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FamilyRe: Photo:the Pics That Got Him In Trouble With His Wife by Chidoks(f):
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FamilyRe: Photo:the Pics That Got Him In Trouble With His Wife by Chidoks(f): 2:58pm On Jul 16, 2015
eherbal:
If you were madam, which will you honestly believe? The everyday occurrence, which is the lady, or the rare phenomenon, which is a dog driving a car? Be honest here ma'am wink
the truth is that the rare occurance is not as noticeable as the occourance in white y'know so if na me be madam you will need to really convince me that it was the dog that made. you abruptly drop my hand
FamilyRe: Why Are They So Many Pedophile's Out There? by Chidoks(f): 1:06pm On Jul 16, 2015
i think it's the devils at work.i am not talking about the every day's excuse of 'na devil cause am' i'm talking about the sons of men being demonised by foul spirits.
yes there may be cases of men using such acts to fortify their jazz that's a story for another day but i am talking of some of these men being controlled by demons otherwise tell me how a man will leave all the prostitutes in brotels and indulge in the gynastics of cajoling a baby and forcing himself on such baby
you see men ought to be careful these days because they are the ones the devil is targetting in his bid to destroy mankind.if you are single abstain from sexual relationships until marriage.if you are married stick to your wife.most foul spirits are transfered via sexual intercourse.you may do it with a demonised woman or a mermaid in human form and get a deposit of unnatural sexual tendensies like wanting to sleep with babies,with people's wives or with fellow men or even with pregnant women.let us all beware the days ate evil.
FamilyRe: Photo:the Pics That Got Him In Trouble With His Wife by Chidoks(f): 12:51pm On Jul 16, 2015
oga abeg talk true.who you snap?which of the images made you drop madam's hand in such a manner
FamilyRe: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Chidoks(f): 11:06pm On Jul 15, 2015
salsera:
Welcome, welcome, welcome
thanks
FamilyRe: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Chidoks(f): 9:48pm On Jul 15, 2015
okey,i'm kinda new here so let me introducr myself.
call me Amaka.that means i am ibo.happily married with children.i believe so much in family.i believe families should stick togethet and work out things.i believe happy moments are consciously created.i believe a happy home is a posibility;a product of hard work from the parties involved.
I believr in God.he is my pillar,my rock,my refuge.Thr only one that truly loves me...
FamilyRe: Will You Allow Your Husband To Bring A House Help Like This Into Your Home? by Chidoks(f): 5:08pm On Jul 15, 2015
those things are not real joor.i have never had a house help and when i am ready i will prayerfully shine both my physical and spiritual eye.she must not be light skinned,must not have attractive curves.her boobs must not be prominent.her hips must not be well defined,she must not be my husband's kind of woman,must not have free access to our bedroom,must not be too close to my children,must not cook my meals,must not wash my husband's clothes,must not be single,must always wear uniform,must not attend to my husband's personal needs like preparing bath water.anyday i suspect a foul play,she goes without discussing it with my husband.
the home is mine and i don't share
FamilyRe: Will You Allow Your Husband To Bring A House Help Like This Into Your Home? by Chidoks(f): 4:58pm On Jul 15, 2015
parismarc:
Please lets stop promoting Nigerian men as being sex starved and promiscous. Not all men think with their dicks. When you tell a people over and over that they have no self control, they tend to believe you and act that way.

Yes, i can employ a househelp like this because my husband is disciplined. I have a 19 year old nurse for my daughters who has nice curves and i dont feel threatened. Yes, it's good to avoid temptations but for how long can you shield your husband if he is a randy he goat? why would a man, the head of a family lower himself to sleep with a maid? Is that all he thinks about?

My dad had so many ladies staying with him (relatives from his side and mum's side) and not for one day did i hear about anyone being molested.

Please lets give our men some credit.Haba!.
hia!did you say how can the head of the family lower himself...? i have seen a Behind man banging and impregnanting his househelp that didn't have complete 5o level credit meanwhile madam has masters,a good job,cute children for him. reason the house girl has is bustier than madam.did i mention he beat madam because of house girl?
if your nanny is good thank God.pray you dont get to meet those evil househelp
growing up we had matured helps .my dad never molested any but that was then.i dont know what has possessed our husbands...
FamilyRe: Photo Of The Day! by Chidoks(f): 4:47pm On Jul 15, 2015
oh my i dont know all i know is that God has a way of meeting everone's needs
FamilyRe: I Can’t Believe My Husband Is Asking Me For This!! by Chidoks(f): 4:43pm On Jul 15, 2015
you cannot 'mouth action' your husband?wait till some 'bimbo' outside helps you do it.my friend when you get homr tonight,make his favourite dish,serve it the candle lit way,play a romantic music make sure you start peforming your wifly duties from there.which kain 'some have food but cannot eat' story be this one.
PoliticsRe: Letter From Anyim Pius Anyim To Jonathan, Former President by Chidoks(f): 4:31pm On Jul 15, 2015
efficiencie:
...and his, GEJ's, humility was taken for stupidity by the personality types who have the temerity and audacity to plunge the comity of states of the Federation into a calamity without finality...thus rendering Nigeria an oddity entangled in insanity...

...GEJ's humility isn't at unity with the felicity of Nigerians but borders on the paucity of fealty, scarcity of sanity and the unanimity of of interests with utter obscenity...
oga na wrtin naa
FamilyRe: PHOTOS: Driver Knocked Out Two Teeth From His Baby Mama by Chidoks(f): 12:21pm On Jul 14, 2015
there is absolutely no evidence to show that the man walking away knocked that woman's teeth off.
okey did he knock it off on the street?no pesser by.no eye witnesd only the camera man abi?when did he knock the teeth off?when the picture was taken ?yet no blood.there us no concrete evidence joor.the mouth is not even swollen.if i hear...
FamilyRe: Fine Madam and Oga: Why the Bad English? by Chidoks(f): 12:07pm On Jul 14, 2015
thanks i'm guilty of the maturity and the pin number thing.noted
FamilyRe: Getting Pregnant - Trying To Conceive by Chidoks(f): 11:57am On Jul 14, 2015
and while at it get on your knees.the one who made you will guide you to the right timing
FamilyRe: Deppression Is Wicked: The Life Of A Depressed Woman And How She Overcame by Chidoks(f): 10:30am On Jul 14, 2015
gosh! i thank God for you .imagine an ingrate like me questioning God when things don't go exctly the way i want it.oh Lord i am deeply sorry for my ingratitude.you brought this daughter of your (Grace) out of miry clay.be though exalted
dont worry sis you very soon all your wish will come to pass.just hold on to God,do good to sll men.receive and give love to all.God bless your soul
FamilyRe: See Amazing Fathers With Kids Photos (must See) by Chidoks(f): 9:55am On Jul 14, 2015
aiyeboy:
I mention Africa for my post? And who says am an African?
this is naira land
FamilyRe: Married A Lady Without O'level! by Chidoks(f): 3:35pm On Jul 13, 2015
na wa for this kain gold digger! so you married a lady simply because she claimed to be from a particular family.forget about her level of education because obviously you did not ask as you were blinded by the hope of what you may obtain from the family.how can you not expect a 23yr old not to have o level when my grandma(God bless her soul) lived over hundred without fslc.oga so you married a lady under assumptions e kwa.you assumed she has o levels,you assumed her aunt was her mother,you assumef her uncle was her father.God fon catch you.you must marry her a.let her prescence be a constant reminder of how gulible you are
FamilyRe: This Lady Seriously Needs Your Help. Her Husband Is A Wife Beater by Chidoks(f): 3:15pm On Jul 13, 2015
the story is so fake but if it's true why not seek the counsel of elders?pastors mabie?i still find it hard to believe.how can you marry a man thst hit you in courtship abi the guy use jazz?but wait o,you haven't told us what you usually do to warrant such beating or does he beat you after serving him fried rice and chicken??
solution:the next time he hit you hit him back,hit hard too,hit from a distance...
FamilyRe: This Lady Seriously Needs Your Help. Her Husband Is A Wife Beater by Chidoks(f): 3:13pm On Jul 13, 2015
the story is so fake but if it's true why not seek the counsel of elders?pastors mabie?i still find it hard to believe.how can you marry a man thst hit you in courtship abi the guy use jazz?but wait o,you haven't told us what you usually do to warrant such beating or does he beat you after serving him fried rice and chicken??
FamilyRe: What Is Your Reasing For Getting Married? by Chidoks(f): 1:10am On Jul 13, 2015
l married him because i love him.
my advice to all ladies:marry him because he loves you more than you love him.aside love marry someone you can talk with.as in someone you can gist with from 9pm to 2am.and will not get bored or tired.in your mid-age/ old age t your ability to freely communicate will sustain you.
FamilyRe: Intertribal Marriage Woes! Please Help... by Chidoks(f): 1:04am On Jul 13, 2015
where do you snd hubby hope to settle after the marriage?here or there?
FamilyRe: What Will You Do If Your Spouse Slaps You In Public? by Chidoks(f): 12:56am On Jul 13, 2015
Xslaze3xd:
She will buy this stuffs to appease the gods of the land;
2 He-goat
7 Tubers of yam
3 gallon of palm wine
4 bunch of unripe plantain
9 bags of kolanut
5 aligetor pepper
2 keg of palm oil
with #30, 000 for the gods.
you forgot to mrntion stockfish.ino fit shout
FamilyRe: Could My Wife Be Cheating? by Chidoks(f): 12:43am On Jul 13, 2015
it is either you have been too weak or too permissive.love does not amount to folly.your wife should always fear to do wrong because of you.
solution:sit her down and define marriage to her.you are her husband,her lord and her 'owner'.give her the do and donts.spell out your place and her place.give her a 'federal warning' as regards cooking for any other mortal other than you.may God save your home.forgive the past and move on.
FamilyRe: Husband Said He Is No Longer Gonna Make Out With His Wife Cos The Vagina Is Lax by Chidoks(f): 12:23am On Jul 13, 2015
babes i feel your pain ,fear and agitations.well bear in mind that sex is vital in marriage and you have to do all in your power to ensure you play your part well.men unlike us cannot make do with what is available as regards sex.the want maximum satisfaction .since you know you are lax, dont brood over it ,dont solicit for pity,sentiments or 'undetstanding' from him.his hormones lack ths ability to understand love so seek for medical help asap.talk to the gyno.see if there is any option outside surgery and if not go for a surgery.make the first step and oga will complement it.sex is good,sweet and to be enjoyed so seek for thst help first thing tomorrow morning.
FamilyRe: Husband Said He Is No Longer Gonna Make Out With His Wife Cos The Vagina Is Lax by Chidoks(f): 12:12am On Jul 13, 2015
tunde1200:
Get him drugs that will increase size of his penis now.
and have you both settle you problems on the cheating stuff?
and madam you are at fault.

How do you think the other woman will feel, when she realize your cooking for her husband.
She will give you hell and call you Ashewo.
oga which other woman?
FamilyRe: PHOTO: Missing Child by Chidoks(f): 6:12pm On Jul 11, 2015
dear God lead the authourities to where this young one is and please keep him safe(amen)
FamilyRe: I Want To Have His Child.. by Chidoks(f): 6:07pm On Jul 11, 2015
i am judging you because you want to break a home.you want to hurt a woman who has not offended you.obviously tom had a sweet home till you came in.i bet one of the cause of the fights with your ex is infidelity related yet you purposely want to encroach into another woman's home.why must you break that home.it's bad that you stole sexual pleasures that belongs to tom's wife but wanting to have his child goes on to show how destructive you are.why didnt you bend down to build your home.what made your ex beat you so much or were you innocent.go back to your husband and learn how to build a home otherwise stay clear other womens husband.there are many single men in town
FamilyRe: PLEASE HELP: I Want My Ex - Husband Back by Chidoks(f): 5:29pm On Jul 11, 2015
madam are you well at all.you left him for a richer man when he was broke.now after squandering husband 2's money you suddenly want to go back to the ex abi?not minding he has a wife shebi??you must be a gold digger wey no sabi dig sef.
FamilyRe: You Come Home To Meet Your Kid/kids In This State(pictures) by Chidoks(f): 5:22pm On Jul 11, 2015
i will yell(oh yes i will),i will cry,i will even spank some bombom but i will definately laugh.whatttt?don't they know what i takes to clean?.
FamilyRe: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Chidoks(f): 8:05pm On Jul 10, 2015
SpeedyConnect:
See this girl o. Are you a law student?
But you only succeeded in stating only the formal requirements -- which cannot invalidate the marriage if one of them claims not to be aware of them-- and left the essential requirements such as age, prohibited degree of consanguinity, single status etc.

It's should be noted that there is no differrence between church marriage and court marriage, that's strictly speaking. What we have are just two forms of marriage. Customary and statutory( which encompasses court, church etc, remember court or church is just like the venue and different rules apply depending on the 'venue' chosen.).

Regarding church, the most important thing is that the marriage at chuch should comply with legal provisions lest it become a mere church blessing and of no legal effect.

Dont have time now, would have written at length about this.
note:i am not a girl.i am a matured woman.check my age please.
i am not a student.graduated years ago.i am not a laywer either.i was lending a helping hand to a person in need .apparently you have an appriciable knoweldge of family law but you should not down play my honest layman's advice.you should have added to what i said or said yours however you deem right.
back to topic,amaka just make sure you get proper guidiance from an expert.of course you csn contract a legally binding marriage in church if you take the right steps.cheers
FamilyRe: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Chidoks(f): 7:42pm On Jul 10, 2015
SpeedyConnect:
See this girl o. Are you a law student?
But you only succeeded in stating only the formal requirements -- which cannot invalidate the marriage if one of them claims not to be aware of them-- and left the essential requirements such as age, prohibited degree of consanguinity, single status etc.

It's should be noted that there is no differrence between church marriage and court marriage, that's strictly speaking. What we have are just two forms of marriage. Customary and statutory( which encompasses court, church etc, remember court or church is just like the venue and different rules apply depending on the 'venue' chosen.).

Regarding church, the most important thing is that the marriage at chuch should comply with legal provisions lest it become a mere church blessing and of no legal effect.

point of note i am not a girl! i am a matured woman so do not address me as a girl
i am no a student .i graduated long ago.i wrote what i could remember without consulting any reference.we are here to profer solutions to domeone's problem.
if i missed out vital issues you could have easily added yours with or without mentioning me.
so back to topic you mentioned important issues like age.yes amaka age matters to .minimum age to contract a valid marriage should 18 .the thing is seek proper consel and you will definately get it right.whatever you do make sure your marriage is registered legally.

Dont have time now, would have written at length about this.
FamilyRe: Can You Share With Us Your Worst Day Since You Got Married.. by Chidoks(f): 5:21pm On Jul 10, 2015
was about saying it but just reslised it is too personal.though this is a faceless forum marriage is too sacred for one to share bad days publicly.sorry you may not get many responses.
btw generally it may be infidelity or violence related

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