I’m only going to address the “looks” part of your post
Many women glow up in their 30s. They in fact look their best. Hips fill out. Skin issues reduce or disappear. Confidence is high.
The diminished attraction thing is made up. Men will approach 30+ women because they find them attractive but the moment the woman says she’s 30+, then she’s suddenly unattractive. If the same woman were to lie that she’s 24, then automatically she’s attractive again. It’s all mind games that y’all are playing…on yourselves for that matter. Because at the end of the day, some people miss out on what could have been a great relationship because they are fixated on numbers that doesn’t really affect them in the grand scheme of things.
Men and women look their best in their thirties, experts say
Women and men are considered to be at their most attractive in their thirties, a US survey of 2,000 people has found.
The study, carried out by Allure magazine, found women are considered most beautiful at 30, show signs of ageing at 41, stop looking ‘sexy’ at 53 and are thought of as ‘old’ at 55.
Favfables1: No one is saying a woman of 30plus years can't achieve great things...
A woman of that age can buy a car or a house or can treat herself to a tour round the globe if she wants to and if she's willing to work for it...
Achievements are not limited by age....
However, when you hear people say "a woman expires at 30", they're not implying that women can't achieve those great things, what that means is that her options in the dating market reduces as she ages...
On average, the number of men who will pursue a girl of 23 is far more than the number of men who will pursue a woman of 30... A girl of 23 on average, looks far more attractive to the eyes than a woman of 30, thus more men will flock in her direction....
In other words, a woman's SMV (Sexual Market Value) depreciates with age ...
Her value as a human as perceived by the world is dependent on what she has been able to achieve and is achieving in her life time and that isn't limited or dependent on her age, but her ability to attract quality men (relationship wise) depreciates with age....
Acidosis: Abortion with single women is not the same as abortion among married women. When a married woman considers abortion, she's mostly gotten all the kids. You can't say the same for single women who are at risk of unwanted or undesired complications.
I’m talking from the perspective of wrong versus right.
You know how some people feel abortion is wrong but they have a different opinion if the person who does it is married. I feel they should keep the same energy both ways.
Yes. Sadly the notion that married women deserve certain rights over single women is upheld by women. It’s a lot to unpack.
They’ll come for my head now if I start, as if I don’t like married women. But I think all women deserve equitable consideration . Marriage doesn’t place one on a pedestal over being a single lady or single mom.
Kobojunkie: I know but i wish I didn't fall for that nonsense as a kid and loved candy and all other sugary treats like other kids did. Maybe I would have turned out without this much aversion to sugar..
So many adult treats oversugared for me these days. Before I eat a cupcake or cake, I first scrape off all the extra sugary nonsense before biting down so as not to offend me tastebuds.
these people I live with think I’m weird because I don’t eat cake icing. There’s something about packing pure sugar into my mouth that’s off-putting. I do like sweet things even cake but I can’t really get into cake icing.
armyofone: We the puffy people got you immediately
And y’all know how to cook. If you didn’t know, you would just believe me and I won’t even know I mistyped something. And someone who doesn’t know will leave here thinking the two are similar.
Yuneehk: I don't think so. Puff puff uses yeast, and chin chin uses baking powder. I want to believe the stretchiness you get from already fried puff puff comes from yeast, just as you'll have doughnut.
Buns on the other hand is what I'll say feels same with chin chin. You can even use same ingredients for buns to make chin chin. Difference is like you wrote, a soft dough, and the other, a firmer dough. And then you can only fry buns, while you can bake or fry chin chin.
Lol I meant to say buns and chin chin. I see my typos now. It’s cause we were talking about puff puff too
FlowerGirl040: Ok. For the milk,it's chin chin I do fry most times but it's liquid milk I do use,a lady told me to use powder instead Bec it will bring out the scent more,how true is this?
Yes buns and chin chin are basically the same thing except one is soft dough and one of firmer dough.
AdorableSat: For real? Dirty rice? This is the funniest I’ve heard today I’m going to tell my friends the rice we call checked rice is actually called dirty rice in Nigeria Interesting!
Yea and you can add bits of chopped up meat or ground beef into it.
SeriouslySense: Black people are some of the most confused, weak, they can only be useful for slavery, exploitation and in the garbage, we need to stop being the cheerleader's of these western, eastern/middle eastern countries, the first thing we need to do is to love ourselves and appreciate ourselves, we have to stop looking unto others outside of us.
These wars are not our business.
Cheering leaders of racist countries that won’t hesitate to have us back in chains and out in the fields working until our bones break.
Don’t even get me started on the the Putin butt kissers. cringe worthy.
Ybaby: You and your current wife are birds of a feather made in heaven.
I beg you , do not bring an innocent woman into this una Yama yama o.
Just be managing each other with your gbas gbos..... in the next 70 years at most both of you would have cleared to heaven.
70 years is not a long time... pls donot bring any woman into una drama
You’re being generous cos 70 years is pushing it. He’s almost 60 already. There’s no one living to 130 years old these days. Let’s say another 30+ and he should be thankful because that will put him over 90+ years. A very long life indeed.
Richy4: If truly he is an anti-vaxxer, I'm just wondering how he circumvent from it and find his way to UK.. considering the fact that there's a policy of no vaccination certificate, no entry policy in place..Abi has Nigeria started playing their games again
Lol you know we can provide whatever record is needed even if they don’t exist