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I am not as old as some egbons here (seeing some have started way back '94). However I will comment based on my small experience and observations

- Virtually, everyone I know in the family who own personal house today started first by acquiring a property for rent FIRST.

Then over time they took the proceeds from rent and thier current hustle to build thier own house. Having learnt from them, I can never advice one to build a personal house first. First build for rent

- Not all lands will boom as expected in this Lagos/ogun, a land acquired at Ikorodu & agbara has its document lying in my home. It's over 4yrs now and the value is the same.
Last I asked, why there has been no rise in the value, developers say it's because no one is building.

Buyers are unhappy in the group coz agents lied to us that it was the next big place (proposed 4th mainland bridge, shifting of Kara market bla bla bla and in 5yrs a land of 1-2m will turn 5m or more lol meanwhile the value is the same as 4-5yrs ago.

That's the same thing with some land at Ibeju Lekki.
Most will just be buying anywhere coz agent told you dangore refinery is coming same mistake made with Ikorodu land purchased.

I know a Lady whose hubby acquired a landed property within Ago Palaca for 400k in 2004, today it's up for sale at 15million.

If she had used that 400k to go and buy tons of land at far away Ikorodu, I doubt the value will be 15m by now.

Land acquiring is not just buy and fold your hands, it requires critical analysis to know which area is bound to boom quicker.

Like Pa Emma has said which I agree to, we will all grow weak someday and unable to work, it's the Passive income that will keep us going.

Lol The things wey mehn don do cause of pun-ani Sha

Some don pay for flight ticket wey babe no come.

Some don drive from Lagos to IB coz of woman only for FRSC to extort man pikin for road coz I'm tire don cast, lol

Some don escape cult boiz coz I'm camp for babe room for another University wey one cult capon dey eye.


ALL na experience , add am to your life long history tales lool

Keep showing ya self

When Dem come for thier tax money now, you will run to the media and cry Kosi owo

victorian:
That's it!


That's what we are talking about !

It makes the couples miss each other and value each other more .

That's the type of relationship and marriage I want too.

Thank God u are a guy , saying this .

Before other guys here will feel , the ladies are being ungrateful having guys who want to be clinging .

Thanks jare.

hypocrites abound here.

They pretend like all is rosy but go behind thier partners back to cheat on another person.

Ask Dem why y'all cheat if you never got tired of your partner clinginess or felt the loss of passion, hypocrites

Beach is best atteneded during weekdays.

Lesser people, more calmness.

You can breathe the ocean air, listen to the rustling of the waters while your brains open to a whole new world of ideas

jayson87:
NA AUDIO

Audio money no be for Mompha.
You no no how much dey pass through in bureau de change?
Including Money Laundering from Politicians, no go there o

Before God Gave Adam Eve he was very clear In his priorities.

- First Adam was put in God's "SPOT" ( Eden).
- Then he left him with Instructions.
- Then Adam was made to work, protect and bring the good out of the garden.

When God had seen that Adam had done all this judciouslty, he gave him a Helpmeet.

What do you need a Helpmeet for when you have nothing going on for yourself?

Nobody says you should be a millionaire, just have something going on for yourself before you dey find woman marry

victorian:
You don't have a problem dear

You are perfectly normal.

I don't like seeing my Man everyday..it irritates me too.

That's why I said to. Myself I will prefer to marry a man who travels every month for work or business, than marry a man who comes back home everyday, waiting for me at home. Because I know those kinds of men like having sex everyday if possible whenever they are back from work. And these kind of men tend to rush home even earlier than his babe or wife

Stay at home, working kind of men are not for me either.

When he travels , at least I can get to miss him and revive the affection and passion when he comes back. It even makes the love and sex more passionate and sweet.

Trust me, u need breathing space. It's not like you don't love him but he's too clinging and it's annoying!

But if you tell him, he will get angry saying u don't love him.

Mehn u are in a tight spot. I don't envy you one bit!

you just described the relationship between my parents.

Dad is always on the move, mom keeps missing him.
she likes it because when he returns, it reignites the passion/spark.

Likewise when she also travels, on the day she is to return that's the only time he decides to personally prepare a dish for her (it did suprise us as their kids what Dad is doing in the kitchen)

The absence made them grown fonder

I don't like me Girls who are clinging one bit!

Nothing is wrong with the OP



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Nothing is wrong with you.
It's normal to want your space, I do too.

Personally, if I was in your shoes I will hate the same.

I can relate to all what you have said, after a while I find it very chooky in a relationship if we get to talk everyday, how much more if we see everyday!

Haba give me sometime off, let's come back with something to talk about, not everyday we talk on the phone chatting about some mundane shii like what did you eat today, or what clothes are you wearing now, or who were you with today and some of that stupid kinda shit...It gets boring doing this daily.

Nairalanders and Nigerians are hypocrites! They will cheat on thier partners but come here to make it look like the spark in their relationship is always there.

That's why questions like this are better suited for platforms like Reddit, I can never ask such questions here on Nairaland. Fucking Hypocrites!

What you need is communication, tell your guy that you really do like him but you would prefer it if he can come seldom times in a week against everyday. Sure he will feel hurt, but make sure you let him know it's for the best of the r/ship.

Absence makes the heart grown fonder albeit not too much absence.

Even in my home, my mom likes it when my Dad travels because to her when he comes back, it's like a new spark reignites.

Nothing is wrong with you, some of us like some time off. I am even suprised this is coming from a girl because it's usually the other way round.

You are sane! Communicate your feelings to your partner that's the most important thing in a r/ship

See let's be pratical and realistic.

you are 25, if you go back to study csc, 5-6yrs FULL-TIME

it means you will be age 30-31 upon graduation.

The question is are you ready to take this gamble?

Professional certfs is expensive and a longer route but never to make up for a degree.
Cost of training and exams has cost me slightly over 500k from just CCNA to CCNP R&S (CISCO)
and I still have a long list of IT certfs/skills I want to attain.

Years from now, when there is a position for you to attain at the board of directors or to sit with the managerial team, you will most likely not be considered because you don't have a Degree to show for it.

If you can attend a part time class, while you still work (that's the BEST).
at the end of 5yrs of the part-time class, you have a degree and also 5yrs of IT experience at your current place of work (plus you could also have attained some certfs within the 5yrs)

Professional Certf can never replace the need for a Degree, and this is from me who has IT certificates, so you know I am talking from the heart.

LaaJiblik:
The-introduction of the 2-year post study visa was touted by the administration of the current prime minister Boris Johnson.
Who may soon get a vote of no confidence from parliament.
A new PM may emerge who feels differently - although Jeremy Corbyn the opposition leader thinks the post study visa Is good policy.

So many uncertainties in the UK right now


Short Answer to your Question:
No one knows for certain.

alright thanks

I will like to verify from prospective and current students, if the proposed two years post study work stay has kicked off?

Or is UK still the same study and get sent back asap?

Bro
whether you stay in a mini flat or a two bedroom, the Koko is cut your coat according to your material.

If 2bdr is affordable, go for it.

If you can't comfortably pay for 2bdr, stick with mini flat.

The key mark is not to spend more than 25- 30% of your income on house rent.

Preferably, i will say 2bdr is the better way to start, as kid could come soon and you may not want to move to a new place after 2-3yrs coz of the stress of changing apartments.

Just do where your power reach Las laa

amazing

If you don't own any landed property or any financial asset and you buy a phone worth 600k.

You are an Idiot.

If you are a guy, you will be a terrible Dad!
if you are a lady, you will be a terrible Mom.

Amatarasha:
The last time I posted my real photo someone swore with his mother's grave for rape me spiritually ,another swore to bite out my clit

In 1hr my dm is heading to 50 sexstarved guys and lesbians searching for wetin no concern them !

Since all dis ugly filters I can now rest perfectly

my dm has just 10 stu..id dudes including blinking001 instead of 100dudes ,not every minutes some1 is creating a topic with my dilly winny name

Even a spirit is after me weeps

"bite out your clit" and rape you spiritually??
lool, this babe sha.


I hope you haff gone for spiritual cleansing , coz these guys are not smiling.

Haha, nothing I no go read for NL.

yungsmart:
No it is not an android 9 stuff. Which phone do you use.

It's one umidigi a3 pro. I thought it was an Android 9 feature.

That portion that says Multiple users, you can quickly switch to guest use, or sign in as a different user via pattern when phone boots up.

the phone will be empty if you give it to any one.

It's similar to having two profiles on a laptop

TVSA:
So those guys are now pressured to please fans, what an excuse? . Why didn't they do other things that are in vogue today to please fans? Maybe turn gay or become a vegan to please fans . Jack Patrick Dorsey and Justin Trudeau too are entertainers trying to please their fans. Winston Churchill, Theodore Roosevelt were trying to please fans too.

What do mean by "your level of foresight"?

those fall into the 10%.

I am not fond of going back and forth on a topic here, most of y'all deep down know this shii so wrong, but to seem "woke" and assume to be the modern man you will do things contrary to your conscience.

Deep down most of these readers will not let any of thier kids get Tatted if they had the way. But to assume an aura of being sophisticated or seen as a Modern man/woman they lie to themselves that Tattoo isn't bad after all, just to Garner public sympathy and likes.

To each his own. Peace!
If your Body is worth meaning to you, you wouldn't destroy it with Ink

TVSA:
These are just your assumptions. Call it "what I think". How does tattoo automatically mean someone has low IQ? you've taken your conservatism to a whole new level. There's no unseriousness associated with tattoos. Tattoo is part of some native cultures, my two grand mothers have tattoos, one has on her neck, another has one her hand. Does this mean they're not serious or they have low IQ?
A notorious criminal might not have tattoo and a civil person might have. Stop thinking like a policeman in Nigeria.
David Beckham, Justin Trudeau, Emma Watson, Jack Patrick Dorsey, Lionel Messi, Neymar, Ramos and many other footballers all have tattoos. I guess they're all low life with low IQ.

I am talking about Captains of industry, and you are mentioning David Beckham and Neymar.Mentioning Entertainers who are pressured to do things to please fans.

I guess our level of foresight is on different pedestal

TVSA:
how's tattoo bad?

Tats make you look crass.

There is level of unseriousness you harbour when you move visibly with a tattoo.

Look around you and mention people of repute, you will find out that 90% of them don't have tats.

Turn on your TV and watch the movers and the shakers of our industry, the captains and head honchos talk in the board room, nearly or none with a Tat (atleast one that's visible).

Even in the modelling world, you can't be on the runway with a visible Tats!

I mean if you take your body To be a Lambo, why scratch it with an INK.

There are other ways to stand out fashion wise, Tattos are for low IQ people. QED!

How Manutd allowed Lukaku and Sanchez leave while relying on Rashford Lingaard and co still amazes me.

I mean this is the same team that once had Tevez Ronaldo Rooney and Ji Sung Park in the attack.

Team so washed up!

emmanuelewumi:
D



Can you get an old house of 20 million in surul

From the property websites searched, Yes but mostly old bungalows like he described.

ahiboilandgas:
Funny enough in Lagos u can complete the house with advance rent from perspective tenants paying 2 years rents plus agreement total 8m and u can get a lease from a firm for 5 years

true that, this works as well.

Lease option is best, as you can recoup bulk cash asap

If she charges him to court for defamation of character, he will say it's a mistake.

Like when Funny Bone wanted to use Tonto's failed Marriage ish to crack Joke at his upcoming event, a Stern reminder that he could be chilling in jail made him rethink his decision.

most of them just jump on trends without considering the possible consequences.

I am keeping my fingers crossed coz I know lawyers will want to cash out on his foolishness.

yungsmart:
Why do that when you can use the 'dual space' function on any xiaomi device.
Like you can use two pattern or two password from your lock screen one for your normal space the other for another space all from the lock screen.

I think that's an Android 9 feature..
i have it enabled already.

unlock your phone after bootup with a diff password/pattern it will lead to a second user account. That account will be bare as Fck (maybe just keep one two pics there as disguise) lol

iTs like creating a second profile on a Windows machine.

since the birds have learnt to fly without perching, the hunted haff learnt to shoot without stopping

Lool,see who wan give person 50million?

Even if she is worth 1billion , you can't dash out 50m easily out of the 1billion

Social Media Sha, Las Las all na audio money.

No Nigerian musician can gift anybody 60million, either dead or alive!

ICT

You stand to make more money there.

You can sell a storage or backup solutions running into millions of naira and this doesn't include the cost of installation. Or is it Firewalls? Goan check how much Top end Firewalls cost beside license...(checkpoint, Cisco Firepower and co)

The only challenge is that with tech, most times they need proof that it works..

So if the company has engineers and the tools to do a Proof if concept, it's more power to sealing a deal.


No choose bank o, your shoe go comot sole before you go see who fix even 1m for bank

wonlasewonimi:
Security + will not teach you all that cos that's not the objectives. I think you meant to say comptia A+

Na you follow me read the book eh Oga?

Take a CompTIA S+ sybex read and come back.

Virus is a type of Malware, and S+ will teach remediation methods as it's an entry level security certf.

donvalo:
76 aint bad for tammy....am a chelsea fan even on the latest patch released for PES 17, 18 & 19. He got 75. Which is actually nice. He performs well in d games too.

where do you play the patch release for PES 19, is it on ps3 or PS4?

Fitting seems a a bit tight at the thighs, prone to tear if he sits.

Baba get a USB or windows installation cd and format your PC.

you don't need to Partition anything, to save old files.

Just install it ontop of the existing drive, your old files will be stored as "windows.old", there after you can copy it back.

You can do it yourself., it's as simple as AbC

I have done this several times.

Las Las watch YouTube, or pay for computer engineering services if you don't want to do it yourself.

As a good practice courtesy of CompTIA Security +
it's good to Partition ones drive into two places
one for O.S installation and
one for Files storage
so if the virus attacks a drive involving the OS, you are rest assured the drive for files are intact

Also in times like this, Good practice from CompTIA S+ says
- Run antivirus in safe mode as not all services will be active
- Slave the HDD to a non production PC (test pc) and scan for malware
- Do a system restore.
.If the virus is deeply rooted in your kernel, na format get you

Format it like I have said and pray your files were not affected after recovery