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Explain how the reverse of the case?

TearNinja001:
what kind of statement is this?

I am yet to understand why y'all make this Statement

I think more guys should out rightly say no to these 'coded' requests.

There is very little need to condition the cash with money. Perhaps someone experienced could explain how this method gives more utility than a clear cut purchase of bodily service, or a "Naija relationship" (that is 99% based on money transfer), or even a normal relationship (based on love)?

I have a sudden urge to eat ogbono and opopo.

My sadness is that when Nigeria decides to come and rescue the people of Anambra, they will use that opportunity to kill innocent people.

I hope we have Amnesty International in Anambra.

Confused and causes of confusion.

I fully and totally support paternity tests.


Better late than never.

People are saying ban Okada ban Okada.

Banning Okada is a direct increase of transportation costs for a huge percentage of the population.

It is also an instant reduction in the ease of transportation.

Paternity leave is a great development.

Bond with your babies guys.

Yes, you can open foreign currency accounts in developed countries.

In Canada, UK, many people, especially if they work internationally, have a USD & EURO account.

I have healthcare workers in my extended family plus some young doctor friends.

Anything can kill you. From lack of light to pure negligence.

I really don't know how our people survive.

Age standards are a bit foolish.

mikezuruki:
Hello Everyone.

Before now, age used to be one of the requirements that is considered in filling a job position. However, I have noticed that of late, I hardly see age as part of the requirements.

Yes I know it is a good sign. What do you think?

$50/hr is high sha.

Senior nurses, senior engineers, mechanics, some self employed peeps earn that.

Lollittaa:
Your mates are collecting $50 an hour, you're here defending rubbish for 30k a month

What do most men want?

Do men want an equal contributing partner? It seems yes.

To demolish: money

To rebuild: money.

Why not repurpose?

I'm sure the building could be the Ed into a school or even a hospital.

Loool.

I laugh in urgent 2k.

Laugh in meatpie and rice.

Laugh in Balenciaga.

DEMZEE:
Baba we are not gynocentric and will never be

Men in Nigeria are first class citizens and women are second class citizens period!

Marriage is an honorable institution in Nigeria, traditional gender roles are upheld daily.

Men lead
Women follow

The Afghan military folded, they didn't even fight the Taliban.

Afghanistan has also had serious gun control so people cannot defend themselves.

Now, the Taliban has control of ALL the weapons in Afghanistan.

People have protested. Men who protested were brutalized and killed. Women who protested were corralled but not killed.

What more do you think the ordinary, every day Afghan can do o wise one?

Ammishaddai:
I have a strong belief that the people of Afghanistan really enjoy being ruled by the Taliban. If not why would a few gun-wielding jihadists, lord it over a majority .

Nna na wa o.

She suppose dey do belly dancing show na. Monetize your abilities.

And post on the appropriate thread.

KillingIsFun:
Dullard is using the issuance of an important travel and identity document as a tool of political control.

Zainab have you seen what your illiterate uncle is doing?

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I believe she said Big Treat so Airforce junction.

Starz825:
It's like I read a particular article where someone mentioned rumuola today...
He be like say na that place wey one woman say Dem wan kidnap am.

Not sure what this has to do with menopause.

Nobody should take stress, whether at 25 or 55.

adambeatz:
Bro all im saying is men age like fine wine and the best of their years is what any woman who marries them in their 30's enjoy. They should also give the best of the years their body has to offer to their husbands.
We men go through alot and should not be saddled with stress.

Keep telling yourself that.

Go to any couple retreat and the elders will tell the ladies how to control their husbands.

It is very blatant.

DEMZEE:
Nigerian family laws are patriarchal and men-centric so ur point is off

I believe in traditional gender roles and values wen it comes to marriage.

Men lead
Women follow

Tell a poor person now to do simple wedding and put down payment on a house na.

They will look like they saw a ghost

Lollittaa:
rich people look for means to make more money. That house will fetch more money. But the poor spend, spend and run into debts

You need to listen to Mr. Samuels from start to finish first before quoting him.

Overall, marital rates are declining as people now marry older.

His problem is that the marital rate for black women is 25%. By FAR the lowest.

That is the premise of his show.

JESHAL:
Then why is Marital rates declining, women earning higher can't settle down with their inferiors, that is why hookup culture is high, even it is only selective men that are getting that sexual abundance, a small minority

This is not an argument.

Their body no be firewood.

Plus the fear of pregnancy has disappeared.

adambeatz:
Lol, after been Hot and all can they still reproduce, i believe the obvious answer is no.

Lol.

Don't watch one Kevin Samuels video, misunderstand what he says, then think you have the keys to live.

You are talking about a minority of women. The numbers are higher among black people alone. That is the point Mr. Samuels makes.

JESHAL:
They are dating because they can't get commitment from high valued men, because they like you said are high earners and for you to become one, you need traits that are not conducive for a long term relationship, don't conflate sexual attraction with relationship attraction, most men they date are using them for sex because they don't want to settle with headaches, these women are a type personalities because they chase career, they are combative, quarrelsome, argumentative,and Masculine, men want young,feminine, submissive,chaste and fertile women, that's why Marital rates are declining, these women are just used for sex, no man loves them,if they did they will take them seriously for long term relationship

Marriage no be military.
Una two go lead on different things.
Traditional ladies are teaching themselves how to lead by making you think you're leading.

Funny for Nigerians to copy what Mr. Samuels says without understanding him.

By your logic, it is also your duty to
- die earlier
- get divorced
- pay alimony (because she didn't work)
- lose the house ( because she took care of the kids primarily)
- be less loved by the children (because they never saw you)

Etc.

DEMZEE:
That's ur duty

Women are not built to lead men and can't understand the masculine struggle

In the west you're talking about, the major cities, women under 30 outearn men.

They are still dating o.

If a lady loves you, she will love you. As long as money is not a huge problem for either of you, you guys are fine o.

JESHAL:
Women can never respect you if you earn less than them, they will only be attracted to you if you are taller, stronger, richer, better, wiser and superior to them in every aspect, that is their Nature, Christian monogamy made women tolerate average men before Feminism,but now after Feminism women are flocking to high valued men in harems of numbers wanting to share them than settle with average or low valued men, religion and culture still makes women Noble in Nigeria, that's not their default nature, giving the liberty like western women they will never settle, marital rates is declining in the west today because of these

If you are ~ 35, marry the 32 year old lady.

If you are under 29, wait for the 24 yr old lady to graduate first.

Marriage no be joke.

Who are you to call someone short and ugly? If she was soo despicable looking, why are you "courting" her?

Who have you known longer?

Who will you call if you're sick, in a predicament?

Who would you trust with your life?

arabbunkum:
It's all about settling down. I have two options.
1. A lady of about 32yrs, working (nurse). Unattractive but with good character and very independent.

2. A lady of 24yrs, student (HND 1), young and BEAUTIFUL. Good character and hardworking/hussling spirit.

NAIRALANDERS, rescue me o!

No means no.

A lie like this could spread but that may be a good thing.

Stay safe.

siofra:
There's this yahoo boy that has been disturbing me to go to his hotel room. He's a course mate. God knows how many times I've turned him down. I'm tired. So I want to tell him I have a vaginal infection that could be sexually transmitted.
Is it okay to tell him this?
Is this lie going to bite me back somehow?

If you will be throwing beer parlour statistics, you should back it up.

Divorce rates are already high in the west and above 60% whether the man outearns the wife or not.

Putting yourself in penury, pain, etc changes nothing.

JESHAL:
Women in Western Societies who out earn their husbands divorce them 33% of the times, infact most mordern women don't want to settle for average men they would rather die with pets, Nigeria women are similar only because our laws, religion and culture doesn't give them the incentivises to behave in their rawest feral forms, if not you will truly understand their nature and realize the necessity for frame and dominance especially economically

Nice one. Sex is enjoyed by 2 people. There is no Victor and not vanquished.

If you are intimate with the same person, you two can trust each other enough to discover new ways of enjoying your intimacy.

When you get high blood pressure from carrying the entire financial weight, you go hear.

DEMZEE:
Only average men seek financial security from females.

An independent woman is independent of men, she's not attractive at all

Many ladies are side sex workers. That's why.

I think most young ladies are like this but no be 90%. A lot of Naija ladies are amazing.

November24:
Where do u guys see ur ladies