₦airaland Forum

nwaezeemmanuel:
Whoever you are, be ashamed of yourself. There is nothing good about stirring gender wars or supremacy.

Men and women have to coexist, we have come too far. Don't spread toxicity that the world has no need for.

I don't want to be ashamed of myself, I only spoke the truth so need for shame. If you dont like it that's too bad but truth is bitter.

aminu114:
imaging a world without men u will still be looking for a way to control menstruation

What kind of stupid statement is this?

Robert1da:
Just imagine a world without your Dad, we wouldn't be reading this BS.

Plus your dad too

ednut1:
How will many be able to get 2k, pant, rent, hair, school fees and transport fare

At least no body will rob and rape the girls naa

You see think am. It's going to be for their benefit in the end.

LINTUNE:
another cloud chasing thread, try to make research, check all endeavors and aspect of life, then u will understand how valuable men are to u women,

This is not clout chasing thread, it's simply the truth
Also those inventions you mentioned were done by 80% white people and not blacks so your black ass should stop taking credit for them.

Kalatium:
This bitter somebody is disappointed in her fellow gender


Most of the females do not share this idea with you.

Hehehehe

Who be most of the females?
The two males with female moniker in page one?
No those ones are not female, thanks.

So many pained men in the comments

Make una take paracetamol for your body pains, you go dey alright.

Fact still remains that there will be way less crimes and murders without males, kapish?

All these mumu girls that don't want to offend their Nairaland boyfriends sef

Males make up 90% of criminals and the world will be much safer without them.

fati2001:
DON'T GENERALIZE



IMAGINE A WORLD WITHOUT NIGERIAN MEN

Yes, yes, honest mistake
Sorry about that

Wow, nice replies so far

Just imagine a world where there is no armed robbery or meaningless wars, murders, rapes and skyrocketing crime rates.
No yahoo scanners that have ruined Nigerias online reputation. No males to always look for ways to frustrate women and selfishly use them while trying to keep them inferior and subjugated, always looking for ways to keep women from having basic human rights and advancements.
No senseless murders and ritual killing, serial killing, cutting off people's body parts for rituals and dumping them by the roadside.
No agbero and corrupt police making life hard for motorists.

I think John gray said men are from Mars and women are from venus, let everybody return back to their planets so that women can finally bee safe from male criminal activities and wickedness.


Oya males, feel free to start convulsing on this thread, the floor is open.

Truvel:
Barriter ChoccolaTe, Even Though Ur Points Are Valid, D Number Of Women Dat Can Do Those Things U Mentioned Are Very Few & Very Rare To Find. Dis Is Not To Say Dat Dey Don't Exist, Dey Do. I Av Great Respect 4 Such Women But Dey Are Very Few & Rare To Find.

@bold

Now you are not being honest with yourself.
Working women are rare to find?
Few?
Bye, enjoy your delusion.

jaxxy:
U are only misleading urself by picking a few rogue men and even criminals and using that to generalize. As for guys on NL who insult gals (which I don’t always support) it’s usually a reaction to how the gals talk or act which can be inappropriate sometimes or even alot of the times for some.

If u speak and act properly I’m sure the reaction will be different or change gradually.

If you men stop being criminals and armed robbers and rapists then my reaction to you people will change gradually.

Shogbo?

Truvel:
Don't Get Me Wrong. I Didn't Say Men Shouldn't Help With Cores & Childcare. Infact, Many Men Av Been Helping With Cores & Childcare. All I'm Saying Is Total Idleness Or Laziness 4rm Some Ladies. Many Ladies Don't Like Empowering Demselves Or Do Anything To Earn Money. Many Of Dem Just Rely Solely On Their Husbands 4 Everything. Just Imagine, Sitting Down At Home 247 Doing Nothing. It's Bad. Even If It's Purewater Or Mineral, U Should Be Able To Sell To Earn Something. I Know Some Full Housewives Who Are Tailors. As A Woman, It's Not Everything U Must Ask 4rm Ur Man. U Want To Buy Pant, U Will Ask Him. U Want To Buy Bra, U Will Ask Him. U Want Buy Slippers, U Will Ask Him. No.

My own observation is very different
In many homes women are even the ones supporting their jobless husbands or lazy husbands. This is something I have seen with my own eyes, not hearsay.
I don't know why men think women completely depend on them. In almost every single market in Nigeria you see women everywhere selling wares and making money to care for the family, hawkers of foodstuff and agbo and other items in Nigeria are usually women, in banks, corporate offices and shops, boutiques, restaurants, hairdressing salons, tailors, makeup artists and many other blue collar jobs you find millions of women there.

Where on earth do you people live that you still think women are sitting at home waiting for men to provide when in every nook and cranny of Nigeria you can find women working?

After they close from work they have to rush home to cook for everybody and take care of kids while their husbands stretch and relax in front of tv.

This topic is so redundant anand unnecessary.

gregyboy:
And does big joystick guarantee a ladys orgamsm

It helps but not always

It's recommended for women to work but if your wife has a job you need to assist her with chores and because its not easy to balance work and running household. All you men looking for women that will financially support you should keep that in mind.

Many men still think housework and childcare is solely a woman's redponsibility.

Very stupid reasoning.

Chai,
Covid 19 ooo

I wonder why you keep engaging toxic frustrated nairalandboys.
A lot of them are ugly losers in real life that just come online to pour frustration on women because they keep getting rejected in real life.

Biglittlelois:

Must they all show cleavage?

gregyboy:
Do most women get organsm because the sex ends when d guy cums

Majority dont

CandyOps:
not really. I used to have a babe that initiates the sex and even physically fights me when she comes around and I tell her I won't be dicking her down... and I don't think I have ever gone a 2nd round with her. so yes, I'll go with the guy that suggests she's just lazy after the first one.

Not really, you are knowledgeable but not entirely correct.

Women want orgasms as a round up to sex just like men. They might not ask for another "round" because they did not enjoy the sex or because they lose the mood after you cum since they realise it would take you at least 15 to 30mins to get ready for another "round".
Either way, be rest assured that she is not happy about not getting satisfactory sex and she secretly resents you for using her for your pleasure.

Oga you know the answer to the question you are asking
She was pretending
She doesn't like sex with you

wisdomiskey:
CHoccolaTE
apathe.ticme (a truly pathetic you)
Poc.o (Mangol.ia & Hath.or5)

Oya, come and roast OP alive..

Lol
No

Biglittlelois:
And funny thing is, their insults always go back to hunt them at the end, either through their loved ones, e.g I remember one thread that reached FP where a guy lamented that his sister is close to 40, beautiful yet unmarried, I checked the guy's previous comments and what I saw made me laugh, he is an online red piller who insults women at will, forgetting there are females in his family and he'd one day have a daughter

They dont reason. They just stay online 24/7 reading material that fuels their woman hate and then come back to vomit toxicity on different threads. Imagine someone with a sister that is single and desperate to marry, that person spends his time convincing other men to avoid women because women are the worst thing to ever happen and blablabla

Then he came back online to wail about his sisters singleness. Is it not madness?
There is one mod that has a little daughter but is always pushing anti woman topics to front page, I can't understand how some men think sometimes.

Anyway, like the other guy above me said, I pray all those men that want to stay single for life have their wishes granted and actually end up staying unmarried forever. Na them sabi, no be by force.

This is the kind of life many men want to live when they keep demanding that wives must provide whether they like it or not meanwhile God gave different decree ooo


Anyway Op it seems you are a very nice lady, if na me I will only spend on myself and the kids, let him say I am wicked I no send, you are chief home keeper (according to your husbands beliefs) you are the one looking after kids personal needs, I bet you are also the one in charge of cooking and cleaning and shopping for kitchen stuff, and after everything yourself and the kids all answer your husbands name and live under his authority when the only thing he does is pay school fees.
Tell him you are sending money to your relatives who need it, maybe your mom or cousins for schoolfees, pocket money etc and keep your money to yourself and your kids, invest it for their future.

Men these days dont want to do anything in marriage

Broke and frustrated nairaland men make una gather for here to pour frustration.

Oya o,

as e dey hot.

Karleb:
This is why I believe nobody should take this feminism / red pill too much.

Imagine failing to help a friend because you heard that Nigeria girl are wicked or whatnot.
A lot of girls have done serious evils and they cover it up with feminism.

Just have your common sense, let it guide you because its not common.

How would the OP feel if someone does that to him.

Redpill or feminism had nothing to do with tyup decision to hide opportunities from those girls.

He is a wicked person, plain and simple.

Someone with a kind heart will help their fellow human to please God or earn Gods pleasure but that guy just didn't want his female friends to do better than him in life and he started covering it up with redpill nonsense.

BRATISLAVA:
Was any point made by it? It made no point. Just sounded like men do. Empty. Assumptive. Misogynistic. Entitled

@bold, chai you really understand men oo

See how you described them perfectly

lanreHeda:
so if your answer is no.....why blaming the OP ?........since you said random men dont help random women

Where did you see me blame anybody? Can you read at all?

lanreHeda:
you said husbands and boyfriends...meaning y'all help your loved ones and family.........we talking about random men which you would not benefit from if you help them. have you helped any of such people.......

The random men dont help women without expecting sex in return from the women. Na their way be that.

MummyD2020:
You are right when you said they have not seen life. Wickedness goes both ways and I can relate that's why i am so surprised that people are demonising women like this. Do u guys know how many guys i have been opportuned to assist? Even my own male cousin too stooped so low to defraud me. So I'm not saying it just to garner likes. Who cares biko nu It goes both ways. That's my point

Men are worse when it comes to betrayal. They cannot help without demanding something back(usually sexual favours) and if you help them they are very likely to stab you in the back.

Do you know there are threads in this same nairaland where males tell each other that it is ok for rich men to dump their wives that stayed with them when they were poor because they dont owe her anything.
Omo if you see how the ungrateful shit men were hailing each other on that thread and agreeing with the OP that it's normal to dump their former wife and upgrade to a better one if they become rich in future.

Also, I cant count how many girls I knew that were looking for jobs but the males in their lives that could connect them wanted to sleep with them before they help them submit CV. Even a woman begging money for her sick relative from a man will be met with the same demand for sex by that man.
NL males are here claiming that men always help women without expecting anything in return.

How?
On what planet?