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EXOUSIAng:
Ahhh they are begging to for us to recognize their existence
I thought you said they occupy 500 villages?
how do they occupy 500 villages yet they are actually organising a rally to beg the Venue people to know they exist...
look they are igbos in Oju who are traders not indigines, Emeka is one of the most successful traders in Oju he is a personal friend, he was born in Oju his father came there long before some of us knew the road to the village.
When I travel home for Xmas I have my palmwine tapper his name is John. he was brought by his uncle who was a wine tapper John has been given land where he now farms and has married a wife, unfortunately last time we spoke over a Calabash of palmwine he told me he was so young when he left home and has never returned home,he doesn't know his way home, John speaks Igede much better than I do.
If you are talking about this people they exist.
But like you can see that you have lied from the onset, there is no way igbos will be in over 500 villages and still beg for people to be aware of their existence. my village is the last village to cross river, my cousins village is the last village to Ebonyi. these people need to ask their fathers where they truly come from.
The wanakande, wanahen, etc share boundaries with Oju, but they are not in Oju.
You are old enough to know that you don't believe everything you read on the internet...
THOSE PEOPLE ARE LOST. THEY ARE NOT BENUE INDIGENS

EXOUSIAng:
I am from Oju local government. my village shares a boundary with cross river state, as a matter of fact boys from cross river during xmas come down to my village to play ball during xmas.
i have relatives in Obi local government which shares a boundary with ebonyi state.
Ezza, Izzi, Effium that you have mentioned are in Ebonyi state not Benue state, one of my very close friends is an Izzi guy, the Ezza people come to Oju and Obi to do farm labor for people, those guys are great at making ridges.
so sir, I will have you know that you haven't been to any of the places you have mentioned, if you do you will know that igbos have no place in Benue. i have not been to Ado but their LG chairman has clearly stated that he has no igbo settlements in his local government.....
You can listen to your leaders who doesn't know the boundary of his village and believe him.... But any one from Oju Obi and Ado will laugh at you with this your claims....
by the way, i called home and guess what the story os ESN presence in Oju is Fake...
PLEASE VISIT THIS PLACES YOU HAVE MENTIONED BEFORE YOU START SAYING THINGS YOU DON'T KNOW.
I see you even mentioned opkokwu lol.... you really need to do more findings....
Whats the point of talking, do your type listen to truth and learn, you rather remain in your ignorance and argue about a place you have never been to with the residents before one coward hiding in a cave with his tail in-between his hind legs told you other wise...
has your b*t*h of a leader ever been to Benue or even Oju and this other places he has mentioned...
you claim you have over 500 villages that only your and Kanu knows about.
You IPOBs are sick in the head
HOW MANY VILLAGES ARE IN THIS LOCAL GOVERNMENTS THAT THE IGBOS ARE OCCUPYING 500 AND NOBODY HAS SEEN THEM...
OJU AND OBI DON'T HAVE UP TO 500 VILLAGES AND OJU IS LARGER THAT ADO.... so how come Igbos have all these 500 villages...
you guys are sick in the head. Kanus madness is spreading

ariesbull:
https://techandbiz.com.ng/2021/01/07/indigenous-igbos-of-benue-state-honors-abba-moro-and-others-in-cultural-festival/

EXOUSIAng:
There are no igbo indigenous communities in Benue.....

9jaRealist:
Just saw the last line...
That was unnecessary, but nothing wrong with the rest of the letter.
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akyus:
Seriously, especially the ending.

pembisco:
You are the ignorant one. 6 months Quit notice is valid whether your rent expired or not. it simply means the landlord does not want to renew the tenancy...hence the six months advance notice

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Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids to Our Daughters?
By Grace Essen

I was talking with a mum of 5 the other day. She hadn’t planned to have five children; she wanted a baby girl so badly and after four boys her baby girl finally came. What a joy! Many years have passed and her children are all grown up. But the interesting thing about it all is that her boys are amazing helpers around the house. They do practically all chores in the home and same goes for her girl. They cook all kinds of food except when she wants to cook the soup herself! Not many mums can boast of their children like she did, when in most homes today children are ‘spoiled’ and wouldn’t lift a finger, boys and girls alike.

She told me she runs classes on baking and cooking and in the course of working with young girls she discovered most of them have no idea what to do around the kitchen. She said with so much pain that we mothers have become so ‘busy’ we have no time to train our children especially our girls. Unlike in our own days, a teenage girl today can’t go to the market, buy food stuff and prepare a decent meal for the family. No thanks to makers of all kinds of instant foods particularly noodles, all she needs do is walk down the street grab a few packs of noodles and there you have a meal! *Sigh.

Who is to blame for this anomaly? The girl? I don’t think so. We mothers should take the blame for abandoning our responsibility to bring up the child the way she should go. We often assume that somehow our daughters will get to know how to do these things, but can they learn if they are not taught, and then given a chance to try, to make mistakes and learn from them?

We see in local movies and commercials scenes where a young woman would call her mother on the phone to guide her through a meal she is preparing for her husband, and we just laugh it off when that should be a huge cause for concern because that is our reality.

A mum shared the following write up on social media and I thought to share:

Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids To Our Daughters For Marriage Why not?
Yes, it happens because we devote time in training the maids on how to cook well, how to clean the house and on good mannerisms while leaving our own daughters untrained.
We overwork the maids and they adjust with equanimity because they need us to survive.
The maids turn out to manage the indignation and insolence we and our children subject them to. All these make the maids better wives who can manage even the angriest of men.

Our precious daughters are pampered through nursery and primary schools. They speak the English we want and know all the cartoon slangs by heart. We beat the maids blue black if they ever ask our girls to help out in domestic duties. They see kitchen things as maids’ things.

The girls move from boarding schools to the university, do their NYSC, Masters and get a job. Of course, they are ripe for marriage and you wish that to happen soon.

From one relationship to another, the same story. The guys would parade and dump them. They are only good in outings and red carpet functions.

The boys de-commit when they notice that the possible wife cannot cook, arrange things and are very domestically untrained. The rich guys can manage as they would mitigate the handicap by hiring a domestic help. Not all guys can afford this for a start.

The upcoming and very sensitive guys who would make good husbands, fathers and leaders would not manage these parents’ inflicted shortcomings. They would settle for well trained ones. They know the value and the pride in hosting friends at home to delicious delicacies prepared by a wife.

Not all your maids would remain your servants forever. Some of them would finally do part-time studies and like a train, get to their God ordained destinations sooner or later.

Like a perfume, good guys perceive well trained wife materials from afar and dump the daughters of the bourgeois like hot iron. Long time happiness is at stake. No explanation is given. Sometimes, the sack message is made through a social medium.

Let your daughters learn what you teach your maids to make them compete for the few available good men if marriage is important to them. There are few guys who believe that marriage is for better for worse.

Don’t be deceived; love is an active verb. Yes it is. You love; you loved; and you used to love. You can also hate who you used to love. Therefore, some men are immune to pre-marital love blindness.

In practice, love can’t cover the stench of bad early formation of our daughters.

Right now, educated former maids are now cornering better men on offer because they possess the requisite or set skills the highly perceptible and ready husband materials need.
Mothers please take note.

Grace Essen is an author, speaker and host of Super Mum Makeover workshop.

Privatepart00:
Same way some ladies keep asking for urgent 5K
Deal with your problem you aren’t the first person to give money to someone

aleeyus:
Y Igbos are like this damn

who mention tribe?

Tunde835:
Wat do u mean by worst in Nigeria or hav u forgotten abia state

I am beginning 2 wonder why some of the people I have interacted with prefer Mercedes Benz C190,200,220,240 to japanese cars. Taking into consideration d cost of mercedes Benz spare parts and I am made 2 believe that d mechanics charge a lot for labour.

Pls I need some clarifications on d cost of spare parts like shock absorbers, brake discs, water pump, airflow meter etc.

Is the craze for japanese cars worth the headache?

Many thanks for ur contributions

lathrowinger:
Anonymous for better. mummy G.O from RCCG sounds somehow ... Anyway cuddles to her