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Serviceweb:
Lesson learnt I guess

Already?
Doesn't granting of bail end an ongoing case??

wahalawahala:
Who silence u bfr?
u were fined cos of ur unprofessional conduct..simple

Which rubbish unprofessional conduct

Fiscus105:
A foolish man hears from one side and starts acting gragra, if u like belong to missogyny, gay or whatever. I'm less concerned.

Then, elders usually say ..... "husband house is the place where women learn" I doubt if you have proper upbringing for you to hear those words of elders!

Thank God u read where she said, her husband is now surporting sister and family.

When husband finally done with her and thrown her house, I biliv she would come to ur own house, thank God u re finding it difficult to have serious relationship with girls, .....she will come to your house to dominate you and ur family.

I believe you urgently need a new life.

You have been so much damaged.

obailala:
Because of $4billion?....

Nigeria's currently owing over $90billion and only $4b of that amount is owed to china. Should China really be our biggest worry?

Where did you read these $90bn and $4bn from??

The news says China's loan to Nigeria constitute 84.73% of all the loans given to Nigeria by all countries.

adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/Chinese-loans-rise-by-209%-under-Buhari-hit-$4bn

Anyone still in Nigeria should start learning the Chinese language ASAP.

Saintmary:
As long as the wife is the only one willing to make efforts on her marriage, she is married to herself.


Is it not better to stay alone than with an unsupportive spouse?

Scientists have established through research that marriage favors men more than women, and this is true all over the world.

Why hold on to something that will shorten your lifespan, reduce your quality of life, restrict your economic prospects, etc, the list is long.


People don't throw that word around frivolously, it's something women should start to embrace fearlessly because a lot of men are not ready to give their fair share of commitment anyway, so, majority of women are married to themselves.

Did you see the latest news flying around?

A man gave his nursing wife HIV 1&2 plus hepatitis C! If she had left him, she won't be in this mess. Now a baby is involved. Divorce saves lives.

Can you give more evidence to justify the bolded, please?

Fiscus105:
I haven't read half of ur post when I stopped reading, having realised that indeed u need marital tutorial, I pray ur marriage won't scatter before 5 years of ur marriage, I noticed of high ego in you and a wife who will not accommodate in laws for whatever reason and above all anger issues.

AN HUMBLE WIFE WOULD HAVE PICKED UP HER WRAPPER AND WASHED IT HERSELF AND LET THE SLEEPING DOG LIES.

I biliv that 70% of marital issues that are coming up in ur marriage are caused by you, because of ur domineering tendency.

if ur story is true, I will tell ur husband that he has succeeded wifed" his boss.

Bros, as far as this particular case is concerned, you didn't write on behalf of the responsible men here, including the misogynous apha ones

You are on you own here.

That husband needs to be man enough and be incharge of his family.

DMerciful:
The probability of getting a sickler is 1/4, just to calibrate you. However, he should have broken the relationship before it started by asking the right questions

That 1/4 or 25% is for each pregnancy, not the entire lifetime pregnancies.

There's a possibility of each of her pregnancies yielding an SS foetus.

ScottSummers:
Good day and happy sunday everyone

I work in a lounge in sabo and i'm paid 11000 a month.I have served my boss faithfully and dilligently for months during the course of my stay in this shop despite being owed salary.Even when other workers left citing underpayment and workload,i still stayed.
It happened that during governorship election season,our lounge was robbed.The robbers made away with 194,000 new naira notes my boss kept in his office. what was more shocking that the robbery was a clean one meaning the robbers had access to the key to his office.It's only me and my boss that have the keys so I was questioned and interrogated.I didn't know anything about it and so I said.I was beaten and bruised.
Nobody believe me say i dey innocent

Police came and i was detained.i was in cell for 13 days(i hear am for cell God)before being released last week.I was rold the culprit has been found.It was my boss mistress and brother that planned it.How they knew about the money is what i don't know.
My boss messaged me to return but i don't want to.I want to know if i'm making the right decision.Thanks.

PS:In case you have job for me,I stay in jakande in ojo.owu dey blow me.My number:08186844232

Chaii, imagine the heartless response of the so-called boss!

"I have sent you 1500 to treat yourself''. ''You are not serious''

This is unbelievable. Don't go back please, unless he apologises.
Normally, he should be afraid of you as you can re-arrest and sue him for force information.
Unfortunately, you do not have the money to run such a straightforward case.

Mindlog:
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That he never physically abused her? The children are also in a good position to tell how their parents' marriage was.

Do you know what preceded the physically abuse?
His actions might be like the last kick of a dying horse

Exodus15v11:
Birthdays are only once a year. Let people celebrate themselves on their day however they deem fit, and you do the same for yourself. I always go all out for loved ones on their birthdays. I'm that person that will throw birthday parties for people and surprise them with gifts, lmao.

I don't see anything worth celebrating about birthdays.
It's just pure waste of valuable time and resources.
Put the money into some other worthwhile ventures.

accordadoga26:
Obi is a desperate fraud.

Nigeria dodged a 50BMG bullet.

I'm ashamed of you and your level of reasoning.

I just hope you're not a Christian in Nigeria, because you'll soon begin to reap the fruits of the evil ticket(jihad-jihad ticket) you just sowed.

Then, you will realise that "a desperate fraud" is far better than a horde of unrepentant and destructive terrorists, who have nothing else to offer except jihad and propagation of their religion.

Ireportlive:


Shameless Bigot


His mentally challenged walking lunatics of a mob would quickly defend these vile act of bigotry

Anyways according to reliable source many of such audios exist

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You're a hypocritical idiot.

Who is actually the real bigot: the people who chose and supported a Muslim-Muslim ticket in a multireligious country like Nigeria or the people who opposed it in favour of a Christian-muslim one??

It's obvious the country will never move forward with this level of hypocrisy.

PointB:
I am one person. How did I turn to 'you people'? Do you have problem with counting, mbok?

It's just a manifestation of his ethnic bias and bigotry.

"You people" is a common and stupid ethnic slur in Nigeria.

I don't take it lying down with any idiot that addresses me in such a manner

herkeem:
God Bless Nigeria
God Bless Bola Tinubu

You guys are just shameless

God will bless him for contributing to the underdevelopment of his own country and strolling in another country developed by its hardworking citizens, right??

CosmicDust:
Y'all sounding like Nigeria is a balanced country where you can plan well. Here companies sack anyhow, companies owe you, businesses fail, people get defrauded, people have health issues that take their finances. That is why people are willing to do anything to get a government job that will give them security. How many government jobs are available?
See don't blame people. You never know what shoes they are in. And if you were, you may not be able to do better. If you can help, help. If you can't help yourself alone. But don't go to church claiming to be a christian when you believe giving charity is promoting entitlement mentality.

Bros, the bolded, which thou hath written with thy own hands, also applyeth to thy sister.
Don't you think so?

SavageResponse:
Useless sister

Even when you haven't heard her own side of the story?

WhisperedNoise:
Standard of living is way different. She shouldn't complain or compare with Nigeria.

She pays taxes and bills. She gets 24/7 electricity. She can travel by road without fear of kidnappers, bad roads or just plain bad luck. No agberos to harass her. No generator noise. Public school system works for her children, if any. Public transport system works. Healthcare system is excellent.

What else?

Many of you talk like this when you haven't traveled.

As an average Nigerian who naturally loves wealth acquisition and as well as "peppering" of friends and relatives down home whenever he visits Nigeria, do you think just having a goog standard of living abroad is enough?

If so, why then do many Nigerians abroad who enjoy these things still resort to crimes from time to time?

My dear, good standard of living without that physical cash(savings) is just not enough, and it has been proven over and over again.

luminouz:
It doesn't matter what you see or don't see or have seen. It's his money. He can spend it as he fits. Who told you he is pleasing others biko?

I don't understand Nigerians and giving unsolicited advice when it comes to other people's money.

So, to you, he posted it here solely to attract praises from ass-licking kids like you, and not to get one or two pieces of valuable advice as well from a few of the experienced people like us?

Haven't you read stories here of people who lost their jobs but had no savings, as they spent their salaries on luxuries and other frivolities?

If you're doing a salaried job, invest first as a protection for your future before impressing people with luxurious lifestyles. This is even more important for someone from a poor background with no family backup.

The advice is not unsolicited because you'll still come down here to disturb our peace when it eventually happens.

TheBillyonaire:
There is nothing like death as its known. It is difficult to have new bodies so when you eject consciousness out, it returns back to the body it was assigned. The logos are patented. It is only when the biomachine is incapacitated that Spirit finds any available earth vehicle to pilot and if it finds none or does not find one matching its vibration then it waits to incarnate in a new body on its consciousness harmonics or bond with the superconscious disembodied ocean of consciousness.

Note that when one becomes disembodied, the fractal knows everything and is everything. And when one returns the body, it begins to forget and the solution is to connect the mind to the superconscious field or its Avatar for information download.

When will you guys stop spewing all these rubbish

Does this thing you wrote here make any sense to even you?

Nsogbu001:
I'm happily married. I have got Benz and ve built family house.
How I wish my mom is still alive. No one could believe anyone from my family could make it. But see na . Rejoice with me.
May God grant you all your positive
heart desires too.

Congrats,man, but why the Benz when you're going to spend only a few weeks in Nigeria before travelling back?

What will become of it when you go back?

Let's all avoid this seemingly irresistible desire to impress others when we haven't reached our final destinations.

I don't see that Benz as a necessity for now.

Amunethseranu:
just think this , freed001
he is Suffering and ILLUM wiped his tears , he is an atheist but now chooses to go to church because he thinks Jesus Christ is behind his obodo oyibo.
Idiots like this are y ILLUM is always quiet and people like u will think oyedepo or olumba olumba is ILLUM because they fed 12 hungry pigs on costumes. Spit

Mumu

NewNg1:
@Seun look at what your platform has turn into.

The hatred on this platform needs federal government intervention. Mr Seun despite what you said few days ago, the abuse on this platform is on the rise.

I can't see any abuse here that should warrant Seun's attention.

Do you think Nigerians shouldn't complain about the corrupt politicians that have looted their country dry and put their collective future into jeopardy just because you share the same party or state with such politicians?

Lovilla:
all i can say is Men are polygamous in nature, so i dont blame him.

Bcause this maid in question doesnt even come close to my sister in terms of beauty

In marriage, unfortunately, character is valued far more than beauty.

Mryacks:
Even as a man I agree with you on this. Alot of women are absolutely going through a lot in the hands of these men...

Don't you think it is the opposite?
Many of the marital issues i know of are being caused by wives who are being swept away by the current winds of feminism.
It's difficult to see a married man who is not working hard to take care of his family, but it's very easy to see a woman who's so entitled, selfish, quarrelsome and wants to have everyone under her control, despite not contributing much to her family.

flexyoo:
Real MENT!!! What's wrong with our men?! An eye for an eye works best in this situation. OP thunder will fire you if you allow her mother live in that house with you. I hate nonsense

It's quite annoying and disappointing to see how some men allow their wives maltreat their parent(s) who suffered to train them.

A wife who doesn't want to see her mother in law in her husband's house should leave instead.
There shouldn't be any negotiation about that.

Neweramify:
Op your wife was wrong, but try and understand her fear. Most women feel inconvenient around their mother inlaw. Not because she hates her mother inlaw but for the fear of the unknown.

Let her know how you feel knowing she wanna bring her mum in when she rejected your mum. I'm sure she will feel remorse of her action.

Permit her to bring her mum, cause if anything happen to the old woman, she may accuse you of one thing or the other.

The Op can also accuse her of being responsible for the death of his own mother, if she thinks accusation is her hobby or exclusive preserve.

webm:
It’s same experience in 90% of them. Their business model is to have a lot of PBO to convince a lot of people to invest. Once you invest it’s story upon story

Well, i have always been against people buying from estates.
I see no reason for it.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Nice one . God knows I don’t like doctors as a partner. Lailai I can’t.

We naturally don't go for unintelligent partners, anyway,

How intelligent can a youth who supports someone like Tinubu for presidency in the 21st century be

Berrityga:
Having to watch my boss walk to her office with that big ass, and I can't even touch it. Omg. I can work for free just to go home and rest on my boss breast. This woman has 3 children but if you see how sexy she is. Omoge leave matter e pain me sha.

A scum like you shouldn't be seen near a public forum like this.

webm:
Real Estate in Nigeria is largely scams. A friend bought some piece of land from PWAN for 3 years now they haven’t given him all the necessary documents

Is that single incident enough to describe it as largely scam?

femisplash:
Man like FFK, I love the fact that he knocks the little Englander and he stood by his words and knocks him once again. Things I have observed about Asiwaju Tinubu is that his Government will be very fearless and will be a cynosure to the African continent.
During the caimpaign, at the Arewa house, Tinubu said we need to look the West in the eyes and tell them to guarantee Nigeria of constant funding to cater to the poor if they want to push their climate change agenda to us. otherwise, they could go to hell. Among the candidates, he was the only one who spoke fearlessly to the issues. Again, when he addressed Oba of Benin concerning the artifacts that Germany recently returned, Tinubu made it very clear that returning the ancient artefacts was not enough, that whoever is returning them must return them with money since it had helped them generate lots of money over the years and it is only reasonable to give parts of the proceeds back to the original owners. I can affirm that Asiwaju's Government will fearlessly restore the pride of Africa.

Let Tinubu come back first from France where he has ''gone to rest'' and build a world class ''resting place'' in his state.
Otherwise, they'll still have him as their slave and your hated for the them will only be described as hypocritical.