save my mother's life. What's money then?

She should be happy that she can afford to take care of her mother in her old age. Some people were unfortunate to have their parents die before they can afford to do anything good for them.

the woman's anger is not directed at her mother but husband.though she was being silly with her reaction, dont you think the husband should have at least given her a tiny bit of the money since he promised to refund it.besides she may have even lied to her mothet that her husband provided the cash...if the man received the glory then he should at least give her a kobo and the story will be posponed

SAMBARRY:
Don't worry I'll help you buy red pant and Green bra




next o jare. Let's hear what the next person has to say

hia!! red pant kwa plus green bra.abeg no let food choke me o.even if you see red pant na for where you go see green bra?

marenx:
Even the rich like too much sex to the point that they have many girlfriends outside.

Poor people are predominantly villagers and illiterates.

I am poor, but because I am educated, I won't behave as such! I won't repeat the mistakes our parents made.

you are poor?and you have phone , can recharge and even have mb to visit nairaland. you are not poor.i have seen folks that dont even have functional nokia torch!

i think it's the jobless or underemployed struggling folks that breed that much.illiteracy, lack of/ insufficient sex education also contributes.some women are super fertile; just one touch and they are throwing up the next day...
the rich understands what it takes to give any child good life and as e be say na the rich folks like money pass they go wan reserve am...

men! men!! husbands!!! be careful o.see the way this man's irresponsibility brought death upon an innocent woman? protect your home leave those distractions in skirts.they ain't worth it!
BTW what was this man doing with a kidnapper when he had such lovely wife.* smh*

my husband gave me 3 years,3months and 10 days.

this question is absolutely unnecessary.it is wrong, it is malicious.it is their language and they have the right to speak it as they please.

sweet young family.you guys look good.may God bless your home and grant you the wisdom and more resources to take care of your sweeties plus more fruitful years and plenty plenty laughter of happiness.amen. na so!

the question is:
1 what in God's name are you doing with another man's wife?
2 why are you hiding her stay with you from your babe
my opinion: call your babe or your mother now and tell her.it's only one of the both that can drive her away.before her troublesome husband shows up.remember they are not divorced yet.hurry!!!

efemenaslectura:
Yorubas say anybody who lies will steal so therefore if you have been stealing there's high tendency of you lieing and even when a liar decides to stop telling lies its difficult for anyone to believe him. Bottom line thieves are liars and liars are thieves. If I know you steal and you tell me good morning I have to check my time to make sure it's morning at the same time I can't leave any of my valuables just anywhere within the reach of a thief because I don't know if he's genuinely changed even if he says he is. He will have to prove it

on point.my dad once advised us not to ever steal.reason: if you become successful, they will attribute it to theft.if you fail they will claim you havent been able to steal more.i have not forgotten that.we were like less than 10years old when he told us this...

bigiyaro:
grow up.

yessir!!!

bigiyaro:
heheheh! Na 'small pikin' dey worry u for now. Wen u grow up properly, u go no y bible talk say 'money answereth all things'

mr? small pikin at 36? huh? understand this:there is a big difference between managing little or average resources in love and wisdom abd having in abundance yet no peace or appreciation .i don't advocate for poverty and by his grace i have never tasted same but you should know that in marriage what matters is not the volume of wealth your husband or family has but a home is created and sustained by love, understanding,patience and divine wisdom

Olami90:
This is educative experience at its best. Thanks so much. I appreciate you.

At this point I think it balls down to whom one's partner is.

yes who your partner really is matters.for dome men once the wife puts to bed they tend to push the wife to the child/children and seek for fun outside--wrong!
some women tend to transfer part of their husband's love to the male children--wrong too
some lovey-dovey men become so bossy after marriage--wrong
some women become disobedient after marriage and stubborn after the first child--wrong
the aforementioned is capable of turning thr marriage sour but if you maintain your initial charm,your home will be so charming...

artisticallyart:
Is love enough?

love is the bedrock of marriage.by love i don't mean body chemistry alone.love to me i that and more.it is defined in first corinthians 13.it is sacrificial,patient,long suffering,it is the force that compels you to forgive a cheating husband,it is the force that compels you to obey your husband even when he must have travelled and would'nt know you disobeyed him.it is the force prevents you from not hanging out with a seemingly innocent male that obviously doesn't want to have anything to 'do' with you even though your husband hangs out with other females.love is the force that compels you to sincerely say good prayers for a husband that hasn't or doesn't treat you right.love is beautiful.the most beautiful thing is that this kind of love empowers you to win in marital challenges

Olami90:
Interesting!!! U have made very good points.

Tho, life isn't about clubbing $ partying buh I think the feeling $ sense of "we" / executing plans as a couple may not b dat enough to mak it sweet since dey won't always agree on issues, and it is one of those things that makes marriage challenging.

the 'we' thing is abot the most important source of joy in marriage.it is not limited to decision making.it includes bearing children,raising same, having and caring for extende families.standing up for each other,supporting each other and pulling resources together to meet ends.the 'we' thing is very broad.wherever you go,whatever you do;someone is somewhere praying for you,worrying about you,thinking about you, wishing you well,thinking of how best to plant a smile on your face.it goes on and on... you can still club,hang out,make out,whatever that appeals to you untop of the fantastic 'we' factor.

by the way what makes you think decision making breeds disagreement? you see in narriage you leave self and focus on the good of the family.in any home where the common good of the family is key in decision making you hardly see such challenging disagreements rather the disagree to agree later and that is normal

bigiyaro:
it depends on how ur fianicial status before or after d weddin. Married into a rich family-sweet. Marry into a blood suckin family- not sweet.

the truth is that joy and compartibility in marriage has nothing to do with riches.i have seen really poor folks living in one room apartment enjoy themselves.these couple call each other daddy and mummy(i used to find it funny).their closeness was something else.they didnt even go to school.they were christians though... my uncle and his wife on the other hand are something else.my uncle is a professor while the wife is a rich pharmasist.both from rich background with their own raw cash but you need to see fight.as in they even start from inside to outside which includes the wife having to throw whaterer(ranging from stick,bottle ,spoon,anything...)at his car while he must have settled her with blows before leaving the house...
my point is money has little to contribute in having fun.

After marriage is sweeter joor. at this point you are the center of his plans.life is not about partying and clubbing or even 'fast fooding' there is much joy in the guy seeking your opinion on how to invest, how to dress, how much to spend on feeding, what car to buy, how to manage his assets.there is nothing as sweet as he saying 'we' when he's discussing about most private issues of his life with you instead of the former 'I'

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heeeeey! Oga na wetin na?? i dey try understand the first one still you just released another one hei! laugh wan tear my belle.

dunkem21:
They think say we are dumb ..

Mausoleum ko Morgue ni

imagine na only tomb the guy wan build?? make i no talk.make he give us appointments and build a tomb for ahmadu bello na.

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