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FamilyRe: She Wants Court Marriage, He Wants Traditional Marriage, She Say He Does Not.... by Chidoks(f): 4:49pm On Jul 10, 2015
wait o.if the church wedding is properly done then amaka has nothing to fear.not just blessing of marriage o.in family law,there are conditions for a marriage to be legally acceptable
1:the marriage should be registered at the registry.21 working days notice would then be posted infront of the registry office for anyone that wishes to oppose the narriage to come forth.
2:the wedding must take place in a recognised place of worship.that i a church that is duly registered.
3:the marriage must take place between certain hours.i think 10:00am to 4:00pm.(not very sure but something likevthat..
4:the wedding myst be conducted by a recognised minister.
note:after the wedding you get a certificate(usually3)the church has one,the couple has one and the registry has one
so amaka ask questions if you contract your wedding the aforementioned way it is valid abd legal
amaka bear in mind that conducting a marriage under the act(court marriage) does not show love.yes it is a sign of commitement but not love.infact with that divorce is almost a sure thing because even when the elders of thr family intervene in disputes a dissatisfied party msy run to the court and get what they want
FamilyRe: 11 Reasons Not To Marry An American Woman by Chidoks(f): 4:33pm On Jul 10, 2015
tivta:
Ok oh. May God make you remain faithful, i too don't cheat by the way cause i always tell my girl when she is pushing to the edge.
AMEN.pls dont even consider it.one of the ills of cheating is that it diminishes the intensity of the love she has for you.she may still love you but it wount shark her head as before
she may forgive but will forever feel insecure
kai cheating is bad well thanks for your prayers
FamilyRe: 23 Ways To Win Over Your Mother-in-law by Chidoks(f): 4:25pm On Jul 10, 2015
sweet.very very good.some may see it tasking but i see it as a price to pay ib order to enjoy a strain free marriage.no man will love you to the moon and back if you are at logger head with his mum.as for me most times i ignore her wrong deeds afterall my mum could also be overbearing and i have not killed her.most times when i sense the mil is not happy with me i call her on phone and give a good laugh.the moment i say " hello mama" i will just mention the thing and start laughing.she will call my name and tell me thst i am cunny.i will explain myself and case closed but your number 9 point i never try o .men are funny .he may not talk but nay think you want to paint her black.me i just bear her Bleep ups afterall we dont live together so whats the fuss.
sha i feel for women that live with theirMIL
FamilyRe: 11 Reasons Not To Marry An American Woman by Chidoks(f): 4:06pm On Jul 10, 2015
[quote author=tivta post=35705391]Really don't cheat? What of the married woman that slept with the fake PA of Mike Adenuga for a contract only to find out he was just a driver? My dear every one cheats, it all comes down to why, unfortunately most women do it for money, most men just do it for fun[/quot

Lol at the woman that cheated and no not everyone that cheats.i don't cheat.it's by the grace of God and i know we are many that don't indulge in adultary.yes some women cheat but men are pro in the cheating game.as a motheri still get proposals from men.both single and married o.i am not super beautiful.i have even gained much weight yet they come and i feel they are sick.men just love cheating.i wonder if they understand love and sacrifice.mind you cheating is bad the reason is inconsequential the effect is devastating.when you cheat on your wife you kill her.the pain is too deep.too indescribable soo painful...
back to topic,the nigerian woman is far far better than her american counyerpart#fact#
FamilyRe: If You Didn't Play With These Dolls As A Girl,you Are N't Ripe For Marriage@pic by Chidoks(f): 12:50pm On Jul 10, 2015
wrong!!this was not en vogue as at '90.any lady born in 1990 should be 25 now and over ripe to marry ;Dwrong!!this was not en vogue as at '90.any lady born in 1990 should be 25 now and over ripe to marry
FamilyRe: Check Out The Toys Some Parents Bought For Their Kids To Play With by Chidoks(f): 12:46pm On Jul 10, 2015
none of my business.
FamilyRe: 11 Reasons Not To Marry An American Woman by Chidoks(f): 12:43pm On Jul 10, 2015
tivta:
Exactly. Saw this article online and taught it would help my fellow guys who think white women are saints. The truth is women of all races want to eat thier cake and have it.
and you men?? he spoke about the american woman.we nigerian women dont cheat on you guys you guys are the one that want to eat your whatever and still have it
FamilyRe: My Husband Goes Mad After Smoking ‘igbo’ Every Morning – Wife Tells Court by Chidoks(f): 10:12am On Jul 10, 2015
missbehave247:
If u think Education is expensive, try ignorant

@shudi, ur problem is worst than the thread

You have just succeeded in displaying ur ignorances in this public forum.

More display of your character shall come In the fullness of time.
na joke na
FamilyRe: 5 Uncalled Attitudes Of Women When They Are Angry With Their Husband by Chidoks(f): 11:13pm On Jul 09, 2015
daben1:
this is maturity, but you should quit thinking about your Ex, so that you would'nt be tempted...
thanks. i no dey too remember the guy again joor.
FamilyRe: Question To All D Mothers In D House Is Dis Ryt??? (photo) by Chidoks(f): 6:53pm On Jul 09, 2015
this is wrong.that cannot be her daughter though. Let her come and try it in Jos.they have a beach there
FamilyRe: I Feel Like Divorcing My Husband: UPDATE by Chidoks(f): 6:49pm On Jul 09, 2015
before marrying him i believe you must have noticed he was lazy yet you went on with the whole marriage process right?
i do not support divorce so do not divorce him.i believe you must have felt you could change him so intensify your effort at changing him.talk to him as often as possible.love him more too.make sure you dont disresprct him .exploit his weakness positively.beg him .cry even if it means shedding fake tears but no divorce pls na your market...
FamilyRe: First 3 Activities Of Yours Daily? by Chidoks(f): 6:38pm On Jul 09, 2015
1.pray 2.attend to oga's needs 3.cook
FamilyRe: 5 Uncalled Attitudes Of Women When They Are Angry With Their Husband by Chidoks(f): 6:29pm On Jul 09, 2015
nice one.so sweet i must say.i am so guilty of number 1.whenever oga annoys me my baby hears it.the way i descend on him has no part two but i am learning to control it but the good thing is that that beating makes him talk to me when he is keeping malice with me because he will always be like"don't pour your emotionsl issues on that child"and before you know it we start talking and the rest wii be history.
i don't keep friend so i cry.if he hurts me much my ex comes to mind but then i remember that my ex is very lazy but sweetly romantic,my husbands go-getter sttitude outshines his romantic disposition and the thought of that deflates as soon it crops up and i just sit down and have a good cry aftet which i call or text my husband and tell him how much i love him
as for the others my hand no dey o
PoliticsRe: Bomb Explodes At Zaria Workers’ Biometric Screening Centre; Many Feared Dead by Chidoks(f): 12:10pm On Jul 07, 2015
Xetima:
Please, where is Femi Adesina? Where is Lai Muhammed? Where are all those who called Jonathan names? Your Buhari is dead silent on the daily sacrifice of his fellow human being.
Where is Bakare?
Where is OBJ?
Where is Oby Ezekwesili?
Where is Dele Momodu?
Where are the wicked people who conspired to put us in this mess?

Woe betide all those who brought this pain on Nigerians. Which investors would come into a country like this? You foist an old liability on Nigeria for your selfish reasons, I hope you are now proud to part of those who "brought this EVIL change".
double amen..yes where is Tunde Bakare that gathered his church members and sang "up up Jeses down down Jonathan ". as if the holy church of God was a campaign arena..he put the name of the lord in vain,insulted a ruler,and defiled the house of God!where is he??
PoliticsRe: Bomb Explodes At Zaria Workers’ Biometric Screening Centre; Many Feared Dead by Chidoks(f): 11:49am On Jul 07, 2015
cescky:
does he need to be told

well i guess hes a granpa and is perhaps deaf as a result of his old age sad anyways for the sake of his loved ones i hope the head ache of nigeria doesnt kill the old and frail ab0o*ki. if thers one thing certain about the mallam, he sabi hold grudge

Nigerians have cast their lot and its unfortunate those of us who didnt support that lot have to bear the consequence with them.


spam bot i said abo-kki grin not northner
but seriously we didnt need such an old man.old age is good but at his age any mortal should be resting,king making and /or guiding the younger generation.but my grieveiance with this man is that after ruling in his young age he came on board at his old age to mess things up.if apc had presented a young man as you earlier said things may have been a bit different by now.
PoliticsRe: Bomb Explodes At Zaria Workers’ Biometric Screening Centre; Many Feared Dead by Chidoks(f): 11:23am On Jul 07, 2015
cescky:
my sister efor taya me if na before

truth is these days i dont watch news....only come online and select what to read, because all this news enough to depress you and affect one negatively.....and we attract what we think so one has to be careful what occupies the mind.


the thing if he cant act and is dullard as people have proclaimed him to be, we have 3 tiers of goverment...those potbellied looters in the national assebly should act like they have brains and emotions, but then those ones are only after their belly. they should sit tight

the bombs will near abj real soon, perharps they will awake by then
my brother may God forbid evil o.they should not spread their wickedness any further but can some tell our president to bring back the road blocks
PoliticsRe: Bomb Explodes At Zaria Workers’ Biometric Screening Centre; Many Feared Dead by Chidoks(f): 11:14am On Jul 07, 2015
onatisi:
why won't boko haram get more courageous and bold when the grandpa u voted in is already sending signals of amnesty to them huh U voted a 72yr old retired soldier without the mental ability to govern a country in this jet age to come and rule a nation 32yrs after he governed and u expect positive changes huhhuhhuh?? Boko haram has killed almost 1500 within 30days,naira is now at a record low of 240 to a dollar, grandpa still doesn't know who to appoint as his ministers ,
i did not vote him o.i could'nt.How?? abeg o,i did not vote buhari.i expected him to have been more active and committed but me vote a blood and barboon man?God forbid! for the sake of Nigeria i wish he succeeds but a man that ruled Nigeria at 21 yet could not support goodluck,could not guide goodluck,did not criticize goodluck constructively,a man that asked muslims not to vote a christian?? how will buhari ever succeed.again for the sake of life,continuity ,peace of us all may God help buhari
PoliticsRe: Bomb Explodes At Zaria Workers’ Biometric Screening Centre; Many Feared Dead by Chidoks(f): 11:05am On Jul 07, 2015
cescky:
i wonder oo

ur right something is wrong somwhere, perhaps they believe one of the own is in power so thev been given full permission to unleash mayhem and to further retriate the above point, the man buhari isnt saying anything...neither are the military taking any actions

any ways what more do you expect from a man/religion that believes in such cowardly bloodshed.

come to think of it what was the rational behind demolishing check points?

abeg this is democracy...the house of reps should move a motion of impeachment or military take over at least let this blood letting stop

honestly that removal of check points speaks volumes.the president should have known better or is there something he is not telling
yes i also want the military to take over that is if they still speak with one voice
PoliticsRe: Bomb Explodes At Zaria Workers’ Biometric Screening Centre; Many Feared Dead by Chidoks(f): 10:31am On Jul 07, 2015
something is wrong somewhere.i thought they have stopped bombing like this.what changed?Did boko haram stumble into new money? new support? new mission?new liver?? Something is wrong! our president is a general in the Nigerian army yet instead of it getting better it is worse.something is wrong somewhere!!!
FamilyRe: Why Men Treat Side-Chicks Better Than Wives by Chidoks(f): 9:49am On Jul 07, 2015
in my opinion both parties are wrong. on a strictly serious note what the hell is side chick??a prostitute is a prostitute.a prostitute is any person be it male or female that indulges in sex solely for monetary gain.ladies these days prefer to keep their bad characters and still get maintanance allowance from adultrous men.these days they are littered everywhere especially in that demonic network called badoo.my point is married men should respect their wives, home and bodies.stick to the one thst loves,respects and prays for you.stick to the one that will be called a widow if the slut kills you with hiv.stick to the one thst washes your clothes,cleans the house cooks your meals and wishes you well. as for those smelly whores,i dont have their time in
FamilyRe: OMG! See The Damages This Lady Has Done To Her Butt by Chidoks(f): 9:50pm On Jul 05, 2015
undercat:
Poor girl.
That toilet is strangely blood free.
my thoughts exactly!
FamilyRe: My Nigerian Husband Will Not Divorce Me by Chidoks(f): 1:33pm On Jun 16, 2015
lonelygirl:
I do apologize for not being clear. Basically I married a Nigerian that illegally came into the country. He got me pregnant we got married. I have discovered for the past 2 years he has been communicating with a Nigerian woman back in Gabon. She even calls my phone and harrasses me. Since he is taking care of her and her mother I do not know why. I am going to meet with a lawyer this week to see what I can do about this. He obviousy doesn't respect or love me. And the safety of my son and I could be in danger. I am trying to figure out why he will not divorce me when I cannot file for him. I feel humiliated but I have to lean on God, be smart, and get the heck out of this mess and marraige before I get involved in trouble. They are probably doing scams. I saw where she was trying to convince somebody to talk to his brother so they could get her money. I stuck around to see if God would move in this marraige but its time for me to move on. We have been seperated for a year so I am glad that happened because I feel more safe. If this is not clear than I do not know how else to express myself. I am just trying to figure out what benefit would he have staying married to me when I cannot file for him? And also why is he flying the mother downhuh The lady is from Gabon and they only pick about 30 people each year from that area so the chances are very very slim she will get citizenship! Thanks for all the replies and God Bless!!
The lady is from Gabon but a Nigerian?? Did you know he was an illegal immigrant before the marriage? If no why didn't you do your homework? If yes then as you make your bed...
The truth is that there is more to this story that you ain't telling.
FamilyRe: Am I Being Used? by Chidoks(f): 1:23pm On Jun 16, 2015
She plans on using you that's if she hasn't started besides how do you feel comfortable giving money to another man's woman? What will be your reaction if you catch another man giving money to your woman?_that will be her man's reaction.if she needs extra cash let her work for it.
FamilyRe: h by Chidoks(f): 11:52am On Jun 10, 2015
lovelymam:
My husband is not a talking type he likes keeping it to himself and is not helping the matter. How can you know when things go wrong if he didn't open up. I'm not a lazy type. I had a business centre before it was demolished. I know I may b stubborn at early stage of marriage of which every newly married couple experience that but not any more. All my prayer everyday is God change my weaknesses. May b I'm giving him too much attention. All I want is to engage myself with something again but he refused that since I started staying at home with kids that they hardly fall sick. Yes he pays monthly salary but money is not my problem. Respect me a little please. All I want is a happy home. I want to work again, I want to be financial independent. Let me go out like other women instead of sitting at home everyday. I'm not used to this kind of lifestyle no one knows tomorrow as you know an idle mind is devil's workshop. I'm I asking for too much.

Note: nairaland is a faceless forum before I come here I believe to get the help I need of which if I keep on lieing it won't help me in any way because I know I'm doing myself. Thanks
Most men don't like being bugged or stressed.maybe while you were stubborn he was gradually changing but the stubbornness did not allow you to notice the changes till you were done with it.see no man that is worth it likes stubbornness.it takes them away from home.I suggest patience since you've changed.it may take more time as men could be rigid but it's your cross.be patient.while trying to prove to him that you are a better wifey now,spoil him with love.feed him well.pack lunch.explore in the kitchen,come out with nice meals.send him love and sex texts
That reminds me,how is your sex life.did you increase in weight?trim down if you did.make advances if he doesn't.stop crying if he doesn't respond to tears.make your bedroom a sex net.mesmerize that man of yours with love and care.I hope your home is kept neat.dirty environment irritate men so keep the toilet and kitchen amongst other parts sparkling clean.
As for the job issue,I weak sha however learn something vocational like tailoring,snacks making,just something while gently bringing up the issue.every woman should work but approach to issue with wisdom.
FoodRe: LADIES : If You ate This, It Means You Are MATURE. by Chidoks(f): 3:08pm On Jun 09, 2015
MEGGATRON:
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Yeah yeah
FoodRe: Warning To The Federal Government by Chidoks(f): 2:04pm On Jun 09, 2015
Seriously that stuff is destructive .ever lived in an area with an ogogoro joint? Take a survey and you'll understand me.you are bound to see men that got wasted taking that poison.they appear lost the annoying part is that young men have joined them
FoodRe: What Do Call This In Your Language? by Chidoks(f): 1:57pm On Jun 09, 2015
That's aku.
FoodRe: LADIES : If You ate This, It Means You Are MATURE. by Chidoks(f): 1:55pm On Jun 09, 2015
Gum chewing was a taboo at home but you see that okin biscuits,I ate shege commot for the thing bodi.I still remember the nice taste
FamilyRe: Do You Know This? by Chidoks(f): 1:48pm On Jun 09, 2015
I did it.
FamilyRe: Solution To Cheating In Marriage (COPIED) by Chidoks(f):
The author of this piece supports adultery 100%.note the following:
1. You cannot fight adultery with adultery.if he becomes violent during confrontation.cool down,force yourself to stay calm and bring up the issue at a safer time.don't even run to your/his folks.nothing much can come out from that end.report to God who will help you deal with the pain and ultimately change him
2. I really don't understand why most people these days say stuffs like"you see in Africa the expectations are high bla bla..."before nko? We are Africans!we have rich cultural heritage and characteristics. What is wrong in asking a woman to submit to her husband?can there be 2 captains in a ship?we understand order and uphold it.recently there are many cases of divorce because most of our celebrities got deceived by westernization.must we copy their nonsense?
3. Marriage is not for girls but women who can endure whatever challenge marriage brings and enjoy in the future when they must have refined their husbands and raised good children that will bring honor to such homes.but if you insist on adultery and are caught,your husband will drive you away,marry a more beautiful,younger cool headed damsel that will take your place and by then he may have stopped cheating! And your family,friends,co-workers ,supporters will mock you,avoid you,gossip about you,insult you and it will amount to 3-0
FamilyRe: Parent When Your Child Displays This On Social Media(photo) by Chidoks(f): 10:28pm On Jun 08, 2015
If I see my child like this I know my heart will skip a beat.I can't predict what I'm capable of doing but it may not end well o.raising a daughter is one tough job
PoliticsRe: Alaafin Of Oyo & His Wives Cause A Stir At Abuja Airport (photos) by Chidoks(f): 9:01pm On Jun 08, 2015
GhaliNaaba:
You are salt of the world as you complements or enhance society but won't mean that you are the world. Meanwhile, I observed you have derailed from the purpose of my comment dear. I still maintain my stand that women see themselves as sub human.
Have you seen 2 men getting married to a women before not to talk of 10?
Did I truly derail? You said we are sub humans slightly above animals!check that out na? I can never condone polygamy but does indulging amount to being compared to animals?haba bros?? Don't forget that polygamy was introduced by the men folk for their selfish purposes.
For real we remain the spice of humanity.we are not the world but you guys need us a lot

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