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pocohantas:
Is he? I had a feeling he is pretty reserved and well brought up sha. I also think he is very selective

Come, na who de give you Intel? How much did you pay for the info?

Ishilove:
Chronique is a shy guy and a chronic bachelor

Me wey I spoil anyhow like Rotten Tomatoes... Why you de blow your guy cover now?

pocohantas:
Chronique what do you have to say?

Because you be like person wey dey place plenty babes on hold.

Why do people always think I'm a Casanova? I know I have the potential to be bad but I choose to be a good boy.

lexy2014:
D conversation hasn't even started, u have already messed up and u say u no history. Was Taliban in existence between 1979 and 1989? When was d Taliban established that u are bringing it into this conversation? What has Vietnam got to do with d discussion? Was Americas involvement in d Afghan war in 1979 based on ideology or was it based on "payback"? Who told u that America "trained" Osama bin Laden? What and what training did they give to him?

Taliban is made up of a group of some of the mujahideen fighters who rose up as insurgents against the Afghan government backed by Russia in 1979. Osama Bin Laden's mujahideen group was one of the several groups backed by USA, Saudi Arabia and Pakistan to wage war against Soviet forces and the Afghan government in the Afghan civil war that started in 1979 and lasted until 1994. As at 1979, the mujahideens weren't referred to as Taliban until 1994. And yes, America trained and gave support to Osama Bin Laden during that period. To avoid repeating the mistake made by America in the Afghan war, Barack Obama during the "arming of moderate rebels" in Syria couple of years ago, decided to limit the scope of support they gave to the rebels fighting against the Syrian government. Get your facts right. I'm sure you have forgotten that the Soviet Union gave Logistics support to the Northern part of Vietnam while the Americans occupied Vietnam during the Vietnam War making it difficult for the Americans and they lost several soldiers in that war. The US saw the Soviet occupation of Afghanistan as a perfect way to repay them for the loss suffered in Vietnam.

lexy2014:
Afghanistan wasn't a superpower when d USSR invaded it but d USSR was drained and left Afghanistan without completing d war

You apparently don't know the story of that war. The Talibans were funded secretly by the Americans and supplied huge amount of weapons. This made the war linger on for years. The Americans felt the Russians supported Vietnam secretly which made them to lose the Vietnam War and as such, saw the Afghan war as a way to pay back the Russians. They went as far training and creating the terrorist called Osama Bin Laden. That was how he became a menace to the whole world. After using him against the Russians, he got out of hand and became a terror to the world. In conclusion, the Afghan war fought between Russian forces and the Taliban movement, was one of America's proxy wars that has caused problems in the world at large.

NB: point of correction. Afghanistan wasn't invade by Russian forces. They were invited by the Afghan government which was a Russian ally, to quell the Taliban uprising.

pocohantas:
Are you being serious now?

Yes, I am.

pocohantas:
Will you buy me Coldstone?

Oh yeah, I will.

pocohantas:
Give me address na.
Na you hold my deliverance

Come meet me for that corner if you done reach the end of mama Ada shop.

pocohantas:
Whatever misconception they have is actually a tip of the iceberg to how evil I am or can be.

So you didn't leave this your evilness in 2019 and you brought it into 2020? Oya, come for a private deliverance. The man of god is here to help you tonight.

IyaTola:
What's that misconception that people have about you?

1. Men find it difficult to believe it when I say am not in a relationship . They will be like "fine girl like you ".
2. Most of my friends think am so rich and comfortable. When I say I don't have money to give them, am tagged wicked.
3. Alot of people see me as cold, rigid and stubborn maybe because of how I Express myself or how I look. But the few close people in my life will always attest to how soft I can get.

Apparently, people never believe when I say I'm single. Most of my friends think I have a harem of girls and that every weekend, I have several of them coming over. In fact, any day I go late to work, they'd say it's one girl that delayed me from coming early. They actually think I'm reckless with ladies but that's a complete irony of the life I live. Some people also think I'm arrogant cos I really like keeping to myself and I've come to realize that no matter how hard I try, I'd never be able to please them.

Here

Well, I lost my dad in April and it has to be my most painful loss. Met someone in May and thought I'd eventually gotten to my last bus stop but things are quite chaotic and communication is lost. Looks like we're heading for the rocks and I'd be losing that one again. Funny thing is we are not having a problem cos someone did wrong. Just a little bit of misunderstanding is tearing us apart and it would really be a big shame if this happens.

Good.

franchasng:
God bless you. I have been searching for the organization in charge of this breach of privacy. I think it is time to petition NITDA to force CAC to change that search data research about businesses and companies registered under CAC.


The only information they should reveal to the public search is the company RC number showing it is fully registered with CAC.

Then if for any reason someone need full details about the company maybe for security reasons, they must submit legal authorisation from responsible government body seeking for such authority to access such private data, and then only CAC security department should handle such after scrutinizing the requests and making sure it is safe.

Exactly. Some of us have registered businesses and we used our private residence as contact address. This would most likely cause undue harm to people if a malicious person is out to harm one.

Ladykiss:
Please what did you later use?

I later used rulux but it took a while to ease up cos I'd gotten too much into my system and all was just stuck in.

He made a serious point there by asking if people know the meaning of APC winning Bayelsa state. That's a huge huge blow on PDP considering it's the home town of the immediate past president and a core pdp state. APC having access to the vault of bayelsa state, can use it in influencing elections in other states and it would be hard for pdp to win bayelsa back once they are in the opposition.

Michellekabod2:
I am not going to create another moniker for this,i owe no one nothing!

I have spent most of my life single. I tried linking up with people but to no avail. Why? I will not do the blame game here. Is all my fault. I meet someone, get heed over heels for the person but I lose interest easily. When it comes to commitment, when the friendship is to get to the next level I ghost them. I don't know why. At best out of the blue I lose interest and become blank, not returning calls or replying messages, at worst I become disgusted at the fellow for no reason at all then move one to the next male friend. Nothing serious comes out of it...

So I decided to give up trying. My female friends and I go on an outing, some guys approach us and get our numbers. Months (sometimes years) later they are still waxing strong with the males, one of them even got married to one of them. But me? After a couple of weeks I find myself having to ghost the guy that I was head over heels for.

I gave up on love and chose to be single. I have been single for years now.

I met this guy march this year,we bonded like never before. I have never in my entire life felt like this before. It is so strange that each conversation we have all seems anew like we are starting all over.

It's almost ten months and the fire is still intense.
I have never had such a long friendship with a male. People assume we are dating. He gives me so much JOY... He is so awesome, different from all the others i have known. He changed me.

I just figured out i want to end the friendship, I don't know why. I am tired. I want to walk away. The passion is still there but i want to be away. I wanted to get a new SIM but my conscience will not. What has kept me from doing this is because i wonder how he will feel..

I want to walk away. Will i regret this?

Please always wear a shirt that boldly states that you have a spiritual problem and a weird character so that innocent guys like us can avoid you anywhere we see you. I fear for the person you would eventually get married to cos the chances of you waking up and walking away without any reason one day, is very high.

Racoon:
When the US via Obama/Joe Biden were supporting their desperate & inordinate ascension to power, it was hailed on as the gold standard for democratic governance but when their lawlessness is being challenged, then they become their enemies.

Let America cough against Nigeria then you all will know how far.What a shameless, hypocritical, evil and wicked govt.

Are you minding the moronic idiotic fools. When US was supporting them to overthrow the previous government and was actively involved in undermining the government of the day, they never saw issues with it.

Some of us have been trying to do that for years but the thing ain't working out. Just pray God gives you grace to find the right person worth doing all that with. When I was young, I said it would not exceed 27 years but I am heading towards 40 in a few years time and still haven't done shit. Just ask for grace.

We keep hearing how much Nigeria earned over certain periods but they'd never tell you that these are gross earnings from oil sales where they'd still need to deduct the amounts due to the IOCs since management/exploration of most of these oil wells are JVs between the IOCs and FG. As usual, they keep reeling out figures to score cheap political points.

When we said the AGF was a toothless dog barking, some people were calling us names the other day. Bunch of retards.

ebyjoyken:
Hi! Good morning all.

I have been married for 10 years, and I have never had any serious issues with my husband, I have never treated his mother badly. I love his mum just like i love mine. I lost my dad last year and my husband never showed any concern towards my family, i didn't call any of my siblings or my mum till date.

But recently each time we are having a discussion he keeps saying that anytime I challenge him that he will ask my children to insult me. This breaks my heart because i was never rude to my parents as child even as an adult. I have never spoken ill of my husband before my kids, so i don't understand why he keeps saying that to me. My children mean alot to me, i have invested so much in my kids and they are lovely children. I am scared that he might start poisoning their minds towards me.

Matured advice needed please.

How do you guys manage to get married to fools and idiots?

dannyla:
I opened a new account to remain anonymous.
This story is a bit long but pls bear with me.

I met this man almost 2yrs ago at an event a friend invited me to. The next week, he collected my number from my friend and called me, we began talking from there and agreed to go on a date. He proposed marriage to me on the first date which I rejected. I told him that I can't marry outside my church and from the little I've heard from him, our life dreams differ. I decided to cut him off from that day and I stayed away for about 3months. Meanwhile he got my friend to introduce him to my sis, mum and another friend who happened to be from his place, I'll call her Grace.
He made them all aware of his intent towards me and my stand and asked for their help to change my mind. Grace became his biggest ally and convinced me to have another date. He asked that we date for a while and see if we can work out our differences. During the date I noticed he has a very hot and quick temper and he listens to gossip a lot so I do tell Gracethat I don't see a future with him but he was too persistent, Grace always had words of encouragement and considering the fact that for some strange reason, it was mainly married men always approach me for a relationship with stories of how they got married to a wrong woman and they are or are almost divorced, dating a single man with no kids was very tempting and I decided to give it a try.

He asked me to tell him everything about me so there are no secrets between us and I did. Starting from secondary school to that day, I told him everything, from my first kiss, the colleague who tried to rape me, my ex who lied about his marital status and disvirgined me etc. he did the same too and I felt a burden roll off my shoulder.

Few days later I began to notice changes in him especially towards my business. I thrive in a male dominated industry in a ratio of 9men to 1woman. He asked me to show him the pictures of my colleagues which I did, he also asked if they make passes at me which I said is almost inevitable but my boundaries are clear and rigid.

Fast forward to now. I noticed that whenever I drop my phone, he goes through it. Facebook, sms, WhatsApp etc. He even picks my call when I'm not close to the phone. He asked me about a certain colleague who cracks dirty jokes like how I rushed to get married (I told him I'm already married). I didn't think much about it.

He later began to complain about my partners and how I'm sleeping with them like the prostitute I am, called me an unrepentant liar, unsubmisive, manipulating etc. Said he regrets asking for my hand at all and he's just waiting forthe day he'll catch me redhanded so he can dump my sorry a*s.
I told him to end it now cus I'm fed up, family came in and I later found out that Grace has been telling a lot of lies against hoping to get him for herself as well as hate filled advises from some aggrieved friends who felt ladies from my tribe are no good and just there to "chop money". Apologies were said and received and we continued.

Another time I visited him and we had an argument, he gave me several heavy knocks on my head and I developed a headache and began to insult him which resultedin more heavy knocks. I broke up with him and left. Later my mum called him to ask why he laid his hands on me, he denied it swearing with his life. Said I insulted him and he lost his temper and insulted me back that he's sorry. He began to drop messages everywhere and I eventually gave in.

3rd incident happened on our way back from an event. He saw a message from a colleague he told me to stop doing business with cus he feels the man has his eyes on me which is totally not true. He flared up, stopped the car and was even threatening to beat me up. I came down from his car and stood by the roadside. He came down too and gave me the insult of my life in full public view and glare and told me to enter the car which I refused. I had no money on me and had to beg a stranger for money. By that time he was coming back, he quickly took a picture of both of us and sent it to everybody of how he caught me in the act with my lover on the road. He called me and said that if he must marry me, I must break my business sim card and look for a wife friendly occupation or sit at home.

He later apologised over it. Meanwhile he and my sis don't flow as before as he once called her a prostitute.

I want to call it quits but everyone around me feels it's a mistake and he is saying everything out of anger and if I'm patient enough, he will change completely.

I must admit that he has changed alot since we met but the progress compared to the timeframe and the heat I face everyday is nothing to write home about.

He loves me to a fault and I don't know if I can find someone who loves me like him but his other attitude is sniffing life out of me. Do I stay or quit?
Thanks for reading and pardon any typos

I'm a man and I'd tell you some things. No man who truly loves and respects his woman, would ever treat her like that especially in public. Let me tell you a short story. I was with an ex several years ago and she had to write her Master's entrance exam. Phones were not allowed in and I had to hold her phone. One way or the other, I found out she was having affairs with different people at about the same time probably before she started dating me. I saw different SMS but I didn't say anything until we got home. One event happened at the airport while getting her ticket to go to UK for hols and even though I was boiling, I never said anything till we got home. Someone else I had something with, I found out she was seeing someone. Saw messages on her phone but I never said a word. I just dropped her off at the bus park and asked her to say hi to the other man but I never insulted her by calling her names or in public. The summary of it all is that, a person who loves you must respect you to a large extent and would never do that intentionally to you in public. Run for your life and never look back. Marrying him would result into living a life of misery. Don't be fooled.

Synord:
Blaise is the most talented but in terms of commercial success and over all influence, it is Eva. I said Greatest not most talented or most versatile.if it's by talent , they would rate Burna boy over Wizkid on any greatest list but alas that's not the case

Eva never had any commercial success.

Please whatever you are smoking that is making you rate Eva ahead of Blaise, pls stop smoking it. It's not good for your health. Blaise is the no 1 naija female rap artist to ever hit mainstream. After blaise, you can arrange the others however you want to.

Racoon:
Another Iberiberism! More dirty damage control going wrong.They've become so jittery that they're now acting stupidly & irresponsibly.

Does the AGF knows that the DSS is only directly answerable to Maj.Gen.Buhari(Rtd) hence such an order can only comes from him?

You took those words out of my mouth. They are just playing to the gallery. DSS can't obey such order cos they report only to the presidency. It's a shame that out Attorney General doesn't even know the limits of his power.

There's a popular saying that "old people usually have sense and are filled with wisdom". Whilst that is true to an extent, let's not also forget that foolish people also grow old too. Everytime I listen to people like Itse Sagay and Lai Mohammed speak, I wonder if they qualify as part of the old people that are supposed to be filled with wisdom in old age. ��

Talkwisdom:
Even the election was rigged in his favour...

Who doesn't know that one?

Talkwisdom:
It is now crystal clear that nobody wants the president,even some northerners are hiding in shame...Almost nothing in Nigeria now works.

Very very clear. I'm sure if a poll is conducted today, the margin between those who want him to go and those who want him to stay, would be extraordinarily wide.

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