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wait o.if the church wedding is properly done then amaka has nothing to fear.not just blessing of marriage o.in family law,there are conditions for a marriage to be legally acceptable 1:the marriage should be registered at the registry.21 working days notice would then be posted infront of the registry office for anyone that wishes to oppose the narriage to come forth. 2:the wedding must take place in a recognised place of worship.that i a church that is duly registered. 3:the marriage must take place between certain hours.i think 10:00am to 4:00pm.(not very sure but something likevthat.. 4:the wedding myst be conducted by a recognised minister. note:after the wedding you get a certificate(usually3)the church has one,the couple has one and the registry has one so amaka ask questions if you contract your wedding the aforementioned way it is valid abd legal amaka bear in mind that conducting a marriage under the act(court marriage) does not show love.yes it is a sign of commitement but not love.infact with that divorce is almost a sure thing because even when the elders of thr family intervene in disputes a dissatisfied party msy run to the court and get what they want |
tivta:AMEN.pls dont even consider it.one of the ills of cheating is that it diminishes the intensity of the love she has for you.she may still love you but it wount shark her head as before she may forgive but will forever feel insecure kai cheating is bad well thanks for your prayers |
sweet.very very good.some may see it tasking but i see it as a price to pay ib order to enjoy a strain free marriage.no man will love you to the moon and back if you are at logger head with his mum.as for me most times i ignore her wrong deeds afterall my mum could also be overbearing and i have not killed her.most times when i sense the mil is not happy with me i call her on phone and give a good laugh.the moment i say " hello mama" i will just mention the thing and start laughing.she will call my name and tell me thst i am cunny.i will explain myself and case closed but your number 9 point i never try o .men are funny .he may not talk but nay think you want to paint her black.me i just bear her Bleep ups afterall we dont live together so whats the fuss. sha i feel for women that live with theirMIL |
[quote author=tivta post=35705391]Really don't cheat? What of the married woman that slept with the fake PA of Mike Adenuga for a contract only to find out he was just a driver? My dear every one cheats, it all comes down to why, unfortunately most women do it for money, most men just do it for fun[/quot Lol at the woman that cheated and no not everyone that cheats.i don't cheat.it's by the grace of God and i know we are many that don't indulge in adultary.yes some women cheat but men are pro in the cheating game.as a motheri still get proposals from men.both single and married o.i am not super beautiful.i have even gained much weight yet they come and i feel they are sick.men just love cheating.i wonder if they understand love and sacrifice.mind you cheating is bad the reason is inconsequential the effect is devastating.when you cheat on your wife you kill her.the pain is too deep.too indescribable soo painful... back to topic,the nigerian woman is far far better than her american counyerpart#fact# |
wrong!!this was not en vogue as at '90.any lady born in 1990 should be 25 now and over ripe to marry ;Dwrong!!this was not en vogue as at '90.any lady born in 1990 should be 25 now and over ripe to marry |
none of my business. |
tivta:and you men?? he spoke about the american woman.we nigerian women dont cheat on you guys you guys are the one that want to eat your whatever and still have it |
missbehave247:na joke na |
daben1:thanks. i no dey too remember the guy again joor. |
this is wrong.that cannot be her daughter though.
Let her come and try it in Jos.they have a beach there |
before marrying him i believe you must have noticed he was lazy yet you went on with the whole marriage process right? i do not support divorce so do not divorce him.i believe you must have felt you could change him so intensify your effort at changing him.talk to him as often as possible.love him more too.make sure you dont disresprct him .exploit his weakness positively.beg him .cry even if it means shedding fake tears but no divorce pls na your market... |
1.pray
2.attend to oga's needs
3.cook |
nice one.so sweet i must say.i am so guilty of number 1.whenever oga annoys me my baby hears it.the way i descend on him has no part two but i am learning to control it but the good thing is that that beating makes him talk to me when he is keeping malice with me because he will always be like"don't pour your emotionsl issues on that child"and before you know it we start talking and the rest wii be history. i don't keep friend so i cry.if he hurts me much my ex comes to mind but then i remember that my ex is very lazy but sweetly romantic,my husbands go-getter sttitude outshines his romantic disposition and the thought of that deflates as soon it crops up and i just sit down and have a good cry aftet which i call or text my husband and tell him how much i love him as for the others my hand no dey o |
Xetima:double amen..yes where is Tunde Bakare that gathered his church members and sang "up up Jeses down down Jonathan ". as if the holy church of God was a campaign arena..he put the name of the lord in vain,insulted a ruler,and defiled the house of God!where is he?? |
cescky:but seriously we didnt need such an old man.old age is good but at his age any mortal should be resting,king making and /or guiding the younger generation.but my grieveiance with this man is that after ruling in his young age he came on board at his old age to mess things up.if apc had presented a young man as you earlier said things may have been a bit different by now. |
cescky:my brother may God forbid evil o.they should not spread their wickedness any further but can some tell our president to bring back the road blocks |
onatisi:i did not vote him o.i could'nt.How?? abeg o,i did not vote buhari.i expected him to have been more active and committed but me vote a blood and barboon man?God forbid! for the sake of Nigeria i wish he succeeds but a man that ruled Nigeria at 21 yet could not support goodluck,could not guide goodluck,did not criticize goodluck constructively,a man that asked muslims not to vote a christian?? how will buhari ever succeed.again for the sake of life,continuity ,peace of us all may God help buhari |
cescky: |
something is wrong somewhere.i thought they have stopped bombing like this.what changed?Did boko haram stumble into new money? new support? new mission?new liver?? Something is wrong! our president is a general in the Nigerian army yet instead of it getting better it is worse.something is wrong somewhere!!! |
in my opinion both parties are wrong. on a strictly serious note what the hell is side chick??a prostitute is a prostitute.a prostitute is any person be it male or female that indulges in sex solely for monetary gain.ladies these days prefer to keep their bad characters and still get maintanance allowance from adultrous men.these days they are littered everywhere especially in that demonic network called badoo.my point is married men should respect their wives, home and bodies.stick to the one thst loves,respects and prays for you.stick to the one that will be called a widow if the slut kills you with hiv.stick to the one thst washes your clothes,cleans the house cooks your meals and wishes you well. as for those smelly whores,i dont have their time in |
undercat:my thoughts exactly! |
lonelygirl:The lady is from Gabon but a Nigerian?? Did you know he was an illegal immigrant before the marriage? If no why didn't you do your homework? If yes then as you make your bed... The truth is that there is more to this story that you ain't telling. |
She plans on using you that's if she hasn't started besides how do you feel comfortable giving money to another man's woman? What will be your reaction if you catch another man giving money to your woman?_that will be her man's reaction.if she needs extra cash let her work for it. |
lovelymam:Most men don't like being bugged or stressed.maybe while you were stubborn he was gradually changing but the stubbornness did not allow you to notice the changes till you were done with it.see no man that is worth it likes stubbornness.it takes them away from home.I suggest patience since you've changed.it may take more time as men could be rigid but it's your cross.be patient.while trying to prove to him that you are a better wifey now,spoil him with love.feed him well.pack lunch.explore in the kitchen,come out with nice meals.send him love and sex texts That reminds me,how is your sex life.did you increase in weight?trim down if you did.make advances if he doesn't.stop crying if he doesn't respond to tears.make your bedroom a sex net.mesmerize that man of yours with love and care.I hope your home is kept neat.dirty environment irritate men so keep the toilet and kitchen amongst other parts sparkling clean. As for the job issue,I weak sha however learn something vocational like tailoring,snacks making,just something while gently bringing up the issue.every woman should work but approach to issue with wisdom. |
MEGGATRON:Yeah yeah |
Seriously that stuff is destructive .ever lived in an area with an ogogoro joint? Take a survey and you'll understand me.you are bound to see men that got wasted taking that poison.they appear lost the annoying part is that young men have joined them |
That's aku. |
Gum chewing was a taboo at home but you see that okin biscuits,I ate shege commot for the thing bodi.I still remember the nice taste |
I did it. |
The author of this piece supports adultery 100%.note the following: 1. You cannot fight adultery with adultery.if he becomes violent during confrontation.cool down,force yourself to stay calm and bring up the issue at a safer time.don't even run to your/his folks.nothing much can come out from that end.report to God who will help you deal with the pain and ultimately change him 2. I really don't understand why most people these days say stuffs like"you see in Africa the expectations are high bla bla..."before nko? We are Africans!we have rich cultural heritage and characteristics. What is wrong in asking a woman to submit to her husband?can there be 2 captains in a ship?we understand order and uphold it.recently there are many cases of divorce because most of our celebrities got deceived by westernization.must we copy their nonsense? 3. Marriage is not for girls but women who can endure whatever challenge marriage brings and enjoy in the future when they must have refined their husbands and raised good children that will bring honor to such homes.but if you insist on adultery and are caught,your husband will drive you away,marry a more beautiful,younger cool headed damsel that will take your place and by then he may have stopped cheating! And your family,friends,co-workers ,supporters will mock you,avoid you,gossip about you,insult you and it will amount to 3-0 |
If I see my child like this I know my heart will skip a beat.I can't predict what I'm capable of doing but it may not end well o.raising a daughter is one tough job |
GhaliNaaba:Did I truly derail? You said we are sub humans slightly above animals!check that out na? I can never condone polygamy but does indulging amount to being compared to animals?haba bros?? Don't forget that polygamy was introduced by the men folk for their selfish purposes. For real we remain the spice of humanity.we are not the world but you guys need us a lot |
anyways for the sake of his loved ones i hope the head ache of nigeria doesnt kill the old and frail ab0o*ki. if thers one thing certain about the mallam, he sabi hold grudge
not northner
U voted a 72yr old retired soldier without the mental ability to govern a country in this jet age to come and rule a nation 32yrs after he governed and u expect positive changes