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joeydozzy: truth is a relationship would still work without 100% attention, I've seen so many but trust me relationship without money is like a person without a job. the relationship could exist but your role has been tarnished

ChopUrMoni: Have you ever played hide and seek? If you have, then you know that once the person has been found by the finder its not the end of the game. The person found must run and the finder would have to pursue until they have caught them. Then and only then is the the game over.

I have noticed a trend among a lot of men. They have become so lazy that they do not bother chasing the girl they love. The saying "ah... its just a girl, they are many more out there" and "she's playing hard to get, i cant be bothered and she's not the only beautiful girl out there anyway" have become so popular among men especially black men.

What happened to the value of chasing a woman? Why has it become so worthless and looked down upon. Would men of today have survived many years ago. Men in those days didn't complain when they pursued the girl they loved, in many cases suffered in the hands of the girls family and then paid a massive amount to have her as his wife. Today it's a lot easier yet men are not willing or should I say are too lazy to pursue the woman of their dreams. Oh i forgot... there are too many fishes in sea. Why bother right?

Men, we love to be pursued and conquered by you. Why do you all think the stories of Cinderella, Snow white, Rapunzel and the like are so loved by girls? They all had one thing in common. A prince who not only found them but also fought for them. Trust me we love to be chased and caught by you.

If you are not serious with the girl then don't bother. But, if you do love her don't allow you friends to push you to get over her after she has rejected you twice. Try a little harder than twice. I noticed white guys have always chased me fervently. But when it comes to black men, even though they profess to loving me so deeply they don't bother if i don't respond to them after a specific time. If any race of man on earth should know how to pursue a /+woman fervently until he captures her it should be a black man because thats what you fathers and grand fathers did. It's in your DNA So now, what are you waiting for? Get started!

Tony Spike: Was this same Sanusi Lamido not appointed CBN governor based on federal character or am I missing something here?

purplekayc: 2pac and michael jackson

ignis: Actually, some people take it personal when asked 'how was your nyt'. My senior colleague told me its very wrong to ask an adult 'how was your nyt'?
To be on the safer side, just ask ' Hope your nyt was gud. Or did u sleep well?
Because people are different.

jking001: Thanks Mr Siena, i live in Abuja would look for a good mechanic which is hard to find, the main one,s like coscharis is very expensive but if by chance you know any in Abuja would be so grateful for you suggestion,thanks a lot and God bless you.

take dat: Will you be forwarding the questions to Okupe or Abati? How are we expected to ask questions when calls wont be put through? Do you think GEJ have answers to the above questions? He will simply tell you he doesn't give a damn!

Koolking: Dude, do you still remember the Okafor's law? Please quote

jumobi1: It's almost too obvious. He seems to be more fond of her....which isn't abnormal.

semid4lyfe: So Sasha and Malia play soccer? Hmmm, I like them already. . . lovely family

Callotti: Please, go ahead mama!
Nothing do you!

This woman looks in her 50s!
Did she say she was 40-something?
What is she doing with all the money she is 'chopping'?
Even my almost-70-sth year-old-mama nor wrinkle like this her face!
See her hair?
Kai!!!!
Typical MGBEKE!
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeew. . . .as a
single lady, I expect her to look sharper than this.
Juju must be working on that HER ALHAJI!



If you can't steal a 'rich' man's money. . . why can 'YOU' steal a poor man's money? Is it not the same bank?

Miss_3v3: I have been dating my boyfriend for about 2,5years and even till now am not sure if he is the one. He seems very sure about me but sometimes i feel like the real reason apart from the fact that i love him, that i am still with him is he is such a nice guy and am afraid that i may not find a guy like him again.

We have different backgrounds(grew up abroad while he has never left the country, different thoughts( am more "westernized and he is kinda local ). Sometimes i feel we are too incompatible like i am the type of woman who believes in a relationship, all should be equal. i don't want a man that thinks it is just a women's place to be in the kitchen just like i don't think it's only a man's job to pay bills or buy everything just because it is a "man's" job.

When i get married i have no problems with sharing cost's equally our bills etc just like when we both come home from work. The least he can do is help out perhaps with dishes etc not expecting him to cook but if he did it once in a while to surprise me then i would not mind . But my bf is more of a women's place is this and a man's place is that. Another potential problem which i just realised could be a problem is am going to be earning way more than him.

I am currently doing my articles towards chartered accountancy and he is currently working in real estate business he got a new job. I am afraid that i may become the boss of the house because if am paying bills and he is not even willing to help me with some of the things at home, i think there will be a problem.

Another issue is we are currently in different countries, we have been having a long distance relationship and i see him during holidays. Now am not sure if i want to relocate and give up everything because i can have more opportunities here then there especially for a man am not sure of.

I don't think he is willing to relocate because all his friends are there and family and job wise he may not get a job here. He seems indecisive about his future as he wants to go back and study and i don't know am very confused. Sometimes i find him childish and not mature enough even though he is 2 years older then me.

Should i hang in there or call it quits?

kokoye: Allow??

It's up to the wife as well.

But seiously, is $500k that big to make your wife want to stay at home, especially in Lagos or Abuja?


maybe in Oshogbo.

alexsamjnr: Rubbish. If you don't want him.......pls let him go

dmcdad: This is the bitter truth alot of gurlz shy away from... They know they have a hand in their predicament, yet they point accusing fingers at men... Its gross

greatgod2012: To me, what is ur definition of poverty, if u can afford some things by urself, then i think u are not poor. Poverty is a thing of d mind, if u think u are poor then u are, and if u think u are not, u are not,
2ndly, what type of poverty are u referring to,i think, even if u dont have enough physical cash now,and u are mentally rich and wealthy(u can frame up constructive ideas), then u shoudnt consider urself poor. A self-acclaimed poor person has written him/herself off. So its up to u.
Meanwhile, dont be lazy and idle, and be expecting somebody to respect u, so wake up and find something doing no matter how small, in order to avoid embarrasing urself.
However, as a woman, when u pass thru some difficulties together with ur lover, it strengthens relationship, if u tend to date or go out with somebody who is already done,financially, then, u are looked at or regarded as gold-digger. GOLD IS TRIED IN FIRE TO ASCERTAIN ITS GENUINETY

tintingz: Ok. . .as a naija dude have not seen couples kissing in public like the way western people do, i only watch it on TV. . .
> have you seen couples doing such??
> have you do the public kissing before??
> can you kiss in public in this our naija area??
> and is it right or wrong to do such??

abubello: The Federal Capital Territory Administration has concluded arrangement to purchase an aerial surveillance balloon from an Israeli company at the cost of $1.9 million (equivalent N295 million), documents leaked to Daily Trust have shown.
When the deal is sealed, the balloon, technically called Sky Star Tactical Aerostat System, will be launched into the skies of Abuja where it will hover covering a 6-kilometre-radius area, a defence contractor privy to the deal said.

The documents show that contract for the supply and installation of the balloon has been approved by the Bureau for Public Procurement and is now awaiting FCT Minister Bala Mohammed’s nod.

A letter from the FCTA to the contractors notified them of the BPP approval.

“I am directed to inform you that the Bureau for Public Procurement has reviewed the proposal and granted ‘No Objection’ for the procurement in the total sum of N295, 000,650.00,” said the letter, signed by Director, FCT Procurement Department, Ahmed Mohammed Joda.
BOKO HARAM!!!Share the Money!

“You are therefore requested to indicate in writing acceptance or otherwise of the offer within one week of the receipt of this letter. The terms of the contract will be discussed upon your acceptance of the certified sum.”

The letter, dated December 22, 2011, is titled “Re: Proposal for the Supply and Installation of Sky Star Aerial Surveillance Equipment (1) One No. Sky Star Tactitical System.”

However, an aggrieved defence contractor Alhaji Rabiu Hassan alleged that the contract has been inflated.

He told Daily Trust in Abuja that the surveillance balloon’s cost is $300,000 but is inflated to $1.9 million.

According to the contracts documents, the contract sum includes the costs of seaway or airworthy packing of the equipment and documentation.

Terms of the contract indicated that the final execution of the order is subject to the approval of the Ministry of Defence.

Attempts to get comments from the FCT ministry failed yesterday.

When our reporter asked for comments to this story from a spokesman for the ministry Sule Hazat, he said he would call our reporter back. But he did not do that and did not answer subsequent calls till the time of going to press last night.

Another spokesman for the ministry, Nosike Ogbuenyi, did not answer his calls.

‘FG procured faulty drones at N29bn’

On Sunday, defence contractor Rabiu Hassan also alleged that the Federal Government has procured two faulty unmanned aerial vehicles (UAVs) at an inflated cost of $240 million from certain Israeli contractors.

He alleged that the drones are being kept in Benin.

But yesterday, a senior official in the office of the National Security Adviser told Daily Trust he was not aware of the contract.

Also the Nigerian Air Force which has the capability of handling UAVs said it was not part of the deal.

Hassan also on Sunday alleged that the Federal Government is hiring two Israeli spy satellites at an inflated cost of 145 million Euros (about N29.2). He said the actual cost of the satellites was put at $40 million.

The spy satellites have a 2,000-kilometre radius and are to cover the Nigerian airspace as well as the entire West African region, he alleged further.

Alhaji Rabiu Hassan, who is the chief executive of Hypertech (UK) Limited, said he had petitioned the Presidency and other public agencies on these contracts which he said have high security implications for Nigeria.



http://www.dailytrust.com.ng/index.php/other-sections/lead-stories/180423-fct-to-buy-n295-million-spy-balloon

sun_temi: Thanks so much for your comments. And I'm so happy to meet you too. Whenever I come to Abuja, I will like to meet you personally.

ZUBBYNWA: How do you call it in your mother language?